Is there a guy..

[ghoti]

..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

[renots]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

Have U been here (http://dudechat.com/) yet?

[StonedWheat]

Originally posted by renots

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

Have U been here (http://dudechat.com/) yet?

:heh:

[ghoti]

how do you know they fill the criteria?

[ghoti]

and why is it this way? It's not like I hate it, because I don't. But it shouldn't be of such importance.

[oblongmelon]

well..MEL GIBSON..and GANDHI..but GANDHI is dead and MEL has seven kids so maybe..um..yeh I think that leaves him out..*sob*.

[fakesurfers]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

just do a 'Anna Nicole Smith' and marry a geezer...that 80 year old guy in the wheelchair probably didnt put sex first (or even tenth) :laugh:

[theHNIC]

in a word, "NO"

[pennypinch]

Originally posted by ghoti
and why is it this way? It's not like I hate it, because I don't. But it shouldn't be of such importance.
Well, let me ask you this: in what species does a male NOT put sex before everything? It is our biological mandate (I love that term) to extend our genetic line out as far as possible.

That, and I think we just really like having sex.

[zenbooty]

Who is nice, funny, and doesn't put fashion, gossip, and little shiny trinkets and stones first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

[styleee]

Originally posted by zenbooty
Who is nice, funny, and doesn't put fashion, gossip, and little shiny trinkets and stones first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

i can deal without the gossip and stones and shiny trinkets (for a while at least) but I WILL NEVER GIVE UP FASHION!!

[pennypinch]

Originally posted by zenbooty
Who is nice, funny, and doesn't put fashion, gossip, and little shiny trinkets and stones first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

that actually doesn't like sex just as much as your average guy. Nope. How about a girl that just cuts the crap and admits she likes sex just as much as the next guy?

They exist, but I get the feeling someone's trying to limit the supply...Oooh, Catherine McKinnon, I curse you!!

[oblongmelon]

Originally posted by zenbooty
Who is nice, funny, and doesn't put fashion, gossip, and little shiny trinkets and stones first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.
hey guess what! there are some of us....ts because my dear hub was bustin his ass to pay for the house/kids/cars I didnt get trinkets till I paid for them myself.....as far as fashion..screw that..I have the same levi's I wore in college..ok ok so a bit of gossip is pretty sweet once in a while but IT GETS BORING..as does sex if you guys don't get readin those manuels....YOU BOYS just dont have a clue.

[pennypinch]

Originally posted by oblongmelon
as far as fashion..screw that..I have the same levi's I wore in college..

The fact that you still can get into the same jeans you had in college sets you apart from many a woman...and man, for that matter.

[Nanotech9]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.


yep, ur speakin' to him...

[theHNIC]

Originally posted by pennypinch
How about a girl that just cuts the crap and admits she likes sex just as much as the next guy?



I know a few of these real well.

[The Happy Squirrel]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.

yes there are several
me and two three of my best friends
:wavey:

[Hopper1]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.


No an emphamatic no...we are all boring mean bastards.. all we care about is gettin some and then gettin some more.
If you don't catch the sarcasm...
I hate to generalize but here goes. Why do most women date *******s and then come to the nice guy and complain about it? I have many a female friend that has done this then came to me and asked why they do this. I have no clue but the next weekend there they go again. The first ******* they meet they start dating.
One of my friends said it best, "Women seem to date *******s because they mistake there cockiness and attitude for being confident. They miss what is really there."
So while you are sitting there contemplating why you can't find a nice funny etc....look around to who you are telling this to

[hapoo]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.


Yes they do exist, and there are plenty to go around too. But women have this bad habit of picking the "badass" instead of the "nice, funny, etc" guy. And then they have the nerve to bitch about it when it doesn't work. I think its your own fault.

[pennypinch]

Originally posted by Hopper1
One of my friends said it best, "Women seem to date *******s because they mistake there cockiness and attitude for being confident. They miss what is really there."
So while you are sitting there contemplating why you can't find a nice funny etc....look around to who you are telling this to


Shh!!! I'm just beginning to perfect this being-an-******* thing!!!

[hapoo]

damn, looks like Hopper1 beat me to it. But you get the point. I think he explained it much better.






Shh!!! I'm just beginning to perfect this being-an-******* thing!!!

lol hahahahahahaha :P

[Hopper1]

Originally posted by pennypinch

Originally posted by Hopper1
One of my friends said it best, "Women seem to date *******s because they mistake there cockiness and attitude for being confident. They miss what is really there."
So while you are sitting there contemplating why you can't find a nice funny etc....look around to who you are telling this to


Shh!!! I'm just beginning to perfect this being-an-******* thing!!!


sorry to burst the bubble.....;)

[oblongmelon]

WOA UGLY GUYS RULE!

[The Happy Squirrel]

Originally posted by oblongmelon
WOA UGLY GUYS RULE!

that would quailfy me
thanx obby

[hapoo]

Originally posted by oblongmelon
WOA UGLY GUYS RULE!

...The internet message boards.

