that sux dude.
i hope everything works out for you. I ahve been through every aspect of every relationship and ahve faced a lot fo ahrd times myself.
The best advice i can offer you is that your first impression and instinct is usually the right one <assumeing your are mentally balanced> There are lots of hard decisions that need to be made, and sometimes you ahve to do it. I realize that i left that fairly vague, but you understand what i mean when you are in that situation. Follow your heart, whereever that may lead you. Thoughts and prayers are with you. Make sure to keep us updated.