San Diego - 94.1 FM J&J Morning Show Drama Club Thread

[Jammie J.]

Iamsheens, thanks for talking to me rather than just ignoring me or talking around me as others have. You're right about Amused or anyone else having a right to be here. But like I said, I get uncomfortable when people start thinking they are *better* than LBM or FH, especially Amused. I'd like to think I have more integrity than FH and LBM but I don't know them personally. Someone might look at just the bad or public stuff I've done in my life or your life and think we suck, too. So my plea to all of you -- especially those of you who claim to be Christians and know it is against biblical teaching to make fun of people -- is to back off on enjoying the bad things that happen to FH or LBM. We should pity them for their ignorance, not revel in their downfalls. Critiquing or complaining about the show is one thing, but personal attacks on show members should be just as intolerable as personal attacks on people in this forum.

Okay, here's my super-long take on the showgram -- not an attack, but my personal opinions and why I'm here:

Jer & Pam: I relate to them because I am a HUGE fan of cats. I love cats so much that I have five of them, see, I had two and then married someone who had three. We're like the frickin' Brady Bunch with cats. I met Jerry & Pam at the Nickels & Dimes showing a few years back and, truthfully, I really enjoyed meeting Pam. She was incredibly nice to me and really seemed to care about those around her. I didn't really form an opinion about Jer, because he didn't really interact with me. He was standing right there, but talking to someone else. I really have nothing against them except I think his boob name list is stupid.

Jeff: I always thought he was just a good ol' boy with a good heart, a little dopey at times and often going where he shouldn't (trying to be a psychologist), but I always thought it was just his thirst to learn more. Have to admit, it does get uncomfortable when he pushes it with guests on the show. He seems to be the kind of guy who is oblivious and content with life unless someone tells him he shouldn't be. which I would imagine can be kind of frustrating for those in personal relationships with him.

Randy: I like Randy. Always have. Way back when I was with AOHELL, I spent several hours chatting with him via Instant Message. My take is, he's more of a reflector of what's going on around him, he's a hard worker and a good "background" personality. Overall, he's pretty easy going. I like easy going people.

Laura: In some ways, I "get" her. Which also scares me. I get that she focuses on the superficial stuff (her closet, shopping, movies, dancing, etc.) so that she can avoid thinking about the hurtful stuff. In her diary and in the conversations she has with FH, she makes conversation changes rapidly and without relating to the previous ones and I think it's a defense mechanism, like it's getting too deep for her to handle. She is an adult child of an alcoholic, knowing that, she knew that she was predisposed to becoming an addict to "stuff" and yet she still made bad choices. What I don't get, probably never will, is why she made those choices, why she chooses to perpetuate her woe by continuing to make bad choices and why she chooses to play the role of a victim. She needs to pick herself up, dust herself off and work on being the best person she can be. (shrug) Maybe she is, I don't know, but (as a small example of bigger things) if you know you're fat and have a gut, you shouldn't sit there and stuff your face with food until you look like a chipmunk (seriously, J&J were calling her "Chipmunk" one morning because of that), all the while whining about how you're fat and have a gut. Do I wish her ill will, no, never. But I'm not sure she won't find it on her own, because it's as if she doesn't grasp the connection between cause and effect (i.e., food=gut).

Tommy: The man is pathological, anyone who reads his blob can see that unless they're blind. I can't even begin to find common ground with him. Do I wish him ill will, again, no. But, he's one of those types of people who KNOWS the result of something and does it anyway. Again, he seems to find it on his own.

For all of them, I say their actions speak louder than their words ever could. Do I think I'm better than any of them? I don't know if I'm arrogant enough to say yes. Also, I suppose it depends on how one measures "better than" or how you measure success.

By material things, then no. All of them make more money than me, live in bigger houses, can afford more stuff than I ever will be able to. But at the end of the day, when you're packing to run away from fires or earthquakes, there's only so much stuff one can fit in a suitcase.

If you judge success by how much good you do in life with what you have, well, I suppose we'd have to look at motivation. What motivates them to do the good things they do? Do they genuinely want to help or do they want to be lauded for it? I suspect that Jerry does a lot of good stuff, but you never hear about it.

If judging by choices made, I suppose in some instances I've made better choices in life than they have. But at the very least, I try to be honest with myself about things, take responsibility when and where it's appropriate.

What about where we are in our lives? FH claims he's happy, that he's happier than he's ever been in his life. If you say something enough times, maybe you will perceive that it's true. LBM... well, I don't think she's happy.

If you go by the strict "Christian" method, then we shouldn't be judging at all, because we're all the same in God's eyes. So all the above doesn't even matter.

Like a lot of other people here, LBM is the reason I found this board. I couldn't figure out why "family stuff" would take three months to fix. I thought maybe she'd had a baby prematurely (there were complications with Charlie), I wondered if she'd been in an accident. If they had been more honest with us, I probably would have remained loyal. Maybe I'm stupid or naive, because I know it's just a radio show, but I really did care. I have listened to them since I was a teenager back in the 80's. It's hard not to care about someone you've listened to on the radio for so long.

I guess, after having said all that, I'm rather curious why YOU are here? What is your motivation? Why does it matter to you what we say on here?

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Well, I went to the 3 Day this morning to meet up with an online friend that was walking it. That never happened (who knew that 4000+ walkers were walking the 3 Day and I saw about 3300 of them go by me - but not the person I was looking for....sigh...)

But I did see XXXL - I was right before Pit Stop #3 which, as I understand it, is right about at Mile #7. He was wearing his famous navy blue outfit (again) and walking by himself, although 6 or 7 women were right behind him (the Torrey Pines gang?) He smiled at me and nodded and I asked him how he was doing. He said "it's TOUGH!!!" and laughed.

So at least he was walking at 10-ish this morning. I didn't specifically see Mooch, but she might have been in the group of ladies.

Sadly, I forgot to take my camera so there are no photos to document that he actually did walk today.

I do have to say that I have a new appreciation for those that walk the 60 miles - I saw young people, old people, skinny people, fat people, white people, dark people, Moms, Dads, Sisters, Brothers, Cousins, Twins....lots of people. I saw people that were already suffering with bad knees and hips, limping people. But they were all out there walking.

Such an inspiration!

[11ListenerNot]

He was wearing his famous navy blue outfit (again)
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Thanks for the update, but ewwwwwwwwwwww! gross.
I heard LBM last week say that when he made all his purchases for the 3 day, he bought "jammie bottoms". Did anyone else hear that? Hopefully he's wearing a XXXL t-shirt over them!

[Jammie J.]

He was wearing his famous navy blue outfit (again)
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Thanks for the update, but ewwwwwwwwwwww! gross.
I heard LBM last week say that when he made all his purchases for the 3 day, he bought "jammie bottoms". Did anyone else hear that? Hopefully he's wearing a XXXL t-shirt over them!

Hey, hey! I take exception to that!

[insightbyjake]

I get uncomfortable when people start thinking they are *better* than LBM or FH.

I am.

And, I think I'm pretty comfortable with that.:cool:

[Wabbitsd]

Hey, Elton. How bout you try for some kind of mathematical measurementin yor post content if you are going to stay...say, 80 percent contribution and maybe only 20 percent snarky jabs at people here. Maybe then you won't be on so many ignore buttons.

And for the record, I'd like to join Jake there. I am a single parent, and I have taken a whole different path with my daughter than these two losers have with their kids. I ain't saying I'm perfect, but I'm not indulging in alcohol and other illegal drugs, I am actually involved in my daughter's life in school as well as extracurricular activities, and I figure it's my job to guide them morally as well as socially and educationally through life for the brief time I get to do that.

I haven't spent my weekends away from them partying like a college coed...in fact, when I chose to have my daughter, I made a silly commitment to let all that stuff go by the wayside. So yeah, actually, I can honestly say I feel like I am better than either of them in so many ways. And I'm not much of a bragger, though many people encourage me to do so more often.

Jammie, you know, I used to kinda like Jer and Pam...THEN...probably at the Nickles and Dimes show, Pam WENT OFF on some friends of mine...they were volunteer ushers. They were told to keep people out of the backstage area, but of course, no one provided them a glamour shot photo of Pam...she tried to barge through, they actually politely said that this area was closed, and her response was, "DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM? Without my HUSBAND!!! you wouldn't even have a JOB!!! She then pushed on past them.

Yes, she upbraided VOLUNTEER USHERS. There to help her darlink husband. I lost all respect for her. I have to hold out at least a measure of respect because Jer was very kind to my daughter once, very long long time ago. This was when they all were actual human beings, so I bet he wouldn't stop his car for her if she were crossing the street in front of him now.

I appreciate that they love and do so much for animals. I really liked that they had house rabbits for a while, but they haven't even mentioned the buns for a long time, so they lost that green card with me. But they both have certainly learned to "stratify" their interaction with others around them.

[insightbyjake]

... We should pity them for their ignorance, not revel in their downfalls. Critiquing or complaining about the show is one thing, but personal attacks on show members should be just as intolerable as personal attacks on people in this forum.
There is no "personal" here. We don't know each other "personally." We only "know" the characters we've invented on this thread.

I've mentioned before....the Showgram is equivalent to Hollywood. No one is "real" in Hollywood. All the world's a stage and they are "pretend" humans making ridiculous money in exchange for giving up their "self."

Axl Rose? No he's William Bailey. Bono? No, he's Paul Hewson.
David Copperfield? Try David Kotkin. Even Larry King. He's Larry Zeigler.

Heck, these guys were Jerry St. James and Jeff Elliot.

Enjoying the "downfalls" of pretentious people is human NASCAR. We watch, cause the wrecks are exciting. NASCAR "gets it" that's why the cars are built to crash. They disintegrate as they absorb the force, protecting the driver's cage.

Hollywood's version of a driver's cage? Publicists, lawyers, spokeholes, house-arrest, rehab.....it's all there because they WILL eventually crash.

Do I have pity for Britney Spears? Not really. She created her goofy, artificial, "all-about-me" world, and crashed. Just like Lindsay Lohan,whose entire family is a joy to watch tumbling out of control.

It's entertainment. When do we stop enjoying it? When it hits the "innocents." I couldn't care less if LBM inhaled half of Columbia's favorite export. But I start to care when I realize her two kids need a REAL mom. That's where the anger kicks in: I'm willing to suspend mocking her foolish choices, if she takes off the "mask" of being a Big Deal, suspends her former wayward ways and becomes a mom first and radio voice second.

As for FH? He's a hypocrite. Is that a personal attack? Let's see what a hypocrite is: 1. "One who plays a part especially for winning approbation of favor." 2. "One who feigns to be other or better than he is."

Origin of the word? Hypocrita One who plays a part on the stage.

"Amused" is not real. It's simply the "part" FH's-ex plays on the stage of this thread. It's an avenue for venting -- and I, for one, enjoy it very much because I believe this thread is not real and the posters are not "complete." Every poster lives the remaining 98% of their life away from this thread.

There is no "personal" when it involves 2% of who we are. If someone out there hates Jake?...:cheers:

The real people he knows actually like him.

[SDGirl87]

and all the people said...

Amen.

[LisaP]

and all the people said...

Amen.

Ditto!

[11ListenerNot]

Jake, you hit the nail on the head. Fathead?? ha just kidding

[Trixie]

Welcome to Sputnick #172 :wavey2:

[longtimereader]

Sorry to be so negative but as a longtime reader I'm sick of ...

Elton, would you PLEASE not take my name in vain?

Thank you.

[Elton]

Hey, Elton. How bout you try for some kind of mathematical measurementin yor post content if you are going to stay...say, 80 percent contribution and maybe only 20 percent snarky jabs at people here. Maybe then you won't be on so many ignore buttons.

And THAT wasn't snarky at all! Practice what you preach.

[sputnick]

I've always been curious as to why men like FH, who enjoy the adoration of many women, find it necessary to get married. Guys like that who constantly are looking for attention from many different women end up getting married again and again. If playing around is so important why bother to take vows and get married, especially when you know you will stray? You would think that since he already proved that he can't be faithful in one marriage he wouldn't once again find himself getting married. You know the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." It amazes me how some people really want to complicate their lives and screw up the lives of others. There is nothing written anywhere that states that one HAS to be married. It's okay not to be, really! You would think that a guy that wants to sample the candy would not put restrictions on himself!! I think guys like that can't bear to be alone for any length of time. They get their feelings of worth from having different women around all the time. I have always wondered about beauty and wealth in relationships. I don't think I have ever seen a relationship in the public eye where a woman was obese and was being pursued by an attractive suitor. You see many out-of-shape (to put it mildly) men who have attractive girlfriends/wives. It seems that $$$$$ is the bait that reels them in. If you're intimate with someone that turns you off it doesn't matter how much $$$$ they have. I would not want to sleep with them. On another note, a really attractive person can become very ugly if their personality and insides are disgusting. Okay, topic open for discussion................
Thanks Trixie for my number 172

[BebeSD]

I've always been curious as to why men like FH, who enjoy the adoration of many women, find it necessary to get married.

Because he lives in many "realities." One being he is a fantastic family man - loyal caretaker to his mother, adored father, etc. It's all part of the persona he thinks he has, and when it doesn't fit with his real urges, he stamps those desires down to be more like the glossy image he thinks we adore.

[sputnick]

I am curious as to whether FH is critical of women that are out-of-shape, large, or obese. It always cracks me up that men that are so critical of women regarding their physical shape have a big paunch themselves that they overlook. (Sometimes many of them can't overlook it, literally!) Amused, can you comment as to whether FH was/is critical of women that are not body-beautiful?

