Am I getting played?

[ski]

SON OF A!!!!! this girl I've been seeing has a boyfriend still... i found out from my boss' daughter :angry: it all makes sense now... why she won't let me pay for her at places, why she won't sleep naked with me (she sleeps naked every other night) :P ... UGGH! but what DOESN'T make sense is that we spend 1-2 weekend nights together each week, and when she drops me off in the morning, she leans over and gives me a kiss, which is NOT what a simple hookup buddy would do.... she told me last weekend what's stopping her is that the boss' daughter is our friend and we don't want to hurt her feelings, and some shnit about her being suicidal that she wouldn't want me to have to worry all the time... no mention of a boyfriend in that list! :eek:

okay, okay, i'm chilling... i just don't know what to think, other than this dude is clueless (apparently she's cheated on him constantly for the past 2 years - he's just a freshman right now at VT with us and she's a junior, what do I do!?

Am I getting played isn't even a question... I'm almost positive! :neartears

But what would you do, what would you say?

[Ladogaboy]

Really, it depends on you. I'm assuming--though you don't say it directly--that you have been physically intimate with her. If so, I'd say keep f*cking the hell out of her, but avoid becoming emotionally attached in anyway. Basically, keep getting the pooty, but start shopping around for someone that would commit to you completely.

If you aren't being physically intimate and she is only cheating with you on an emotional level, drop her right now and never look back.

Of course, you might want to make sure for yourself that she actual DOES have this boyfriend... her friend could always be lying to you. :shrug:

/me starts humming:

I just wanna f*ck you
no kissin' and huggin'
'cause you gotta husband
who loves you

[Burzhui]

just tap it until it's dry then move on, you got it good,m you don't even have to pay for dates :)

[ski]

My friend who's always virtuous about everything, including relationships, told me:

"Dude! This is every guy's dream!! You get all the benefits of a relationship... without even having one!"

:heh: I just don't know, maybe I'm lookin' for more now

I'm pretty sure she still has this boyfriend, I actually knew back in the summer that she was still with this guy and cheating on him, and thought that by the time he came to our school, he'd have figured it out :hmm: I'd be worried about her cheating on me if we ever had a relationship, but I know I'd keep her very occupied if that were to ever happen :naughty:

[blueindian]

Originally posted by Burzhui
just tap it until it's dry then move on, you got it good,m you don't even have to pay for dates :)


:stupid: just make sure to keep your jimmy hat on, you don't know who the boyfriend might be hittin.

[chrissy]

F/B Friend with benefits.
Definately ask her about a BF, the boss's daughter maybe playing you. And if she says no don't go accusing anyone. That could backfire EVERYWHERE work and personal. Just play smooth and enjoy it while finding the right one. Just protect yourself ;) if she is and has cheated you might not want to share everything just yet :hmm:

[hapoo]

if she's cheating on him, she'll cheat on you, so its no good for any serious relationship. If you want have your fun with caution, but don't get too involved.

[ski]

I don't know what to believe... she said she's a virgin, and that's true, she's a female version of me... someone who is overly a horny and "does a lot" but no sex/intercourse. But now I gotta question her word since she didn't necessarily lie about having a boyfriend, but very close to it.

[Ladogaboy]

Originally posted by skiAtomic
I don't know what to believe... she said she's a virgin

You could always poke her to find out. :poke:

[cheapchinese]

virgin?
sorry i was stuck on this word for like 10 mins.....

just don't get attached then~~