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Originally Posted by ArkiStan
The problem is clear here. You kiss girls as soon as you meet them. None of this weirdness would have happened if you hadn't kissed the girls. You would have been "friends" with both and would have had more freedom to get to know each of them better without giving off the image of a player.
Depends on what you want. Just looking for some fun? You're doing just fine. Otherwise, it's gonna be hard to get girls to take you seriously if your lips are all over town. Especially when you're meeting people within the same small community.
BTW, this thread is worthless without pics!!!!!!!!!!!  |
Wise beyond your years, Arki. I didn't like reading it, but you're right. I thought if I would refrain from moving past first base, I'd be free and clear. (And probably would have, but they know each other, and have close mutual friends.) But I talked with both girls tonight. Both acknowledge the awkwardness and randomness of it all. I asked and Girl #1 told me her brother did put it together, but didn't want to say anything to keep me from feeling awkward. (Which was awesome of him.)
It just sucks having to choose so soon. They're both great girls. But I'm trying to look on the bright side that this spaghetti mess was discovered within the first few dates and not after a few more.