[insightbyjake]

... I don't think I have ever seen a relationship in the public eye where a woman was obese and was being pursued by an attractive suitor. You see many out-of-shape (to put it mildly) men who have attractive girlfriends/wives. It seems that $$$$$ is the bait that reels them in. If you're intimate with someone that turns you off it doesn't matter how much $$$$ they have....

Absolutely!!!


Although...........

if you weigh more than 250 and have $10 million available for me....I'm lying in my sleeptrain bed waiting for you.

P.S. Could you pick up some Levitra on your way over?




P.P.S. It's $20 million if male.

[RowdyOne]

Absolutely!!!
Although...........

if you weigh more than 250 and have $10 million available for me....I'm lying in my sleeptrain bed waiting for you.

P.S. Could you pick up some Levitra on your way over?

P.P.S. It's $20 million if male.

Again, Jake,you make me choke with laughter and mess up my computer screen with my Cuba Libre.

[califbrat]

PRICLESS JAKE I would say more but I''m dumb stuck with laughter & awe of you! .. hey can we post that on TMZ !!

[Truth Teller]

Thank goodness this thread is getting back on track and the soap opera is over! Now we can enjoy Jake, Boris and the rest of the regular crew without constant and unnecessary interruptions trying to lure us all off topic. Yahooo!

(Jake, you are my hero!)

[simba]

Message from News 8 web site

Day Two ~ The Pain
Posted By Barbara-Lee
November 10th, 2007


It’s Saturday and we just did 9.7 miles…that’s almost 30 miles total!

My feet are killing me. I have two small blisters, but that isn’t where the pain comes from. It’s the burning in my feet, toes, and my legs. I’m longing to finish the next 10 miles and then just soak my feet and lay completely still.

It hurts to walk this much even with all the months of training…but what keeps me going is the fact that…blisters don’t need Chemo….

Little Tommy

[simba]

Wonder if he finished the day. The post was before they went up the big hill in Pt Loma....well known Hill Street. That one almost did me in last year.

If he is hurting like that at 30 miles, then he did not train enough. Determination is the only thing that will save him. I bet Mooche and him have a fight today. On the 2nd day you are just worn out and punchy! Glad I dont have the tent next to those two.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

That XXXL post must have been made at lunchtime - I saw him at about the 7 mile mark and he was looking a little roughed up.

All the people that I talked to this morning said the same thing to me when I asked for their top tip for doing the 2008 walk - train, Train, TRAIN. On all surfaces - cement, asphalt, grass, gravel. In all ways - level surface, small hills, big hills. They said to start training now and the race is a year and 10 days away!

You know, he acknowledged weeks ago that all his hiking and hills wasn't the way to train for the walk. Now he's paying for not doing what he knew he should have been doing!

[SDGirl87]

"It hurts to walk this much even with all the months of training…but what keeps me going is the fact that…blisters don’t need Chemo…."

I don't care how cheesey this may sound to everyone. It's the first thing that he's said about this whole process that got me. He's right. Blisters don't need chemo. I am very impressed by that sentence. I don't think he's had a life change or a deep revelation, but I do think that for one second, he thought about someone other than himself for just one moment and I'm willing to give him credit for that.

[Lavender]

I must tell you people what LT is really like, as I have had personal experience. I visited him at the studio when he was engaged to the gal before this one. He invited me in to his office to watch him. Then he asked me if I would like a tour, to which I said, of course. We went into a room where there was a gal working and he asked her to leave for a minute. Then he proceeded to close the door and lean against it so no one could come in. He then unzipped his pants and whipped it out and asked me to give him a "BJ". I was beyond shocked to say the least, I barely knew the guy! I am a mother of a friend of his!!! Well, I went back into the studio and Jeff, Jer and Laura all looked at me as though they knew what had happened, so I am sure this was not his first try at this! I left and have never spoken to him again. And, no he did not get his "BJ". From me anyway. And, by the way, now I know why they call him "little" Tommy................. So, Elton, defend these people all you want, but they are all creeps. Jeff had an affair with Nina when he was married, and so when Nina did to him, I thought "what goes around comes around". And we all know Jer is a perv. I have seen him at parties and he cannot keep his eyes off of women's breasts, even in front of Pam! So here's to the Jeff and Jer show!

[pax]

I agree, SDGirl. All it took for FH to get a clue was to walk and talk/ listen to breast cancer survivors and their friends and family. That said, I still don't think there's any hope for him.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Whoa, Lavender! Did you report it to anyone at the station? How did you get out of that room with him? Did you tell anyone at the time???

I can't imagine holding my composure if something like that had happened to me....I would have raised holy h*ll, that's for sure!

[Lavender]

I was so shocked, I couldn't believe it! But he let me out and I just walked. I really wish I would have reported him right then and there to the station manager. Hindsight,

[SDGirl87]

I'm with you OKODM. There is no way I would have left that building without finding the most senior person and demanding that the police be called. If they wouldn't do it, then I'd call myself. That is assault along with false imprisonment, and it's against the law.

[sputnick]

Makes you wonder whether or not FH sees the world through rose colored magnifying glasses. For someone who is purported to be "small" he doesn't seem to be shy about showing it off.

[SDReadhead]

Lavendar, I'm sorry if that happened to you, but why would anyone let something like that go unreported? That constitutes a threatening situation and perhaps a sexual assault. Why would you not have told the first person you saw? I'm all for laughing about the antics of XXXL, but I would hate to laugh about things that either 1) didn't really happen or 2)that aren't a bit funny, but are criminal and dangerous. Lavendar, if that did happen you owe it to yourself and any other woman who might find herself in that situation to report it. If it didn't, please don't write something that could ruin someone's life if it were taken seriously.

[Lavender]

I only told my daughter. I do not think LT is a "dangerous criminal" as you put it, he is just a perv trying to get what he can get.

[PRINTER]

Absolutely!!!


Although...........

if you weigh more than 250 and have $10 million available for me....I'm lying in my sleeptrain bed waiting for you.

P.S. Could you pick up some Levitra on your way over?




P.P.S. It's $20 million if male.



OHMIGAWD JAKE!!!!!!!!! You made my night! I LMAO!!!

[Truth Teller]

I can tell you that every word of Lavendar's post is the absolute truth. I was the one she called immediately after she left the building. Before everyone tries to lay blame on the woman in this scenario, or wonder if she is crying wolf, or speculate on how they would have handled the situation, you would have had to walk a mile in her shoes to know. She left immediately and does wish now she would have reported it, but was just too shocked and shaken. I guess you would not know your own reaction until is has happened to you. I hope no one ever has to face that crossroad.

Fat Head always runs on and on about how much he respects his mother and how all mothers should be respected, loved and taken care of. Well... another thing you cannot believe out of his mouth. Lavendar is my mother. Believe me, I am no spring chicken. He knew exactly what he was doing and to someone's mother, no less.

[SDGirl87]

Absolutely!!!


Although...........

if you weigh more than 250 and have $10 million available for me....I'm lying in my sleeptrain bed waiting for you.

P.S. Could you pick up some Levitra on your way over?




P.P.S. It's $20 million if male.

Well let's see. I weigh significantly less than 250 pounds, I make way less than $10 million...I AM a woman though. At least I have that going for me.

Guess I'll have to find someone else (sigh) ;)

[PRINTER]

One of my friends did the 3 day last year and she said that the end of day 2 was BRUTAL. Everyone was tired, grouchy, sick, achy, blistered and beat up. She said it's hard to think about Day 3 and that some people gave up on the night of Day 2 (she wanted to but she "soldiered on"). And she had trained and trained and trained. I think Tummy just might make it because he will be "cheerleaded" on to tomorrow... .
The thing that's gonna make me sick is how Jeff is going to GUSH over Tummy about what a brave thing he's done. Then we move directly into B&E Christmas. Is it wrong of me to hate all this promotion when, in the end, it IS all for good causes? I'd love to find out that the spewgram did something truly unselfish and it was never mentioned on the air. But that will never happen....they need the rating too badly!

[BigAl]

I find it hard to believe that an incident like that took place in a so called professional radio/tv station studio and went unreported. This is why people like Mooch are allowed to survive. Should have reported it ASAP. Don't know why you kept it a secret to only but a few. Maybe you were so schocked, embarrassed, naiive, or scared to do anything in fear of something. Letting it go only made it harder for those girls who still work there and endure this horrible abuse of authority. Is this normal to have that happen and not go forward with a complaint? From what I have seen this is FH's MO. I was listening to an LA station a few weeks back and the show host says that being in the Biz of radio is that of a rock star. You try to get as much action as you can. So ladies, if you call up a radio program, expect the producer (like FH) to hit on you and try to get a date, a phone number, or fast action promise before your "entitled" to get on the radio. This is also why those like MOOCH do anything they can to increase their odds of a big payday. A cult of groupies.
In retrospect....what if Lavender what a dude and that same thing happened???????? Now that would also be blogworthy...

[OneKidOneDogMom]

One of my friends did the 3 day last year and she said that the end of day 2 was BRUTAL. Everyone was tired, grouchy, sick, achy, blistered and beat up. She said it's hard to think about Day 3 and that some people gave up on the night of Day 2 (she wanted to but she "soldiered on"). And she had trained and trained and trained.

Crud. I don't want to hear this. I want to put on those rose-colored glasses that Sputnick mentioned and believe that if I train and train and train I will do well and not want to bail at the end of Day #2....

I think I can, I think I can, I think I can. Whew!

[PRINTER]

Crud. I don't want to hear this. I want to put on those rose-colored glasses that Sputnick mentioned and believe that if I train and train and train I will do well and not want to bail at the end of Day #2....

I think I can, I think I can, I think I can. Whew!

OH NO, OKODM!!! I didn't mean to discourage you! My friend DID make it too the end. It's just that the end of day 2 is hard. BUT IF YOU TRAIN (unlike SOME people we know!) the dawning of Day 3 is exciting and half way through the day she said she was almost euphoric. I'm just saying that Tummy is overweight and didn't train and if it's difficult for some (not all) who did train then he has got to be a hurtin' puppy about now.

You can do it! By this time next year we'll all be there cheering you on!

[OneKidOneDogMom]

You can do it! By this time next year we'll all be there cheering you on!

Awww, thanks! I am planning to train my (big) butt off and learn from those who have gone before me....I'm not going to pull a Tubby! I promise!

[YoungAmerican]

I mentioned here before how FH kept asking me to come into the station when I won something of pretty nice value from the spegram. Tummy had to call me when it came in (they did not have it at the time of the give away) When it came in he wanted me to come in during their show and told me to tell the front desk to call him when I came in so I could go back and "meet" everyone. I said I would try but frankly was weirded out by his insistance, he called me more than a few times. I decided to just go in during the afternoon so I would not have to deal with them. I was already a member here then and just wanted my goodies worth a couple hundred $$$.

[Truth Teller]

OKODMOM... if you need a walking buddy.... let me know. I'm sure we can get a group from this board to walk!

[SDGirl87]

I say that OKODM's team be called "BIG DEALS" ;)

[Truth Teller]

Loving the name!

[RowdyOne]

Is this normal to have that happen and not go forward with a complaint?
Many years ago a similar scenario happened with me while I was alone with my male hairdresser in his shop. I was frightened, shocked, just got out of there as quickly as I could and kind of blocked it - like it didn't really happen. It never even occurred to me to report it; it was not common then to even think about such behavior being criminal. Some other women did report him several years later, and he spent time in jail. So for me, it's easy to understand that someone would not report, and just put it behind her as a very scary experience.

[Sapphie]

"It hurts to walk this much even with all the months of training…but what keeps me going is the fact that…blisters don’t need Chemo…."

I don't care how cheesey this may sound to everyone. It's the first thing that he's said about this whole process that got me. He's right. Blisters don't need chemo. I am very impressed by that sentence. I don't think he's had a life change or a deep revelation, but I do think that for one second, he thought about someone other than himself for just one moment and I'm willing to give him credit for that.

Bleh....he didn't come up with that himself....he's been exposed to decent, sincere and genuine people and he's heard the term "blisters don't need chemo" on numerous occasion by now..it's a favourite saying of the walkers who are there for all the right reasons..Flubby has his own agenda for using it.

[insightbyjake]

Well let's see. I weigh significantly less than 250 pounds, I make way less than $10 million...I AM a woman though. At least I have that going for me.

Guess I'll have to find someone else (sigh) ;)
Okay!

So you understand the art of negotiation. $10 million @ 250....$5 million @ 125......NOT male....that clears the $10 million "bonus"....let's see....


carry the one......minus four......hmmmmm

If only I worked in a radio station and I had a "tour" to provide,......

hmmm...I might get the BJ.......

Let's see, what would that cost?.......

base salary, minus harrassment claim.........kick-back to the "talent...............


Hmmmmm......Okay....I'm thinkin' for $3.27 I can "cure" your "someone else" issue......

Call me.

Love,

Tomm-------------er......."Jake"

[insightbyjake]

Bleh....he didn't come up with that himself....he's been exposed to decent, sincere and genuine people and he's heard the term "blisters don't need chemo" on numerous occasion by now..it's a favourite saying of the walkers who are there for all the right reasons..Flubby has his own agenda for using it.

I'm sure this is a typo: ":...he's been exposed to decent, sincere and genuine people".....

Didn't you mean to write....

