Raider007
10-03-2002, 09:22 AM
well okay...this is the story.
My family and another family have been distant friends for like 10 years. Both our father work basically for the same company, but in different areas of california. We're in central california, they are in southern california.
In my family, i'm an only child.
in there family there are 3 daughters. The oldest is my age.
okay, so the oldest daughter and i have gone to the same school for about 3 years, but because of different friends and different major we haven't really been talking much, i mean when we see each other we stop and chat for alittle bit, but that's probably the extent of it.
The middle daugher now goes to this school to, but we have never really talked in the whole time that we've known each other...she kinda intimidates me too (weird though, she's lik 5 foot 2, weights 100 lbs, but she's just got this presense about her the intimidates me).
The youngest daughter doesn't go to the same school as we do (me and the 2 older sisters) but goes to a school about an hour away. But she comes and visits once and a while (mostly weekends).
Well the first weekend they were here they came looking for me cause we're friends and all and i haven't seen the youngest daughter in like forever. Me and the youngest girl always seem to click, we just have fun. Anyways, i wasn't around that weekend but i got back to school like 10 minutes before the girl went back to her school...and damn, she's turned into the most beautiful girl i've ever seen.
I've had an interest i this girl off and on for as long as i've known her, she's just fun and she's always been cute.
But i don't really know what to do, the only time i can basically see this girl is when the sisters go and get her at school (all 3 are sharing 1 car), and they are really close knit, the sisters are really close.
(i hope all of this is making sense)
The fact that i haven't really talked to the older sisters much doesn't help the fact that i have an interest in the youngest sister cause, well, i don't really hang out with the girls...
Anyways, does anyone have an suggestions on what (if anything) i can do to be able to possibly develpop a good friendship with the youngest sister (hell, all the sisters, they're all cool), and possibly maybe date the youngest sister?
My major conflicts with this are basically, should i talk to the oldest sister about stuff (the protector of the group i guess) and see what she thinks, and if she says no, the last thingi need are the 3 girls looking at me funny for the rest of my college life, and they are family friends, and our parents work for the same company and they see each other alot.
I basically don't want to do something and then maybe messup the friendship we got now....
any of this make sense or am i just talking to the wind...
so confusing...i just really like the youngest girl...
never been put in a situation like this...hehehe...dating has always been easy, but the charm that i have, somehow forgets to kick in when i'm around them...more like i dribble all over myself...
My family and another family have been distant friends for like 10 years. Both our father work basically for the same company, but in different areas of california. We're in central california, they are in southern california.
In my family, i'm an only child.
in there family there are 3 daughters. The oldest is my age.
okay, so the oldest daughter and i have gone to the same school for about 3 years, but because of different friends and different major we haven't really been talking much, i mean when we see each other we stop and chat for alittle bit, but that's probably the extent of it.
The middle daugher now goes to this school to, but we have never really talked in the whole time that we've known each other...she kinda intimidates me too (weird though, she's lik 5 foot 2, weights 100 lbs, but she's just got this presense about her the intimidates me).
The youngest daughter doesn't go to the same school as we do (me and the 2 older sisters) but goes to a school about an hour away. But she comes and visits once and a while (mostly weekends).
Well the first weekend they were here they came looking for me cause we're friends and all and i haven't seen the youngest daughter in like forever. Me and the youngest girl always seem to click, we just have fun. Anyways, i wasn't around that weekend but i got back to school like 10 minutes before the girl went back to her school...and damn, she's turned into the most beautiful girl i've ever seen.
I've had an interest i this girl off and on for as long as i've known her, she's just fun and she's always been cute.
But i don't really know what to do, the only time i can basically see this girl is when the sisters go and get her at school (all 3 are sharing 1 car), and they are really close knit, the sisters are really close.
(i hope all of this is making sense)
The fact that i haven't really talked to the older sisters much doesn't help the fact that i have an interest in the youngest sister cause, well, i don't really hang out with the girls...
Anyways, does anyone have an suggestions on what (if anything) i can do to be able to possibly develpop a good friendship with the youngest sister (hell, all the sisters, they're all cool), and possibly maybe date the youngest sister?
My major conflicts with this are basically, should i talk to the oldest sister about stuff (the protector of the group i guess) and see what she thinks, and if she says no, the last thingi need are the 3 girls looking at me funny for the rest of my college life, and they are family friends, and our parents work for the same company and they see each other alot.
I basically don't want to do something and then maybe messup the friendship we got now....
any of this make sense or am i just talking to the wind...
so confusing...i just really like the youngest girl...
never been put in a situation like this...hehehe...dating has always been easy, but the charm that i have, somehow forgets to kick in when i'm around them...more like i dribble all over myself...