wish you could date your employee?

[mojo]

i dated a girl that worked for me. it didn't turn out well :disa:

[mojo]

Originally posted by chosenfool

he's the jealous type too - and thinks im harmless! heh! so naive... :disa:his trust has to be in her...not in you. if something did happen, then it would ultimately be her responsibility...not yours. if she's the type to step out, then it would be you or just someone else. you're the variable here...she's the constant.

as for being the "jealous type," that's a different thing altogether. hopefully he can get a grip on that before it causes damage.

[g222leav]

Originally posted by mojo
i dated a girl that worked for me. it didn't turn out well :disa:

same here brother...that was my last one, left me a disaster...

my current gf, @ her workplace, it's a real cesspool...people hooking up left and right, i'm scared frankly. she gets hit on all the time. i try not to be jealous, so it's all good

[xsiled2]

does he want to be the bird in a huge coocoo clock?

[ribitch]

i attempted to once. We went on one day. I was trying to get over my current GF, and that kinda got in the way. my gf and i got back together, so nothing ever turned out from it.

[Nija]

....
I think I'm dating someone at work... totally different departments though...

[ribitch]

Originally posted by Nija
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I think I'm dating someone at work... totally different departments though...

how are you unsure?

[Nanotech9]

Originally posted by Nija
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I think I'm dating someone at work... totally different departments though...

you THINK!?!?!?! doh.

BTW chosen... the "just being friends" only works for a while... after a few months (maybe more or less) you'll end up either having to cool it off, ot crank it up, but it'll never work for very long as just friends.

[Nija]

Originally posted by ribitch


how are you unsure?

i.... don't..... know.....=\ :dodgy:

[molecularfire]

I think I'm dating someone at work... totally different departments though...

Are you not sure whether you're working for the same company or whether you guys are going out. I'll give you a hint... if your (whispers something here) then she deserves at least a meal out of it. Gotta keep up her strength after all. ;)


I'm a hypocrite on this. I believe that it is a very very bad thing to get involved with someone at work, especially if they work for you. That being said, my GF and I got involved when we were both working at the same lab. In fact, she did work for me for a while. We don't currently work together... although nothing bad came of it. We just both found better jobs, and then we both went back to school. :)

[whitak24]

i've never dated someone who was my employee.....

in general, i think it's bad for someone who is a direct supervisor to date someone who they supervise. same thing for someone who has firing/promotion power dating someone they have power over.

but if it's a manager in one department dating a new employee in a totally different department, i say it's no foul.

just keep things friendly, and then if she quits her job you can make a move :D

[ApltnHkyMutt]

yes.. i have this hot coworker that i just want to get in the sac with...

any pictures of these co-workers?

[Blu]

Choosenfool is chasing girls who "work" for him on a PT basis. I'm thinking the fool's a PIMP!! WOOOHOOOO!!!





;)

[Nanotech9]

choosen d00d - you realize you and me are like the same about dating and stuff... remember that girl in TX i was tryign to date?... she was too much like me, and it didnt work out.

lucky me i've done a great job at not getting too attracted to the two hot gals at work, especially since they're both basically engaged :eek2:

[attgig]

hmmm, my company's totally fine about relationships within workplace...

the managers are supposed to deal with conflict of interest, but I think there's enough diversity in jobs at my company that there doesn't always have to be a conflict of interest.

[molecularfire]

but theyre not married yet, right?

Doesn't matter IMO whether they're married or in a relationship (Note: I do NOT consider someone who is dating around to be in a relationship, just if they're serious/steady with the person they're with). If you just want to boink them, the who cares. If you want something serious, it won't work. If she can leave him for you, she can leave you for someone else. The trust wouldn't be there. :shrug:

[Ladogaboy]

Oh, hell no....

Even if I wasn't already in a relationship with the woman I am going to marry...

I work with a bunch of middle-aged women old enough to be my mother! :2far:

[whitak24]

Originally posted by Ladogaboy
Oh, hell no....

Even if I wasn't already in a relationship with the woman I am going to marry...

