What's the worst revenge you have gotten on a ex?

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

I figured out how to get into my ex's new boyfriend's Mobile phone account and started text paging her pretending I was him. Pretty vulgar talk and I think she liked it though which is even more scary.

[topane]

Worst revenge? I got over her, found someone else and became happy.

[blueindian]

Originally posted by ChIcKeN_HaWk
I figured out how to get into my ex's new boyfriend's Mobile phone account and started text paging her pretending I was him. Pretty vulgar talk and I think she liked it though which is even more scary.

that's lame. why would you want to do that?

[appleseed]

moving on and being happy with someone else...actually that's the best revenge

edit: err, posted this and came back and topane beat me to ita minute earlier...so, :stupid:

[revil]

how odd i was think about this very thing this morning. here's what i wanted to do: hold her until and keep holding her.... :neartears

I miss my ex. :bawl:

I'm no longer revil. i am now liver. i'm mushy and stupid.

[Jihforce]

Originally posted by blueindian


that's lame. why would you want to do that?

yup. lame indeed. I can see why she's no longer with you, that's for sure.

[Jihforce]

Originally posted by revil
i am now liver. i'm mushy and stupid.
You forgot smelly. Try it with bacon, I heard is good. ;)

[welfareloser]

i married his ex-best friend, and his ex-son starting calling prm daddy almost immediately without anyone telling him to, and then had two more gorgeous, intelligent boys who look just like their older brother and their daddy. :D

living a good life is the best revenge.

he, on the other hand, has poured sugar in our gas tank. actually, his girlfriend did it. don't know who's idea it was. i don't think it made him a happier person. 'nuff said.

[Showtime]

Originally posted by ChIcKeN_HaWk
I figured out how to get into my ex's new boyfriend's Mobile phone account and started text paging her pretending I was him. Pretty vulgar talk and I think she liked it though which is even more scary.

She did like it. I have to thank ya for that. Last night she did some freaky things, the kind of stuff I didn't think she'd ever do.
She kept saying, "isn't this what you said you wanted to with me when you messaged me..."
I was like, "umm yeah, sure."

-jel:P

[brainsmile]

wow jello... she told me she was going to when she left here yesterday afternoon :P

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

yup. lame indeed. I can see why she's no longer with you, that's for sure.

I can see why also, never said I was proud but I just have a hard time with someone telling me how much they love me and care about me then the next week are off with someone else without any regret.

Just sad about it all

[eSDee]

I beat his ass.

-Liza Minelli

[Leon]

My friend was dumped so she started working out intensively, trimmed down and looked fantastic. Made him regret it and she showed no interest in him again.

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

My friend was dumped so she started working out intensively, trimmed down and looked fantastic. Made him regret it and she showed no interest in him again.

I thought about doing that to but with christmas coming up it's a tight budget especially since she moved out...I probably will find a way to join because it's not like it's not a good idea anyways.

[ray]

I say you continue on with life, become successful in whatever you do, marry your true love and then get together with her 20 years later.

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

I say you continue on with life, become successful in whatever you do, marry your true love and then get together with her 20 years later.

Not sure if it's just me but does anyone else have a hard time getting together with someone that you've been intimate with after they have been with someone else? For me it just spoils it I think although in this case I don't think that opportunity will present itself. I will move on and lvie happier with someone else but this person had captured my heart more than anyone ever has in my 27 years so letting go is harder...For me at least....Obviously...

[whitak24]

i don't have any exes to get revenge on. :shrug:

[Ladogaboy]

Right now, I'm in the "I don't giva f*ck" mode, and it's working out quite nicely for me. My feelings toward my ex have actually moved from bitterness to pity, and there are a myriad of reasons for that. There were quite a few circumstances that lead to our break-up, but looking back, many of the problems fell on her side of the line. As much as I wish the best for her, I see her having great difficulties ever developing a healthy, intimate relationship in the future. :(

Either way, I'm just living my live day-to-day, and there are a few cute girls that are possible prospects. I'm happy in what I'm doing, and I'm working towards my goals at my own speed. I don't need to answer to my ex or anyone else for my happiness, and I know that whatever happens, I'm going to be satisfied with the course I am taking.

And, one thing I did notice: my ex and I had been talking, but she suddenly started cutting things short and reneging on certain get togethers that we had planned. It's not so much that she did that as it is the manner in which she backed out. Whenever I would talk about another girl, my feelings, the fun things I'm doing, my happiness, or anything else that illustrated how happy I was with the way things were going, she would cut the conversation short. I'm starting to think that she still has feelings for me, but to be perfectly honest, that is no longer any of my concern.

