What happened?

[RoniMan]

What happened to everything that used to be pure and simple?
What happened to "i love you"
What happened to something called love?
What happened to being there for you?
What happened to communications?
What happened to my world?
What happened?

As you can tell, my gf and i broke up after 2 years...

the thing of it all is i should have seen this...i kept being optimistic and hoping and trying...but i guess it's of no avail....

sigh....i don't even know what to say/feel....

:throw: :cry:

[Kim]

I'm so sorry. :(

[ski]

Keep yourself calm and cool for as most of the day as you can, then alot 30-60 minutes of each day to being sad and angry, and getting the frustration out. Hopin' for the best

[Nija]

I've heard getting drunk and calling her at 3am is a great way to have the relationship continue :P

[molecularfire]

Here's something that helps me (although, I'm not exactly a normal person). Think of the pain that you're feeling as a small price to pay for finding out that she's not the one. You have my condolences. :)

[Airencracken]

Oh, Roni. Dude that sucks. :( I can't imagine how I'd feel if the same happened to me. I know it's cliche, but I hope things work out for the best. Just try to keep your spirits up. Hopefully, as time goes by, you'll feel better, and you'll move on. I know it's mostly plattitudes, but it's still sincerce.

[kimchicowboy]

yeah. just throw the computer. hahah.

i'm with molecular. it's the price you have to pay if she ain't the one.

good luck dude.

[speedracer120]

That sucks man. On the bright side, me and you know that there a lot of hot stewies that you can piss her off with whenever you drop them off at LAX. ;)

[revil]

remember, you can always have twee.

err... I mean, you have been set free.

[oguevarra]

Sorry to hear about the break up. I feel for ya, been there before. Just keep yourself busy. Do things that you always wanted to do but never got the chance to...Keep your head up.

[whitak24]

man roni, that sucks. i'm sorry to hear about that.

hang in there -- bitch to us if you need people to talk to

[ray]

:( things'll get better!

[Booyamos]

:( things'll get better!

I agree. Sorry to hear about the break up, i had that happen myself with a 2 yr thing. Then i went through my slut faze for a while, once i got that out of my system i found a girl who was 1 million times better.

So the point is, you may feel down and bad now, but things will get better, it just takes time, which sucks.

[nickel]

sorry Roni :(
love stinks sometimes, but you are a nice looking guy with a great personality and sense of humor to boot so i don't think you'll have probs hooking up with another girl when you are ready.
things happen for a reason, and it may be that now you will find Ms. Right.

chin up :)

[tweeteresa]

aww i'm so sorry. but i'm with the rest...stay positive and keey your head up. you'll realized later (after LOTS of time) that it's for the best. and yes....bitch all u want to us. keep busy...and you'll be okay.

[RoniMan]

Keep yourself calm and cool for as most of the day as you can, then alot 30-60 minutes of each day to being sad and angry, and getting the frustration out. Hopin' for the best
:throw: :throw: :throw:

there, still 29 mins left for today....whew...feel MUCH better


Here's something that helps me (although, I'm not exactly a normal person). Think of the pain that you're feeling as a small price to pay for finding out that she's not the one. You have my condolences.

yeah, i know, maybe cause i'm getting older, but i'm finally realizing that it's true. but i'm just hating myself for not seeing the signs earlier, and i feel used....


That sucks man. On the bright side, me and you know that there a lot of hot stewies that you can piss her off with whenever you drop them off at LAX.

:naughty: :naughty:


sorry Roni
love stinks sometimes, but you are a nice looking guy with a great personality and sense of humor to boot so i don't think you'll have probs hooking up with another girl when you are ready.
things happen for a reason, and it may be that now you will find Ms. Right.

thanx nb, my best friends said that i need to lay off women for a while, so i guess what he's saying is that i should be looking for MISTER right....hmmmmmm :eek3:

thanx everyone for your support....i know "it's for the best" in the long run...but....sigh....it just doesn't make the hurt any easier to take.
3 quick bitch points
1) she just came home from taiwan on a biz trip. and to make her homecoming nice, i bought some new furniture ~$100, and some groceries so i could cook ~$100. so i spend $200 for nothing!
2) no fairwell sex (see above)
3) i have to move out w/out much notice, so i'm kinda living out of my car right now.....

1 quick "what do you think i should do question"
we bought a laptop together. it's under my credit. it's for her. who gets to keep it? points to consider.
a) when my finances was "unhealthy" she was paying for everything (food, rent, and the credit card bill for the laptop).
b) when i got back on my feet, i took the bill back, and took back my share of responsibilities.
c) i don't REALLY want the laptop, but i will need something soon when i find a place to live.
d) i don't want to be vindicative...wait, yes i do...no i don't...seriously, i don't. i want to be the better person.

[Airencracken]

1 quick "what do you think i should do question"
we bought a laptop together. it's under my credit. it's for her. who gets to keep it? points to consider.
a) when my finances was "unhealthy" she was paying for everything (food, rent, and the credit card bill for the laptop).
b) when i got back on my feet, i took the bill back, and took back my share of responsibilities.
c) i don't REALLY want the laptop, but i will need something soon when i find a place to live.
d) i don't want to be vindicative...wait, yes i do...no i don't...seriously, i don't. i want to be the better person.
Take it. You really do want to be vindictive. Trust me.

[molecularfire]

Can she handle the payments for the laptop now? If she can, personally, I would just have her pay whatever's left for the laptop. That way, you can save up money to buy a new laptop later.

[K2]

it sounds like you guys didn't end this too badly... you are both adults... i say you should talk to her about it.

unless i'm wrong.. and this ended ugly.. then uhm..yea.. keep thinking on what to do :) :wavey2:

[Jihforce]

Ok, so let me get this straight, she just came back from a biz trip and told you to move out?? No explanations, just go?

[angl2b]

if it makes u feel better my cuz n her guy didn't work out in Taiwan cuz the guy said she's not his type = meaning and he said this, her boobies aren't big enuf...on the serious side-if the ex gf didn't give explanations-try talking it out-if its not worth fighting for (meaning her) then take the laptop and just leave and don't look back
btw, really sorry to hear about this

[ramazank2]

She came and told you to get out? She's keeping your computer? You got owned!

[AmRivlin]

How old are you? I still go to clubs and see the token 50 year old, so there probably is still hope for you. Just kidding, you don't want club chicks, anyone that goes home with you is a &$^ bag.

But anyway, make sure you keep the DVD collection, you can leave the homade tapes for her new BF to find under the toilet some day.

Think about this, it is better to let it go now than if you waited another year and still thought everything was smooth.

Cheers.