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06-11-2000, 05:09 AM
ok.. i need ideas that would make my girl go "ahh" and brag to her friends... and no ordering free chocolates from gotapex doesn't count... hee hee http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/smile.gif... i'm actually serious... i really love my girl... and want new ideas to show to her how much i do care for her... thanks!!!... any advice helps....
06-11-2000, 04:26 PM
It's doing the little things without complaining and without someone asking. From taking out the trash to getting off the computer and sitting on the couch and watching a movie or something on the tube.
If you want something spectacular.. plan a weekend getaway... up here near Avalia Beach we have hot springs and you can get a room with a spa or use one that is on the hill that is secluded away from everything and stay at Madonna Inn.
But the first is always what I brag about when it comes to my hubby http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/wink.gif
06-11-2000, 06:19 PM
Its weird, having been married for almost three years and quite a DonJuan previous to the marriage I have found that three little words will make any women melt, and I don't mean "I Love You". Sincerly tell her "I appreaciate you" All to often we get comfortable in a relationship and forget that its our job to make our partner crystal clear on just how much we enjoy their company traveling down this pot-hole ridden road of life. Add some flowers to those words and you will get a big hug I am sure.
[This message has been edited by DARTH_MAUL (edited 06-11-2000).]
06-12-2000, 03:25 AM
wear a thong and give her a lap dance. i'm pretty sure she'll tell all her friends.
06-12-2000, 04:19 PM
hahahahaha.... i like that!!!
06-12-2000, 04:37 PM
...i'm kinda surprised that so little people responded to this.... don't you guys do anything nice for your girls???... http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/smile.gif and ladies... if your man did something great... tell me about it... anything helps... i just bought my girl 100 roses that spell out I (heart) you... cost me a grip but whatever... she's worth it..
06-12-2000, 05:06 PM
You know, I'm not sure. I think it all depends on the girl. For me, my favorite thing would be to have my husband arrange for someone to take my 2 year old for the night, then take me to a hotel where he booked a suite. He would cook me a romantic candle light dinner (lasagne & cheesy garlic bread with some salad like at Olive Garden) then we would snuggle on the bed watching a romantic comedy and then an action movie. He would have presented me with a perfect pink rose at the door of the room when we got there.
*sniff* Now I'm depressed! There is no way he will ever think of doing something like that! He doesn't seem to have a romantic bone in his body! http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/frown.gif Oh well! Good luck and your girlfriend is lucky to have a boyfriend so attentive to her thoughts and feelings!
I buy her "cute" movies, like Stuart Little. Girls love those kind of movies, especially ones with a cute digital mouse, the Jerry Macguire kid, or both.
06-12-2000, 09:01 PM
AJ, I watch "cute movies" with my kids! I don't think that is a romantic gesture... unless it is used to occupy the children while Daddy and I are busy with other things. *wink*
Jenny, I love your idea! And don't give up...maybe while reading over your shoulder, he will get a hint http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/smile.gif
E, IF, 100+ct, Ideal, GIA cert would work as well.
06-12-2000, 10:07 PM
The element of surprise as in, do something unexpected of you.
Set up your sound system & TV/vcr or DVD outside in your driveway, (without her knowing) and go to a drive-in movie. Make sure it's a movie she likes. It may be kinda cheesy, but it's different.
Or arrange a scavenger hunt around town. Make it interesting, like, she has to go to (your favorite food spot) buy the food, and then drive to the next place, for example, a florist and pick up some roses, which you have already bought in advance of course, and have a nice little poem that you wrote of attached to it. http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/smile.gif
hey my girlfriend went crazy for stuart little. weird, but just passing it along..
06-12-2000, 10:16 PM
I have that movie, it didn't do jack for me though.
06-12-2000, 10:33 PM
well, you can cook a nice meal for her! that always works for me. nothing cheesy either like spaghetti. anyone and their dog can make spaghetti. now almond encrusted scallops in white wine sauce over spinach linguini is impressive!! hehe.
06-13-2000, 01:05 AM
I can't make spagetti, but I can cook up a mean steak and fries/potatoes....
