Bad timing...Chicks....and other crap

[cruelpupet]

I seriously hate having bad timing...

I met an amazing girl when I came back to school, unfortunatly she has been seeing someone for the past 2 months (he is back home). Why cant she break up with him already...GRRR!!!!


:(

Now Im depressed.....s***!

[cruelpupet]

Plus even after 2 months, Im not sure exactly how she feels about me. She used to flirt with me constantly, but since then she has found out and stopped being as flirty.


She still tortures me though...like asking me what she should wear the next day and trying on outfits while im in her room...showing me nude photos of her...etc...

[cruelpupet]

Oh she's also the reason I stopped posting here (incase anyo of you have wondered where I have been)....cause im generally in her room instead of being on my PC...so you might see more of me soon.

[welfareloser]

Originally posted by cruelpupet
Plus even after 2 months, Im not sure exactly how she feels about me. She used to flirt with me constantly, but since then she has found out and stopped being as flirty.


She still tortures me though...like asking me what she should wear the next day and trying on outfits while im in her room...showing me nude photos of her...etc...

she likes you. she stopped flirting when she found out you liked her because a) she now knows she doesn't have to work so hard to hook you and b) she needs to at least pretend to be loyal to the bf.

you don't ask a guy what you should wear if you don't like him quite a bit. and you SURE as hell don't change in front of him unless you want him to accidentally grab somethin. i understand she is pretending that she is just casual and cool, but if she was just casual and didn't care what you saw, SHE WOULD ASK YOU FIRST IF IT MADE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE. she's not asking 'cause she wants you to see. you oughtta just tell her, if you ever get mr. bf outn the way, i'm here for you, and if you don't feel that way, that's cool, still friends, no pressure.

[Kim]

I think she likes you, but maybe wants you to make the first move?? Good luck!

[Anck Su Namun]

Originally posted by cruelpupet
showing me nude photos of her...etc...

sheesh! What a slut

[topane]

She could also be feeding her own ego and farking with yours. Ignore her, or at least pay less attention to her. Then you'll see if she really likes you.

[welfareloser]

whoa!!! somehow i missed the part with the nude photos. tha's a bit f'ed up. not that it's slutty, per se, imo, but... really just a very odd thing to do. and topane has an excellent point. she could have every intention of staying with the bf and using you as an ego-boosting tool.

[LPMiller]

she might think you are gay.

Or as Oliver Wilde might say, she thinks you are Ernest in Town, Jack in the Country.

[g222leav]

i've come to the conclusion that for what ever reason it may be, us guys tend to make it difficult for ourselves when trying to find a "girl" we always "like" the ones that have a bf or have some other disfunction which will prevent us from getting together. usually some ******* boyfriend who we think we can treat her better.

just my thought. oh yea, and if theirs nude pics. get some hard copies, they can come in use later in life....(p.s. email me some):naughty:

[cruelpupet]

Originally posted by nefertiti


sheesh! What a slut



WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!!!! and they werent complete nudes

[cruelpupet]

Originally posted by g222leav
i've come to the conclusion that for what ever reason it may be, us guys tend to make it difficult for ourselves when trying to find a "girl" we always "like" the ones that have a bf or have some other disfunction which will prevent us from getting together. usually some ******* boyfriend who we think we can treat her better.

just my thought. oh yea, and if theirs nude pics. get some hard copies, they can come in use later in life....(p.s. email me some):naughty:


I liked her before i found out about the BF, and unfortunatly this BF isnt an *******, the one before him was.

[Anck Su Namun]

Originally posted by cruelpupet




WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!!!! and they werent complete nudes I'm sorry, but that is not a thing a decent girl would do. Plus you shouldn't put up with her teasing you like that.

[cruelpupet]

Originally posted by welfareloser
whoa!!! somehow i missed the part with the nude photos. tha's a bit f'ed up. not that it's slutty, per se, imo, but... really just a very odd thing to do. and topane has an excellent point. she could have every intention of staying with the bf and using you as an ego-boosting tool.


I hope im not just an ego boosting tool...I dont enjoy being used....it would suck if that happened again (i thought i got rid f that **** in HS)

[cruelpupet]

Originally posted by nefertiti
I'm sorry, but that is not a thing a decent girl would do. Plus you shouldn't put up with her teasing you like that.


you sure??? cause i have indecent photos of a few of my female friends...posing in underwear...flashing the camera...etc...

