it hurts...

[tweeteresa]

love hurts. it hurts so much i don't want to ever feel it again...

and...

love bites. it gives u that awesome high you can't find anywhere else. yet it also spirals you to this bottomless pit with no end to the pain and tears....


:neartears :(

[revil]

is that where you've been?

[tweeteresa]

no i've been out of town...trying to get away.

and yea it is a double edge sword. it hurts more cuz there was no taking...not on my part at least. i give...he takes. i'm too nice to notice how selfish he is. and too optimistic thinking he could change. and too vulnerable to let go so easily...


if you cut, i will bleed
bring me down to my knees
make me feel what i am is never good enough
can you help me understand
thought i made you a better man
guess somehow another way things just change

it seems just like a distant memory
that you used to be good for me
but baby now it's clear

i give, you take
somehow it's gonna break
i pray for the strength
i hate to say, i know it can't go on this way
i give, you take
i know we're gonna break
and it hurts my soul
i hate to say we can't go on this way

with your words, you pull me in
i always lose, i just can't win
and though i see, my heart is blind it gives in every time
you got me on constant repeat i need a cure or a remedy
cuz if i stay there won't be nothing left for me

it seems just like a distant memory
that you used to be good for me
but now it's clear

i give, you take
somehow it's gonna break
i pray for the strength
i hate to say i know it can't go on this way
i give, you take
i know we're gonna break
and it hurts my soul
i hate to say we can't go on this way

now there's nothing left for us to save
and only bitterness remains
what we have is like a house of cards
and it's falling apart
now it's impossible to get it back with the bridges that you've burned
i guess it's time to walk away
cuz now it's so clear

i give, you take
somehow it's gonna break
i pray for the strength
i hate to say, i know it can't go on this way
i give, you take
i know we're gonna break
and it hurts my soul
i hate to say we can't go on this way

[oblongmelon]

Love also makes you want to put a fork in the eyeball of someone who is still leaving wet towels on the bathroom floor after 26 years.

if someone had asked me 26 years ago what love was..I'd say Love is when you hold the head of someone who is puking on your shoes..yeh, that's what love is all about.

[nickel]

Originally posted by tweeteresa
no i've been out of town...trying to get away.

and yea it is a double edge sword. it hurts more cuz there was no taking...not on my part at least. i give...he takes. i'm too nice to notice how selfish he is. and too optimistic thinking he could change. and too vulnerable to let go so easily...
oh, does that sound familiar. you need to move on tweet. you are worth someone who treats you the way he likes to be treated.

[nickel]

Originally posted by chosenfool
really? wow... i just realized something.
if that is so, then i am in love with this girl who held my arm walking down latimer street in center city when i was stone fkin drunk, pukin at every corner. or was it she who is in love with me for holding my head/hair up while i puked on MY shoes?
of course, she may just have motherly instincts and decided to help me in the car cuz i just couldnt walk straight and even see where im going.
:hmm:
how do you even *remember* the details? :P

[caribiner23]

Sorry to hear about it, tweetersa. :(

Seems to be the season for that kind of thing (see my eHarmony thread).

You deserve to get in return what you put in. It's never fair when you put in your best and get nothing (or worse) in return.

[attgig]

:(
:(
:(
:(


If you’ve got love in your sights
Watch out, love bites

When you make love, do you look in the mirror?
Who do you think of?
Does he look like me?
Do you tell lies?
And say that it’s forever?
Do you think twice, or just touch ’n’ see?
Ooh babe
Ooh yeah
When you’re alone, do you let go?
Are you wild ’n’ willin’ or is it just for show?
Ooh c’mon

I don’t wanna touch you too much baby
’cos making love to you might drive me crazy
I know you think that love is the way you make it
So I don’t wanna be there when you decide to break it
No!

(love bites, love bleeds)
It’s bringin’ me to my knees
(love lives, love dies)
It’s no surprise
(love begs, love pleads)
It’s what I need

When I’m with you are you somewhere else?
Am I gettin’ thru or do you please yourself?
When you wake up will you walk out?
It can’t be love if you throw it about
Ooh babe
I don’t wanna touch you too much baby
’cos making love to you might drive me crazy
Oh

Ooh yeah
(love bites, love bleeds)
It’s bringin’ me to my knees
(love lives, love dies)
(love bites, love bleeds)
It’s bringin’ me to my knees
(love lives, love dies)
It’s no surprise
(love begs, love pleads)
It’s what I need

If you’ve got love in your sights
Watch out, love bites
Yes it does
It will be hell




stupid old song aside, it does suck, and it'll probably take a little time....but just be confident that there's many other fish in the sea, and that mr right is just around the corner.

