View Full Version : i may disappear for a while...
welfareloser
10-14-2001, 01:20 PM
because you're all pissin me off!! :mad:
j/k
the inevitable has come to a head, divorce is imminent, and of course it can't go smoothly, and it's now looking like i may not have access to my home for a week or two. everything oughtta calm down a bit in a few weeks. thank you all for being a part of my happy place, and i will be back as soon as possible.
oblongmelon
10-14-2001, 01:23 PM
Originally posted by welfareloser
because you're all pissin me off!! :mad:
j/k
the inevitable has come to a head, divorce is imminent, and of course it can't go smoothly, and it's now looking like i may not have access to my home for a week or two. everything oughtta calm down a bit in a few weeks. thank you all for being a part of my happy place, and i will be back as soon as possible.
Good luck W.L..I'll keep the coffee on. :)...see you in a few.
g222leav
10-14-2001, 01:23 PM
whwhwh wha wha what???
and just as i was heading off to shampoo!
hope things get better, not hope it doesn't get icky...
chrissy
10-14-2001, 01:28 PM
take care of you and the lil' evil one.
I have been there and done that. The little one is what matters most.
zenbooty
10-14-2001, 01:45 PM
Let me know if you need any "special assistance" if things get too nasty for any reason. Don't know what you're up against exactly, but it sounds pretty serious. Take care of yourself and your kid.
cruelpupet
10-14-2001, 01:45 PM
good luck welfare....and try not to let him take the PC in the divorce ;)
Jihforce
10-14-2001, 01:59 PM
Hope things work out for ya!
Your presence here will be missed for sure. :D
Take care!
ArkiStan
10-14-2001, 02:11 PM
Wow, I never would've told that you were going through such a time by your posts. Please take good care of the young one and yourself. And of course, please come back soon. Hope everything works out smoothly. It can't be an easy time for you right now.
Nanotech9
10-14-2001, 02:47 PM
Originally posted by chosenfool
geez, welfare, hope it pans out alright for you, and it isnt a VERY messy divorce.
keep up the good spirits - that should get you through.
^---- What he said.
BrewMaster
10-14-2001, 04:03 PM
Originally posted by zenbooty
Let me know if you need any "special assistance" if things get too nasty for any reason. Don't know what you're up against exactly, but it sounds pretty serious. Take care of yourself and your kid.
That makes two of us welfare. We've got your back if you need us. Sorry things have to go this way. I hope the little one gets all the best through this mess. Make sure you talk to him about it cuz it will come back to mess with him later if you don't (Trust me). Don't just assume he's ok, talk to him about it or let him draw and talk to you about it to express his feelings. Best wishes welfare.
-The Brew
g222leav
10-14-2001, 04:05 PM
Originally posted by BrewMaster
That makes two of us welfare. We've got your back if you need us. Sorry things have to go this way. I hope the little one gets all the best through this mess. Make sure you talk to him about it cuz it will come back to mess with him later if you don't (Trust me). Don't just assume he's ok, talk to him about it or let him draw and talk to you about it to express his feelings. Best wishes welfare.
-The Brew
hey hey hey, back off guys, i'm only 3 hours away...can you top that??? i think i know who she'll be calling for support!
(it's me right welfare...*wink wink*)
Markel
10-14-2001, 06:16 PM
Take care, welfare. Hope things work out ok for you.
Good luck welfare...we're here if you need some shoulders...:)
welfareloser
10-14-2001, 06:59 PM
just an update... still here. he was kicking me and evilgremlin out (took away my apartment key), but it looks like he has left instead. still has my key, but a friend let me know that he is looking for his own apartment tomorrow afternoon. hopefully the really intense ugliness will be over with soon. if he does show up in a rage again, i have the car packed and directions to the women's shelter. ;)
and, cruelpupet, we have two pc's, and he can have the good one; i'll still manage to get my g|a fix...
g222leav
10-14-2001, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by welfareloser
hopefully the really intense ugliness will be over with soon. if he does show up in a rage again, i have the car packed and directions to the women's shelter. ;)
if it's that serious, that's not cool at all. we're all here though!