[Anck Su Namun]

Originally posted by cruelpupet



you sure??? cause i have indecent photos of a few of my female friends...posing in underwear...flashing the camera...etc...

SHEESH.

[The Happy Squirrel]

ya wanna know bad timing

one day after i decided to leave school
i met this incrediable awesome, beautiful, smart, funny, jsut all around perfect girl
and wanna know the bad timing part?? she accually likes me

it wierdcuase i mean there are some really strange this that i like and jsut a general weirdness to me and she knows all the things i do

like ill mention some obstract movie quote when its relavant to the situation and shhell know exactly what im talking bout

she loves video games and compters and and action movies isnt into dresses and being some little princess
shes jsut so perfect
<or maybe its just the freshmen blood i smell, hehe j/k>

damnit!!!

[Nanotech9]

Cruel, THS, and i all have "issues" i think :upset:

Cruel, invite her to dinner, after your done, take her home and tell her thansk for the date. and buy her a duzen roses, red, thornless. Suprise the hell outta her and watch the expression on her face. if she acts all cool and and thanks you, great. If she's suprised and is like, no no no, I couldnt do that to my BF blah blah blah... then too bad.

THS, Stay in the town where the school is, get a job, get your girl, then when shes done w/ school, movew, if you dont like you job.

Me, well, I'll just keep hanging out w/ Heather, and see what happens. Maybe Having a boat this summer will make for some nice "alone time" to talk and maybe get a little romantic :naughty:

[Mike_N_Ike]

Cruelpupet, Unless you want get with this girl so she can start flirting with other guys, showing them "nude" pictures of her and changing in front of em, drop it. People don't change like that. Trust me.

[cruelpupet]

Originally posted by Mike_N_Ike
Cruelpupet, Unless you want get with this girl so she can start flirting with other guys, showing them "nude" pictures of her and changing in front of em, drop it. People don't change like that. Trust me.


good point....i dont get jealous like that...but in a way your right

[Twilight]

Originally posted by Mike_N_Ike
Cruelpupet, Unless you want get with this girl so she can start flirting with other guys, showing them "nude" pictures of her and changing in front of em, drop it. People don't change like that. Trust me.
He's right. You say she's in a relationship with a guy who isn't an *******, so let's assume the relationship is a good one... well, not quite if she's spending tons of time with another guy, sending him semi-nude pics, changing clothes in front of him, etc. If she were to dump this guy and get in a relationship with you, what's to say she's not going to find another guy to take your current place. She feeds off the attention, and it sounds like one guy can't give her enough. There is the small chance that she can't get enough attention from her BF because he doesn't live there, but if you were her BF would you want to have to stay within eyesight all the time to make sure she's not teasing some other guy?

[sho.gun]

Cruelpupet, I'm going to have to agree with Twilight and the others th who thinks that she is a bit unethical to show semi-nude pictures of herself to other guys when she has a bf. Does her bf know she does this? Does he know that she changes in front of other guys? If not, what would he think if he found out? What would you think if you're in his shoes?

THS, geez man I'm was in the same situation as you are. 2 years ago I went to a Mission Trip to Roatan, a small tropical island in Honduras, with my school. During the trip I met this girl, she was the funniest/weirdest/nonsensical person I have ever met, needless to say we kinda clicked. We became real close friends, to the point that maybe dating would risk the friendship. It's rare to find a girl who isn't into dresses, n'sync or other boybands, loves video games, into computers. I seriously believed that one day I'm gonna marry her, I thought she was my soulmate. But things happen, I graduate, we never dated, and now she's a Jr. in HS while I'm a Freshman in a university. We told each other that we'll do stuff in the weekends, keep in touch etc. but as of right now I haven't talked to her in a while and I think we're drifting apart. Dammit this sucks, I automatically compare every girl I meet to her and they are just blown away by her. She's going to England to study there when she graduates next year. I can't help but think that I've let slip out of my hands the most amazing person in the world, but who knows what God has planned. Love is a weird thing, she showed me love and I'll always love her. As of right now I'm trying to stop thinking about it, if any of my friends read this post or even she does (she's registered here but never visits) I hope that all will turn out well in the end.

[welfareloser]

awwwww, sho.gun ...

if you need some corny inspiration, go rent the movie "say anything" ...

then go tell her that you don't want to let her slip through your fingers. you don't have a lot to lose esp if you're drifting anyway. you have a lot to gain.