Limbo hell

[ufcrusher]

Life can be good but suck at the same time. As many of you know, I moved/am in the process of moving to Florida from San Diego. I say moved/am in the process because that is the honest assessment. I have been here in South Florida since May...my wife and the majority of my belongings remains in our San Diego condo. Unfortunately, time constraints prevent me from heading back to San Diego and my lease is up at the end of the month, so my wife is stuck packing EVERYTHING.

Of course, this puts a lot of stress on her and makes her unhappy. To make matters even worse, we cannot figure out where we are moving to because her job is creating problems. So we are in limbo hell. We wont have our own place and we cant buy/rent a new place until we know where her job is going to be. Frankly, if she doenst make a final decision by the end of the month, I will make it for us.

[DarkFury]

Is it possible that you can go "month to month" in the condo?


That might buy you a little bit more time.

[faither]

When you say "her job" I'm not sure if you're speaking of CA or FL. If it's CA, it would seem to be in the past and maybe she should just give notice. If it's moving with her to FL, that's slightly more complicated but they should be respectful of what your situation is. If it's the job she's moving to, you'd think they'd be understanding. If not, unless it's a GREAT position, cut it loose. Good luck with everything.