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IMHO I think it is better for the child to be with his or her mother. Granted I know family cares just as much about them as you both do. but I still tink it will benefit the child and your wife for them to be together all the time. I had all the help I would have ever needed to continue working and allow my children to be watched by my mother in law, and my Grandmother. But I have found it to be far more rewarding to be home watching my children grow, watching the new things they learn, and just fostering a great relationship that we have. I would say move and let your wife be a stay at home. You can always visit family, and she can always take a long weekend and let the children visit with family even if you are working.
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