Tomorrow, I'm going to go to work, buy some stuff for a small Halloween party, invite that cute girl I've been talking about--if I can find her--, and that is about as far forward as I am looking in my life.

Like all the other stupids have said, if you really want to get back at her, just go on with your life. Just try to resist the urge to make snide comments, do anything immature (like your cell prank), or even think about her as part of your life. In a few months, revisit your situation, and see where you want to go from there.

[RoniMan]

Originally posted by topane
Worst revenge? I got over her, found someone else and became happy.
:stupid:

"always forgive your enemy, nothing annoys them as much"
-- unknown

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

Right now, I'm in the "I don't giva f*ck" mode, and it's working out quite nicely for me. My feelings toward my ex have actually moved from bitterness to pity, and there are a myriad of reasons for that. There were quite a few circumstances that lead to our break-up, but looking back, many of the problems fell on her side of the line. As much as I wish the best for her, I see her having great difficulties ever developing a healthy, intimate relationship in the future.

Thanks for the advice...I feel alot better about things today than I did yesterday...Everyday gets a little better...I feel ya with the pity thoughts, I don't think my ex will find anything of any sustanance in the future and if she does it's going to be after she can grow up.

[topane]

Find a chick that looks just like her, nail her, then dump her.

[nickel]

Originally posted by revil
I'm no longer revil. i am now liver. i'm mushy and stupid.
:thumbup:

[Airencracken]

My friend Jerod says "To get over someone, you have to get on top of someone else." :naughty:

But I have no exes to get over so... I haven't. But definatly finding someone helped my diss the chicks that had previously dissed me (refusing dates and such)

[hapoo]

For your own peace of mind, i hope you get to the point where you don't care enough to want revenge. Just move on, the world far too big to be hung on one person.

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

I am moving on in my own way, trying to stay sane at the same time. Alot of hearsay that runs around at the company I work at though so it makes things a bit more complicated but finding some relief with friends...

[PrObLy]

I wouldn't exactly call this revenge, but I knew the password to her e-mail account and when she started dating this new guy I was able to check it out to see that she was indeed cheating on him just like she did to me. It was just a sense of closure to make sure that she's a heartless skank....I never did anything with the e-mails, I figure that's her own problem to deal with. Never checked the e-mail again after that, either.

[DaFunkyUnit]

Originally posted by PrObLy
I wouldn't exactly call this revenge, but I knew the password to her e-mail account and when she started dating this new guy I was able to check it out to see that she was indeed cheating on him just like she did to me. It was just a sense of closure to make sure that she's a heartless skank....I never did anything with the e-mails, I figure that's her own problem to deal with. Never checked the e-mail again after that, either.

So? Did she cheat on him or what? Is she truly a heartless skank? You can't leave us hangin' like that!

:)

[PrObLy]

Originally posted by DaFunkyUnit


So? Did she cheat on him or what? Is she truly a heartless skank? You can't leave us hangin' like that!

:)

Absolutely she did!! With his BEST FRIEND!!! oh man, when I read it, I nearly died laughing. She also cheated on me with one of my best friends....so chalk one up in the heartless skank column.

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

So? Did she cheat on him or what? Is she truly a heartless skank? You can't leave us hangin' like that!


Absolutely she did!! With his BEST FRIEND!!! oh man, when I read it, I nearly died laughing. She also cheated on me with one of my best friends....so chalk one up in the heartless skank column.

What is wrong with some people? I mean can't people just be true to the person that their with? I can never understand being with one person but sleeping with another and thinking that it's ok to just keep going like nothing ever happened.

[Joshua]

I waited a few weeks till she called me talking about getting back together. We set a date. The night before I went and picked up a bar fly, had a one night stand, didn't shower the next morning.

Shortly after getting back home the ex came over and gave me a hummer - Even complimented me on the taste! :hehehmm:

I almost felt bad but then remembered what a B1tch she was and laughed to myself.

[bachviet]

Men should just get over their EX's and move on.

[appleseed]

Originally posted by SnotRocket
I waited a few weeks till she called me talking about getting back together. We set a date. The night before I went and picked up a bar fly, had a one night stand, didn't shower the next morning.

Shortly after getting back home the ex came over and gave me a hummer - Even complimented me on the taste! :hehehmm:

I almost felt bad but then remembered what a B1tch she was and laughed to myself. i can't decide between hurling or applauding :heh:

[welfareloser]

Originally posted by SnotRocket
I waited a few weeks till she called me talking about getting back together. We set a date. The night before I went and picked up a bar fly, had a one night stand, didn't shower the next morning.