"He's been exposing himself to decent, sincere, and genuine people...?"

[Sapphie]

That too

[SDGirl87]

Okay!

So you understand the art of negotiation. $10 million @ 250....$5 million @ 125......NOT male....that clears the $10 million "bonus"....let's see....


carry the one......minus four......hmmmmm

If only I worked in a radio station and I had a "tour" to provide,......

hmmm...I might get the BJ.......

Let's see, what would that cost?.......

base salary, minus harrassment claim.........kick-back to the "talent...............


Hmmmmm......Okay....I'm thinkin' for $3.27 I can "cure" your "someone else" issue......

Call me.

Love,

Tomm-------------er......."Jake"

We'll see what other offers come in. You're at the top of the list for now though Jakeypoo. ;)

(you forgot to bring over the decimal point...but I'll overlook it. I'm compassionate, remember?)

[Mom2ThreeBoys]

what keeps me going is the fact that…blisters don’t need Chemo….

Little Tommy
It's about freaking time, but I'm still reserving judgement until Monday's (or is it Tuesday's?) show. Let's see how much they talk about sacrificing to help the cause versus how much they talk about his personal accomplishment.

[Newer Reader]

Some perv exposed himself to me many years ago as I was walking on a street (near SDSU) and I never told anyone. Wish I had. In more recent years, a similar experience happened with an executive where I worked. I did tell and he ultimately lost his job. I did the right thing but the whole experience was awful and scary.

Lavender, I believe you.

NR #26

[insightbyjake]

We'll see what other ofers come in. You're at the top of the list for now though Jakeypoo. ;)

(you forgot to bring over the decimal point...but I'll overlook it. I'm compassionate, remember?)

"Top of the list...?"

Not better than LBM and FH????

Oh, I SOOOOOOO beg to differ Elton.....I am Lester Burnham....

Carolyn Burnham: Uh, whose car is that out front?

Lester Burnham: Mine. 1970 Pontiac Firebird. The car I've always wanted and now I have it.

I rule!

[SDGirl87]

"Top of the list...?"

Not better than LBM and FH????

Oh, I SOOOOOOO beg to differ Elton.....I am Lester Burnham....

Carolyn Burnham: Uh, whose car is that out front?

Lester Burnham: Mine. 1970 Pontiac Firebird. The car I've always wanted and now I have it.

I rule!

You are surprised there's a list?? LOL. There is ;) But the name JAKE is #1!

Ok...it's night night time for this weary traveler. As we said last night, last one out turn off the lights. G'night everyone!

Now go do the right thing!

[OneKidOneDogMom]

"....I am Lester Burnham....

Carolyn Burnham: Uh, whose car is that out front?

Lester Burnham: Mine. 1970 Pontiac Firebird. The car I've always wanted and now I have it.

I rule!

Sigh. Another obscure reference by Jake. Off to google now.....

[Sapphie]

One of the things I love about Jakeypoo's posts is that it gets me to google every once in a while....I had no idea who the Burnhams were but now I do...I learn something on this board every day.

[CAGirl]

OKOD Mom, I did the walk in 2004 & 2005, and am signed up for 2008. Yes, Day 2 is the worst because you don't have the adrenaline from starting the walk on day 1, or the adrenaline for finishing day 3. But, seriously, everyone on the sidewalks cheering you on, and the other walkers will totally keep you moving along. In 2004, I trained really well and was prepared. 2005, totally different story. So I completely concur, absolutely train!!!

I highly doubt that FH will complete all 60 miles. And I'm just so disheartened by almost all he has had to say about his being his "fitness walk". His comment about blisters not needing chemo was a step in the right direction, but he just can't get over himself enought to really think about why 4000+ people come together each year to do this.

And Elton, I will say, I know someone close to the davecain camp. What Amused said is correct. The only reason she went to rehab was to stay out of jail.

[insightbyjake]

....Ok...it's night night time for this weary traveler. As we said last night, last one out turn off the lights. G'night everyone!

Now go do the right thing!

Umm......It's 9:25 pm.


I remember my grandma went to bed at sunset...but I thought it to be parochialism.

Do you have to clear the back-40 tommorow? Maybe I can loan you a plow-horse.

Or, perhaps, my dear friend, you are, Hector St. John de Crevecoeur?

Never-the-less, sleep sweet!

[GirlfromOR]

"It hurts to walk this much even with all the months of training…but what keeps me going is the fact that…blisters don’t need Chemo…."

I don't care how cheesey this may sound to everyone. It's the first thing that he's said about this whole process that got me. He's right. Blisters don't need chemo. I am very impressed by that sentence. I don't think he's had a life change or a deep revelation, but I do think that for one second, he thought about someone other than himself for just one moment and I'm willing to give him credit for that.

I don't believe for a second that FH came to this realization on his own. I bet that he heard someone else say it, thought it sounded good, and shared it with us as his own little pearl of wisdom. He never thinks of anyone other than himself...

[Sapphie]

I don't believe for a second that FH came to this realization on his own. I bet that he heard someone else say it, thought it sounded good, and shared it with us as his own little pearl of wisdom. He never thinks of anyone other than himself...

I said the very same thing several posts ago Girl!...we must think alike! :)

[Transplant]

Awww, thanks! I am planning to train my (big) butt off and learn from those who have gone before me....I'm not going to pull a Tubby! I promise!

OKODM: i will (and need to) get some exercise...let's meet!

[TJLuv]

Many of the people who live in "Coto" are so up to their eyeballs in debt that they can't afford to do much else. For may who live out there, it really is a very superficial existence...yet, I can't stop watching it!

I suppose I derive some sort of sick pleasure in seeing "the haves" deal with all of their B.S. Every single family on that show should be in therapy. Spoiled. Entitled. Snotty.
Holier-than-thou. Demeaning. Wait...I lost my train of thought...was I talking about Jer?


or they bought their homes years before the big boom and have a lower house payment than most of us in southern cali.

[Newer Reader]

Umm......It's 9:25 pm.

Or, perhaps, my dear friend, you are, Hector St. John de Crevecoeur?

Never-the-less, sleep sweet!

Oy, two Googles in one night thanks to Jake. Here's the scoop on Hector (is this cheating?):

CREVECOEUR, J. Hector St. John de, author, born in Normandy in 1731; died in 1809 or 1813. He finished his education in England, and embarked for America in 1754. He purchased an estate in the neighborhood of New York, and married the daughter of an American merchant. During the wars of the Revolution his farm was frequently ravaged, and he himself forced to seek safety in flight. In 1780, as his affairs in Europe required his presence, he obtained permission from the British commander to cross the line of the army, and entered New York with one of his sons, from which City he was about to sail. But the unexpected appearance of a French squadron led to his being suspected of having entered New York as a spy, and he was cast into prison. After a detention of three months, he was released by two prominent merchants becoming security for him. He then embarked on a vessel sailing for Dublin, and reached France in 1782. About this time he introduced the culture of the American potato into Normandy.

He had previously published in English his "Letters of an American Farmer." He now translated those letters into French and had them published in Paris. He then returned to New York, where he was appointed French consul. No sooner had he landed, in November 1783, than he learned that his house had been burned and his farm ravaged by the savages. His wife had died a few weeks before, and he could learn nothing of his children. He discovered them, however, in the charge of an English merchant named Flower, who, through gratitude for Crevecoeur's kindness to the English prisoners in Normandy, had, at great risk, rescued them. The appointment of Crevecoeur was agreeable to the American government, and Washington gave him particular proofs of his esteem. He accompanied Franklin in the journey that the latter took in 1787 to Lancaster to lay the first stone of the College which he had founded. The "Lettres d'un cultivateur AmeL'icain" consists of three volumes, giving a description of the United States and Canada. It was so laudatory of the climate, productions, etc., that more than five hundred families left France on the faith of Crevecoeur's statements, and settled on the Ohio, where most of them perished. He also wrote "La culture des pommes de terre" and "Voyage dans la haute Pensylvanie et dans l'5tat de New York" (2 vols., Paris, 1801).

NR #26

[GirlfromOR]

I said the very same thing several posts ago Girl!...we must think alike! :)

Ha, see, this is why I need to read ALL of the posts before responding! LOL. That saying just sounds to me like someone clever said it first and FH isn't clever! I am sure it is a favorite saying with the walkers, but when FH says it, it sort of it's meaning. He cheapens everything.

[simba]

OKOD Mom, I did the walk in 2004 & 2005, and am signed up for 2008. Yes, Day 2 is the worst because you don't have the adrenaline from starting the walk on day 1, or the adrenaline for finishing day 3. But, seriously, everyone on the sidewalks cheering you on, and the other walkers will totally keep you moving along. In 2004, I trained really well and was prepared. 2005, totally different story. So I completely concur, absolutely train!!!

I highly doubt that FH will complete all 60 miles. And I'm just so disheartened by almost all he has had to say about his being his "fitness walk". His comment about blisters not needing chemo was a step in the right direction, but he just can't get over himself enought to really think about why 4000+ people come together each year to do this.


:agree:! My same experience.
I just remembered something else. Last year at the top of Hill street was a pit stop. I was so cranky by the time I got to this stop, but if I remember correctly, BLE was there interviewing people but she was not walking. A few....post back I told you guys how I saw her the first day too and she was already injured.

I would bet money that FH did not make it all the way yesterday. The area they did is bruttle. After Hill street, you walk around PtL area forever, winding up and down the streets. Then you go up and around the SD river area that is really a lonely part of the walk. Hardly anyone out there to cheer you on. He did not train for this part of the walk!!

Cant wait for BLE's post today. If you get a chance read her BLOG's from yesterday, she refers to FH.

[Trixie]

Greetings, this chilly Sunday (Charger Day) morning.

Lavender is assigned #173. Everyone gets a number, step right up if I've missed anyone.

That said, I've been back a few times to the Star Website, with no updates to FH's blog, no updates to the 46 photos posted on Friday am. Even though, their website (the spewgrams) says check for updates throughout the weekend. I'm foncused, I would expect that to be daily, at the least.

Sticking to the initial intent of this thread - LBM!:rolleyes:

[Texasgirl]

Warning! Warning! There is a mathamatically infintesimal chance that FH may actually "get" the purpose of why people participate in the 3-day. While that would truly be a breakthrough benefiting all of mankind (or at least the fellow bigdeals in the world), it will come with a price.

One ephiphany =

Hour by hour blog comments WRITTEN ALL IN CAPS!

10,000 conversations linked something like this: "As I put down the phone after speed dialing Oggy's, it hit me. Yes, the person who is making my pizza may like pink which means..."

100,000 referents explaining how the love for Moochelle, Mom, kids, LBM has been multiplied tenfold now that he has said he participated in the 3-day.

I could go on but you get the idea. Just replay his actions when he fell in love with the car wash girl, LBM moved in, Moochelle got a ring, and so on. I can't wait.

#44

Here's to all the genuine participants and their loved ones.:cheers:

[Texasgirl]

Even if they did update the website, you couldn't find it through all the crap they never edit or remove. My dog could maintain the site better. Oh, sorry Jake (my yellow lab), I don't mean to insult you.

#44

[Trixie]

MICHELLE
I’m walking for my Aunt Barbara.
Today is an emotional day. As our team walked through Marina Village, we encountered a sign which read, “Write the name of who you are walking for.” There were literally hundreds of names on the sign…and hundreds of walkers line up to write the names of their loved ones. It touched me…so many people, so many lives are affected. While the emotions inside of me were spinning, I couldn’t help but notice a beautiful butterfly suddenly appeared and flittered around our team. What a beautiful moment.

The above quote was lifted from BLE's day 2 entry, she reported a few of the walkers and their reasons for walking. I just wanted to point out the butterfly comment. Haven't we heard about FH & Mooch seeing a butterfly when hiking in PQ canyon before? I'd bet she has a butterfly tat on her body, too.

She is walking for a good cause, so I give her kudos for that. Just thought I'd point out this quote, if it is from Mooch, that I do not know.


Butterflies are free to fly,
Fly Away,
(for Elton, I'm a fan of E.J.)


Fly away Mooch, fly away!

[Trixie]

Even if they did update the website, you couldn't find it through all the crap they never edit or remove. My dog could maintain the site better. Oh, sorry Jake (my yellow lab), I don't mean to insult you.

#44

True, true, they need to dust the Spider webs, like the Big Girl Panties, and the Crazed Brit fan, among the hundreds of other stuff.

[Trixie]

Day 1

After making our way through the streets of Del Mar we approached and conquered Torrey Pines. After what seemed like a long decent to La Jolla Shores we stretched, compared blisters, bruises and tight muscles and enjoyed lunch on the grass. It’s chilly this year but the atmosphere is warm and I’m so glad to be here. The next part of the day will take us up another hill into La Jolla before finishing at Crown Point Park. I love hearing everyone’s enthusiastic plans along the way, plans of celebrating the completion of the first day, setting up the tent city and enjoying a well deserved dinner. My walking partner, Little Tommy, is going to brave the tent for the next two nights with his fiancé Michelle and I know he’s going to single handedly turn the camp into one big party. I might have to stick around for a while tonight just to see what happens. But right now I’m going to hit the pavement before my muscles decide the timer is up!

Day 2

Okay, time to lighten things up. I am not camping in the tent city… my fear is that I might not get much rest because, well, I’m just not a happy camper. But I learned today that the real challenge is trying to sleep through the sound of Tommy sawing logs. Yep, he sores… loudly. Michelle was prepared had had brought ear plugs but women in the surrounding tents didn’t make out so well. Of course, today we’re all joking about it but I had to mention it because I told Tommy I would… which everyone else on the team thought was a fabulous idea!