DoPeY5007
10-14-2001, 07:18 PM
wow
I feel for you
good luck
Marrage life is strange
g222leav
10-14-2001, 07:23 PM
Originally posted by DoPeY5007
Marrage life is strange
you we're married too, is this comment based of experience or observation???
Markel
10-14-2001, 07:25 PM
Originally posted by welfareloser
and, cruelpupet, we have two pc's, and he can have the good one; i'll still manage to get my g|a fix...
Just have all your manuscripts on both of them. I'm sure you've got them backed up multiple times.
DoPeY5007
10-14-2001, 07:30 PM
Originally posted by g222leav
you we're married too, is this comment based of experience or observation???
yes I am going through a divorse
g222leav
10-14-2001, 07:32 PM
Originally posted by DoPeY5007
yes I am going through a divorse
oh, i thought i had read that you went through one not goin through one...*bad reading skills*
sorry,
DoPeY5007
10-14-2001, 07:35 PM
Originally posted by g222leav
oh, i thought i had read that you went through one not goin through one...*bad reading skills*
sorry,
they just take forever :mad3: :angry: :woo:
chrissy
10-14-2001, 07:38 PM
No kidding, Dopey!
I am glad I did it, but it made me a lot more careful the second time around.
poiselle
10-14-2001, 07:47 PM
I hope everything turns out okay. Don't take any chances with the little one in the house. If it gets to looking sketchy just head out. Best of luck and be careful.
speedracer120
10-14-2001, 08:01 PM
Teach him a lesson if you have to, and always be careful.
We'll be missing you. Hurry back soon.
jujubees
10-14-2001, 09:30 PM
Take care of yourself and the little munchkin. Keep that chin up!
everyone knows that welfare is a good friend of mine. of course i feel for her and will do whatever i can for her. i will also miss her.
that said....
i have to say this: i will take this kinda personally. in my divorce, my wife went around talking about me and everyone took her side. you know why? they heard her side first....i wasnt there to defend myself. of course when friends take your side without hearing the whole story, they don't necessarily consider all views. i never talked about it much, because i don't want people to blindly take my side.
in short...be supportive of her, by all means. but don't trash people if you have no idea what's going on :|
g222leav
10-14-2001, 10:15 PM
good point mojo!
eSDee
10-14-2001, 10:26 PM
Sorry to hear the news welfare. But if it means you being happy in the long run, then it's a good thing. Keep your chin up.
Markel
10-15-2001, 07:26 AM
Originally posted by mojorisin
everyone knows that welfare is a good friend of mine. of course i feel for her and will do whatever i can for her. i will also miss her.
that said....
i have to say this: i will take this kinda personally. in my divorce, my wife went around talking about me and everyone took her side. you know why? they heard her side first....i wasnt there to defend myself. of course when friends take your side without hearing the whole story, they don't necessarily consider all views. i never talked about it much, because i don't want people to blindly take my side.
in short...be supportive of her, by all means. but don't trash people if you have no idea what's going on :|
That whole post bears repeating. Excellent! Man, someone putting something like that up here differentiates between just a place to chat and a place with real "value added".
attgig
10-15-2001, 07:41 AM
Hey welfare, dopey, and whoever else that may be going through this...
good luck & God bless..
and definitely what the others have said....the little one's the one that matters the most.....