Shortly after getting back home the ex came over and gave me a hummer - Even complimented me on the taste! :hehehmm:

I almost felt bad but then remembered what a B1tch she was and laughed to myself.

that is pure, undiluted 200-proof revenge in all its glory. :eek:

[welfareloser]

Originally posted by bachviet
Men should just get over their EX's and move on.

and women should do what? :hmm:

[molecularfire]

Originally posted by PrObLy


Absolutely she did!! With his BEST FRIEND!!! oh man, when I read it, I nearly died laughing. She also cheated on me with one of my best friends....so chalk one up in the heartless skank column.
Man... maybe you and her other BF should get better best friends. That's why I make female friends. That way, if my GF does anything with my best friend, it would be kinda cool. :P

[goyo2]

Whatever you do, do it overhandedly, be upfront with it and not all underhanded. IMHO, if you hate someone, tell them, let them really have it in full force then stay away. Or just stay away. The thing is, breaking up is really freaking hard if you aren't George Clooney or Brad Pitt and can't chick-hop. Draggin it along just makes it harder. I mean revenge though, sounds like you may want attention from her, even if its negative. I have done this myself.

BTW, the only reason I am saying you should stay away is because I have played that on again off again $hit and have lost years of good times because of it. You're not the only one who has had a crappy time with getting dumped, believe me.

[Ladogaboy]

Originally posted by welfareloser


and women should do what? :hmm:

Be submissive. :D

[bachviet]

Women are the mean kind so they will revenge the best they can. It's the woman's wrath... ;)

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

When we broke up we had a joint checking account (we were suppose to get married) and the day we broke up my paycheck got direct deposited into that account. She decided to run down to the bank and transfer that money from our joint account to her own personal account so when I went to do the same thing that day she beat me to it. Anyways, during our relationship at various points she would ask me to check her balance online or something stupid like that so when I found out that she left me for broke I hopped online and transfered the money back to our joint account and went back to the bank and opened my own account. I left $200 in the joint account to cover checks that had been written for bills and whatnot. The next week she found out that the money that she took from me wasn't in her account, got very pissed at me believing that she was entitled to that money for various unreasonable reasons. She went down to the bank the next day with her mother and talked to the bank manager and somehow convinced him to illegally transfer the money from my personal account to hers, closed both the joint account and her own withdrawing all the money and leaving me to bounce a number of checks including rent and so forth. I filed a police report and opened a fraud case against her at the bank and the bank ended up giving me the money back and went after her. Now because she felt deserving of my money she summoned me to conciliation court and is saying that I illegally took her money from her account.

Everyone that I have talked to about this has agreed that she has no case and that with the evidence that I have she doesn't stand a chance. I am also going to contersue for the rent that she is still responsible for per the lease that we both are in at our apt. Is that going overboard? Am I being vendictive or should I feel good about trying to get money from her for an apt. that she doesn't live in anymore because of what she's doing? I'm also considering filing charges if the police will let me, I would like to see the what she thinks when she is arrested along with her mom for bank fraud...

[ray]

Originally posted by ChIcKeN_HaWk

Everyone that I have talked to about this has agreed that she has no case and that with the evidence that I have she doesn't stand a chance. I am also going to contersue for the rent that she is still responsible for per the lease that we both are in at our apt. Is that going overboard? Am I being vendictive or should I feel good about trying to get money from her for an apt. that she doesn't live in anymore because of what she's doing? I'm also considering filing charges if the police will let me, I would like to see the what she thinks when she is arrested along with her mom for bank fraud...

Actually, you could have the bank manager arrested for fraud as well. It's an interesting case since it was a joint account and both of you could do as you pleased with the funds. In my honest opinion, neither of you really did anything Illegal when you transferred the money from the joint account. HOWEVER, when she, her mother and the bank manager moved the money from your personal account, that IS fraud and that is something the bank manager should not have allowed at all. If your ex wanted that money from your personal account, she would have had to brought you to court.

In regards to the rent...if she is still on the lease, not only can you sue her, but your landlord can sue her as well. In fact, you should have the landlord contact credit agencies to notify them that your ex failed to make payments. Then, have them send the portion of the rent to collections. That will screw her credit and make it even more difficult when she wants to find a place for herself. Yes, it's a terrible thing to do, but if she doesn't pay, you're being hurt financially. You need to watch out for your finances, because sometimes things as petty as this turn out to be financial disaster for many.

[ChIcKeN_HaWk]

Actually, you could have the bank manager arrested for fraud as well. It's an interesting case since it was a joint account and both of you could do as you pleased with the funds. In my honest opinion, neither of you really did anything Illegal when you transferred the money from the joint account. HOWEVER, when she, her mother and the bank manager moved the money from your personal account, that IS fraud and that is something the bank manager should not have allowed at all. If your ex wanted that money from your personal account, she would have had to brought you to court.