[SDGirl87]

The mystery of SDGirl's early bed time.

How I wish there was some fantastic reason for my weariness. Alas, I have only a very long and emotionally difficult week (not just here with "THAT" situation, but other things in my real life as well), nearly 60 hours of work and a day that starts at 4:30 a.m. Monday through Friday. As an added bonus, an additional 4 hours of work on Saturday this week!! WAHOOOO :)

No worries my sweet, Frankly, I thought of you as I dozed off at the obscenely early hour of 9:45 p.m. on Saturday night.

Off to church! Have a great Sunday!

[Daisy CA]

I had the misfortune of seeing Beauty and the Beast, I mean FH and Mooch, on the Channel 8 news last night. Yikes! No wonder it took so long to fall asleep last night.

[texasmommy]

I had the misfortune of seeing Beauty and the Beast, I mean FH and Mooch, on the Channel 8 news last night. Yikes! No wonder it took so long to fall asleep last night.

That's a GOOD one!! Beauty and the Beast!!!!

[BebeSD]

Booby and the Beast? Bunny and the Beast?

[RowdyOne]

Booty and the Beast?

[BebeSD]

Beauty and the Beef?

[eyeseeyou]

Brainless and the Boar

[SDReadhead]

Bootycall and the leech

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Ohhh, can I do a combo?

Booty Call and the Beef

and a later addition: Blondie and the Blimp

Giving credit to BebeSD, SDReadHead and LisaP for the inspiration!

[ElizabethAZ]

Sigh. Another obscure reference by Jake. Off to google now.....

Kevin Spacey in American Beauty, I believe.

[LisaP]

Blondie and the Bump

[eyeseeyou]

Boobs and the Buddha

[BigAl]

The headlines will read that if it weren't for the sensational efforts of FH and his "bride to be" Mooch, the 3 day event would not have been a sucess. Everyone get ready for what will be printed, seemn on TV, and heard on the airwaves across the county. Those 2 will single handedly save the day. Yup, it's all their efforts that made it a sucess. The radio station will jump onboard too.

ANyway, being a football laden Sunday and my Pats on bye week, I get to see the other teams play. Slow on this site as well.

Earlier someone made a "Coto" comparision. MOOCH fits the COTO demographic to a T. She's mid life crisis, surgically enhanced, riding an alimony/child support train, and trying to stay in the lifestyle that she has come so familiar with and feels dhe is ENTITLED. Kind of like the show characters (Well most of them).

As well as everthing else, I wonder if FH will whine how hard he had it on the walk? Of course he'll be whining as he's getting a personal in home massage folled by the infamous "mani/pedi". I wonder where LBM/Whora is this weekend as I missed her whereabouts? I bet DC was NOT too please when SHE posted the kids pictures all over the radio website. I bet if she and Brittnay traded places we would never know.

With everthing said, I do hope that the 3 day is a huges sucess, big money is raised for the cure and that money gets put into research, treatment, and saving lives...instead of tied up in beaurocracy and red tape...or lining a few greedy pockets.

[BigAl]

Darn, spell check backfired.....sorry. Long day......Hmmmmmmm
Those elves have been replaced by gremlins.

[RecoveringLstnr]

I wonder how many pages were lost?

[eyeseeyou]

Oooohhhhh dearly me....here we go....everyone play nice now.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

I'm so honored - I'm one of the longer names to type on this forum but yet I got the honor of being RecoveringLstnr's "potential pedophile"!

Your post was rather long and I only skimmed it, but three things I would like to clarify:

1. I did offer my house to the forum people and their animals. I don't think that was necessarily wrong - we were in the middle of a disaster and I felt moved to help out where I could. Others probably felt differently. Oh well.

2. I was one of the ones that "nominated" SDGirl87 to be the point person in the whole "Sunnie" fiasco. Several others agreed with me - SDGirl87 did *not* choose that place on her own. It seemed to make sense to have one contact person instead of bombarding the "family" with many calls and requests.

3. I was one of the initial people that offered my (unused) PayPal account for "the cause". That offer was batted around for all of 2-3 minutes (as I remember it) in the chat room before it was decided that we didn't need to go in that direction.

You know, if you don't like this forum and/or the people in it - well, goodbye. There are thousands of other forums on the internet that would probably suit you better. And I think I speak for most on there that we're tired of rehashing the whole "Sunnie" drama and just want to get back to normal...

[Sapphie]

RecoveringLstnr: I, for one, very much enjoyed reading your post. I thought it was well-crafted, worded carefully and made some great thought-provoking points. There are many diverse "personalities" on this thread and there are several I look forward to reading...some of them post regularly, some post very occasionally. Who knows, maybe some of the contributors are one person signed up under different screen names...doesn't really matter. I liked your post and I'm sure it'll generate more comments which I'll also look forward to... :)

[SDGirl87]

My offering (hat tip to OKOMD!)

Beauty and WHERE'S THE BEEF???

[Wabbitsd]

I'm really miffed I wasn't mentioned one way or another. I may have to take a straw poll on my popularity mathematical quotient.

I didn't even really read your post, recoveringlist...really, the issue is dog tired and in the scheme of things, not really related to this board.

Let's drop it. If you all want to go round and round in PM's, why not do it there? And not hijack this board from the others?

[iamsheens]

I want to preface my post by saying that I’m not pointing fingers, trying to offend, picking one side over another, or saying anybody is right or wrong. I know the chances of me being accused of being a newbie who knows nothing, related somehow to Sunnie, Dilbert reincarnated, are very high. Trixie will probably revoke my number but life will go on. Here I go.

I’ve been lurking on this site for a very long time. I’ve read each and every comment, and in the past couple of days I have gone back pages and pages to the day the fire started and RE-READ. ***I know how all of you feel about capitalization, I will try to use them sparingly, and appropriately.

I’ve been perplexed by the response of the “regulars” on this site to the entire Sunnie debacle from the get go. I was even a bit perplexed by some of her (and others) offers to take some of you in during evacuations. I like to think I’m a good person, and I help those in need as frequently as I can. However, I wouldn’t have opened my home to any of you those few days. Not because I don’t have a heart, not because I think any of you are axe murderers, thieves, rapists, child molesters, etc., but because I don’t know for sure that all of you AREN’T. ***Using names to make a point only, not to single anybody out. If I invite Red Willow to stay with me, who is to say he won’t sneak into my purse and steal cash, checks, or credit cards? If I say to OneKidOneDogMom “Hey Pal! Come on over!” who is to say she won’t do something unthinkable to one of my children? And sad to say the list of possibilities goes on. For whatever reason, Sunnie, and several others of you, felt O.K. in inviting forum strangers to stay. She was one who seemed to offer it the most. Did any of you take her up on it? Did any of you contact her only to have her back out and make an excuse as to why you could no longer be her houseguest? Did she ever do or say anything to suggest she was being insincere with her offers? Not that I saw. Now for a direct question, Jake. She offered her home, her clothes, and her husband’s clothes to you and your teen daughter. You told her she could not be a better person that you could imagine. She must have done something(s) to earn that kind of compliment from you. Yet, when SDGirl87 and her group went on the attack, you insulted Sunnie, or at the very least agreed with the groupies. Why? What did she do or say directly to you to make you, essentially, revoke that compliment? I find it highly suspect that she would offer so many things, including a BBQ get together for all the regulars if she were a fictional person.

I also went back and looked at member dates. Sunnie and several of you registered around the same time period (July and August). SDGirl87 joined in October. She seemed to be the ringleader of the Sunnie witch-hunt. She claimed she was appointed. I don’t buy that, personally. I am NOT accusing either SDGirl87 or Sunnie of ANYTHING. I’m simply saying that there is no public evidence to suggest Sunnie did the things she and her friend and family were accused of. It was said that they asked for money and other donations, but SDGirl87 made the only requests I saw for such things. Is there proof that these people made such requests? When Sunnie’s friend returned to defend them all she claimed SDGirl87 and one of her group members offered up THEIR paypal accounts, but that she (family friend, Beth was it?) declined and said she would be taking care of all costs. Two regular members (Carol, and iamsheens) confirmed that to be correct.

What bothered me most about the entire situation was that although people said Sunnie, or her friends and family “stole” pictures from somebody else (again, where is your proof?), several of you went on to post pictures, or links to the pictures. If you TRULY believed they are NOT pictures of Sunnie, why would you post pictures of an unknowing and innocent woman and her family? You did nothing but possibly endanger them, or link them to a less than complimentary situation. Several of you who claim to be Christians, also said Sunnie and her family must be atheist, and if not that they needed to turn to atheism. I’m a Christian woman, and those comments nearly bowled me over, and disgusted me.

This entire forum has turned into something negative. Yes, it was negative in nature from the start. I realize this. However now the negativity is amongst the members. It seems to be one small group of people who “run the show”, and most of the other members follow along for fear of being ridiculed, or because they can’t or won’t think for themselves. Certain people here are more into thrashing other members when they don’t agree with The Group, or when they bring up topics The Group has little or no interest in. Even with comments regarding the show gram, things have taken a turn for the worse. I don’t particularly care for them. I think they all make AWFUL choices, and need to grow up, and be held accountable for their actions and choices. Several of the people here who claim to be quite religious have behaved atrociously, calling show members names and attacking family members who did NOT ask for the spotlight. I teach my children not to make fun of people for things. I teach them it is NEVER alright to make fun or a person for being “fat”, too skinny, too tall, too short, red-headed, of another race or religion, etc. Don’t you all teach your children the same? Shouldn’t you practice what you preach? Do NOT say “well they ask for it”, that is no excuse.

To use Elton’s phrase, I know you all will vilify me now, and accuse me of things that are untrue, so be it. I no longer enjoy this forum the way that I used to, much like I no longer enjoy the showgram the way I used to. How I long for the days where Randy was covered in birdseed and tied to a pole, sent into a grocery store to give away candy out of the plastic bins, forced into a hot tub in the middle of a store. THAT was entertainment. I’ll end with this, there are 2 sides to every story, and then there is the truth. You are wrong to blame Sunnie and her friends and family, and side with SDGirl87, just as you would be wrong to totally side with Sunnie and blame SDGirl87 if she were not around to speak up for herself. Shame on all of you. :nono:


I understand where your coming from on all this but maybe you haven't been online in a few days and read the current posts but I think we've all moved on from the situation. What happened got out of hand and people were accusing people of this, that and the other....we can speculate everyday about this situation but what purpose does that really serve? People said and did things that not all of us agreed with on both sides of the spectrum but everyone is entitled to free speech. I'm glad to hear all sides of the story, I really am but I think most people will agree with me when I say this is a dead issue. The moderator told us we can't be talking about personal people and we need to stick to the content of what the forum is about so I think thats what we all should do.

Sometimes I will agree that people say stuff that I don't agree with but we are all entitled to our own opinion it doesn't make one person right over another. And I'd hate to say this cause I am not trying to start anything but your telling people not to judge a situation yet you are judging the people who say mean stuff about the showgram. Not everyone is going to be nice and you either take it for what it is or if its too harsh for you then don't read this forum, that goes for everyone. Before all this drama started we didn't always side with one another. A lot of people (and no offense Boris) would be upset with Boris about some of his comments on calling Charlie, Charlie the chimp and others are constantly saying stuff about Laura's weight. Maybe its offensive but if it bothers someone so much then this place isn't for you.

I don't truly thing this board is ran by anyone. Some people comment more than others and maybe thats why its assumed they run the board but I think we are all equal. So thank you for your comments about the whole situation but we have moved on. Your welcomed to stay but if you are disgusted by the people on this board then maybe we aren't the board for you. But don't categorize us all and assume we are all bad people. It seems like you are taking a few people and assuming we are all like a few individual's on the board. A lot of us are good people and I think it says a lot for a person to offer their home, clothing, whatever to complete strangers. I don't know that I would do it persay but the fact that some people are is not a bad quality to have in life.

Anyways I'm done speaking on the matter I just hope your post isn't to reignite a flame that has already died.

[BebeSD]

My offering (hat tip to OKOMD!)

Beauty and WHERE'S THE BEEF???

What?! You mean you couldn't find the BEEF?!?! How could you miss it?!!

[BebeSD]

And as a PS to posts above, Amen to keeping this forum dedicated to the J&J Drama Club... I think we have all learned a thing or two about "reality" and judging forum members in the last couple weeks... let's take those lessons and try to keep private messages, er, private. (Apologies for my lack of profundity.)

[Newer Reader]

Speaking of mean, I miss Boris. What's the deal?

NR #26

[Newer Reader]

I understand and respect your opinion, RL. NR #26

[RecoveringLstnr]

I'm so honored - I'm one of the longer names to type on this forum but yet I got the honor of being RecoveringLstnr's "potential pedophile"!

Your post was rather long and I only skimmed it, but three things I would like to clarify:

1. I did offer my house to the forum people and their animals. I don't think that was necessarily wrong - we were in the middle of a disaster and I felt moved to help out where I could. Others probably felt differently. Oh well.

2. I was one of the ones that "nominated" SDGirl87 to be the point person in the whole "Sunnie" fiasco. Several others agreed with me - SDGirl87 did *not* choose that place on her own. It seemed to make sense to have one contact person instead of bombarding the "family" with many calls and requests.

