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My girlfriend thinks shes fat...so whats new
ok I need help. My girlfriend thinks shes fat. I dont think so... she has a little bit of a belly but the rest of her is in great shape...i think most girls would be jealous of her body. Thing is I am having a hugely difficult time comforting her and she has been going through consistently increasing bouts of depression over it. I tell her all the time that she is beutiful and looks great but she thinks I am biassed. I know she still likes to heaer it but it doesnt really look like it really means much to her. She says she doesnt care how much she weighs, she just doesnt look like she wants to look. she has tried several eating lifestyles to no avail mostly cause she has very little willpower i belive.
on one method...no sugar diet, it says you can eat peanut butter, i dont think it meant you can eat an entire jar of peanut butter in three days. ont this diet she spent a week eaing nothing but peanut butter and natural jelly sandwiches. I know that you have to watch your portions and very your diet as mucha s possible but that doesnt get through to her.
anyways that is off my question. What i an asking is for any advice from you girls on what else i cando to comfort her beyond what I am doing to this point. I also feel really guilty because i dont really watch what i eat and it must suck for her to watch me eat lots of junk, but in my situation i really cant do much about my eating habits.
I really love her and i want the best for her and i would appreciate any advice you girls could give. Thanks
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