Do You Feel Sorry for Girls Who aren't Married

[johnnymk]

...but just can't find the RIGHT guy? :shrug:

[nickel]

do you?

[molecularfire]

Depends. Are they cute?

[InfiniteNothing]

I only feel sorry for them if they wish they were married. Was that implied? And I feel sorry for both guys and girls. I think feel sorry is the wrong word. It's more like: wish I could help

[ray]

Not really. Why should I feel sorry for people who aren't married?

[look_ma]

Do You Feel Sorry for Girls Who aren't Married
Girls shouldn’t be married early on, I personally say wait till after college and schooling. Two people have 2 different personalities and have to grow them individually before becoming one or else strife will be inducted into the relationship. And if you get married early on, awesome good for you, you are more mature and prepared than the average person.

It should be as they stated above "Do You Feel Sorry for WOMEN Who aren't Married and wish they were?"

No, it is there own choosing. Would it be better that they were married to a beater? And if the want to be married there is probably some reason they are not married. Their standards could be set way to high for their future partner. I am not saying to not be choosy, but you cannot give a jeweler a penny and expect him to make a gold ring out of it. If you are 500 pounds, in a dead end job, not athletic at all, no personality you are not going to get a soap opera hunk. You can change yourself, you can lose weight, you can bust your butt and get a better job, you can start working out, and you can learn to be a more sociable person. And the reasons to do this should not be totally to get someone, but for self-improvement. And yes I honestly know some people truly cannot help themselves because of some out side force of nature. Yes this rant applies, especially applies to men as well.

Maybe there is a certain citation you are referring to johnymk, but overall I am failing to see why I should feel sorry for them. Not being married is not the end of the world, if it was then yes, I would just be an @$$hole just now by posting this.

[johnnymk]

do you?


Nope..Usually they are too picky, too demanding or totally unrealistic about finding the right mate.

[Emqtee]

Nope..Usually they are too picky, too demanding or totally unrealistic about finding the right mate.
This can also be said about single males.

Why would anyone feel sorry for girls who aren't married? I am single and I wouldn't want anyone feeling sorry for me. I would much rather be single than in an unhappy marriage. At this moment I like being single and independent.

Someday I may find the person that I was meant to be with. But honestly my life doesn't revolve around trying to find the "right" person. If it happens it happens, if not life goes on. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.

[InfiniteNothing]

Why would anyone feel sorry for girls who aren't married?

I just empathize. It is really is hard to find a great guy or a great girl. I think that's why married people feel so lucky.

For most of the females I know they have no trouble finding or keeping a guy... it's just finding a great guy that's hard. There's always something wrong with the guy. And I don't think they are being too picky, these guys really aren't all that.

[DarkFury]

Nope... most likely there is a "good reason" for when that happens. :shrug:

[Memo]

Not my fault they're ugly :)

[molecularfire]

I would much rather be single than in an unhappy marriage.
:stupid: Better to live alone than to live a lie.

[InfiniteNothing]

:stupid: Better to live alone than to live a lie.

Oh yeah, absolutely. I just feel bad if those are your only options. That is unless you want to be alone.

[Nija]

Why would I feel sorry for them?

[cheapie]

i do. some of them have bought the lie that they are worthless in our society if they are not skinny, beautiful, and endowed with flawless skin and big beautiful breasts. because they can't find value and beauty in themselves, nobody else can and they remain alone. a vicious circle.

[cheapchinese]

only if they pass the 30 year mark

[cheapie]

easy buddy. i'll be thirty in a couple weeks. :bawl:

[Nija]

easy buddy. i'll be thirty in a couple weeks. :bawl:

so that means your really an unmarried woman :hmm:

:hihi:

[cheapie]

so that means your really an unmarried woman :hmm:

:hihi:



:boxing: :neartears




:)

[mcs328]

<Chris Rock>
Married and bored...
Single and lonely...
Married and bored...
Single and lonely...

When you're single you want to kill yourself. When you're married you want to kill her. Better her than me. :dead:
<Chris Rock>

Something like that... :)

[zenbooty]

No, I feel sorry for guys who ARE married. :hihi:

[ray]

No, I feel sorry for guys who ARE married. :hihi:

I didn't think of it that way. :stupid: :dead:

[Merlin]

No, I feel sorry for guys who ARE married. :hihi:
:stupid: Gotta agree with you there. Married people really don't make it look too appealing.