3. I was one of the initial people that offered my (unused) PayPal account for "the cause". That offer was batted around for all of 2-3 minutes (as I remember it) in the chat room before it was decided that we didn't need to go in that direction.

You know, if you don't like this forum and/or the people in it - well, goodbye. There are thousands of other forums on the internet that would probably suit you better. And I think I speak for most on there that we're tired of rehashing the whole "Sunnie" drama and just want to get back to normal...

Under no circumstances do I think you're a potential pedophile! My point was only that I don't know for sure what ANYBODY here is like out in the real world.

1. I'm sure your offer was genuine and from the heart. Sometimes an offer means just as much as an actual gesture.

2. I understand that, and didn't mean to suggest she nominated herself. Only that she didn't turn it down, even after having doubts. I found THAT to be peculiar.

3. Paypal lets you have an unused account and doesn't bombard you with emails? Please tell me your secret so they will stop filling my inbox with junk!

The point of my post was that it isn't back to "normal" when somebody is constantly singling out another member they don't agree with. Elton, and Swifty for example. They were accused of being related somehow to Dilbert or the showgram. I hope this forum returns to what it was mid to late summer. It was great reading. If that returns I'll stay, if not I'll go and I know I won't be missed. I won't be shedding tears over that fact!

[RecoveringLstnr]

RecoveringLstnr: I, for one, very much enjoyed reading your post. I thought it was well-crafted, worded carefully and made some great thought-provoking points. There are many diverse "personalities" on this thread and there are several I look forward to reading...some of them post regularly, some post very occasionally. Who knows, maybe some of the contributors are one person signed up under different screen names...doesn't really matter. I liked your post and I'm sure it'll generate more comments which I'll also look forward to... :)

Well thanks Sapphie. Happy posting!

[RecoveringLstnr]

I understand where your coming from on all this but maybe you haven't been online in a few days and read the current posts but I think we've all moved on from the situation. What happened got out of hand and people were accusing people of this, that and the other....we can speculate everyday about this situation but what purpose does that really serve? People said and did things that not all of us agreed with on both sides of the spectrum but everyone is entitled to free speech. I'm glad to hear all sides of the story, I really am but I think most people will agree with me when I say this is a dead issue. The moderator told us we can't be talking about personal people and we need to stick to the content of what the forum is about so I think thats what we all should do.

Sometimes I will agree that people say stuff that I don't agree with but we are all entitled to our own opinion it doesn't make one person right over another. And I'd hate to say this cause I am not trying to start anything but your telling people not to judge a situation yet you are judging the people who say mean stuff about the showgram. Not everyone is going to be nice and you either take it for what it is or if its too harsh for you then don't read this forum, that goes for everyone. Before all this drama started we didn't always side with one another. A lot of people (and no offense Boris) would be upset with Boris about some of his comments on calling Charlie, Charlie the chimp and others are constantly saying stuff about Laura's weight. Maybe its offensive but if it bothers someone so much then this place isn't for you.

I don't truly thing this board is ran by anyone. Some people comment more than others and maybe thats why its assumed they run the board but I think we are all equal. So thank you for your comments about the whole situation but we have moved on. Your welcomed to stay but if you are disgusted by the people on this board then maybe we aren't the board for you. But don't categorize us all and assume we are all bad people. It seems like you are taking a few people and assuming we are all like a few individual's on the board. A lot of us are good people and I think it says a lot for a person to offer their home, clothing, whatever to complete strangers. I don't know that I would do it persay but the fact that some people are is not a bad quality to have in life.

Anyways I'm done speaking on the matter I just hope your post isn't to reignite a flame that has already died.

I'm not trying to reignite anything, not by any means.

I rather enjoy your posts. I hope you don't take offense to this, but there's a certain refreshing innocence to what you have to say. I wish you were one who was more vocal in this forum.

[RecoveringLstnr]

I understand and respect your opinion, RL. NR #26

Thank you. :)

[iamsheens]

I'm not trying to reignite anything, not by any means.

I rather enjoy your posts. I hope you don't take offense to this, but there's a certain refreshing innocence to what you have to say. I wish you were one who was more vocal in this forum.


LOL THANKS I am an innocent one...hahahahaha

I try to give everyone a fair chance though its only fair and if I dont agree or get annoyed with someone I just simply ignore them.

[PQ Gal]

RecoveringLstnr - Appreciate your viewpoint, but you have to know by posting such a long winded comment that you are just trying to stir up the pot when we have all moved on. If you can't move on and feel the need to keep revisting the events over the past few weeks other than the J&J show or the public behavior of those on the Spewgram you probably should move on to another thread. We wish you well and welcome you to stay, just please please please be done with it and move on to the orginal intent of the thread.

Thank you kindly

[RowdyOne]

Has anyone heard or seen anything about the 3day today? Or FH?

[SadSadSad]

I want to preface my post by saying that I’m not pointing fingers, trying to offend, picking one side over another, or saying anybody is right or wrong.

SDGirl87 joined in October. She seemed to be the ringleader of the Sunnie witch-hunt. She claimed she was appointed. I don’t buy that, personally. I am NOT accusing either SDGirl87 or Sunnie of ANYTHING (except SDGirl87 being a ringleader of a witchhunt.)

It seems to be one small group of people who “run the show”, and most of the other members follow along for fear of being ridiculed, You're right I get scared all the time that someone might make fun of me because I have such a low self-esteem that one comment can crush me or because they can’t or won’t think for themselves. Certain people here are more into thrashing other members when they don’t agree with The Group or when they bring up topics The Group has little or no interest in. This is a forum for the J&J Showgram and to bash it and discuss the drama of it. It's not the list everything you remember from the 80's or Real Houswives forum. If you want to talk about those subjects than start your own threads.

I teach them it is NEVER alright to make fun or a person for being “fat”, too skinny, too tall, too short, red-headed, of another race or religion, etc. Don’t you all teach your children the same? Shouldn’t you practice what you preach? Do NOT say “well they ask for it”, that is no excuse. Then this is definitely not the forum for you. From day one its been about gossip, rumor and ridicule. This forum had been around for awhile and I doubt its going to change so you probably don't want to be hanging around us because we are some pretty bad characters. And to answer you're question, no I would not want my children reading this forum because they would learn way to much about rehab, drugs, and adultery. That is why they also cannot listen to the showgram.

You are wrong Wait I though you said you were going to say we were right or wrong? to blame Sunnie and her friends and family, and side with SDGirl87, just as you would be wrong to totally side with Sunnie and blame SDGirl87 if she were not around to speak up for herself. Shame on all of you. Please read your first paragraph. In an essay it is suppose to establish what the essay is about. You failed to live up to your promise in the first paragraph of not pointing fingers, etc. :nono:

Look people if you want a nice lovey dovey site this is not for you. This is for people who live a good life 99% of the time but 1% want to come on the computer and base on people who are idiots who portray themselves as pillars of the community aka the J & J showgram. If you are going to cry, you will find no one to offer you a hankie here. We are a mean bunch of people who are haunted by little invisible elves. Did I mention I also smoke crack? I wouldn't hang around me if I were you. Especially if you start eyeballing my legwarmers and crack pipe.

[zodiac]

I’ve been perplexed by the response of the “regulars” on this site to the entire Sunnie debacle from the get go. I was even a bit perplexed by some of her (and others) offers to take some of you in during evacuations. I like to think I’m a good person, and I help those in need as frequently as I can. However, I wouldn’t have opened my home to any of you those few days. Not because I don’t have a heart, not because I think any of you are axe murderers, thieves, rapists, child molesters, etc., but because I don’t know for sure that all of you AREN’T. ***Using names to make a point only, not to single anybody out. If I invite Red Willow to stay with me, who is to say he won’t sneak into my purse and steal cash, checks, or credit cards? If I say to OneKidOneDogMom “Hey Pal! Come on over!” who is to say she won’t do something unthinkable to one of my children? And sad to say the list of possibilities goes on. For whatever reason, Sunnie, and several others of you, felt O.K. in inviting forum strangers to stay. She was one who seemed to offer it the most. Did any of you take her up on it? Did any of you contact her only to have her back out and make an excuse as to why you could no longer be her houseguest? Did she ever do or say anything to suggest she was being insincere with her offers? Not that I saw. Now for a direct question, Jake. She offered her home, her clothes, and her husband’s clothes to you and your teen daughter. You told her she could not be a better person that you could imagine. She must have done something(s) to earn that kind of compliment from you. Yet, when SDGirl87 and her group went on the attack, you insulted Sunnie, or at the very least agreed with the groupies. Why? What did she do or say directly to you to make you, essentially, revoke that compliment? I find it highly suspect that she would offer so many things, including a BBQ get together for all the regulars if she were a fictional person.

:


Just my two cents: I believe "Sunnie" volunteered all of this because she 1) knew that the chance of someone actually taking her up on an offer was quite slim and 2) if someone did accept an offer from her, she would have had the perfect excuse of 'I'm evacuating', 'I'm having contractions', 'My kids are sick', 'My husband is coming home', the list goes on....
None of it was real, and that is why people got hurt. Because many of us are real (I think) and put our hearts and minds into helping someone we thought was in need and it backfired. SDGirl is right when she says compassion is never wrong. I think we all learned a lot about each other and most of us learned to be a bit more careful with who we trust and what we trust.
End of story, let's move on.

[RecoveringLstnr]

Posted by you:This is a forum for the J&J Showgram and to bash it and discuss the drama of it. It's not the list everything you remember from the 80's or Real Houswives forum. If you want to talk about those subjects than start your own threads.

This also isn't a forum for SDGirl87 and Jake to flirt. Isn't a forum for OneKidOneDogMom to recruit people to walk with her and train. It wasn't the place for everybody to pick one group of 3-day walkers to donate to, so the group could stick it to Tommy. But all those things happen, or happened and nobody has had one complaint about it.

[SadSadSad]

Just my two cents: I believe "Sunnie" volunteered all of this because she 1) knew that the chance of someone actually taking her up on an offer was quite slim and 2) if someone did accept an offer from her, she would have had the perfect excuse of 'I'm evacuating', 'I'm having contractions', 'My kids are sick', 'My husband is coming home', the list goes on....
None of it was real, and that is why people got hurt. Because many of us are real (I think) and put our hearts and minds into helping someone we thought was in need and it backfired. SDGirl is right when she says compassion is never wrong. I think we all learned a lot about each other and most of us learned to be a bit more careful with who we trust and what we trust.
End of story, let's move on.


Is Sunnie an intern on the Spewgram or something? I don't listen to the Spewgram anymore so I never know when we start mentioning someone new what role they play in the Spewgram.

[zodiac]

Anything's possible sadsadsad...

[RecoveringLstnr]

Just my two cents: I believe "Sunnie" volunteered all of this because she 1) knew that the chance of someone actually taking her up on an offer was quite slim and 2) if someone did accept an offer from her, she would have had the perfect excuse of 'I'm evacuating', 'I'm having contractions', 'My kids are sick', 'My husband is coming home', the list goes on....
None of it was real, and that is why people got hurt. Because many of us are real (I think) and put our hearts and minds into helping someone we thought was in need and it backfired. SDGirl is right when she says compassion is never wrong. I think we all learned a lot about each other and most of us learned to be a bit more careful with who we trust and what we trust.
End of story, let's move on.

You have no hard evidence she wouldn't have taken a person in, no hard evidence she isn't real, or is real. No evidence SDGirl87 is or is not real. No evidence any of us are or are not. But you've singled her out, when she wasn't even around. It makes no sense to me that fingers were pointed at anybody.

[zodiac]

You have no hard evidence she wouldn't have taken a person in, no hard evidence she isn't real, or is real. No evidence SDGirl87 is or is not real. No evidence any of us are or are not. But you've singled her out, when she wasn't even around. It makes no sense to me that fingers were pointed at anybody.

Well then she should come back here and set the record straight, or is that what you're trying to do?

[RecoveringLstnr]

Well then she should come back here and set the record straight, or is that what you're trying to do?


I don't have the power or the information to set the record straight one way or the other. Nobody here does, that was what I was trying to get at. If the whole thing was true I would imagine it would be awhile before she could make her way back here.

[RowdyOne]

Hey, guys, continuing with ANYTHING that doesn't have to do with J&J Drama is probably off-topic here and GAM might even consider limiting or ending this forum. Do ya think the antagonistic posters might be stirring the pot so that comments spill over and ruin the stew?

[SadSadSad]

Posted by you:This is a forum for the J&J Showgram and to bash it and discuss the drama of it. It's not the list everything you remember from the 80's or Real Houswives forum. If you want to talk about those subjects than start your own threads.

This also isn't a forum for SDGirl87 and Jake to flirt. Isn't a forum for OneKidOneDogMom to recruit people to walk with her and train. It wasn't the place for everybody to pick one group of 3-day walkers to donate to, so the group could stick it to Tommy. But all those things happen, or happened and nobody has had one complaint about it.

Well, since you are such a good person and have such a solid character I nominate you to pick all the topics we discuss.

Ummm, and I'm not pointing fingers are making accusations here, but, aren't you taking this board a little to seriously? It's an internet forum where complete strangers with admitted crack habits and invisible elves throw comments into the wind. People have to actually find this place and keep coming back if they want to see what's on here. And if you want to write something you have to log on. People volunteer to either be here or not.

If you have a problem with the board thats fine. I welcome you to keep writing your issues with the Drama Club here as much as you want. But then again I'm also one who likes to beat a dead horse (so want to make LBM comment here but will refrian for those of you who are sensitive out there.)

