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joe52985
08-15-2001, 09:54 PM
everyone sucks, people suck, everyone ****ing sucks !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i never get a ****ing break get ****ing yelled at, get made fun of, get into fights, get ****ing straight Fs!!!!!!!!! i mean over the past few years ive gotton used to being made fun of, but high shcool brings on the fights and the worst grades of my life I GET an F in my shop area (comp tech, its a voc high school) and im still the smartest kid in the class but no one will ever know that cause i cant get a friggin A and the bitch that gets straight As but comes to me because she cant format a floppy???!!!! come on now i know its summer and i talking about school but its coming up quick and its gonna suck, over the last 2 years ive resigned myself to the fact that i will be a geek 4 life even tho i try to call myself a techie lol and working with computers is the only thing im good and everyone knows it, but tahts not a good thing because people know they can walk all over me and make fun of me bacause "joe wont do anything about it hes a bitch" and they are right i wont do anything about it and i dont know why i guess im just non confrontational or sumthin, which isnt a bad thing u dont have to snap when someone calls u a name to be normal i mean i never get mad!!!!!!!! (im saying this as im the most pissed ive ever been) lol even the girl i like that ive known for 2 years wont go out with me ive went to all the dances with her payed for everything weve ever done together and still what do i get in the end? nothing. prolly because im too clumsy or sumthin and i guess ur boyfriends nickname being fatass and minute man wouldnt be that good so i understand but anyway i just keep going on and on imma stop now b4 i sound like a whiny bitch (i should have stopped a long time ago then) thanks for listening i think

attgig
08-15-2001, 09:58 PM
chipper up there bro =P

highschool just sucks....
suck it up (i did), and when it comes to 'real' life, you'll be able to survive....because there's only 2 kinds of people in the world, the ones with formatted floppys who will survive, and those with floppys that just won't boot up
:P

clutchy
08-15-2001, 10:46 PM
yeah that's the funny thing about highschool, i was fat my first year, then i grew and i was never made fun of again... I can understand your predicament(sp?) though, I had a great highschool career though after my sophomore year it went great i met some girls that were alot of fun... and after that it ended in the greatest thing i've ever done graduate, with all my friends having the greatest time. What you can't do is listen to people that are afraid of you, and i know that's hard when you're in hs and there's no where to go... trust me you'll be laughing someday when you go back and the people that made fun of you have done nothing with their lives. do your best and let others do theirs

revil
08-15-2001, 11:03 PM
Sh*t, I was such a weirdo in high school. well, you may be asking, "aren't you now?" well to answer that, yes. yes i am. but i was even worse during high school. people made fun of me being the the scrawny weak tech kid. and during the weight lifting session of PE class, everyone wandered why i tried so hard (cause i wasn't slacking off like them). well they found out when i went from not being able to do 1 pull-up to doing 25 in 2 weeks (which f*cking amazed). I guess what i'm trying to say is, if you don't like something, fix it.

LPMiller
08-16-2001, 04:32 PM
#1 HS sucks. But it passes.
#2 the best revenge against those that call you fat ass is to not be fat. i don't mean become diet boy, I mean get to the gym, bud, work it! Not that I did, but I had the opposite problem...I was too skinny and too short. But it is something that can make you feel better, and give the rats in school less ammo against you. Chicks dig it too. If you don't think you can do it alone, find someone to do it with you.
#3 If you actually know your stuff, but are bombing the test, it sounds like you might suffer from test anxiety. If you truly feel you should be getting better grades, I highly, highly, highly reccommend something like the Sylvain learning centers, or that you get tested for a possible disability, like dyslexia. It's not unusal for a smart guy, techies too, to either freeze on tests, or have something in the brain miswired. Either way, you need the tools to deal with it, before you convince yourself you are just a dumb smuck.
#4 How you express yourself reflects how people see you. I know it was venting, but, if all your writing is without punctuation and the like, you're just asking for trouble. Take if from me, the worst speller in the world. Consider a writing workshop, or a speech workshop like say, Toastmasters. You may not end up a great speaker or writer, but you will end up happier with yourself.

