dayum... 3 and a half hour phone call....

[Nanotech9]

that i just got off of with my friend in colorado. (yeah, the one that wont date me).

Started at 11pm, i had my front passenger car seat in the house and started cleaning ti, and was like "Hey, I'll call karis. I need someone to talk to when i clean my car seat" (i was detailing the car today - it was that seats turn this month to get cleaned)

so i called her, (thankfully i have an earphone for my cellphone) and 3 hours later i'm sitting in my car's seat, in the middle of my living room floor, talking to her still (thank god that seat is comfy, and reclines :D ). a half your after that my battery started dying :heh:

I'm not even sure what all we talked about... just stuff i guess. but everytime i get off the phone w/ her i'm like "dayum, shes perfect for me... too bad." and then i have to go play "American Woman" from good old Lenny.

she keeps goign through B.F.'s, and i keep predicting (telling her) about how long each one will last, and if the guy is good or bad, her type or not, etc. I'm right every time too. I told her this last one wasnt her "type", and she asked me tonight "what her type was". It was all i could do to not say "ME! I'm your type!" hehe. Geez, I'm all the good points in all the other guys, and none of the bad points, i love her parents, and they love me, i mean its like were the perfect fit, but i guess i messed up at the very beginning.

well, i'm just "dumping" here... sorry. I'm a little blue right now. I need to stop playing Lenny Kravitz, and play some Ozzy!

[Nanotech9]

man, i think you and me have issues, or something....

funny thing is, i'm more at ease with K. than with any other girl in the world. shes ALMOST (almost) a sister, except i throw in a lot of teasing, thats more suited to a bf/gf relationship, than a bro/sis situation.

for a little while there she was rude and stuff to me (she didnt realize it at the time) and i just kept being a friend and stuff, and (in the last two calls) she musta've apologized 10 or 15 times for being a "jerk".

i cant sleep. :(

[IrishSS]

grrr... women.. they need to get their head outta their arses and realize what they've got right in front of them...

[mojo]

so i guess this makes me the huge sucker to have these phone calls....

this girl calls me on the mobile phone...4 hours one day....3 hours the next....3.5 the next.....3.5 the next....

but hey! who's counting?!?

thing of it is, I'M COUNTING! SHE'S USING MY MINUTES!!!

meanwhile, in between, the princess calls me for about the same times...but she's different :love:

(btw, i thought that "american woman" was written during the war, and in reference to the statue of liberty....like in the calling of young men to war at that time)

[welfareloser]

yeah... i sit and talk to my guy for hours... we started watching movies yesterday afternoon, and then about 9 pm turned the tv off and just taked until 130 am... about all kinds of random things. music, fights we'd been in during grade school, how we chose our tattoos, our current "significant other situations" (understatement of the year in quotes, but surprisingly enough, that one was a minor topic...) i love those looooooong talks when you first really start falling for someone...

so, things we now know about clayton:

he has siblings older than my mom
his dad was a tugboat captain, plays the fiddle and guitar, drinks red dog
his sister has the same unnatural attachment to all things chocolate and peanut butter that i have
the first girl who kissed him also beat the crap out of him in 2nd grade
he hates jazz (here comes mojo :smash: )
he spent a summer in belize
i will be helping him cook thanksgiving dinner for 80 ppl in the international club :eek:

but, yeah, i know your pain, nano... and we had long phone calls for a year or two before we got to this point... so hang in there... maturity may solve all your problems one of these days... (not that i would know anything about that...)

[theorangeone]

i had a couple of 4-5 hour conversations with a guy who was my best friend freshman year in college. the first really long conversation was the longest, and the most ironic- he was only a building away. but he wasn't allowed to come over and hang out cause i had to pack. i could pack and talk on the phone, but if he came over then i wouldn't have packed. we kept up having long (long distance) conversations throughout the summer. he was really cool until his gf (high school sweetheart) decided we shouldn't be friends anymore because i was too much of a threat. then the phone calls stopped.

[Jenny]

*sigh* I remember that feeling. :( lol When my hubby & I met online (do all of you know that story?), we emailed for about a week before we finally talked on the phone. About 2 weeks later, we started talking around 8:00. Around 11:00, when my roommate wanted to go to bed, I took my blanket and pillow into the hall and was there until 2:30. (I was in a dorm.) We finally decided that since I had a 8:00 class and he had a 7:30 lab, we should get off the phone. lol

Then, one of my best friends that I met here (overclocked :) ), he & I have talked on the phone for a long time several times. lol I hate looking at my phone bill. *gasp*

[Nanotech9]

i guess that makes me feel a little better.... a little :) THANKS :)

oh yeah, btw, ya gotta do the call the smart way... i've got 1000 nights and weekends free on the cell w/ as much long distance as i want (up to the 1000min). :D :heh:

[brainsmile]

Originally posted by theorangeone
he was really cool until his gf (high school sweetheart) decided we shouldn't be friends anymore because i was too much of a threat. then the phone calls stopped.

I wonder... was she right?

[Burzhui]

8 hour phone call once.... don't ask :shake:

[welfareloser]

Originally posted by Burzhui
8 hour phone call once.... don't ask :shake:

wow. i have to ask... who was it, at least? lolita?

[Burzhui]

Originally posted by welfareloser


wow. i have to ask... who was it, at least? lolita?