[SadSadSad]

You have no hard evidence she wouldn't have taken a person in, no hard evidence she isn't real, or is real. No evidence SDGirl87 is or is not real. No evidence any of us are or are not. But you've singled her out, when she wasn't even around. It makes no sense to me that fingers were pointed at anybody.

I'm real and my invisible elves can vouch for me.

[zodiac]

I don't have the power or the information to set the record straight one way or the other. Nobody here does, that was what I was trying to get at. If the whole thing was true I would imagine it would be awhile before she could make her way back here.

Well, until that happens let's get with the showgram!!

[SadSadSad]

Hey, guys, continuing with ANYTHING that doesn't have to do with J&J Drama is probably off-topic here and GAM might even consider limiting or ending this forum. Do ya think the antagonistic posters might be stirring the pot so that comments spill over and ruin the stew?

You're right and I'm sorry for stirring but I got a new batch of crack and its made me especially hyper tonight and I got a spoon and I just have to scratch that stirring itch.

Plus, the elves really like to eat ruined stew (that's why they always ruin it when you aren't looking so you won't eat it and then they feast.) To stay on topic, I believe FH also eats ruined stew, but he eats anything so that's not really that much of a startling revelation is it?

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Original response deleted because I'm not going to get sucked into an off-topic arguement.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Hey, guys, continuing with ANYTHING that doesn't have to do with J&J Drama is probably off-topic here and GAM might even consider limiting or ending this forum. Do ya think the antagonistic posters might be stirring the pot so that comments spill over and ruin the stew?

Totally agree with this post - the "ignore" feature and the "moderator alert" button are our friends :)

[Newer Reader]

Where is Boris?

NR #26

[wanky]

Blimpy and the Leech

[Sapphie]

So, I notice that the promised blogs-about-the-three-day are sadly lacking from Tommy....at least Barbara has posted several updates about the spirit of the walk. Does anyone have proof that Tommy was actually walking today or yesterday?

[insightbyjake]

.... Now for a direct question, Jake. She offered her home, her clothes, and her husband’s clothes to you and your teen daughter. You told her she could not be a better person that you could imagine. She must have done something(s) to earn that kind of compliment from you. Yet, when SDGirl87 and her group went on the attack, you insulted Sunnie, or at the very least agreed with the groupies. Why? What did she do or say directly to you to make you, essentially, revoke that compliment?

What?! An apparently kind stranger offers support. I don't know her and I certainly wouldn't accept the offer -- even if it was kind. Recover.....do you have any knowledge as to the fact I was communicating through "private messages" during that time? Do you know I've personally sent "Thanks, but no thanks," to many private offers in private?

No. You don't.

That's probably why I'm done responding to anything you post.:wavey2:

[OneKidOneDogMom]

So, I notice that the promised blogs-about-the-three-day are sadly lacking from Tommy....at least Barbara has posted several updates about the spirit of the walk. Does anyone have proof that Tommy was actually walking today or yesterday?

I saw and briefly talked to him yesterday morning while I was at the 3-Day in Mission Beach area. He was at the 7 mile mark (roughly).

I also noted that there are no new pictures up on the website as of earlier this afternoon. No blog entries.

Does anyone know if the spewgram is off tomorrow? If so, I hope we're not subjected to more repeats of the "will he/won't he" debate about the Christmas tree lighting vs. Van Halen. They played that for Saturday morning's "best of" replay.

[RowdyOne]

Where is Boris?

NR #26 Boris is no doubt waiting in the wings for this thread to veer back to the topic.

[sputnick]

OneKidOneDogMom,
Not to sound stupid or to pull a ___bert but how do I get the ModAlert button to show up on my messages? THanks................

[RowdyOne]

^ You can't alert the moderator that your own posts are suspect, therefore no alert button.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

OneKidOneDogMom,
Not to sound stupid or to pull a ___bert but how do I get the ModAlert button to show up on my messages? THanks................

On the left hand side of the screen (where the poster's names are) there is an "online" light (green if the poster is currently online, blue if they're not) and to the right of it there should be a blue button that says "modalert".

If you click on that "modalert" button, it will take you to a screen that lets you tell the G|A staff why you find the post and/or poster offensive or why they are violating G|A rules.

You won't see it under your own name (you can't report yourself!) but check under other poster's names and you should see it...

[insightbyjake]

Where is Boris?

NR #26

Now, back to reality.

Boris called me tonight to tell me Moochelle called him on Thursday night and told him she simply could NOT make the hike with FH.

Boris bought a blonde wig, went for 37 mystic tans, spray-painted his teeth semi-gloss white, purchased a spandex outfit, and has been hiking behind FH for the past three days.

He promises to post when the event ends -- and before FH seeks his congratulatory bonk.

[InvisibleElf]

It's an internet forum where complete strangers with admitted crack habits and invisible elves throw comments into the wind.I'm real and my invisible elves can vouch for me.

Yep. Sadx3 is real. Here she is with WabbitSD and OneKidTwoDogMom:

http://img250.imageshack.us/img250/4594/screamclubzx8.jpg

And while we're vouching for people, Jake's real too:

http://img441.imageshack.us/img441/2977/crackheadzi9.jpg

[texasmommy]

This also isn't a forum for SDGirl87 and Jake to flirt. Isn't a forum for OneKidOneDogMom to recruit people to walk with her and train. It wasn't the place for everybody to pick one group of 3-day walkers to donate to, so the group could stick it to Tommy. But all those things happen, or happened and nobody has had one complaint about it.


So, maybe you should stop worrying about everything that happened in the past before you decided too stop lurking.....Take the Christian point of view and STOP judging everyone. Move on, get over it....If Jake and SDGirl87 wanna flirt that is between them.. I think it's kinda cute!!



You have no hard evidence she wouldn't have taken a person in, no hard evidence she isn't real, or is real. No evidence SDGirl87 is or is not real. No evidence any of us are or are not. But you've singled her out, when she wasn't even around. It makes no sense to me that fingers were pointed at anybody.
__________________


We have plenty of evidence too prove everything was untrue, but that does not pertain to you because you were not involved. I personally know that SDGirl87 is real and again that is not for anyone to worry about.

It sounds like YOU are the one pointing fingers...

Just my opinion... I tried to hold back but couldn't help myself.

[Sapphie]

I saw and briefly talked to him yesterday morning while I was at the 3-Day in Mission Beach area. He was at the 7 mile mark (roughly).

I also noted that there are no new pictures up on the website as of earlier this afternoon. No blog entries.

Does anyone know if the spewgram is off tomorrow? If so, I hope we're not subjected to more repeats of the "will he/won't he" debate about the Christmas tree lighting vs. Van Halen. They played that for Saturday morning's "best of" replay.

<gasp>!..you talked to him OKODmom?!...what did you say? Did he say anything back to you?

[eyeseeyou]

What?! An apparently kind stranger offers support. I don't know her and I certainly wouldn't accept the offer -- even if it was kind. Recover.....do you have any knowledge as to the fact I was communicating through "private messages" during that time? Do you know I've personally sent "Thanks, but no thanks," to many private offers in private?

No. You don't.

That's probably why I'm done responding to anything you post.:wavey2:
I can vouch for Jake on this one. I offered during the fires, and he said "Thanks but no thanks" in a PM I sent him. But I know in my heart that meant he wanted my body anyways:wavey2: Flirt-flirt

[InvisibleElf]

And before you complain about your changed name in the picture, OneKidOneDogMom...we called you TwoDogMom because we just chained a new feral dog outside your door.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

And before you complain about your changed name in the picture, OneKidOneDogMom...we called you TwoDogMom because we just chained a new feral dog outside your door.

(running to the front door to get my new dog!!!!)

[califbrat]

Now, back to reality.

Boris called me tonight to tell me Moochelle called him on Thursday night and told him she simply could NOT make the hike with FH.

Boris bought a blonde wig, went for 37 mystic tans, spray-painted his teeth semi-gloss white, purchased a spandex outfit, and has been hiking behind FH for the past three days.

He promises to post when the event ends -- and before FH seeks his congratulatory bonk.

Oh Jake..

That is pure GOLD... thanks for such mind blowing laugh!
I have been busy back to back for 2 days with my daddy.. taking care of him like a "good daughter" should..running around to Dr. appt. grocery stores cleanning house/laundry.. unlike Tubby who makes a "appearance" and does take out soup for his mom. I am so thankful that I live only 3 miles from my dad.. The time I saw him on Tubby Tube made me feel so bad for his mom...he's not a son that takes care of him mom..he's a troll that wants to have good intentions he just won't make the time. My daddy is 93 and he first on my list and my husband and son know that and agree with me! Just my .93 worth!

[BebeSD]

Invisible Elf, hilarious photos. Jake: Hilarious mental image of Boris walking as Moochelle. OKODM: No fair dangling a conversation without divulging details!

[SanDiegan]

Jake, the photo that the Elf posted of you is H-O-T!!!

[Sapphie]

iamsheens: It's been a good day for you. You've been complimented on being smart and refreshingly innocent!

califbrat : I had to read your post twice. The first time I read it as saying that your dad was on Tubby Tube...my bad, but it made me smile to think of your daddy being on the "webisode" :)

califbrat:...I am so thankful that I live only 3 miles from my dad.. The time I saw him on Tubby Tube made me feel so bad for his mom....

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Invisible Elf, hilarious photos. Jake: Hilarious mental image of Boris walking as Moochelle. OKODM: No fair dangling a conversation without divulging details!

But I did post about it!! Yesterday around noon-time....

Long story short - I was standing out right before Pit Stop #3 looking for an online friend that was walking and then I saw XXXL. He looked right at me and smiled and said hi. I asked him how he was doing (maybe how it was going?) and he laughed and said "It's TOUGH!" He looked a little rough around the edges - it was Day #2 and he was at about the 7 mile mark. There was a group of 6-7 women walking directly behind him (the Torrey Pines group) and I'm not sure if Mooch was with them or not. He was wearing his standard navy blue outfit - again. It wasn't anything worthy of the Dirt Phone, but I did have a sighting :)

[Sapphie]

Okodmom: Sorry...must've missed that post yesterday...didn't mean to make you repeat yourself

[califbrat]

iamsheens: It's been a good day for you. You've been complimented on being smart and refreshingly innocent!

califbrat : I had to read your post twice. The first time I read it as saying that your dad was on Tubby Tube...my bad, but it made me smile to think of your daddy being on the "webisode" :)

opps Sapphie.. duh I meant last time I saw Tubby there.. guess I was so excited about writing this all down my fingers got per-flunked... ( the jewish mommy in me! )

[BebeSD]

But I did post about it!! Yesterday around noon-time....


Well yes you did and I'm not so much with being observant/having a keen memory. Thanks for the update! Forgive? :blush:

[OneKidOneDogMom]

BebeSD and Sapphie,

No worries - it is pretty buried in the posts and it's not like I saw one of the Invisible Elves anyway :)

Speaking of which - there was no dog outside my door when I went and checked :( Those elves must have gotten the wrong house - again!

[pax]

Sad,Sad,Sad,

Do you share your crack? I need some. I have a lot of crap to get done around my house. In fact, the elves might come in handy, too. I think FH and LBM could use crack and elves, too. Are you dealing yet or have you not sunk that low?

[BebeSD]

I think FH and LBM could use crack and elves, too.

I'll glady stand corrected if I'm wrong, but I believe they already have them.
Hence their issues.
Hence this forum.

LBM.

[pax]

Touche BebeSD.

[Sapphie]

I'll glady stand corrected if I'm wrong, but I believe they already have them.
Hence their issues.
Hence this forum.

LBM.

Hence Laura's willingness to clean house this weekend

[insightbyjake]

Jake, the photo that the Elf posted of you is H-O-T!!!

Oh, yeah?

You should see me after I get the food.

[insightbyjake]

Jake, the photo that the Elf posted of you is H-O-T!!!

By the way,

SDGirl87 retires to the bedroom around 9:45pm.

Wanna post late-night?

Might be good for me if recovering listeners knew I wasn't a one-thread-hook-up-kinda-guy....

Oh yeah.......I got the FH gene when it comes to posting.....


Want to "tour" my computer room?....



P.S. Could you sign a waiver first, however? I kinda got a few "legal" things I'm trying to clean up...

[Carol]

WHOA!

I KNEW I WAS A BIG DEAL!!

Thanks for the name drop RL.

[SadSadSad]

Sad,Sad,Sad,

Do you share your crack? I need some. I have a lot of crap to get done around my house. In fact, the elves might come in handy, too. I think FH and LBM could use crack and elves, too. Are you dealing yet or have you not sunk that low?

I do not share nor do I deal because I don't want to contribute to anyone else's demise. I sympathize with you, though, because my cardboard box is always sparkling clean after I hit my pipe. It's like Martha Stewart in a little crystal form. After a hit I am also able to bake tarts and make my own potpourri.

Anyways, just so you know I have it on good authority that even the Invisible Elves won't set foot in FH and LBM's house. That place scares the Invisible Poop out of them.

[Goody]

Has anyone heard or seen anything about the 3day today? Or FH?

FH won't have time to report on his 3-day. Remember he is really busy- After the 3-day he needs to go to the Charger game, visit his mom in CV, and fly to Vegas to get married- and be back in time to pick up his kids by 9:00. At least when he gets home, his frig will be filled, thanks to his lovely roommate.

[ElizabethAZ]

RL--two thoughts for you.