And that's what you really need, to be happier. And the only way to do that is to prove to yourself your worth. So you need to go out and explore those options. I know it's hard. I was a total shy, fly on the wall. Made fun of. When I hit highschool, I thought I was meat. I got into Drama, writing, speech, and those really helped me become the sexy mother I am today. But those might not be your bags, and you might want to take baby steps. But your goal should always be to prove to yourself first, screw the others. Because once you prove something about yourself TO yourself, then the others will either see that, or they suck.

Whatever you do, don't just bide your time, hoping things will improve. Life rarely just picks up without your own intervention.

And remember, High School ENDS. And 10 years from now, the jerks will still be jerks, but you will be something to be proud of.

pennypinch
08-16-2001, 06:18 PM
The sexy bitch above is absolutely right. While I can't say I really went through what so of you are going through or went through, we all have our own little battles. For me, it was having the self-confidence to talk to the people who would talk to me. I had particularly psychologically abusive parents, and while I was quite popular at school, stifling feelings of shame and inadequacy was an hourly problem.

As those above have said, if you want to sit on your ass and mope about it, then you get what you deserve. If you're interested in making things better, they will, not just to "observers" but more importantly to yourself.

And don't forget, high school is cruel because it only prepares you for the far crueler big bad world. If you can develop a skin thick enough for high school, you should be in good shape for what else they're going to say about you!

Apex
08-16-2001, 07:05 PM
Originally posted by DarkFury
I guess the GAM gives a "rats ass" since this thread has now moved to Suckage/Not-So Suckage...

Thank you for choosing G|A Airlines... we hope that you had a wonderful trip. :hihi:

He was lucky enough to have caught the attention of the GAM who gives a "rats ass". I told the GAM's that moving the thread is a courtesy, simply deleting the threads of people who lack the ability to post in the right forums is ok as well.

Luxykin007
08-17-2001, 08:42 AM
Originally posted by DarkFury

Personally, I think some of those "unnecessary duplicate posts" in the wrong forums should be deleted. Not to say delete posts that are unintentionally left in the wrong forum, however people know when they are doing something wrong and when you call them out on it, they should be gracious enough to accept what is being said without getting indignant, especially if the alert is not posted with "extreme prejudice and sarcasm" :hehehmm:.




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GoldFish
08-17-2001, 08:50 PM
God loves you, joe.

joe52985
08-17-2001, 10:09 PM
hi, first of all sorry for posting in the wrong forum intentionally that was dumb of me when i knew the rules. As for the punctuation, i was tired, really tired, i had just worked 8 hours a day for 3 days in a row after not working for a week and it sucked. Ok so i am trying to make excuses. I was thinking alot that night and just had a lot of things to say, i feel alot better tho (thanks clutchy). Thanks guys for not flaming me straight from the beggingin when i know i deserved a flame or two or three. Im trying to work on getting out of n00bdom although being the new kid really isnt that bad. Well im going to bed now, goodnight.


P.S. I seriously doubt i have a learning disability im in the 99th percent on all those school tests and stuff, i need to apply myself more i think

hapoo
08-17-2001, 11:00 PM
Originally posted by joe52985

P.S. I seriously doubt i have a learning disability im in the 99th percent on all those school tests and stuff, i need to apply myself more i think



so did i when i was in high school, and yet they say i have ADD, which is true but my real problem was that i was just lazy. It took a while but i realize that now.

revil
08-17-2001, 11:07 PM
Originally posted by hapoo
so did i when i was in high school, and yet they say i have ADD, which is true but my real problem was that i was just lazy. It took a while but i realize that now.
A lot of us out there have it. I think we should be able to claim disability on it.

joe52985
08-17-2001, 11:10 PM
no offense but personally i think add is a joke...one more label to slap on kids, doctors are too quick nowadays, a kid doing bad in school, add, not doing homework, add, did they ever think it was ultima online? heh but in all seriousness (spl?) thats becoming the universal excuse for parents and kids alike

hey darkfury: am i the one on ur **** list? whats trolls, im confused dude

[Edited by joe52985 on 08-17-2001 at 11:14 PM]

clutchy
08-18-2001, 01:00 AM
you'd be surprised how many parent's actually ask for ritalin, adderall, and other methamphetamines. Most parents don't want to deal with the fact that there kid is misbehaving or acting out to get their attention, not always some psych prob... but some kids do need it.

