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Ice-9

04-04-2001, 12:42 AM

M

Nope. First love, first experiences with everything, didn't have sex until after we'd been dating for 10 months. Kept dating until we both went off to college. (fact that she's now dating a total prick is irrelevant, I just felt like complaining about it)

eSDee

04-04-2001, 01:48 AM

Whats the poll for? School project?

StonedWheat

04-04-2001, 02:06 AM

Nope i don't regret it. We're still good friends even now. I think she might have been the best looking out of all my girlfriends too. Boy was I sprung (at the time).

theorangeone

04-04-2001, 05:25 AM

i'm a female.

i regret who first slept with, but thats in the past and i can't change what happened.

topane

04-04-2001, 05:32 AM

M
No
Dated for a year, first serious relationship, blah blah blah

theHNIC

04-04-2001, 07:29 AM

No regrets at all...were still friends but she a dike now...

had nothing to do with me though because this happened when I was like 11 or 12, cant remember

apmiller

04-04-2001, 07:35 AM

My first time was with a wonderful girl when I was about 17. I had no problem making the desision because I knew we were going to get married someday and we did. Now we have 2 great kids and living the good life giving up sex for video games! BOO YEAH!

Nanotech9

04-04-2001, 08:07 AM

M.
well, seeing as how i've never really ever had a GF, (and i would never pay for it), then, well... you can see i'm severly deprived. :(

welfareloser

04-04-2001, 08:21 AM

my first time was with a guy i had dated for 10 months, i was a junior in hs, just turned 16. he was almost 17, in my class, and totally NOT ready, which i didn't know, because all signs pointed to "hell, yeah, i'm ready!" (and what 17 year old guy is NOT ready to have sex? seriously!) but then afterwards he freaked out, and it took me a long, long time to realize what had happened - he was not emotionally mature enough to handle it. he spent the next 10 months saying - "it has to be spontaneous... i don't want to plan it... why can't you just let it happen, instead of making it some big production?" end result being that i was confused and hurt, and we never had sex again after that first time (because two high schoolers are not going to find enough privacy for sex without at least a little bit of planning, which he knew, at least subconsciously), because he kept pushing me away every time i tried to initiate sex.

so, he obviously regrets it (even tho i bet he will still never admit it) but i still don't, oddly enough. i was ready, it was perfectly natural for me, and i have no regrets, even though he turned out to be a flaming *******. i can forgive him and pity him because he was a severely abused child, and emotionally stunted, and there really wasn't anything i could do to help him...

welfareloser

04-04-2001, 08:24 AM

Originally posted by gotmilk
No regrets at all...were still friends but she a dike now...

had nothing to do with me though because this happened when I was like 11 or 12, cant remember

you had sex at 11 or twelve! jeezus h christ, you stud! how old was she? did you use a condom? WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?!?!?

i'm obviously fascinated here...

theHNIC

04-04-2001, 08:42 AM

cruelpupet

04-04-2001, 11:49 AM

Originally posted by EsDeeLoco
Whats the poll for? School project?

No, it's not quite a school project. Its a long story, but i'll try to shorten it up for you.

Guy meets girl (senior year of HS)
They go out.
He goes away to college, she stays home to goto a private college.
She gets pissed off that he left (he made his college choice before he met her)
She acts like a bitch while his is away, and pretty much ignores him when he comes home for breaks.
He breaks up with her, and finds a new chick @ his college.(there were a few other short term ones, but im only mentioning the long term)
Right after breakup, she tells him she still wants him to be her first. (He says no, I got a new girl)
New school year starts.
Him and new chick break up
He transfers, to a place by home so he can search for a new college.
Finds new college.
First girl find out he is home, thins he is home for good.
She calls.
They start dating again.
She breaks up wiht him.
Once again she says "I still want you to be my first"

So by now you probably realized that I am the (He/Him) in the story. Im still debating what I should do. My beliefs are that I shouldn't unless Im still in love with her. The purpose of the pole was to decide whether or not regret should be a factor. I do not think I would regret it if it was her, because I have never been able to stay mad at her, for any reason.

m0j0

04-04-2001, 11:54 AM

dude, a poll of us aint gonna tell you how she is gonna feel later

ironchef

04-04-2001, 11:56 AM

sheesh. what the hell do you care about what other people think?