[ski]

You are sultry, dirty, soft and hard
You are close to me and you’re so far
And I’m thinking of the time we spent together
Now I’ll bury this in my backyard
Sometimes I sit and wonder
But I’ll never dial your number ‘cause

I’m having fun looking out for number one
And I’m doing all the things I like to do
I’m having fun ‘cause I knew it all along
I’d be better off without you (http://www.lyrics007.com/The%20Clarks%20Lyrics/Better%20Off%20Without%20You%20Lyrics.html)

For me, it takes me longer to get over someone that treated me badly than any other. I never know why, but for you twee, I hope you can find some consolation in this thread -- we're here to try to help :)

[kimchicowboy]

Originally posted by skiAtomic
You are sultry, dirty, soft and hard
You are close to me and you’re so far
And I’m thinking of the time we spent together
Now I’ll bury this in my backyard
Sometimes I sit and wonder
But I’ll never dial your number ‘cause

I’m having fun looking out for number one
And I’m doing all the things I like to do
I’m having fun ‘cause I knew it all along
I’d be better off without you (http://www.lyrics007.com/The%20Clarks%20Lyrics/Better%20Off%20Without%20You%20Lyrics.html)

For me, it takes me longer to get over someone that treated me badly than any other. I never know why, but for you twee, I hope you can find some consolation in this thread -- we're here to try to help :)
lol. i thought this was the song from that old 80s movie "better off dead" at first. haha.

sorry tweet. yeah. i'm not one to cuss, but there's this one line from that one movie that evades me at the moment: "love. it's a motherf*cker."

[cheapie]

hook up with att. he's cool. and single! and has a good job. but he's develop an allergy to beer so you won't get to hold his head while he pukes from drinking too much.

unless he's drinking girly drinks like i do now.

[ski]

Originally posted by cheapie
hook up with att. he's cool. and single! and has a good job. but he's develop an allergy to beer so you won't get to hold his head while he pukes from drinking too much.

unless he's drinking girly drinks like i do now.
Not to mention att's one of us East coast boys, and twee's West coast. But as all of my favorite rappers say...

:halo: One love :halo:

[DaFunkyUnit]

Originally posted by skiAtomic

Not to mention att's one of us East coast boys, and twee's West coast. But as all of my favorite rappers say...

:halo: One love :halo:

or as Snoop Dogg says:

"You can't spell West without the E.S.!" :cool:


oh, and Twee, I'm sure you will weather this storm out. Just another bump in the long road of life :)

[kimchicowboy]

can someone put up that post off attgig running to the finish line again? i think it could give tweet a nice little chuckle. hehe.

just messin with ya attgig.

[InfiniteNothing]

There is a single bug going around. Perhaps we should start a "hey I just had a painfull break up" club akin to the Midnight society.

[revil]

find some new guys. wear this shirt:
http://www.engrish.com/image/engrish/place-gently.jpg

[tweeteresa]

thanx you guys...

i don't know whether to keep crying, to throw punches at the wall, to sit and veg out on ice cream, brownies, and cake, or to dress up hella sexy and go out and find a new guy. i just needa take my mind off from keep on thinkin about it. :hmm:

[topane]

Originally posted by tweeteresa
thanx you guys...

i don't know whether to keep crying, to throw punches at the wall, to sit and veg out on ice cream, brownies, and cake, or to dress up hella sexy and go out and find a new guy. i just needa take my mind off from keep on thinkin about it. :hmm: I vote for hella sexy. I'll buy you dinner :naughty:

[kimchicowboy]

hey tweet. go on the $199 4-day cruise out of LA to ensenada written in today's deals. i'd do it if i were in LA and if i could find my dern speedo... heheh. j/k.

[Kevster]

Since we're both in L.A. I could always come by with Lucy the wiener dog, she always cheers people up.