you know that stuff wellbutrin, well it's for depression, they use it to help people stop smoking too, and now they're prescribing it for add as well go figure... it works pretty well though.

joe52985
08-18-2001, 06:33 AM
wow, they are setting their kids up for failure like that, its almost like you telling you kids to take the blame off them for their own actions and behaviors. "little johnny you just threw mommy across the room but it must be the add insted of your huge attitude problem, go take a pill"

El Scorcho
08-18-2001, 03:11 PM
Originally posted by DarkFury

Originally posted by Apex

He was lucky enough to have caught the attention of the GAM who gives a "rats ass". I told the GAM's that moving the thread is a courtesy, simply deleting the threads of people who lack the ability to post in the right forums is ok as well.

Hiya Apex!

Yeah... well as of late, we have been getting in some really "uninformed" n00bies who think they can just run into our forums (actually YOUR forums... but I kinda feel like it is an online "home away from home :) ) and say whatever to whomever and expect everyone to just "like it" or "deal with it".

I ain't gonna name names here (I'm sure everyone KNOWS who I am talkin' about :angry: ) however maybe "the rules" should be posted somewhere prominent, so that when someone steps WAY outta line, we can point them to the sign over the door... instead have having to argue with them (not that I am gonna let someone put me out there without some sort of response/retaliation.)

Personally, I think some of those "unnecessary duplicate posts" in the wrong forums should be deleted. Not to say delete posts that are unintentionally left in the wrong forum, however people know when they are doing something wrong and when you call them out on it, they should be gracious enough to accept what is being said without getting indignant, especially if the alert is not posted with "extreme prejudice and sarcasm" :hehehmm:.

Anyways... keep up the good work Apex. We all realize that you guys have a hard enough job as it is... and we really don't wanna make that any harder due to people being stupid or inconsiderate. Take care man. :thumbup:

hey man i know we aint been gettin along real well but cmon the past is behind us man... i know you guys were just tryin to help me:

"all im sayin is itd be nice.... hey cmon man i know yous just tryin to help me out there...i was just worried bout troy" -conrad, 3 kings

but ne ways sorry man... can we still be friends? haha

El Scorcho
08-18-2001, 03:13 PM
hey joe man, dont shoot up the school man cause you sound pretty pissed. You should learn kung fu or some **** and then you can REALLY whoop some @$$

oblongmelon
08-19-2001, 07:38 AM
EXCERPTS FROM BILL GATES BOOK-BUSINESS @ THE SPEED OF THOUGHT..
RULES FOR LIFE..


RULE 1. Life isn't fair,get used to it.
RULE 2. The world won't care about your self esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself..

RULE 4. If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. He doesn't have tenure.
...
...
RULE 11. BE NICE TO NERDS..CHANCES ARE YOU MAY END UP WORKING FOR ONE!

moral of the story....Geeks are cool and make gozillions of dollars in the end..hang tight,you'll be fine.

aglio412
08-20-2001, 02:48 PM
plain and simple...high school sucks. go to college...see what life is really about...

then when you sober up...

you'll realize, you're the only person that matters...make yourself happy, and try to have some fun. i used to get so stressed and upset about everyone around me...til one day, it just didn't matter anymore.

be true to who you are and what you want to do...

everything else falls into place

El Scorcho
08-21-2001, 12:29 AM
Originally posted by oblongmelon
moral of the story....Geeks are cool and make gozillions of dollars in the end..hang tight,you'll be fine.

yeah most geeks DO make gozillions...then again, most geeks (Bill Gates for example) score perfect scores on their sats. So if i were you joe, either stop being a geek, or stop failing... at least that way youll either feel better or suffer as a geek, then make a jillion dollars.

sho.gun
08-22-2001, 01:55 AM
man, you have it tough. Whatever you do, just be yourself. It's the most important lesson I've ever learned in my 4 years of HS. Don't give a **** if people call you names, sure it hurts, tell them to F*CK off. Some schools just plain sucks, too much peer pressure, too many kids with **** for brains, you just gotta step back and think that you are also another kid with a lot of years ahead of him, deserving of every right and respect the others are. As for the academics, you just need the discipline to do the work (you do the homework right?). Hang in there man.