Would you snoop

[soong]

saying you found some very unusual ....activity or evidence. How many of you have or would snoop in...email, personal affects *wallets, purses* or listened in on calls checked credit cards and or mail...

[Memo]

me! me! me! I always snoop.

[Dunedan]

Originally posted by soong
saying you found some very unusual ....activity or evidence. How many of you have or would snoop in...email, personal affects *wallets, purses* or listened in on calls checked credit cards and or mail...

Even without anything unusual.
Snooping is AWESOME!!
*sniff*, I remember my freshman year in college when I set up keystroke loggers in all the PCs in my dorm's computer room, and in 3 days had the logs/pass of almost everyone in the dorm, including faculty.
Not that I used any of them. :D But I could have, which is where the rush is.

If something unusual is up, you'll either find out it was nothing, spoil a surprise, or have your heart broken. Your choice.

[Merlin]

Not me. I don't care what others are doing and I really don't want to know.

[Punker_bob2004]

i snoop... probably more than i should

[OC]

I did, and I'm glad I did at the time. What I found finally convinced me that it was over. If I had not, even more of my life would have been wasted with her.

Now, however, I have a different view. I feel now that if you get to the point where you feel you might want to snoop, the trust between you has already been blown to so many bits that it's already over.

So, no. I would not snoop again. I would give it my best shot for however long I felt was appropriate. If my best turns out to not be good enough, so be it. We move on.

-OC

[soong]

Originally posted by Merlin
Not me. I don't care what others are doing and I really don't want to know.

I meant on a significant other...

[Merlin]

Originally posted by soong


I meant on a significant other...

Oh :| No I wouldn't It is not the honorable thing to do and as such I would feel like a scumbag for stooping so low.

[Jihforce]

I don't feel there's a necessity to snoop. The truth will come out eventually.

[nickel]

hellya i'd snoop. those that are innocent have nothing to hide.

[soong]

K...so is there anyone else besides me and OC who found something then?

[revil]

I once snooped a little too far.... I saw a little too much which almost made me kill myself. it was something i really didn't want to see.


but i don't snoop too much. I will if i got to. say like i over hear someone say, "i'm gonna kill that revil bitch." then i snoop, so i can torture not only them, but their family.

[Pinkgirl36]

Right now, I wouldn't because I trust dopey. And I know that he trusts me. I can't hide anything from him, and he can't hide anything from me. We know each other too well.
And he knows all my passwords for everything. Not because he snoops thru them, just because. And I tend to forget stuff like that.
And I have nothing to hide, so I really don't care.

But I would feel that if I had a reasonable suspicion, or found something then I prolly would, because I would think something was up...

[revil]

Originally posted by Pinkgirl36
But I would feel that if I had a reasonable suspicion, or found something then I prolly would, because I would think something was up...
I guess you haven't seen the love letters nija and dopey are exchanging. :P

[Pinkgirl36]

Originally posted by revil

I guess you haven't seen the love letters nija and dopey are exchanging. :P I just pretend I don't see them... ;)

[sbp]

Since the person in question has shown a past behavior of not being truthful, yes I would.

[hang10wannabe]

Originally posted by sbp
Since the person in question has shown a past behavior of not being truthful, yes I would.

W.O.R.D.!

i havnt had much of a significant other to snoop on, i think its a Maki Conspiracy :(

[sho.gun]

I read all your emails... :shifty:


Yeah I've snooped on people before, and like someone said up above, be ready to face the consequences. Not because they find out, but because you'll know something that might hurt you.

Remember sub7?

[molecularfire]

Don't snoop. Don't care enough about almost everybody in the world to bother snooping. With the people whom I do care about... if I have to snoop, there's no point in snooping. If I don't trust them enough, it isn't going to work anyways. :shrug:

[hang10wannabe]

awww u dont care enough about ME to snoop on ME?! :(
say it aint so :bawl:






:D

[soong]

recently...i've found only exactly what was described...either she's hiding it a lot better (which is possible) or she's been telling me the truth the last month or so which i tend to believe. Still a touchy subject...anyone snoop and not find anything? I think that its kind of hard to gauge however, did you look deep enough, or the scope big enough? Its kind of self fulfilling it seems. Did I miss something? that type of mentality...

[Napoleon54]

Originally posted by overclocked

Now, however, I have a different view. I feel now that if you get to the point where you feel you might want to snoop, the trust between you has already been blown to so many bits that it's already over.

-OC

:stupid:

VERY WELL SAID, I agree completely.

[Kim]

In my personal opinion, if she cheated on you, she has to expect that your trust for her is shaky. It's going to take time to build it back up. She should realize that you are going to be suspicious of things going on, and not get upset if you feel the need to check things out. If she freaks out about it, I would be even more suspicious that something is still going on with the other guy.

Of course, I've never been in this situation, so I could be totally wrong. Good luck to you.

[molecularfire]

I hate to disagree with Kim (mainly becuse she's usually right so statistically, it doesn't look good for me) but I agree with OC. Yes she did cheat on you in the past, so you do have reason to be suspicious. But, if you snoop then you're showing her that you don't trust her (and right now, trust is what you two should be working on building. She can't build trust alone). If she betrays it, then it's her fault, but if you betray it (even if it's because of something that she's done in the past) it's your fault. Is there a chance she could be lying to you and that you're going to get screwed/hurt... probably. Is there a chance of this working if you don't give her the benefit of the doubt, no way. JMO. Either ways, hope things turn out well for you. :)