[DarkFury]

No, I feel sorry for guys who ARE married. :hihi:
Amen Brother... :D

[cheapie]

No, I feel sorry for guys who ARE married. :hihi:


yeah. there's nothing worse than free sex anytime and anywhere you want it. add in the companionship, great homecooked meals and clean house, it really sux.



:thumbup:

[johnnymk]

yeah. there's nothing worse than free sex anytime and anywhere you want it.



:thumbup:

I don't think there's such a thing as free sex. In one way or another, you have to pay for it. :dead:

[cheapie]

:shrug: yeah. but it's still there 24/7.

[johnnymk]

:shrug: yeah. but it's still there 24/7.

Does a warranty come with that? :bow:

After all, I just checked techbargains.com and they have a link for a palm with a free extended warranty.

[Memo]

yeah. there's nothing worse than free sex anytime and anywhere you want it.

Did you have to pay for sex before marriage? :P

[cheapie]

dunno. never had it.

[zenbooty]

dunno. never had it.I find that morally reprehensible, and am frankly disgusted! Does your wife know about this? :P

[DarkFury]

yeah. there's nothing worse than free sex anytime and anywhere you want it. add in the companionship, great homecooked meals and clean house, it really sux.



:thumbup:

<Eddie Murphy RAW>

These used to be a Ritz, but now they're just the same Ol' crackers....

</Eddie Murphy RAW>

[InfiniteNothing]

I find that morally reprehensible, and am frankly disgusted! Does your wife know about this? :P

LOL And if you think sex is free when you get married, it isn't, you pay for it alright. You pay heavy monthly dues. As for clean houses, I can never find my stuff when the "wife" cleans the house. I have that same need of companionship though. But I tend to think of it as a fault more than a feature. Lastly, it sounds like you're getting a pretty good deal with the dinner, but you pay for it by having to do twice(?) the dishes.

[cheapie]

LOL And if you think sex is free when you get married, it isn't, you pay for it alright. You pay heavy monthly dues. As for clean houses, I can never find my stuff when the "wife" cleans the house. I have that same need of companionship though. But I tend to think of it as a fault more than a feature. Lastly, it sounds like you're getting a pretty good deal with the dinner, but you pay for it by having to do twice(?) the dishes.


i'm sorry? somebody's doing twice the dishes but....


we're lucky. my wife doesn't have to work outside the home so we have pretty relaxing evenings. = no dishes for me. cept when i make a mess on the weekends or when she's gone.

[InfiniteNothing]

i'm sorry? somebody's doing twice the dishes but....


we're lucky. my wife doesn't have to work outside the home so we have pretty relaxing evenings. = no dishes for me. cept when i make a mess on the weekends or when she's gone.

I was joking. I'll try and make that more obvious in the future.

[DarkFury]

i'm sorry? somebody's doing twice the dishes but....


we're lucky. my wife doesn't have to work outside the home so we have pretty relaxing evenings. = no dishes for me. cept when i make a mess on the weekends or when she's gone.
Just be happy that she's not a "nagger" (Hmm... that doesn't sound right if you think about it :hmm: ) like the hell woman I generally have to deal with...

[johnnymk]

Just be happy that she's not a "nagger" (Hmm... that doesn't sound right if you think about it :hmm: ) like the hell woman I generally have to deal with...

Maybe if you'd marry the poor girl, she would calm down :neartears

[InfiniteNothing]

Maybe if you'd marry the poor girl, she would calm down :neartears

Is it me or is there something going on between JMK and DF?

[DarkFury]

Maybe if you'd marry the poor girl, she would calm down :neartears
So you'd wish that on me huh.... dayuum... I didn't know that you didn't like me THAT much. :hmm: :2far:


Oh well... :shrug:


Is it me or is there something going on between JMK and DF?
Is there...? If so... then what is it? :shrug:

[johnnymk]

So you'd wish that on me huh.... dayuum... I didn't know that you didn't like me THAT much.

I really wasn't serious.

BTW, do they have common law marriages in Indiana? I believe in Pa. it's automatic after 7 years but I'm not sure.


dunno. never had it.


Sorry, but I am very cynical about the state of marriages in the world today. I have seen too many dissolve over silly issues.

I really shouldn't make light of your marriage, since you seem to have one that is successful.

[cheapie]

Just be happy that she's not a "nagger" (Hmm... that doesn't sound right if you think about it :hmm: )

lol. i'm glad you said it. she's actually partly african american. kinda. her father and grandfather on her mom's side were born in nigeria. that count?