As for being single, don't immediately jump into something new - give yourself a little time to get through this. Have some fun first - go skiing, paintballing with Nija and me, etc. :)

[Nija]

Originally posted by Kevster
paintballing with Nija and me, etc. :)

I don't have a problem with chicks playin' n all. But Dude.

This is a pissed off chick. She's gonna be aiming for our nads.

/me covers his nads up, and begins running away

Please don't let her shoot me in the butt, please don't let her shoot me in the butt.... ;)

[molecularfire]

I'm just putting in another vote for the dress sexy option. However, stop by my place. My brother is single. :P

[Kevster]

Originally posted by Nija


I don't have a problem with chicks playin' n all. But Dude.

This is a pissed off chick. She's gonna be aiming for our nads.

/me covers his nads up, and begins running away

Please don't let her shoot me in the butt, please don't let her shoot me in the butt.... ;)

Dude, this is why she must be on our team. We'll be unstoppable with tweeter working out her "issues" on the field. ;)

[le_stick]

You can transfer your anger into exercise. IMHO

[mcs328]

I second the dress sexy option. Please post pics...before, after and then off. :)

[ray]

I say you just talk it through with your friends and all. Sometimes just talking about it with people who are willing to listen is enough to emotionally settle someone.

[RoniMan]

here's some quotes that's helped me in the past

love makes time pass
time makes love pass.

When it is dark enough then you can see the stars.

i have some other ones, but i'll post them when i get home.
i'm sorry to hear that you're sad. don't worry, there's other nemos in the sea.

[brain]

Originally posted by kimchicowboy
hey tweet. go on the $199 4-day cruise out of LA to ensenada written in today's deals. i'd do it if i were in LA and if i could find my dern speedo... heheh. j/k.

james. don't ever think of wearing a speedo. EVER.

[angl2b]

Originally posted by mcs328
I second the dress sexy option. Please post pics...before, after and then off. :)
ignore him....:bonk: you don't have to dress exy and go out...that is the first thing that most girls want to do to feel wanted again just to prove that point...but if the guy can't love or treat us the way we deserve to be treated they are not worth our time at all.

[ray]

w/b angl2b. haven't seen you around for a few weeks.

Glad to see some of the women are chiming in with their opinions. Has anyone else noticed the obvious behavorial differences between what the men have suggested and what the women have suggested in this thread?

So sad, so sad.

[attgig]

Originally posted by lilbigblue
w/b angl2b. haven't seen you around for a few weeks.

Glad to see some of the women are chiming in with their opinions. Has anyone else noticed the obvious behavorial differences between what the men have suggested and what the women have suggested in this thread?

So sad, so sad.

I personally like what cheapie suggested :P

[DaFunkyUnit]

ahh yes, the rebounders. If it werent for them, many one-night-stands & flings would cease to be.

[Grimm]

Just go out and do things.

No need to dress up or meet new guys. Get together with some friends and go see a movie. Do a group dinner. Disneyland, Knott's Berry Farm, Magic Mountan, whatever.

If your friends don't have time right now, come down to San Diego. I will introduce you to my frinds and you can play Halo on a big screen TV with us or hit a movie (last movie was with 72 of my closest friends).

Don't sit at home and don't date anyone right away.

[ray]

I find it absolutely amazing that so many people come online for personal advice and help. And I find it even more amazing that despite a lot of the joking, people are willing to help complete strangers.

I do think this would be different if we chanced upon a random stranger in real life though. Would you help a complete stranger who walked up to you while you were eating and asked you for relationship advice?

[revil]

sure. i'll do what I always do. I'll send them astray

[tweeteresa]

thnx again u guys. i'm better. :) actually been way too busy with school, work, and all the practices for our production to even think about it. my typical day lately starts at 8am with class or work and going all the way to 11 or so with practices and rehearsals. been krazy hectic but it'll be back to normal after monday.

i've moped maybe once or twice since i started this thread. mostly been occupied with going out to the movies, dinner with random friends, partying, clubbin, and practices for dance, fashion show, and choir. i'm about to scream cuz i haven't had much sleep. i'm also organizing the after party for the production so that's been krazy hectic too.

overall, i'm good. thnx for all the advices and offers and whatnots. i'll keep em in mind... :P

[attgig]

Originally posted by tweeteresa
i'll keep em in mind... :P

you got the 2 letters mixed up....

you should "keep ME in mind" ;)

[Kim]

Good luck with all thats going on Twee!