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gwilks98
01-11-2008, 04:19 PM
GROSS.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22612314/


LONDON - Twins who were separated at birth got married without realizing they were brother and sister, a lawmaker said, urging more information be provided on birth certificates for adopted children.

A court annulled the British couple's union after they discovered their true relationship, Lord David Alton said.

"Everyone has a right to knowledge about their lineage, genealogy and identity. And if they don't, then it will lead to cases of incest," Alton said during a telephone interview Friday.

Alton first revealed details of the unusual case last month during a five-hour debate about a bill that would change regulations about human embryology.

"I was recently involved in a conversation with a High Court judge who was telling me of a case he had dealt with," Alton said according to a transcript of the Dec. 10 debate. "It involved the normal birth of twins who were separated at birth and adopted by separate parents.

"They were never told that they were twins," Alton said. "They met later in life and felt an inevitable attraction, and the judge had to deal with the consequences of the marriage that they entered into and all the issues of their separation."

Alton gave no additional details and would not reveal the name of the judge who told him about the case.

The High Court's Family Division declined to discuss or confirm Alton's account about the twins.

A child's right to know
Alton, an independent legislator who works at Liverpool's John Moores University, said the siblings' inadvertent marriage raises the wider issue of the importance of strengthening the rights of children to know the identities of their biological parents, including kids who were born through in vitro fertilization.

Under British law, only a mother has to be named on a birth certificate. Such certificates also are not required to identify births that result from IVF or to identify the sperm donor.

In addition, British law does not require parents to ever tell children that they were the result of donated sperm.

Alton believes this should be changed.

Alton said he favors an amendment to the Human Fertility and Embryology bill — which is still being debated in the House of Lords — that would require birth certificates of children born from donated sperm to say that and to identify the genetic father.

Referring to the twins' case, he said: "If you start trying to conceal someone's identity, sooner or later the truth will come out. And if you don't know you are biologically related to someone, you may become attracted to them and tragedies like this may occur."

honestly, I'd rather NOT know if I was going to find out after the fact. Checking geneological backgrounds isn't really a requisite before having sex in a relationship: I don't see how they would have known about each other before having incest.

Blech!

YellowCoffee
01-11-2008, 04:26 PM
GROSS.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22612314/



honestly, I'd rather NOT know if I was going to find out after the fact. Checking geneological backgrounds isn't really a requisite before having sex in a relationship: I don't see how they would have known about each other before having incest.

Blech!

This is so interesting. My question was.....how did they find out they were twins? It's not like people "check" before they get married. But what are the odds?

molecularfire
01-11-2008, 05:03 PM
I agree with the idea of giving adopted children more information about their biological parents (in cases where the information exists) but I'm not sure that they really should be using the argument that "yeah, they need to know this info. or they could wind up boinking each other" is the best argument they could use.

ShawnLee
01-11-2008, 07:49 PM
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0239949/
Am I the only one who thought of this movie?
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/2/21/Sayitisntso.jpg

molecularfire
01-11-2008, 09:32 PM
Actually, sadly enough this was what came to my mind while I was reading the article.

WEIRD AL YANKOVIC LYRICS

"A Complicated Song"

Uh huh ... extra cheese
Uh huh, uh huh ... save a piece for me

Pizza party at your house
I went just to check it out
Nineteen extra larges
What a shame
No one came

Just us eatin' all alone
You said, "Take the pizza home"
"No sense lettin' all this go to waste"
So then I faced

Pizza all day
And every day
This cheese 'round the clock
Is gettin' me blocked
And I sure don't care
For irregularity

Tell me
Why'd you have to go and make me so constipated?
'Cause right now I'd do anything to just get my bowels evacuated
In the bathroom ... I sit and I wait and I strain
And I sweat and I clench and I feel the pain
Oh, should I take laxatives or have my colon irrigated?
No no no

I was feelin' pretty down
'Till my girlfriend came around
We're just so alike in every way
I gotta say

In fact, I just thought I might
Pop the question there that night
I was kissing her so tenderly
But woe is me

Who would have guessed
Her family crest
I'd suddely spy
Tattooed on her thigh
And son-of-a-gun
It's just like the one on me

Tell me
How was I supposed to know we were both related?
Believe me, if I knew she was my cousin we never would have dated
What to do now? Should I go ahead and propose
And get hitched and have kids with eleven toes
And move to Alabama where that kind of thing is tolerated?
No no no no no no no
No no no no no no no
No no no no no

I had so much on my mind
I thought maybe I'd unwind
Try out that new roller coaster ride
And the guide

Said not to stand
But that's a demand
That I couldn't meet
I got on my feet
And stood up instead
And knocked off my head, you see

Tell me
Why'd I have to go and get myself decapitated?
This really is a major inconvenience, oh man, I really hate it
Such a drag, now ... Can't eat, I can't breathe, I can't snore
I can't belch or yodel anymore
Can't spit or blow my nose or even read Sports Illustrated

Oh no
Why'd I have to go and get myself all mutilated? (yeah, yeah)
I gotta tell ya, life without a head kinda makes me irritated
What a bummer
Can't blink, I can't cough, I can't sneeeze
But my neck is enjoyin' a pleasant breeze now
Haven't been the same since my head and I were separated
No no no

Nija
01-12-2008, 05:12 AM
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0239949/
Am I the only one who thought of this movie?
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/2/21/Sayitisntso.jpg
Only because you have horrible taste in movies, yes.

riskykougra
01-15-2008, 04:24 AM
I would be wondering WTF was in my drink and which one of us got to be the bride! :laugh:

TofuNinja
01-15-2008, 06:07 PM
hmm if my after the fact Sister was hot... and she was cool with it, I'd just make sure no babies, and carry on. Ah how am I kidding I'd be freaked out.