Too bad my girlfriend doesnt like meat http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/frown.gif
06-13-2000, 01:22 AM
well...i made a big mistake in the beginning of my relationship; i spoiled her with tons of flowers and coming home from college all f the time to be with her, and all sorts of things...so it's hard to move up to more romantic things without insane amounts of cash...sucks to be me. I think I'm going to have to surprise her with something or other when i get home on thursday (flowers (i'm beginning to fell like these are getting redundant and repetitive (kinda like my saying redundant AND repetitive)), dinner, and then some time in a hot tub work for me...).
06-13-2000, 02:07 AM
Cook her dinner write her a poem, Make her a home made card [not one of those print shop cards either, get out the colored pencils or watercolors.] You shouldnít have to spend a lot of money on her, and if you do get rid of her. There is nothing worse than a woman that only cares about money. I would know, Iím Mormon and have nine wives. Iím lucky enough to have a few wives that go crazy when I make them a bouquet from our flower garden. Well thatís just my opinion, still looken for wife #10.
06-13-2000, 02:53 AM
Marry her.......that'll show how committed you are to her. Give her a big fat engagment ring......that'll get her to brag to all her friends http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/biggrin.gif
dang....ten wives! dn't they get jealous or anything....isn't one enough?
06-13-2000, 08:54 AM
JIWC, one is never enough. Why have one 18 year old when you could have five of them. They only get jealous when you spend too much time with one of the other ones in bed. You got to admit I got the live, only 23 years old, nine wives all between the ages of 18 and 27 years, not to forget my 15 kids.
06-13-2000, 09:36 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Talk2raffi:
I can't make spagetti, but I can cook up a mean steak and fries/potatoes....
Too bad my girlfriend doesnt like meat http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/frown.gif<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
you can't make spaghetti?? wow.
ok, 4 steps. 1)boil water. 2)add pasta. 3)empty jar of sauce into a pan and heat. 4)check pasta and drain when done. http://www.gotapex.com/ubb/tongue.gif
sorry, you probably thought i meant making the pasta and the sauce from scratch. that is impressive too. i've done that before as well with excellent results.
06-13-2000, 12:01 PM
Welcome back Prominx! First, find out what her favorite flower is, then head to the florist. If it is a lily, for instance, buy the most perfect, most beautiful lily you can and give it to her. If my husband took the time to do that, to figure out what I liked best and then to find the best one of those he could, I'd much rather have that then the generic bunch of flowers or the overdone (not that I don't love them...lol) bunch of roses. Make sense?
06-13-2000, 12:27 PM
ok, when i first started "courting her," before we started dating, i found out what her two favorite flowers were (at the time, they were both out of season, and they were both rare roses...). Well, to make a long painful story short, i went to a few dozen florists before finding a place taht carried both and spent about 50 dollars just buying 3 flowers...then i also got her 6 of her 2nd favorite (another 35 bucks), and THEN i bought her 3 dozen regular red roses (at about 13 bucks per bouquet)...and gave them all to her (at five different delivery times) in a 24 hour period.
Let's make this a visa Commercial:
Girlfriend's favorite flowers... $50
Girlfriend's second favorite flowers... $35
Three dozen more generic roses... $40
Finally having the girl of your dreams, who you have secretly had an enormous crush on (while she has been your best friend) for a few months, as your girlfriend... Priceless
ps - it only got more expensive after we started going out...
do all 10 wives live in the same house?
Let Smoove B teach you how to be a real man.
-So I sez to him, getch yer own monkey.
06-13-2000, 06:47 PM
LOL Fuz, that was one smoove article.. ha ha
Oh ya oblivion77 I got 10 wives too, they are all deflated at the moment and under my bed but hey.
"Where is your ****** god now?" The mole
06-14-2000, 01:27 AM
No they all live in different houses. You got to try it, I donít even have a job, I donít even need one. I got all nine of them bringing home income to me. There is always one watching the kids while the others are working. Iím telling you itís the life to live.
<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Fuz:
Let Smoove B teach you how to be a real man.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Thats good advice for TupacBoy- tell your girl those:
"Girl, I care for you very deeply. You have the most beautiful body that has ever been created, and I have got to bag it."
"After several more hours of intense pleasure from my soft strokes and various romantic words, I will put my sting in you, down low."
06-14-2000, 05:54 PM
how about a good old fashioned, saturday morning bang- uhm, ya -that should do it-
06-14-2000, 06:30 PM
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