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gwilks98
11-08-2003, 12:59 AM
She's 650 miles away and is so retardedly drunk that she doesn't know what happened the last few hours.

...and yet, she doesn't understand why I'm upset.

everyone has their own opinions, but she knew mine before she got involved with me:

If you're going to be in love with someone, have the courtesy to respect their feelings for you and take care of yourself.
oblongmelon
11-08-2003, 04:52 AM
woa..sorry to hear it..hope she has a hangover so bad she'll never drink again.
nickel
11-08-2003, 05:58 AM
eh, let her have some fun. she was drunk, but still thinking of you. that is why she called.
DaFunkyUnit
11-08-2003, 09:17 AM
Originally posted by nickelback
eh, let her have some fun. she was drunk, but still thinking of you. that is why she called.

:stupid:

ya man. the classic late-nite-drunken phone call. and i'm also assuming she's w/ her girlfriends, so they'll take care of her and make sure she don't do nuthin' stoopid.

:)
InfiniteNothing
11-08-2003, 11:01 AM
Originally posted by gwilks98
She's 650 miles away and is so retardedly drunk that she doesn't know what happened the last few hours.

...and yet, she doesn't understand why I'm upset.

everyone has their own opinions, but she knew mine before she got involved with me:

If you're going to be in love with someone, have the courtesy to respect their feelings for you and take care of yourself.

She's disrespectful and doesn't mind hurting you. Something should be done.
nickel
11-08-2003, 01:22 PM
Originally posted by InfiniteNothing


She's disrespectful and doesn't mind hurting you. Something should be done.
yeh, tie her to the bedpost and only let her have bread and water :rolleyes:
TofuNinja
11-08-2003, 01:32 PM
The part that bothers me is that she has no idea what she did the last few hours.... she could have been butt raped by a football team or something
nickel
11-08-2003, 01:52 PM
aw c'mon, if she could talk on the phone she would know if she was buttraped. and i don't think her gf's would let it happen.

give her a break, i'm sure she rarely, if ever, has gotten so sloshed.
TofuNinja
11-08-2003, 02:03 PM
Your right maybe she just passed out for 2 hours :) innocent until proven guilty...

or maybe she did something naughty with her GFs :)
nickel
11-08-2003, 02:21 PM
Originally posted by TofuNinja
or maybe she did something naughty with her GFs :)
like that's a bad thing....
















i kid!
Memo
11-08-2003, 04:52 PM
If you trust your g/f then you should trust her judgement. She thought it was safe to get trashed wherever she was. At least take comfort in that. If you don't trust her or her judgement then you should reconsider your relationship. One thing to do though would be to ask her not to call you when she's trashed. All that does is make you worry. If she calls you the day after then you aren't worried, just a tad upset and you guys can talk about it.
InfiniteNothing
11-08-2003, 05:15 PM
Originally posted by nickelback

yeh, tie her to the bedpost


hmmm, yeah tell her she's been a naughty girl and needs to be punished.... No I mean, I don't know. By do something I mean sit down and talk to her. Girls like talking. She seems like a pretty good gall, she just needs to know what is acceptable. If she can't accept that you don't want to be with someone who acts like that then leave her. I find mutual respect very very important in a relationship. But I agree with you all the way G, she really ought to mind your feelings and show a little respect for your opinions.
TofuNinja
11-08-2003, 09:14 PM
well being naughty with her GFs is better than being buttraped by a football team :)
molecularfire
11-09-2003, 08:06 AM
Originally posted by UT Memo
If you trust your g/f then you should trust her judgement. She thought it was safe to get trashed wherever she was. At least take comfort in that. If you don't trust her or her judgement then you should reconsider your relationship. One thing to do though would be to ask her not to call you when she's trashed. All that does is make you worry. If she calls you the day after then you aren't worried, just a tad upset and you guys can talk about it.
I don't want to speak for gwilks, but if it was me, I'd rather she did call me. I would be more worried if something like that happened and she didn't call me. JMO
gwilks98
11-10-2003, 04:56 PM
It's all taken care of now. Just a big misunderstanding. She was so out of it because she had fallen asleep/passed out after she and her roomates got home safe and sound.

My whole problem with the matter was that she's naive and trusts everyone. I couldn't bear the though of her getting roofied because she didn't keep enough wits about her.

But since that was never an issue, I guess the "making up" part of the fight can ensue.
:D
Ladogaboy
11-10-2003, 06:39 PM
Let her live her life. If she has to change who she is in order to be "respectful" to you, something is wrong.
MJordanash
11-17-2003, 08:29 AM
Originally posted by molecularfire

I don't want to speak for gwilks, but if it was me, I'd rather she did call me. I would be more worried if something like that happened and she didn't call me. JMO :stupid: I'd much rather get a call from my sig. other than not know the entire night. Would make it much harder to believe the person of what happened when they called the next morning.
mcs328
11-18-2003, 01:56 PM
Originally posted by TofuNinja
well being naughty with her GFs is better than being buttraped by a football team :)
:stupid:
Grubbie
11-18-2003, 07:33 PM
drunk phone calls are annoying, but can be fun if you want to toy around with them :)