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I really cared for her, but she couldn't even schedule a date with me 24 hrs in advance without being extremely late.
All of our mutual friends didn't know we were dating. Her family had no idea she was seeing me. I don't like being hid either (I hide crap I'm ashamed of)
I told her whatever her problem was, that we could work through it. She said that she was horrible to me and she was being selfish, and she broke it off because she said she couldn't change. (What I heard-She couldn't make plans with me or share her deeper feelings with those closest to her.)
It seems like the strangest breakup I've ever been through. Mostly because she had told me one night before this all happened that she "needed me, and she's never needed anyone like this before." You'd think that if you need someone, you'd do anything to keep them. She felt so bad about breaking my heart that she couldn't even look me in the face while we were talking.
I'm not sure how to take this: She's got a heart of gold, so I could see why she'd break up with someone for their benefit, but I could also see her lying to keep me from being extremely hurt for the real reason why she's breaking up with me.
Does anyone here think she had an ulterior motive for the breakup, or is this behavior somewhat normal?
Utterly confused,
Wilks
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