1. Let. It. Go.

2. Moving on, I suspect all these emails you receive from "PayPal" are bogus. I never get emails from them--I have an account that I use occasionally. If it seems they are spamming you, google for paypal email scam and you will be able to tell if the email is legit or not.

I look forward to discussing the Spewgram with you!

[SDGirl87]

Geesh,I go away for the day and come back to this? Ehh...whatever. I have more important things like reorganizing my sock drawer and washing my hair to tend to.

Jake, tonight bedtime will be roughly 8:30. Thank you for your concern.

Is anyone else watching this Charger game?? (sigh)

Boris..........WHERE ARE YOU??

[claystone]

1st of all...to that long-winded person who continues to post tirades on issues put to rest, grrrrrrr!

2nd of all, this may be two nights late, but goodnight Jake! Great name by the way, it's the name of my little one. Not to mention that hot guy in Sixteen Candles. Have a good night everyone.

[ElizabethAZ]

Here is another example of "don't believe what people say about themselves on the internet"....

This is a quote from a MySpace title page:

WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS FOR THEY BECOME WORDS.
WATCH YOUR WORDS FOR THEY BECOME ACTIONS.
WATCH YOUR ACTIONS FOR THEY BECOME HABITS.
WATCH YOUR HABITS FOR THEY BECOME CHARACTER.
WATCH YOUR CHARACTER FOR IT BECOMES YOUR DESTINY.

The page belongs to Kelsey Peterson, the teacher who ran off to Mexico with a 13-year-old student. Maybe she should have listened to her own advice, eh?

Looks like her "character" has led her to a "destiny" of 8 to 10 years in federal prison.

[SanDiegan]

By the way,

SDGirl87 retires to the bedroom around 9:45pm.

Wanna post late-night?

Might be good for me if recovering listeners knew I wasn't a one-thread-hook-up-kinda-guy....


:naughty:

[iamsheens]

iamsheens: It's been a good day for you. You've been complimented on being smart and refreshingly innocent!

califbrat : I had to read your post twice. The first time I read it as saying that your dad was on Tubby Tube...my bad, but it made me smile to think of your daddy being on the "webisode" :)


I know I feel so popular....but the refreshingly innocent comment makes me laugh cause I'm not sure I fully know what it means to be refreshingly innocent. But I'll take it anyways and any other comments people want to throw my way...I like attention haha. :)

just kidding by the way I'm not an attention grabber, at least I don't think...

[insightbyjake]

Geesh,I go away for the day and come back to this? Ehh...whatever. I have more important things like reorganizing my sock drawer and washing my hair to tend to.

Jake, tonight bedtime will be roughly 8:30. Thank you for your concern.

Is anyone else watching this Charger game?? (sigh)

Boris..........WHERE ARE YOU??

I reorganized my sock drawer too!!!

The left foot socks are now in the bottom right drawer....and the other socks are in the upper left drawer.

The weird thing is, there seems to be the same number in each drawer....???

I'm gonna halfta e-mail LBM at STAR-94.1 and see if she has the same issues....

Did the Chargers play today?.......

"Recentlistener...."

[insightbyjake]

I don't have the power or the information to set the record straight one way or the other. Nobody here does, that was what I was trying to get at....

Sorry...this thought just hit me and I had to respond.....

If one lacks power and/or information....to set things "straight"......."one way or another...".......and one believes nobody has such "power....."

Is that person an idiot, or simply void of all information and power? Which begs the question: What's the difference between the two????

Hmmm....

[pastherprime]

I want to preface my post by saying that I’m not pointing fingers, trying to offend...

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Ignore button.

[Sapphie]

I reorganized my sock drawer too!!!

The left foot socks are now in the bottom right drawer....and the other socks are in the upper left drawer.

The weird thing is, there seems to be the same number in each drawer....???

Need advice from sock experts...I have two left feet...which drawer should I put my socks in?

[PQ Gal]

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Ignore button.

Amen!!!!!

[insightbyjake]

Need advice from sock experts...I have two left feet...which drawer should I put my socks in?


Oh that's easy...

Put half of them in the top drawer, and the other third in the bottom drawer.

No charge for this advice!

Actually....I made a mistake....

Put the other fifth in the bottom drawer....

boy....can I be dumb sometimes!!!

[mamasterls]

Channel 8 just did the news story on the 3-day. Barbara Lee was in the segment, but no sign of FH.

[Sapphie]

Oh that's easy...

Put half of them in the top drawer, and the other third in the bottom drawer.

No charge for this advice!

Actually....I made a mistake....

Put the other fifth in the bottom drawer....

boy....can I be dumb sometimes!!!

Thanks...seems to work..but now I have 27 right foot socks up for grabs...

I am dumb sometimes too but I remember advice about that from someone here "

Log off quickly

[Jammie J.]

So, I notice that the promised blogs-about-the-three-day are sadly lacking from Tommy....at least Barbara has posted several updates about the spirit of the walk. Does anyone have proof that Tommy was actually walking today or yesterday?

If his feet hurt, maybe he's crawling. Crawling in spandex. Which probably makes his fingers hurt. And knees. So he can't type because his fingers and knees hurt. So no blob for you. Plus, he probably lost his socks. Needs to organize his sock drawers. Or just his spandex drawers in general.

If he crawls, does that count as "walking"?

[Jammie J.]

I do not share nor do I deal because I don't want to contribute to anyone else's demise. I sympathize with you, though, because my cardboard box is always sparkling clean after I hit my pipe. It's like Martha Stewart in a little crystal form. After a hit I am also able to bake tarts and make my own potpourri.

Anyways, just so you know I have it on good authority that even the Invisible Elves won't set foot in FH and LBM's house. That place scares the Invisible Poop out of them.

Invisible poop? By the 27,000 crickets I have in a wheelbarrow, I think I have poop envy!

[Sapphie]

If his feet hurt, maybe he's crawling. Crawling in spandex. Which probably makes his fingers hurt. And knees. So he can't type because his fingers and knees hurt. So no blob for you. Plus, he probably lost his socks. Needs to organize his sock drawers. Or just his spandex drawers in general.

If he crawls, does that count as "walking"?

He doesn't need to organize his drawers Jammie...Laura was home playing housewife, remember? I'll bet by now she's been in all his drawers and re-arranged everything.
And don't start with the blob comments...it's very close to bedtime!

[insightbyjake]

...If he crawls, does that count as "walking"?

Of course it does! Just like his marriage counted as "commitment".....his attention paid to his kids counts as "parenting".....his 50 pounds lost/45 pounds gained counts as "dieting".....and his bonking a has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-be counts as a "meaningful-relationship"....


Geez...could you guys be more judgmental?

P.S. Notice I didn't differentiate between "has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-bes?"

[Jammie J.]

He doesn't need to organize his drawers Jammie...Laura was home playing housewife, remember? I'll bet by now she's been in all his drawers and re-arranged everything.
And don't start with the blob comments...it's very close to bedtime!

The crawling in spandex didn't bother you?

Shoot!

Ohhh, how about his blob crawling in spandex?

[Sapphie]

The crawling in spandex didn't bother you?

Shoot!

Ohhh, how about his blob crawling in spandex?

Ack!...and Oy Vey!...you are a wretch! :)

now visions of sugar bums dance in my head

[Jammie J.]

He doesn't need to organize his drawers Jammie...Laura was home playing housewife, remember? I'll bet by now she's been in all his drawers and re-arranged everything.
And don't start with the blob comments...it's very close to bedtime!

BTW, I heard LBM's already been in his drawers (if you know what I mean) and re-arranged it all, THAT isn't anything new. :gle:

[Jammie J.]

Of course it does! Just like his marriage counted as "commitment".....his attention paid to his kids counts as "parenting".....his 50 pounds lost/45 pounds gained counts as "dieting".....and his bonking a has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-be counts as a "meaningful-relationship"....


Geez...could you guys be more judgmental?

P.S. Notice I didn't differentiate between "has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-bes?"

Is there a difference between bonking and boinking?

[Jammie J.]

Ack!...and Oy Vey!...you are a wretch! :)

now visions of sugar bums dance in my head

HA! My work here is done for the night then!

[Sapphie]

Of course it does! Just like his marriage counted as "commitment".....his attention paid to his kids counts as "parenting".....his 50 pounds lost/45 pounds gained counts as "dieting".....and his bonking a has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-be counts as a "meaningful-relationship"....


Geez...could you guys be more judgmental?

P.S. Notice I didn't differentiate between "has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-bes?"

Apparently it's frowned upon to be judgemental here you sock-organizing-obscure-intellectual-referencing-poster-you!

I didn't understand the "has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-bes" thing.

But then I'm just a dumb Paul Mitchell blonde..will I get banned for saying that?

and yes, Jammie...there's a HUGE difference between bonking and boinking.

[Sapphie]

"blobbing on his blob"..."crawling in spandex"...make the night terrors go away....

[Jammie J.]

Apparently it's frowned upon to be judgemental here you sock-organizing-obscure-intellectual-referencing-poster-you!

I didn't understand the "has-been-bleached-blonde-wanna-bes" thing.

But then I'm just a dumb Paul Mitchell blonde..will I get banned for saying that?

and yes, Jammie...there's a HUGE difference between bonking and boinking.

I thought I understood the blonde thing, but now I'm not sure. I thought Jake was differentiating between plural and singular (as in, LBM & Moochelle)? Maybe I'm wrong, though.
So, tell me what the difference is between bonking and boinking? Is it more than just a missing "i"? Or is bonking what Tubby does and boinking what Randy does?

[Jammie J.]

"blobbing on his blob"..."crawling in spandex"...make the night terrors go away....

Just FYI, I read today that you just have to go through the night terror cycle, awakening during them apparently prolongs them...

[Sapphie]

I thought I understood the blonde thing, but now I'm not sure. I thought Jake was differentiating between plural and singular (as in, LBM & Moochelle)? Maybe I'm wrong, though.
So, tell me what the difference is between bonking and boinking? Is it more than just a missing "i"? Or is bonking what Tubby does and boinking what Randy does?

I don't think that what Randy does falls into any category...(gawd..now I have that delightful visual to contend with)..but you were on the right track with the "i" thing...a good bonk is what normal, fun-lovin' couples have but when there's a huge big deal ego involved the "i" is what makes the difference. BoInking is self-serving and all about one person...wait...maybe that is what Randy does.

This has just reminded me that a fat piggy's version of "Cogito, ergo sum" is..."I'm pink....therefore I'm ham"

[Jammie J.]

I don't think that what Randy does falls into any category...(gawd..now I have that delightful visual to contend with)..but you were on the right track with the "i" thing...a good bonk is what normal, clear-thinking, loving couples have but when there's a huge big deal ego involved the "i" is what makes the difference. BoInking is self-serving and all about one person...wait...maybe that is what Randy does.

This has just reminded me that a fat piggy's version of "Cogito, ergo sum" is..."I'm pink....therefore I'm ham"

I thought bonking is what people do if they feel threatened, as in "I bonked you over the head because you scared me" and boinking is what immature or not fully developed *wink wink* people did. As for loving couples doing stuff, I thought that was referred to as something else entirely.

Speaking of pigs, you do know what they say about pigs and boinking, right?

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=pig+orgasms&btnG=Search

[Sapphie]

I thought bonking is what people do if they feel threatened, as in "I bonked you over the head because you scared me" and boinking is what immature or not fully developed *wink wink* people did. As for loving couples doing stuff, I thought that was referred to as something else entirely.

Speaking of pigs, you do know what they say about pigs and boinking, right?

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=pig+orgasms&btnG=Search

Your (sausage)link is entertaining

[Smitty]

So it looks like the showgram is taking another minor holiday off? Tommy hasn't updated his blog since Friday so we are all left hanging one more day. At least Barbara Lee has been current with her blog. Interestingly enough, she doesn't mention Tommy at all in her final Blog. hmmmm.... I wonder if he finished.

[SDGirl87]

...but did any of you see the sunrise this morning? It was magnificent!! Absolutely stunning. Brilliant pink against the most lovely blue.

It was breathtaking. Made me wish I'd had someone with me to enjoy it together. A lovely cup of hot chocolate or coffee...and a few minutes of silence watching the sky. I know, very hokey and cheesey, but, oh well.

Have a terrific day! (sorry if it's too cheerleaderish, I'm nursing the tail end of a migraine and the meds make me sappy!)

[SDGirl87]

So it looks like the showgram is taking another minor holiday off? Tommy hasn't updated his blog since Friday so we are all left hanging one more day. At least Barbara Lee has been current with her blog. Interestingly enough, she doesn't mention Tommy at all in her final Blog. hmmmm.... I wonder if he finished.


I honestly hope he finished. I honestly hope he made it all the way and somewhere along the way, even for just a fleeting moment, understood why he was there and why it matters that he finish. I even prayed for him (and all of the walkers) this weekend. I'm sure that every last one of them is sore, tired and worn out. Hopefully more than a few are also euphoric at completing it, and making a small difference.

Speaking of, how did OUR 3DayWalker do?? Check in when you can :)

[Wabbitsd]

I can only say, in that picture of me the Elf posted, do you think the striped stockings AND the little black bikini undies make my butt look big? Or would it have been easier to tell if I had turned around backwards?

[iamsheens]

I honestly hope he finished. I honestly hope he made it all the way and somewhere along the way, even for just a fleeting moment, understood why he was there and why it matters that he finish. I even prayed for him (and all of the walkers) this weekend. I'm sure that every last one of them is sore, tired and worn out. Hopefully more than a few are also euphoric at completing it, and making a small difference.