No, it was way before lolita, it was a girl though :naughty:

[attgig]

Originally posted by welfareloser
i will be helping him cook thanksgiving dinner for 80 ppl in the international club :eek:

:eek2: :eek3: :bigeyes: :munch:

[OC]

Originally posted by theorangeone
he was really cool until his gf (high school sweetheart) decided we shouldn't be friends anymore because i was too much of a threat. then the phone calls stopped.

Wow. I could really get on my soapbox and kvetch about insecure women and the guys that themselves get pushed around, but I won't...

I've been there too Nano - maybe this should have been a Suckage post! ;) All in all, if I know that nothing romantic is ever going to happen with the woman I'd rather not have the phone calls and put myself through the emotional pain. If there IS a chance, then it's worth the "hurt" risk. My 2 cents.

-OC

[brain]

14.5 hours. Has any other guy done that?

[Burzhui]

Originally posted by freakinfreak
14.5 hours. Has any other guy done that?
u sure you aren't a girl?

[brain]

Originally posted by Burzhui

u sure you aren't a girl?

*Looking down*

Yup. I'm sure.

[Burzhui]

Originally posted by freakinfreak


*Looking down*

Yup. I'm sure.

Maybe it's the ambilical chord???

[brain]

Originally posted by Burzhui


Maybe it's the ambilical chord???

Riiiiiight. I just happened to run into another individual (of the female persuasion) that I had a lot in common with. It did start to add up to a lot of talking... Average of 5-6 hours a day.

[mojo]

maybe i forgot to mention that i don't really like the 4 hour phone call girl that much. in fact, that is why i mentioned my minutes! it was 4 hours of me trying to get rid of her. i wouldnt call her...she had to call me, because it's long distance and all, which is not in my plan :P

i actually had a few 8+ hour calls with my ex wife before we got married. i liked those :D . and the ones with the princess....well, those, too :love: . she can call me any time she wants, for any duration ;)

now, welfare....what's this i hear about jed not liking jazz?are we talking about the same stuff? if he means that kenny g stuff...that's not jazz. if he means dizzy gillespie and stuff...then what is wrong with him :mad3:

[Grimm]

Originally posted by Burzhui
8 hour phone call once.... don't ask :shake:


Originally posted by Burzhui
No, it was way before lolita, it was a girl though

Wow, 8 hours, at 3.95 a minute comes to $1896!!!
You should stay away from those sex lines Burzhui:nono:, how can you afford it?
:heh:

[Burzhui]

Originally posted by Grimm




Wow, 8 hours, at 3.95 a minute comes to $1896!!!
You should stay away from those sex lines Burzhui:nono:, how can you afford it?
:heh:

Relax, i get the frequent caller points, plus your mom gives me discounts :hehehmm:

[Grimm]

Originally posted by Burzhui


Relax, i get the frequent caller points, plus your mom gives me discounts

My mom is a "heavy set" white haired grandmother. You have some really freaky kinks Burzhui.

[Burzhui]

Originally posted by Grimm


My mom is a "heavy set" white haired grandmother. You have some really freaky kinks Burzhui.
hey hey, relax there buddy, doesn't mean that at an old age a woman can't be beautiful... right???



Of course you do understand that it was just a silly joke, and no offense was meant to you or your mother right?

:angel:

[Grimm]

Originally posted by Burzhui

hey hey, relax there buddy, doesn't mean that at an old age a woman can't be beautiful... right???



Of course you do understand that it was just a silly joke, and no offense was meant to you or your mother right?

:angel:

Hey I don't care, I was just pointing out what you were really saying. I don't take offense when someone insults my mother. She's a big girl, she can take care of herself. God help anyone she is pissed at. My mother is the most feared person in our extended family. The "Black sheep" in our family who would rob their own mothers wouldn't dare cross mine. We had a second cousin who was a dignosed sociopath. He made it clear that he would never mess with my mother and went out of his way not to antagonize her. It was out of respect, he knew she was dangerous.
I watch movies and see people playing psyco moms and think, what's so strange about that? Aren't all moms like that?

[revil]

Originally posted by chosenfool
heh! ive done 5 hours before with this one woman....
WHAT'S YOUR SECRET?!

[theorangeone]

Originally posted by brainsmile


I wonder... was she right?

i didn't think so. i mean, he was a great great guy, but he was so in love with her. then he went and wrote this poem, which he didn't send to directly too me but i eventually got from others (i can't really describe, but i'll look for it. if i can find it, i'll post it).

anyhow, after 3 months of not talking to me, he finally got some balls and we kind of started hanging out again. it wasn't the same tho, since i had lost a lot of respect for him. he ended up marrying her. shes a bi-atch (and i'm not the only one who thinks that).

[mojo]

haha! i managed to do just an hour and 15 min today with the girl i don't like! i am improving :P

[sho.gun]

last night i talked for 4 hours to a friend of mine, which only left me with 3 hours of sleep. But now, oddly enough I'm feeling uppity up and I'm not even sleepy.

[theorangeone]

Originally posted by theorangeone

then he went and wrote this poem, which he didn't send to directly too me but i eventually got from others (i can't really describe, but i'll look for it. if i can find it, i'll post it).


here it is:

How do you say
"I love you"
to the one you're
not supposed to love?

How can you say
"I want you"
to the one you're
not allowed to want?

How can there ever
be anything more
than tension
between the two of you?

How does it feel
to love someone,
to be sure you're going to
marry her
live with her
happily ever after,

And yet be aware of that
Other Person,
the One You Cannot Touch,
always at the back of your mind?

[Nanotech9]

yep