why is it

[nickel]

if you are a girl and you like the company of guys you are a slut,
but if you are a guy and you are enthusiastic about girls being around you are a stud?

[ski]

Christina has a song about that (http://www.letssingit.com/christina-aguilera-hold-us-down-ft-lil-kim-7tfp6z2.html)

[cheapie]

who is the one that calls girls sluts? i think most of the time it's other girls that are jealous. it would take a lot for a guy to call a girl a slut. the only girl my friends and i call a slut is one that i know for certain i could nail within 15 minutes, anywhere, anytime. she's def. a ho. and we do call certain guys sluts.

oh. and hi admiral. looks good on you.

[caribiner23]

What cheapie said.

The only time I've ever known guys refer to a girl as a "slut" is when there's overtly "slutty" behavior involved. I have heard women use the word to describe other women far more often for (what appeared to my eyes) as innocent, friendly behavior.

I've known women who have guys as friends, and the guys mostly think of these women as friends, too-- almost protective, like a sister.

[Cubsfan]

Originally posted by nickelback
if you are a girl and you like the company of guys you are a slut,
but if you are a guy and you are enthusiastic about girls being around you are a stud?
Guess it depends on what you mean by "like the company". If it's just that you are friends with them, no big deal, but if its, ummm, company in bed, then I'm not sure.

[Ladogaboy]

Yeah. The last time I referred to a girl as a slut was when I was describing this one freshman girl. Her second... night... in school, she had 4 guys over in her room between 1AM and 4AM. Two at the same time. Even then, the only reason I called her a slut was because three of the guys were on the football team, and I found out what happened in those 3 hours. :eek:

[zenbooty]

The only times I've heard a guy call a girl a slut is when some girl they've fallen for spurns them and goes out with another guy or guys.

[look_ma]

Originally posted by nickelback
if you are a girl and you like the company of guys you are a slut,
but if you are a guy and you are enthusiastic about girls being around you are a stud?

IT is simple, for a guy to have 4 girls that are actually into him, that takes talent. For a girl to get 4 guys to hang around her and that kinda like her doesnt take any skill, because they all want to get some action with the girl.

[oblongmelon]

Originally posted by caribiner23
What cheapie said.

The only time I've ever known guys refer to a girl as a "slut" is when there's overtly "slutty" behavior involved.


Originally posted by Cantacuzene


How could anyone possible mistake you for a guy? You flaunt your sexuality constantly like a typical 'chatroom/message board slut.' The only chance you are a guy is if you are a sweaty 45 year old man who gets off on having a bunch of hard up guys on a message board flirt with you.
Perhaps THIS is what she is refering too? LOL

[donnar]

I think it is bcause girls/women are jealous. I always had male friends and I won't go to far into details but I have a nice body. So when I wear a tight shirt like every other women out there, I have more to show so I got branded a slut. Most girls are chatty. Anyone how knows me knows is was never a slut or anything close to that. I like guys better then girls because guys don't play around, as in talking **** about people they talk they fight then there friends again, girls make everything too comlicated, I am confident person and not chatty so most girls don't like me which I don't care cause I don't like them

Donna

[kei2]

I have some female friends that hang around lots of guys, but there's a difference between being friendly and flirty, and there's a difference between flirty and slutty. There's a big difference between being friendly and a slut. The only guys I can imagine labeling a friendly girl a slut are the guys that want to get with the girl and are bitter that they can't, and the purpose of that would be to spread false rumors about her and ruin her reputation.

[Cantacuzene]

I think once diseases or abortions enter the scene, your conduct afterwards determines your status.