your life. your girlfriend. your oats. sew em or not, that's your decision.

the only thing worth regretting is asking other people to help you live your life.

m0j0

04-04-2001, 11:59 AM

Originally posted by welfareloser

Originally posted by gotmilk
No regrets at all...were still friends but she a dike now...

had nothing to do with me though because this happened when I was like 11 or 12, cant remember

you had sex at 11 or twelve! jeezus h christ, you stud! how old was she? did you use a condom? WHAT WERE YOU THINKING?!?!?

i'm obviously fascinated here...

i had it when i was 12, too. she was 13. used a condom. no big deal. no real regret about the particulars, cuz, as was stated earlier by theorangeone....can't change anything. i don't like how much i think about it now that i am divorced. i am totally into the princess...and we haven't done anything like that...cuz i love her for her. so, when i think about it, like in general, it bothers me...

cruelpupet

04-04-2001, 12:01 PM

Originally posted by ironchef
sheesh. what the hell do you care about what other people think?

your life. your girlfriend. your oats. sew em or not, that's your decision.

the only thing worth regretting is asking other people to help you live your life.

thats the thing is we arent dating... and Im not worried if she regrets it, I worried about me regreting it.

m0j0

04-04-2001, 12:13 PM

it depends on how you feel about sex. i wouldn't have it with anyone that i didn't think that i loved. except the one....which is why i wouldn't ever again....cuz of the residual feelings. i love the princess :love: more than anything in the world...but it's not at that point. so there are a lot of variables...for me. i don't know what your variables are

zenbooty

04-04-2001, 12:15 PM

Sounds like disfunction junction to me. If you're near your hometown now, she'll probably make you regret it no matter which choice you make :) .

People who try to make long distance relationships work ask too much of themselves. What good is having a gf/bf if you never get to see them? Go live life for awhile and forget about high school sweethearts.

apmiller

04-04-2001, 12:59 PM

Originally posted by cruelpupet

Originally posted by ironchef
sheesh. what the hell do you care about what other people think?

your life. your girlfriend. your oats. sew em or not, that's your decision.

the only thing worth regretting is asking other people to help you live your life.

thats the thing is we arent dating... and Im not worried if she regrets it, I worried about me regreting it.

It shouldn't be that big of a decision. If your not sure then you shouldn't do it. If your worried about regret now, then one way or another you WILL have regret later. Your making the situation to hard for yourself. Either do it and love it! Or let it go. If you got to contimplate life in order to decide weather or not to have sex with this gal then your better off not going through with it.

Jihforce

04-04-2001, 01:35 PM

Originally posted by cruelpupet
So by now you probably realized that I am the (He/Him) in the story. Im still debating what I should do. My beliefs are that I shouldn't unless Im still in love with her. The purpose of the pole was to decide whether or not regret should be a factor. I do not think I would regret it if it was her, because I have never been able to stay mad at her, for any reason.

An old shoe is always more comfortable than a new one it seems. I think either way you would regret it if something went wrong. You might get over it in the long run, but there will always be regret. You may not regret the whole relationship, but maybe certain aspects of it you would.
The first time may not be your fault, but the second time (or third) definitively is.

hapoo

04-04-2001, 05:45 PM

I dont regret it at all!!! In fact we're still together, we're so close i consider her a part of me :wavey:, her sister isn't too bad either. :wavey: :heh: j/k

helius

04-04-2001, 06:16 PM

Originally posted by hapoo
I dont regret it at all!!! In fact we're still together, we're so close i consider her a part of me :wavey:, her sister isn't too bad either. :wavey: :heh: j/k

Talking about your palm again, Hapoo? ;)

oblongmelon

04-04-2001, 08:23 PM

well,no not at the time-you see THEN I happened to LIKE drunk,obnoxious,ratty haired,rugby playing party boys..THEN I MARRIED HIM,and its been downhill since-he stopped drinking,lost his hair,gave up rugby and became a total geek. Lucky me. :(

TheLoneGunman

04-04-2001, 11:56 PM

Male.

