View Full Version : SS: g-parents divorce after parents divorced almost 4 years ago
03-11-2002, 02:38 AM
That sucks. hopefull well learn from the mistakes of our parents.
03-11-2002, 07:10 PM
dude, that sucks. hope you're feeling ok about it.....bitch to us if you need someone to listen to you.
Originally posted by whitak24
dude, that sucks. hope you're feeling ok about it.....bitch to us if you need someone to listen to you. :stupid:
My rents did the big D back in '80, then it was my turn not too long ago. Yeah, feel free to bitch if you need to.
03-12-2002, 01:29 AM
Damn, sorry to hear about that. Divorces suck.
I hope if I ever get married it will be forever.
03-14-2002, 11:28 PM
I will never marry (stupid idealism of a 21 year old). But until the time comes that I think otherwise, I WILL NEVER MARRY!:D
03-15-2002, 01:53 AM
my folks divorced when i was six...messed me up for a while...
sorry to hear about your grandparents cpu...don't know what else to say.
03-16-2002, 01:14 AM
I always wondered why folks would do that after being married so long? (I'm assuming). Then I got married my ownself - and it is a lot clearer. There is never a simple answer, and no one is ever completely at fault.
Take care to try and deal with your anger - you have every right to be angry - and then move on. It does no good to be stuck always p1ssed off. I would encourage you to try and keep from taking sides, and show everyone that you care for them all. You also have the right to tell one speaking ugly about the other that you don't want to hear, and to remove yourself if it starts happening.
Don't hesitate to find someone to talk to if you need it - I know several folks on the boards would be more than happy to help. I would also be willing to listen and talk, as I have seen a lot on both sides. I spent several months in counseling with my daughter during ours. Drop me a PM, and I can give you a better address to contact me.
My prayers are with you and your family, my friend
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