Who should I choose: Aunt or BFF

[ladyluck]

My best friends birthday is this weekend and she's having a party on saturday but that's the day my aunt wants to see a concert. My aunt invited me first. I feel bad not going to my best friends' birthday party but then i'd feel bad if I ditched my aunt to go hang with my BFF. Also i tend to ditch my aunt a lot :(

HELP!!!!!!!!!

[attgig]

do something special for your friend on friday or sunday? and hang out with the aunt on sat? just let your bff know that you have fam stuff and can't ditch her, but you love her/care for her, and still want to do something special for her bday. if she's a good bff, i don't see why she would be offended or hurt by that.

[DarkFury]

Yeah, if the Aunt has already bought tickets for you, I'd go that way and make it up to the BFF. If not, you may can ask the Aunt if you can go to a different concert (if possible) or ask for a raincheck for a different concert.

Either way, if you are already totally committed, then you should stick to your commitment. Your BFF should understand especially if you can make it up to her later.

[cruelpupet]

RSVPd with the Aunt first...so Aunt

[ArkiStan]

You know it's a serious conundrum when ladyluck asks you for advice.

[nickel]

do both? party still going after concert is over?