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Sorry to hear that, but in my opinion there are probably some ulterior motives involved here. Since the only information I have, is what you gave us, I see several possibilities.
First, there is the possibility that the reason she never told anyone and let you go, is that while you felt there was a relationship and you were seeing each other, she did not. This is not insinuating that you are crazy or anything, but there could have been a misunderstanding. She may have viewed you as a friend, possibly with benefits, while not wanting anything more, and you could have viewed it as a relationship. This would certainly explain the not telling people and keeping it hidden. It would also explain why she felt the need to break it off, when one person is feeling more than the other, its only fair to cut it off.
Second, there is the possibility that she has been actively out on the market pursuiing guys. In that instance, she would have benefitted from keeping you hidden because there would be no baggage from friends or family when she suddenly had a new beau. This would explain the inability to set up dates even right before that time, the being extremely late, and the sudden inability to see you anymore.
Finally, she could honestly have some severe emotional issues that preclude her from being with anyone. The best thing you could do is tell her that you are there for her if she needs a friend, and try to help her through it at her own speed. But the reality is, it would probably not be fun for you, nor something she is willing to tackle, if she hasnt attacked it already. But its really up to you.
In my opinion, you should probably chalk this one up to experience, go party with your friends to blow off some steam, and just chill out. when you are ready, grab your "fishing rod" and head out on that proverbial sea of life, and catch your self another pretty lady. (Anyone who had sick thoughts when I said grab your fishing rod, should slap themselves silly right now, that was inncoent)
Just my opinon from what you said, you can take it or leave it as you may.
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