I have talked to the police a couple of months ago and they have said since the bank gave my money back that the prosecuting attorney would be reluctant to press charges. I am going to go and talk to them again on weds. and see if there is anything that I can do.


In regards to the rent...if she is still on the lease, not only can you sue her, but your landlord can sue her as well. In fact, you should have the landlord contact credit agencies to notify them that your ex failed to make payments. Then, have them send the portion of the rent to collections. That will screw her credit and make it even more difficult when she wants to find a place for herself. Yes, it's a terrible thing to do, but if she doesn't pay, you're being hurt financially. You need to watch out for your finances, because sometimes things as petty as this turn out to be financial disaster for many.

I have been paying for all of the rent so as far as my landlord suing her that would be hard for them to prove, but as for me I can prove that she hasn't paid any of the rent for the time she's been gone and that she has no intentions of paying. If the judge says that she needs to pay it will go as a judgement and screw her credit either way.

She opened a very big can of worms here but I just wanted to make sure that I wasn't taking it to far by countersuing for rent. I did want to let it go but she's determined...

[The Happy Squirrel]

wort revenge, well a gf cheated on me, so i dumped her and started dating her aunt a bit later <dont worry they were only 5 years apart in age> anywayz my ex would see me and the new chick together alot and i would make it apparent that iw as not interested in her anymore and defiently interesed in the new one

[welfareloser]

some very funny stuff here.

all i've ever wanted was for my exes to go away, which they don't seem to want to do. i'm the revenge recipient, so here's the other side of the story...

high school, dated a guy for 22 months (which is like marriage in high school years.) finally got sick of him not speaking to me if i wore certain clothes (no, not hoochie mama stuff, like backwards baseball caps... i had NO sexy clothes in high school) and not wanting to go anyhwere... and then he didn't want me to call him EVER on a weekday because that was "too suffocating" ... things progressed to teh point that we had a phone call on friday night, he would come over saturday night between 7 and 9 pm and had to be home at midnight... it was totally stupid. and then he gave me some ultimatim about not hanging out with my friends because they were guys and therefore it was wrong... the exact wording was "your either one of the guys or my girl." so he went out of town on a college visit for three days, and i went out with the guys against his orders, planning to dump him when he got back. had the time of my life, too, it was nice not worrying about him for a change.

so i figure it's going to be easy, because he doesn't even like me anymore anyway. i go over to his house, do it face-to-face like you're supposed to... and totally failed. i said i'm one of the guys, this isn't working out, it's over, and he said no it's not. i was so surprised that i didn't know what to say... he started crying, told me how much he loved me, and i left confused. so i went home, collected my wits, and tried again, this time by phone. i was nice but firm. he showed up at 11 pm, came in, threatened suicide, asked me to marry him. i was scared to death, and said okay, whatever you want. collected my wits, tied again. he came over, i gently sent him away, and told him to find someone to talk to because i couldn't be his shoulder to cry on. he threw up on my front lawn.

for the next several months, he wrote me hundreds of notes... found them in my locker, my car, my mailbox, EVERYWHERE. his friends would harrass me anytime they saw me for the rest of senior year (we broke up in early november)... once they ran my car off the road, blocked it in a ditch with a truck, and threw stuff at it. at graduation i was walking back to my car and they threw stuff and insults at me... random vandalism to my car and home, etc. and they guy would call my house and not say anything for YEARS... through my sophomore year in college (i knew it was him because he has a big nose and the sound of his breathing is veeeeery distinctive.) i'm actually a bit worried about running into the guy at my 10-year reunion.

then my new boyfriend (whom i later married, more's the pity) had an ex-girlfriend who decided to teepee my house, vandalize my stuff at school, etc...

then my ex-husband's new girlfriend put sugar in our gas tank (luckily she's pretty damned stupid, and pretty damned drunk most of the time, and just used a handful of sugar cubes, most of which she dropped on the ground anyway), was the first person to show up to get a copy of my new title and deed when prm and i bought our house, signed prm up for a bunch of spam (grr) etc...

prm's last ex-girlfriend tried to keep prm on the hook for a long time... she'd send nasty emails to me, then syrupy-sweet ones to him about how wonderful he was, like ha, biotch, your man still loooooves me... she didn't seem to understand that, in NORMAL relationships, people talk to each other and share things like emails from exes (even have a good laugh about them...) she was more interested in calling him after they broke up than she ever was when they were together, and we were as polite as we could be for as long as we could stand it, but finally, a YEAR later, we had to tell her to eff off.

moral of the story... if you have a beef with an ex, and feel he/she deserves revenge, whatever. just don't EVER do ANYTHING to your new significant other's ex, or your exes new significant other... they're most likely not deserving of the business end of your hurt feelings.