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sbp
04-25-2002, 03:24 AM
http://www.washingtontimes.com/business/20020425-58000830.htm

NEW YORK (AP) — Starting next year, boys will get to punch the clock, too.

After a decade of successfully promoting "Take Our Daughters To Work Day," its feminist organizers said they will open the annual event to sons as well.

Today will be the 10th and final daughters-only day. In April 2003, the Ms. Foundation for Women will promote "Take Our Daughters & Sons To Work Day."

"It's a work in progress in terms of the details, but not in terms of the aim, which is creating truly equitable work places," Marie Wilson, the foundation president, said in an interview Tuesday.

She said the initiative, like its predecessor, would highlight career opportunities, but also would include an emphasis on the challenges of balancing work and family. Background materials for the program will be distributed to businesses and schools this fall.

Begun in 1993, Take Our Daughters To Work Day caught on in many communities, often with the backing of employers, civic leaders and school officials. Millions of families have participated, and the program has been praised for expanding the career aspirations of many girls.

The decision to include boys in the program disappointed Nell Merlino, who worked with the Ms. Foundation to create Take Our Daughters To Work Day.

"The day has never been something against boys — it's pro-girl," said Ms. Merlino, a New York-based consultant. "It's eight hours where girls get a special kind of attention they don't get the rest of the time."

The National Organization for Women, a staunch supporter of Take Our Daughters To Work, had argued in the past against including sons.

"Treating boys and girls as if they face identical constraints and opportunities fails to address either boys' or girls' realities," a recent NOW statement said.

Ms. Wilson said the Ms. Foundation hopes the program will encourage girls and boys to think about inequities at work and the competing demands of work and family. Most men want a family friendly work schedule, and yet the public finds it more acceptable for fathers to work overtime than mothers, she said.

Despite its success, Take Our Daughters To Work Day encountered occasional opposition. One conservative group, the Clare Boothe Luce Policy Institute, called it a "stealth feminist holiday that breeds victimology in girls."

Officials in Fostoria, Ohio, disavowed the April event two years ago and instead encouraged boys and girls to join their parents at work on a weekday after school recessed for the summer.

In California, a man filed a civil rights suit last month against the Sonoma County Board of Supervisors for its support of Take Our Daughters to Work Day, saying the event discriminates against boys.

The suit, filed by Joe Manthey in U.S. District Court, said public agencies cannot sponsor events that exclude participation based on sex. Sonoma County officials noted that, in addition to the daughters day, they also supported a coed Take Your Children To Work Day.

Ms. Wilson said the revision of the program was not a result of criticism or litigation.

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Feminists were supposed to be for equality and yet they exclude people-little boys at that. :dodgy:

whitak24
04-25-2002, 07:35 AM
since our firm is so progressive, we're ALREADY having a co-ed day :D

of course, only about 3 kids are showing up :heh:

sho.gun
04-25-2002, 07:45 AM
Originally posted by whitak24
since our firm is so progressive, we're ALREADY having a co-ed day :D

of course, only about 3 kids are showing up :heh:

hey whitak, can I come?:blush:

sho.gun
04-25-2002, 07:49 AM
Originally posted by cpugeek04

:stupid:

pleeeaaase, get me outta school and my track meet

umm... no... you're a freak so you get to stay in school and run, jump, etc.

See... cool kids don't go to school, only freaks. You get that? you're a freak!! muaaahahahahahahah I am a silly little boy, whitak should take me to his work, not you.

sho.gun
04-25-2002, 07:54 AM
Originally posted by cpugeek04

jee thanks sho, such a nice guy :thumbup:

sigh... i wish i can sue you :(

whitak24
04-25-2002, 08:07 AM
um, how about this guys?






i'll take you both!

i mean, sure, i'm a little young to have an 18-year-old and a 16-year-old as kids, but that's ok. you can come to downtown detroit, visit our office (which has a GREAT view of the magnificent detroit skyline), be completely bored, as NOTHING happens at our office here, and maybe even get free lunch! doesn't that sound like fun?

