How life sucks!!!!

[pain2010]

Well it started i say about 3 months ago. My mom had cancer and then the kemo started. It was real bad for her and was in the hospital for 2 weeks. Then my wife told me she wants a divorce. The fighting started it was bad!! No physial fighting just verbal ****. Just the other day she pissed me off and i punched the cabnit and fracture my hand. Do know if iam going to lose my job yet.
What a wonderful life???? The only reason iam still around here is becase of our 2 kids. i can't let them get hurt anymore. Oh and she might be pregant tooo. What else could go wrong???

[ufcrusher]

Sorry to hear about all teh things going wrong in your life, but at least things should only get better. As many people will attest, staying together solely for the kids generally is a bad thing. If you want to work things out go into marriage counseling. Otherwise, you and your wife should really determine what the problem is. Is it just the stress of everything that is going on or do you both no longer have feelings for each other.

You might also want to see a psychologist, individually, to talk about everything that is going wrong. It will really help you to talk it out and can only make things better. It sounds lile you have a lot of bottled up emotions which are spilling out and effecting your life.

Hope you feel better.

[ShawnLee]

I'm feel for you. I hope it gets better.

[Kim]

Good luck, I'm sorry things are so bad right now.

[pain2010]

Ufcrusher your right iam tied up in nots in what i need to do. I just wished it was easy for me to let go. I had to make her hate me so i could go on with my life. I know it stpid but thats the way i doing it. Maybe one day she will understand what i did was for her.

thank you-all for careing about me, it does make me feel beter about myself.