[InfiniteNothing]

lol. i'm glad you said it. she's actually partly african american. kinda. her father and grandfather on her mom's side were born in nigeria. that count?

I think he meant someone who nags alot.

[cheapie]

i know. but he also said it doesn't sound right....which i took as a reference to the "n" word. in the event i'm wrong, he can kick my ass when we go the the colts/minnesota monday night football game in indy. you up for it df?

[DarkFury]

BTW, do they have common law marriages in Indiana? I believe in Pa. it's automatic after 7 years but I'm not sure.
I consulted a lawyer about it, and no Indiana doesn't have a common law like that...

Besides, the lawyer stated that I would have had to "hold myself out as if we were married" and I can tell you right now, I don't invest in any joint properties (my house and my vehicles are MINE alone), her name is not on ANY of my bills (not that she would contribute anyways... :hmm: :angry: ) and pretty much its more or less like she is just a "renter/roomate/squatter" there versus a "common law wife".

Ahh... the things we do for our children. :2far:


lol. i'm glad you said it. she's actually partly african american. kinda. her father and grandfather on her mom's side were born in nigeria. that count?
"Nagger" as is nagging you to always do stuff ( the Honey-dos )

What the hell were YOU thinking? :hmm: ( and yes, that is too close to the "N Bomb" which is why I put that statement in there.)


i know. but he also said it doesn't sound right....which i took as a reference to the "n" word. in the event i'm wrong, he can kick my ass when we go the the colts/minnesota monday night football game in indy. you up for it df?

You buyin the tickets? :D

[johnnymk]

and pretty much its more or less like she is just a "renter/roomate/squatter" there versus a "common law wife".





LOL, Your something other is called a squatter. That is too funny!!

[eSDee]

Darkfury, does baby momma live with you or is she back in Fla? I know you were saying something about your mother in law, and she was living with her or someting. Anyways yeah, I hope you never get married to her! :cheers:

[DarkFury]

Darkfury, does baby momma live with you or is she back in Fla? I know you were saying something about your mother in law, and she was living with her or someting. Anyways yeah, I hope you never get married to her! :cheers:
Nah... she's from Indy and she lives with me.

My folks are back in Florida... so basically my entire support network is back in Florida... therefore I'm kinda like a "lone soldier" here.

Honestly, I'm cool with most of her family... I guess they realize that I'm probably one of the "strongest most stable Black men" they've ever met... and on top of that, the majority of the women in her family (including her Mom and Aunts) have NEVER had decent relationships with men.

Pretty much, NONE of them are married... or "stayed married", and honestly the situation I got here is the "norm" for her family.

Hindsight is 20/20... and I'm investing highly in "time travel" futures to go back and tell myself in the past to RUN LIKE HELL next time. :2far:

[ShawnLee]

getting back on topic sort of...

nothing wrong with unmarried women, unless they're desperate to be married. not all of them have issues, some just are unable.

[cheapie]

Hindsight is 20/20... and I'm investing highly in "time travel" futures to go back and tell myself in the past to RUN LIKE HELL next time. :2far:


then here you go! (http://www.gotapex.com/forums/showthread.php?t=74152)

[topane]

yeah. there's nothing worse than free sex anytime and anywhere you want it. add in the companionship, great homecooked meals and clean house, it really sux.

:thumbup:You obviously haven't been married long enough ;).

[DarkFury]

then here you go! (http://www.gotapex.com/forums/showthread.php?t=74152)
If only it were "fully operational/functional"... I'd buy that mofo. :2far:

[cheapie]

You obviously haven't been married long enough ;).


almost 7 years.

[ShawnLee]

If only it were "fully operational/functional"... I'd buy that mofo. :2far:
Needs not be stated. I'd have won fifteen different lotteries in the week after my eighteenth birthday.

[InfiniteNothing]

Needs not be stated. I'd have won fifteen different lotteries in the week after my eighteenth birthday.

The difference is money won't make you happy :D

[Merlin]

The difference is money won't make you happy :D
But I sure can rent happiness!

[DarkFury]

Needs not be stated. I'd have won fifteen different lotteries in the week after my eighteenth birthday.
"Needs not be stated?"

Huh? :shrug:

[Kevster]

Mrs. Kevster and I have been married over 3 years now and we have known each other for over 10. Sure, we have our disagreements and difficulties sometimes (it took us 9 months to decide on a bedroom set - but at least we didn't settle), but we understand each other and have a lot of fun together too. Am I a sucker? Nope.

Marriage is not for some people (read: Merlin :monkey: ).

;)