:( Feelin a little sad that you all gotta go through a divorce, but I don't know your situation, so I wish you well through this, and I'll be prayin that this isn't too messy of a split, and that things afterwards are better not only for you, but for the one on the other side and for your kid....
welfareloser
10-15-2001, 09:50 AM
Originally posted by mojorisin
don't trash people if you have no idea what's going on :|
what he said. :)
DoPeY5007
10-15-2001, 09:58 AM
Thank you....
it is hard on the kids but I think my son is doing well
here is my story
Old Thread (http://www.gotapex.com/forums/showthread.php?threadid=23305&perpage=40&pagenumber=1)
I know it is only my side, but my little bro knows it all and posted in there as well
Grimm
10-15-2001, 10:12 AM
Welfare, good luck.
Remember to get everything in writing. Remember lawers are expensive, but it's more expensive not to have one!
Oh, he has your key, but if you are on the lease, you can have the super let you in, then have the locks changed.
welfareloser
10-15-2001, 10:16 AM
Originally posted by Grimm
Welfare, good luck.
Remember to get everything in writing. Remember lawers are expensive, but it's more expensive not to have one!
Oh, he has your key, but if you are on the lease, you can have the super let you in, then have the locks changed.
he came in last night around 2 am and quietly left my key. he really is committed to handling this in a reasonable manner, but he is really hurt right now because he doesn't understand why no matter how many times i try to explain it to him. i'm sure there will be some more wackiness here and there, but i think it will be reasonably okay.
Speedfreak
10-15-2001, 10:30 AM
Originally posted by welfareloser
he came in last night around 2 am and quietly left my key. he really is committed to handling this in a reasonable manner, but he is really hurt right now because he doesn't understand why no matter how many times i try to explain it to him. i'm sure there will be some more wackiness here and there, but i think it will be reasonably okay.
That sounds good. Hopefully it will stay sane as you think it is right now.
I too wish you well and good luck in this hard situation.
g222leav
10-15-2001, 06:27 PM
Originally posted by welfareloser
he came in last night around 2 am and quietly left my key. he really is committed to handling this in a reasonable manner, but he is really hurt right now because he doesn't understand why no matter how many times i try to explain it to him. i'm sure there will be some more wackiness here and there, but i think it will be reasonably okay.
sounds good...btw we care wl
LPMiller
10-15-2001, 08:14 PM
Originally posted by mojorisin
everyone knows that welfare is a good friend of mine. of course i feel for her and will do whatever i can for her. i will also miss her.
that said....
i have to say this: i will take this kinda personally. in my divorce, my wife went around talking about me and everyone took her side. you know why? they heard her side first....i wasnt there to defend myself. of course when friends take your side without hearing the whole story, they don't necessarily consider all views. i never talked about it much, because i don't want people to blindly take my side.
in short...be supportive of her, by all means. but don't trash people if you have no idea what's going on :|
Sure, suck the fun right out of divorce, why don't you.
Sorry WF, hope, when it's all over, things are better for you. Also, I hope a really hunky man...or woman, I make no judgements...comes over during this trying time and gives you the....um....just try to have some fun when you can.
welfareloser
10-15-2001, 11:44 PM
Originally posted by LPM
I hope a really hunky man...comes over during this trying time and gives you the....um....just try to have some fun when you can.
ah, the man just puts it all inperspective doesn't he? ;)
Originally posted by LPM
Sure, suck the fun right out of divorce, why don't you.
Sorry WF, hope, when it's all over, things are better for you. Also, I hope a really hunky man...or woman, I make no judgements...comes over during this trying time and gives you the....um....just try to have some fun when you can.
i didnt suck the fun out of divorce...it sucked the...nm
ooh ya, girl on rebound! i wonder if she can pencil me in for next wednesday......
BrewMaster
10-16-2001, 12:54 AM
Originally posted by welfareloser
he came in last night around 2 am and quietly left my key. he really is committed to handling this in a reasonable manner, but he is really hurt right now because he doesn't understand why no matter how many times i try to explain it to him. i'm sure there will be some more wackiness here and there, but i think it will be reasonably okay.
I don't know if this means anything to you WL, but I've been and I will continue to pray for you and the family. You're a good kid. We need more like ya. Take care of the gremlin.
-The Brew
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