I'm looking in your direction spigidygak. :heh:

[sbp]

Originally posted by The Happy Squirrel

Originally posted by oblongmelon
WOA UGLY GUYS RULE!

that would quailfy me
thanx obby http://www.geocities.com/sbp7777/ugly2.JPG

[RoniMan]

yes, the a-hole syndrome does seem to exist in women (i'm sorry to generalize, but it's true, for the most part).

women go out with a-holes who are only looking for one thing...(wink, wink, nudge, nudge). then they come to us, the "platonic friends" (or as chris rock put it, "platonic friends are like dick in a glass; in case of emergency-break glass!"). so then they complain to us about how guys only have one thing on their mind. so the "nice guys" that we are, pretend that's not the truth, when in fact, it is! the only difference is that we're willing to work for it! AND we're not going to let it run our lives. (ok, i'm on a run here guys, don't spoil it for me ok?)

my ex-gf and i, were together for 19 months. was sex on my mind? sure! was it the only thing? NO! i thought about other women too! j/k! seriously, i cared about her very much (and still do). everything i did was b/c i cared for her, not b/c i wanted some nookie. if i got some, great, extra point! if not, i'm happy just to see her happy!

so to answer the original question, do those men exist that you're looking for...yes! but if you only look on the surface...you'll probably not like what you see. unless, of course, you look like mr. happy in the above picture. then i'm not sure you can look ANYWHERE to find what you're looking for.

[The Happy Squirrel]

Hear HEar!!! Most excellent ground standiong statment Roniman
Im behinfd you 100%!!!

[oblongmelon]

WOA..HAPPY..who knew you were such a hunk..I SAID UUUUUGLY GUYS..this guy is a babe.

[The Happy Squirrel]

my name is Happy not hunkie
thankx anywayz Obby

[coleslaw]

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist. if you're looking for him to cook and clean as well, look no further than myself... and with a 29 on that mensa workout test, well, how can you possibly go wrong?

[The Happy Squirrel]

Hey i am a damn good cook as well and i have had plenty of cleaning experience
<thanx mom>
well i only got a 25 but i did it in 10 min so.....

[hapoo]

hmmm :hmm:
your getting offers from a guy who calls himself coleslaw and a person who got paid (and not very much i must say) for sex.

[zenbooty]

Originally posted by ghoti
and why is it this way? It's not like I hate it, because I don't. But it shouldn't be of such importance.

Why not? Winky needs love too!

[coleslaw]

Originally posted by hapoo
hmmm :hmm:
your getting offers from a guy who calls himself coleslaw and a person who got paid (and not very much i must say) for sex. :bawl:

[oblongmelon]

HEY HE GOT FORKS! (that in itself was a pretty good deal)
;)

[Hopper1]

Originally posted by oblongmelon
HEY HE GOT FORKS! (that in itself was a pretty good deal)
;)

Heh i would have done it for the forks alone....

[The Happy Squirrel]

the point is i wasnt looking for sex
i didnt go to that party thinking
"im going to find a chic the sleep with tonight"
i went and had a good time and the offer came to me
i wasnt out trying to solicate sex out of some girl she solicated me
theres a huge difference between seeking it and taking offers taht are pesented to you
and i fail to see how the name cloesalw has any affect on someones personal atributes

is this just a mud slinging fest of what??
come on!

[hapoo]

Originally posted by coleslaw

Originally posted by hapoo
hmmm :hmm:
your getting offers from a guy who calls himself coleslaw and a person who got paid (and not very much i must say) for sex. :bawl:



Originally posted by The Happy Squirrel
the point is i wasnt looking for sex
i didnt go to that party thinking
"im going to find a chic the sleep with tonight"
i went and had a good time and the offer came to me
i wasnt out trying to solicate sex out of some girl she solicated me
theres a huge difference between seeking it and taking offers taht are pesented to you
and i fail to see how the name cloesalw has any affect on someones personal atributes




I'm sorry guys :( :o
It was just a joke.

[coleslaw]

:D

[MaggieOK]

Originally posted by hapoo

Originally posted by ghoti
..who is nice, funny, etc etc...and doesn't put sex first? I have a feeling they just don't exist.


Yes they do exist, and there are plenty to go around too. But women have this bad habit of picking the "badass" instead of the "nice, funny, etc" guy. And then they have the nerve to bitch about it when it doesn't work. I think its your own fault.

That's cause many of the nice/funny guys are UGLY! :eek:

Sadly, my brother is a 21 year old virgin who is quite good looking and complains to me that there are no nice girls out there who don't just want him for sex. :rolleyes: Men.

[chrissy]

Originally posted by chosenfool
hmmm...inventory check here...

people say im nice...

people say im funny...

people havent said im ugly, but neither have they said i was good-looking ( hah hah! true...)

i AM celibate (or abstain from sex), but i do love sex.

i dont seek it out every friday, or on every good looking women i see ( im terrified of SOME these women, i dont know why)

i know im in love with a woman who is hardly your ms. America Beauty. She isnt your photogenic kind. She is no swimsuit model. Doesnt have miles of legs. But i know im very much attracted to her physically as well as emotionally.


Does she know your feelings?

[The Happy Squirrel]

Originally posted by chosenfool
hmmm...inventory check here...

people say im nice...

people say im funny...

people havent said im ugly, but neither have they said i was good-looking ( hah hah! true...)

i AM celibate (or abstain from sex), but i do love sex.

i dont seek it out every friday, or on every good looking women i see ( im terrified of SOME these women, i dont know why)

i know im in love with a woman who is hardly your ms. America Beauty. She isnt your photogenic kind. She is no swimsuit model. Doesnt have miles of legs. But i know im very much attracted to her physically as well as emotionally.

OMG thats completly sounds like my life man
i feel for you