ground rules: cpu, no grabbing the girls' asses or other body parts. you may check them out, but only if you do so discretely. it's a professional environment -- i can't have my "kids" sexually harassing my cow-orkers. (and no asking them for dates. they're too old for you). sho, try to keep your random witty comments to one every half-hour or so. otherwise, they could be considered disruptive.

also, be sure to bring your bullet-proof vest, and make sure you don't have anything of too much value with you, in case you get mugged :heh:

ok, all set? excellent. "hi ho, hi ho, it's off to work we go...."

sho.gun
04-25-2002, 08:11 AM
Originally posted by whitak24


ok, all set? excellent. "hi ho, hi ho, it's off to work we go...."

:( you're so far awaaaaaay....

how about you come over here to So. Cal for today and umm.. work somewhere, then I can go with daddy whitak and observe.:)

whitak24
04-25-2002, 08:43 AM
Originally posted by sho.gun


:( you're so far awaaaaaay....

how about you come over here to So. Cal for today and umm.. work somewhere, then I can go with daddy whitak and observe.:)
actually, that sounds like a good idea. i'd rather be in so.cal than detroit (45 degrees and windy today)

Originally posted by cpugeek04

i can deal with that....but you gotta get me airfare, and can i ask for dates with daughters?
well, actually, by the time you got to the airport and got to detroit, the day would probably be over :(

as for dates with daughters, most of my cow-orkers are between 23 and 27 and most are not even married. so no luck there either.

pick up some chicks at your track meet today instead. that would probably be more successful.

sho.gun
04-25-2002, 06:41 PM
Originally posted by cpugeek04

and i was :D

sheep don't count...:rolleyes:

sho.gun
04-25-2002, 06:45 PM
Originally posted by cpugeek04

you want a few phone numbers? or email addys? i came home with 3 numbers and 2 addys :D

sure I guess... :D

attgig
04-25-2002, 07:00 PM
Originally posted by whitak24
since our firm is so progressive, we're ALREADY having a co-ed day :D

of course, only about 3 kids are showing up :heh:

we just had a co-ed day today too....

lotta kids showed up, and it was kinda annoying actually.... :(

Nija
04-25-2002, 07:59 PM
if they people at my work decided to bring the kids that didn't work there to work.. we would be over run with rugrats that would jabber in prolly every language.. but of course the only one i can understand. So i would just kick them when they got in my way. I know. I'm horrible.

Napoleon54
04-25-2002, 08:03 PM
Originally posted by sbp

"The day has never been something against boys — it's pro-girl," said Ms. Merlino, a New York-based consultant. "It's eight hours where girls get a special kind of attention they don't get the rest of the time."


riiiight.. that's about as logical as Mike Tyson saying "I'm not against women, I'm just pro-rape".


(Disclaimer: that's not an actual quote. I made it up to illustrate a point)

eSDee
04-25-2002, 08:53 PM
I don't think there was anything wrong with women bringing their daughters to work. I think it's a nice gesture to allow moms to bond with their little girls. However I think there should also be a boys day as well. I wouldn't say on the same day either, cuz if I were a little boy I'd be trying to hook up the whole day :naughty:

Dudes should chill me thinks.

whitak24
04-28-2002, 08:35 AM
Originally posted by cpugeek04

:nono: and that ain't no index finger....you want a few phone numbers? or email addys? i came home with 3 numbers and 2 addys :D (thanks for the traning df :thumbup: )
see, there you go! good job cpugeek! :)

cruelpupet
04-28-2002, 08:59 AM
Originally posted by Napoleon54


riiiight.. that's about as logical as Mike Tyson saying "I'm not against women, I'm just pro-rape".


(Disclaimer: that's not an actual quote. I made it up to illustrate a point)


are you sure about that?

I think Tyson said that a few years ago:D