Ex-Girlfriend

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

My ex and I have been through alot of things together, between my ex-wife and the daughter that I have with her. But know that it comes to working on us or anything to do with doing things together to make us a better couple she'd rather be by herself and try and "find herself", of course that isn't something that she could do in a relationship with my help or understanding.

It's very hard to be understanding of her needs when she still tells me that she has very deep feelings for me and that she doesn't want to do this, but she "has to in order for her psyche not to get lost". I think that it would have been better if she had said F#@! you and never talked to me again.

Feeling very lonely without her and there isn't anything I can say to make it better. What should I do?

[Loosah]

It sucks, but you have to let her go. Don't let her pull this half way bullshit either. Most women will change their thinking (if they are ever going to) when they see you are getting on with your life and not sitting around alone waiting for her to come back to you. The absolute worst thing you can do is beg her to stay, or act needy and pathetic to try and keep her or get her back.

Call a friend and get out of the house see a movie, get drunk, go to a strip club...

[bella]

"For every ending
there's a new beginning;
for every memory,
there's a dream ahead"
-?

Another words, try your best to move on. Its easier said then done but hey looks like she's doing it. In that situation I usually get my hair done, work out more than usual, just doing things that make feel and look better. Don't let her get you down!

[Cheesypuff]

Originally posted by Loosah

Call a friend and get out of the house see a movie, get drunk, go to a strip club...


Strip club....thats gets everything out of your mind :)

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

It's just tough to let go of the past and move forward! Love is a pain in the ass.