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renovation
09-20-2006, 12:57 PM
my wife is mad at me because i asked to look at her work schedule today (she's a nurse and works 12 hour shifts). i need to know her work schedule for the month so i could plan a couple of elected surgerys and have to be picked up after them since both are out patient.
anyway, she works at a hospital and they have her working diffrent days all the time (7p-7a ) so i can't keep track from one week to the next. plus she is also on some commities.
i come home and she has a hissy about me wanting to look at the schedule. i see she is on the computer and doing some paper work. no biggie. but i made the error of pointing out that, with her swinging her hands above her head she reminded me of how her dad will do this. big big mistake on my part. i said the fighting words (her dad).
but i need to figure out when are good days for me to have these operations performed. and besides i rather her deal with the doctor as she is a nurse. then there a second problem: he wants me to have it done at a Out Patient center while the wife wants it done at the hospital. so i want her to call and talk to the dr. and work things out. also our health insurance is supplied by the hospital. and we have to go to one of their clinics or dr. and this clinic is not in the group. the dr. is do! its been a hell of a afternoon. im sure its me that started her up. but i know its going to be tomorrow before she and i even talk again. i'm not even sure if she is working tonight or not really!

mcs328
09-20-2006, 01:58 PM
I use google calendar and share my schedule with my wife and vice versa. Once I scheduled a Steak and BJ day to see if she noticed I added something to the calendar. Well hilarity ensues with a google calendar full of "Buy Wife 2 Carat Diamond Day", recurring Steak and BJ day every Tuesday, you have an appointment at 2pm to Kiss My Ass, etc along those lines.

When we have an argument, I take a deep breath and try to put it into perspective. Is it a big deal? Is it worth it? Sometimes you got to end the cold war and just say I'm sorry and I just want to know so I can schedule the elective surgeries and as an added bonus you can pick me up and drop me off that way I get to see you more. Hopefully it all blows over and then you can schedule some make up sex on your google calendar. :)

cadetevon
09-20-2006, 02:50 PM
mcs328, your wife is a riot.

Renovation, I hope it all works out for you... with the operations as well as with the wifey.

renovation
09-20-2006, 08:42 PM
thanks guys it will blow over -we been together for 30 years i just i need to vent earlyer . as for the google calender . her schedule is so screwed up its more like a road map .also it lists all the nurses on her units to and there all woman .and they seem to swap days all the time .im talking on a o-most daily basic ! you have to be Hodini to keep up with it ~ and thy make it 1 1/2 -2 months in advance !