I work with a bunch of middle-aged women old enough to be my mother! :2far:
what, no MILFs?? :P

j/k

[g222leav]

Originally posted by chosenfool
well, during work this evening i mentioned i was famished and would like to leave on time to get dinner at the diner close to work. she mentioned if i was treating everyone, and i said, sure, everyone is invited and its on me, just get there. I was serious too. i didnt care, all i know is im hungry as hell. she mentioned she was hungry too, so it was even better im treating.
well after work, it seemed that everyone else isnt going but her. walking outside she asked "this isnt going to be like a date, is it?" Im like "f##k, no! im just hungry and i want to eat, so follow my car if you want to go."

she followed. :banghead:

well, nothing happened - we just ate steak, chit-chat about sex/relationships/dating/FBs/one-night-stands (shes a freak!). She asked about my plans for the fourth, i said i may go to penn's landing to take fireworks pics. I asked her back she said she has no plans. I Mentioned a singer songwriter festival i was going to in 3 weeks, she seemed interested. After the late dinner, I paid, as i said it was my treat. She said next time it was hers. Going to the car she said she WAS interested in the festival, so i invited her to go.
We got in our cars and went home.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sounds like highschool all over again

[molecularfire]

chosen's stuff

So... sounds like you had a nice evening with a friend, and may have another nice evening with her. What's the down side of that?

[Ladogaboy]

Originally posted by chosenfool
ehh, its BAD for me.
i like the girl, obviously, and the situation doesnt help me to NOT be involved in anything with her (other than professional). Im not one to shrug off a casual late dinner, or a consequent invitation to some gig, especially if its with someone im attracted to. This is like throwing a bucket of gasoline on the fire.

But look on the bright side... she's a freak!!! :naughty:

Haha, besides, chosen, if you keep it in the sac, the office shouldn't hear about it, right? right? :naughty:

[molecularfire]

Originally posted by chosenfool
ehh, its BAD for me.
i like the girl, obviously, and the situation doesnt help me to NOT be involved in anything with her (other than professional). Im not one to shrug off a casual late dinner, or a consequent invitation to some gig, especially if its with someone im attracted to. This is like throwing a bucket of gasoline on the fire.

Oh... I see. For me, it's the complete opposite. The best way for me to not get involved with someone is to become friends with them. That kinda draws a line for me that's really hard to cross.

[molecularfire]

Man... darn shame she moved. Personally, I could never do the FTF thing, (and not just because my GF would kill me). I do have friends that have FTFs and they all seem happy with the set-up. :D

[molecularfire]

That's cool. I build comps. for friends sometimes. No harm in it as long as you don't mind doing the tech. support. :)

[molecularfire]

Yeah... although it give the term "flashing her motherboard" a whole new meaning. :D

[brainsmile]

no updates lately eh?

[molecularfire]

Why? :confused: I mean I understand your predictament, but so far none of your actions would give the indication that you guys are anything but friends. It's not your desires that determine your character but your actions to them. :)

[brainsmile]

At this point are you still wanting just to be friends?

[molecularfire]

Men have two organs that control our actions, and only enough blood to fill one of them at any given moment. Nice to know that you're using the one that's higher up. :P

[Nanotech9]

Xgames? where at?

BTW, remember my coworker that they put her SUV up on blocks as a prank? she broke up with her 6-yr BF / Finacee a few weeks ago... sucks to be me now cause i wont let myself get involved, but DAMN she's hot and i want he soo bad :(

sucks d00d - and now i know it.

[xsiled2]

Originally posted by chosenfool
if you guys go, heh, you guys may see me there.

if you see--->http://xsiled.homestead.com/files/crow1.jpg youve just spoted CF...

[brainsmile]

just marry her

[brainsmile]

:naughty:

[revil]

Originally posted by chosenfool
We ended up chatting while doing work, and dammit, she's shaping up to be almost my female clone!
Wait.... If she's your clone, wouldn't she be reading and replying to this thread too?

Now I get it! CF and DF. They are just a little too simular...

[brainsmile]

good one revil... they look the same too!