Yes (regret)

Reasons:

1. She didn't believe I was really a virgin (I was 18 and had been waiting for the right person and finally just decided "what the heck")

2. I wrote her a $1,000 check (related to #1)

3. She became a total psycho (which is weird, because she dumped me)

4. She told everyone (including the cops) completely bizarre stories about me (they were physically and geographically impossible) but neglected to mention #2 (although there is a cancelled check with her info on it and a very interesting "memo" on the front)

Thanks for letting me vent

cruelpupet

04-05-2001, 12:36 AM

Care to explain the relation of #1 to #2 a lil more clearly

m0j0

04-05-2001, 12:58 AM

ya...the only relation i can see is "heck" and "check" both have "heck."

hapoo

04-05-2001, 01:11 AM

Originally posted by m0j0
ya...the only relation i can see is "heck" and "check" both have "heck."

:umm: get some sleep!!
BTW, how do you get that Garbage pic to rotate to a new one every time i load a page?

m0j0

04-05-2001, 01:15 AM

dude, it's not changing...i am changing it! purely coincidence. but i only changed her once tonight, so i dunno what that means.....

oh, and i was gonna tell you the same thing about the sleep thing. 'cept i was gonna say:

"go to bed...the streetlights are on" :heh:

gwilks98

04-05-2001, 10:05 PM

20 years old. Never had sex. Had the opportunity, but that damned religious voice in the back of my head makes me think twice.

The issue is currently up for debate while I'm single. Although most people I've talked to wish they hadn't given their virginity to the person they did.

irwin

04-05-2001, 11:25 PM

So...kids are having sex at 12 years old? That's a little too young. That's like 7th or 6th grade. Shit.

hapoo

04-06-2001, 12:09 AM

Originally posted by Passwird
So...kids are having sex at 12 years old? That's a little too young. That's like 7th or 6th grade. Shit.

yeah Passwird, didn't you know?? YOUR BEHIND SCHEDULE!!!! get busy and find a girl!!!

Memo

04-06-2001, 12:12 AM

I am still with the person i boned for the first time. That was two years ago when I was 16, I'm 18 now. Only regret is that she had sex one time w/ someone else before we had sex.

irwin

04-06-2001, 12:17 AM

Originally posted by hapoo

Originally posted by Passwird
So...kids are having sex at 12 years old? That's a little too young. That's like 7th or 6th grade. Shit.

yeah Passwird, didn't you know?? YOUR BEHIND SCHEDULE!!!! get busy and find a girl!!!

Better make up for lost time, eh? :naughty:

But seriously, I think I'll wait for THE girl before we dance.

hapoo

04-06-2001, 12:28 AM

Originally posted by Passwird

Better make up for lost time, eh? :naughty:

But seriously, I think I'll wait for THE girl before we dance.

seriously speaking though, make sure your standards for THE girl arn't distorted or you could be waiting for a very long time. After all she too is only human. On a related note, everytime i see a really hot girl the first thing i try to remind myself is that "everyones shit stinks", no one is perfect.

m0j0

04-06-2001, 01:03 AM

Originally posted by UT Memo
I am still with the person i boned for the first time. That was two years ago when I was 16, I'm 18 now. Only regret is that she had sex one time w/ someone else before we had sex.

boned, huh? how romantic :disa:

sputnik

04-06-2001, 01:21 PM

Male.
And no, absolutely no regrets.
me: 19, she: 26
New Years Eve, sleazy motel, a half a valium and incredible sex. I still have the scars.
And now she's a lesbian. Go figure.
Come to think of it, MOST of my ex-girlfriends are now lesbians. Hmmmm.

cruelpupet

04-06-2001, 03:55 PM

Originally posted by sputnik
Male.
And no, absolutely no regrets.
me: 19, she: 26
New Years Eve, sleazy motel, a half a valium and incredible sex. I still have the scars.
And now she's a lesbian. Go figure.
Come to think of it, MOST of my ex-girlfriends are now lesbians. Hmmmm.

Hmmm lesbians huh?

Could i ask a favor of you. Theres an ex of mine that I'd like to see become a lesbian...can you date her???

gwilks98

04-06-2001, 11:49 PM

Originally posted by cruelpupet

Originally posted by sputnik
Male.
And no, absolutely no regrets.
me: 19, she: 26
New Years Eve, sleazy motel, a half a valium and incredible sex. I still have the scars.
And now she's a lesbian. Go figure.
Come to think of it, MOST of my ex-girlfriends are now lesbians. Hmmmm.

Hmmm lesbians huh?

Could i ask a favor of you. Theres an ex of mine that I'd like to see become a lesbian...can you date her???

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