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Weird, I just started seeing a girl who was in a similar situation a while back. She was married to the guy for a few years was totally happy with everything one day and the next it was "im moving out".
I dont really have any advice to give, but maybe understanding what she went through will help you with yours.
Basically she realized that she wasnt living her life for her. She was in a job she didnt like because it paid well, to support him while he followed his dream. I dont know if he could have salvaged the marriage, but for her it was mostly career and discovering new hobbies. She herself didnt realize how unhappy she was until it just clicked, and it wast really anything about him.
In my opinion, a lot of that also had to do with them being married so young (19ish), and i think she would agree.
So let her develop into the person she wants to be, maybe even pushing her to follow a dream. Sadly though, that may come at a price of her changing. Her changing into someone that wants something different in a relationship, or even her changing into something that you have no interest in being with.
Either way, in this case it probably really isnt anything about you.
More to follow in another post.
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