Speaking of, how did OUR 3DayWalker do?? Check in when you can :)

Even if he didn't finish he will say he did....we will never really know if he did or not, but he will have ugh....he probably hasn't wrote in his blog because he will slip that he didn't finish.

I love waking up to thunder :)

[Trixie]

LBM & the showgram is a repeat today.

[texasmommy]

I know it was early...

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

...but did any of you see the sunrise this morning? It was magnificent!! Absolutely stunning. Brilliant pink against the most lovely blue.

It was breathtaking. Made me wish I'd had someone with me to enjoy it together. A lovely cup of hot chocolate or coffee...and a few minutes of silence watching the sky. I know, very hokey and cheesey, but, oh well.

Have a terrific day! (sorry if it's too cheerleaderish, I'm nursing the tail end of a migraine and the meds make me sappy!)


I love the cheerleaderish type... Oh how I wish I saw the sunrise in San Diego. Or even a sunset on the ocean..

So what's the word of the day?

[SDGirl87]

In honor of our heros serving all over the world in war, and in places of peace...

Our word for the day is FREEDOM.

By the way, thank a Vet, and/or their families. As one who grew up in a military household during the first Gulf War, it meant a lot when people remembered that the families were sacrficing just as much (clearly on a different level!) as our loved ones.

[iamsheens]

In honor of our heros serving all over the world in war, and in places of peace...

Our word for the day is FREEDOM.

By the way, thank a Vet, and/or their families. As one who grew up in a military household during the first Gulf War, it meant a lot when people remembered that the families were sacrficing just as much (clearly on a different level!) as our loved ones.

Or how about all of san diego is getting freedom today by having a repeat of the showgram, no christmas light debate, and no Tommy talking about his 3day...

maybe im not good at the word of the day...

[SDGirl87]

Or how about all of san diego is getting freedom today by having a repeat of the showgram, no christmas light debate, and no Tommy talking about his 3day...

maybe im not good at the word of the day...

Nope, I think that's a perfect use of the word...lol.

[BebeSD]

I'm grateful to have the day off from work so I have the freedom to check this board whenever I want! :)

[11ListenerNot]

I was so stupid this morning, on my way to work LBM was going on about her bad hair job, red hair, etc. blah blah, and I thought not again! We just went through this a few months back. But when Jeff was talking about going to the BJ Thomas concert at some state fair in Ohio, I realized that this is a re-run. I wouldn't put it past them to repeat some stupid scenario again.

Nothing from Fatty yet. I agree with an earlier poster (Iamsheens?). He will say he finished. I seriously doubt that he did

[iamsheens]

If he had finished he would have posted something by now....this is very unlike him, I predict he will be gone all week so by next week everyone will have forgotten about the three day..or the other thing is....him and mooch ran off to vegas for a suprise wedding...regardless had he finished he would have written about it by now.

[11th Reader]

After 3 days of "togetherness" with FH in a tent and right next to her, I bet that Mooch is ready for her FREEDOM (and alimony check).

[SadSadSad]

So it looks like the showgram is taking another minor holiday off?


Please allow me to mince words here. I think you probably intended to say a holiday most people do not get off work by using the term "minor". I'm sure you would agree this day is anything minor, though, and in fact should be taken more seriously.

If J&J had any true character they would be on the radio spending the day saluting all of the men and women who have and are fighting and dying for our freedom.

[MomOf3Girls]

Speaking of, how did OUR 3DayWalker do?? Check in when you can :)

It only took me about 30 minutes to get down the stairs with my swolen feet, but I am here and I don't have a lot of FH 3-Day gossip, but I do have some.

And, for the record, this is my 2nd 3-day walk. I trained last year as much as I could and finished the entire 60 miles. This year, training was just not happening, but I am fairly in shape. So I finished 20 the first day, 15 the second, and only missed about 3 of day 3. All in all, i think i did pretty well

[11th Reader]

Congrats Momof3Girls!

[iamsheens]

Well Spill Your Gossip!!!!

[MomOf3Girls]

I did not see XXXL at all on Day 1, but as someone else posted, there were over 4600 walkers, so I was not surprised. He said he arrived at camp on Day1 at 5, I arrived at about 5:30, so I must have just missed him. While standing on line for dinner, the lady in front of me said "did you hear that Little Tommy is doing the walk? You know LT from Star 94.1?" She was all giddy, like EVERYONE knows who this *loser* is. I said I had heard. She went on "Well I heard that he wants to get 100 men into a team to do the walk next year. Wouldn't that be amazing!!??"

In some way, yes that would be amazing, but from FH? NOT! I almost lost my appetite, but after walking for 10+ hours I needed to eat.

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Congratulations, Momof3Girls! What a great accomplishment...and I hope to do that well next year :)

And, please, share your stories ~ did you see XXXL or Moochie???

[MomOf3Girls]

I saw XXXL for the first time on Day 2 about 1pm. We were about 10 miles into Day2 and I had stopped at near a cheering station to have some family time with my 3 beautiful girls and family of my other team members. The parent of my team mate mentioned LT doing the walk and we were chuckling about this short little fat guy doing the walk. Then low-and-behold, he walked by us.

<Sorry for the typing, i know i walked, but my hands aren't working>

I snapped a picture of him and then realized that he had his own little cheerleader there - any guesses??? It was LBM in a black sweat suit. I have the picture and will try to post it, so give me a little bit this morning to get it off my camera and figure out how to post it.

[Transplant]

What's really great is that this years 3Day in San Diego had the largest participation and raised the most money ever in all of the 3Day history!

Way to go San Diego (no kudos to FH tho!)

I love that i have the FREEDOM to say what i want! Thank you Vets!

[MomOf3Girls]

Actually, (sorry my brain isn't working either) I saw him first in the AM of D2. It was 7AM and we were heading out of camp. FH and Mooch were walking in front of us. We past them and it was then that I realized it was them. I dont know if he slept in the tents or not, but he was there at 7AM all ready to start walking, but it didn't seem like he was ina rush to leave right then.

[MomOf3Girls]

Day 3 - oh the pain. It really doesn't matter how much you train, the pain will be there by the end of Day 2 and ready and waiting for you to rise on Day 3. It is quite a visual seeing thousands of walkers out and about limping and grimacing with ankles, knees, legs taped up and still marching on. If you haven't done it and think you want to - DO IT. Everyone else, i encourage you to go to one of the cheering stations next year b/c it is an amazing sight.

OK enough blabbing, I saw glimpses of XXXL a couple of times onthe 3rd day. Never enought to get a pic or anything. We were towards the back of the entire 4600+walkers. In fact, I think we were clocked in at number 4624 at the last pit stop area before Petco Park.

When I went into Petco, all the walkers that entered before us were lined up along a path that cheer you through to the check-in point. I saw XXXL in there and <gross> hi-fived him. I have a picture of him from the back in Petco that I will try to post also.

[MomOf3Girls]

I saw XXXL in there and <gross> hi-fived him. I have a picture of him from the back in Petco that I will try to post also.

Yes, I'm quoting my self, but felt the need to clarify this. When walkers go into Petco, you high five everyone. I didn't seek him out <yuck>. His hand was just up with everyone elses cheering me through. I did get out my hand sanitizer immediately afterwards. Phew!

[MomOf3Girls]

OK, can someone now give me instructions for inserting pics? Is there a size limit onthe image?

[Transplant]

OK, can someone now give me instructions for inserting pics? Is there a size limit onthe image?

Wonks gave me a great site to upload the images to...then you can enter the url/link in your GA posting and it'll show the pics


http://www.imageshack.us/

[texasmommy]

OK, can someone now give me instructions for inserting pics? Is there a size limit onthe image?

You can also use www.photobucket.com it is very easy!

[MomOf3Girls]

First, here is a picture for all of the men on this forum. Thought you might appreciate this guy. He wasn't walking, just a supporter, but I saw him at about 4 different placed along the first day.

Hope this works...

http://img216.imageshack.us/my.php?image=breastmanaw8.jpg

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Is there a size limit onthe image?

Ummmm, are you implying that the G|A site might not be able to accomodate a picture of XXXL's girth??? LOL

[MomOf3Girls]

Here is XXXL from Day 2, about 10 miles down. Yes, that is the Pink Panther behind him. And yes, that is LBM in the black sweat suite.

BTW, she's not fat. Is she Hollywood skinny? No. She's about the same size as me, and I'm not fat.

http://img216.imageshack.us/my.php?image=ltday2df7.jpg

[MomOf3Girls]

Ummmm, are you implying that the G|A site might not be able to accomodate a picture of XXXL's girth??? LOL

I just snorted out loud!!!

[SDGirl87]

I did too MO3G!! LOL

OKODM....hehehe!!!

[BigAl]

That's right, girth may be an issue in posting. Esp after a grueling 3 day walk and eating at every opportunity to keep energy levels up. plus feet/legs being swollen. There is only so much bandwith you know. LOL

[insightbyjake]

Is there a difference between bonking and boinking?

Yes.

"Boink" is slang for having sex.

"Bonk" describes a condition when an athlete suddenly loses energy and fatigue sets in.

We "boink."

FH "bonks."

[Transplant]

Did anyone read any of Kathy Lee's work out blogs leading up to the 3Day? She REALLY trained hard in preparation. She was walking 4 hours a day, etc. I can only imagine how FH felt after the first day, considering his workouts consisted of stalking the other TP walkers

[insightbyjake]

Here is XXXL from Day 2, about 10 miles down. Yes, that is the Pink Panther behind him. And yes, that is LBM in the black sweat suite.

BTW, she's not fat. Is she Hollywood skinny? No. She's about the same size as me, and I'm not fat.

http://img216.imageshack.us/my.php?image=ltday2df7.jpg

Boris......don't go there. :wavey2:

Not that you don't have the FREEDOM to do so....

[boris85]

I was so stupid this morning, on my way to work LBM was going on about her bad hair job, red hair, etc. blah blah, and I thought not again! We just went through this a few months back. But when Jeff was talking about going to the BJ Thomas concert at some state fair in Ohio, I realized that this is a re-run. I wouldn't put it past them to repeat some stupid scenario again.

Nothing from Fatty yet. I agree with an earlier poster (Iamsheens?). He will say he finished. I seriously doubt that he did

Of course it was a re-run. But isn't every show? It's all recycled crap. Looking forward to hearing about Laura Losers latest hotel tour when she returns tomorrow - I think she and the kids stayed at a flea-infested druggie motel in the Gaslamp. Maybe it was just a "research" project - part of the her recovery process. They are off honoring our veterans... Ya right! Tommy is probably still hooked up to an IV - frequently mistaken for a turkey with a thermometer shoved up its a@*!!!! Hey Tummy - you got a good tan during the walk (or in your case, the three-day crawl, roll, etc...).

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/f/fd/Fredberry.jpg

You sexy Guamanian love toboggan...

FYI Tummy – just because you’re a boon doesn’t mean you can pocket the cash!

[MomOf3Girls]

Here he is on Day 3 - It's from the back (in case you couldn't tell) and I had my zoom on so I could get a pic close enough. not a great pic, but it'll have to do.

http://img229.imageshack.us/img229/1179/ltday3ew1.jpg

FYI - The white shirts are all the walkers, pink shirts are survivors.

So, bottom line - He finished, not sure how much of it he walked vs got a ride on one of the sweep vans, but he did it.

[BigAl]

Actually, if a guy didn't know of all the excess baggage and other drama in her life, she'd be somewhat appealling.......
OMG, what did I just say........OMG......I will put face in toilet and flush.........

[SDGirl87]

BORIS IS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yipeeeeeeeeeeee :)

Where ya been? We missed you!!

[SDGirl87]

Actually, if a guy didn't know of all the excess baggage and other drama in her life, she'd be somewhat appealling.......
OMG, what did I just say........OMG......I will put face in toilet and flush.........


Someone please hand BigAl the Sangria. Thanks.

[insightbyjake]

Actually, if a guy didn't know of all the excess baggage and other drama in her life, she'd be somewhat appealling.......
OMG, what did I just say........OMG......I will put face in toilet and flush.........

If a guy were partially blind, and almost deaf, and had a non-working olfactory system, didn't need meals prepared, could help lift passed-out people, loved FAS children, lived without sex for 34 years, and could tolerate obnoxious Christmas luncheons.....he could converse with her for 10 minutes.

[MomOf3Girls]

Did anyone see the 6-6:30 news on Sat evening when Shawn Stiles did his weather report? He was talking to 2 girls about 7years old and 2 little girls about 2-ish? I believe it was live TV. The two 2-yr olds kissed during the segment. too cute. Anyone see this?

[boris85]

BORIS IS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yipeeeeeeeeeeee :)

Where ya been? We missed you!!

I was in Botswana doing research and fighting to save the free world...

[11ListenerNot]

BORIS IS BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yipeeeeeeeeeeee

Where ya been? We missed you!!
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Boinking Laura-NOT. This is only a joke, really!

[SDGirl87]

Thank goodness SOMEONE was doing that.

Welcome back! Hope you didn't get any infectious diseases from the Botswanian people!

[iamsheens]

UGH why do people have to be so mean to strangers via the phone? drives me insane....at least Boris is back that made my day just a smidge better....

the board is slow today....

i wish I had the freedom to go home from work lol

[SDGirl87]

Me too Sheens. Or at least not be HERE. I can easily think of at least 4 other places I'd rather be. The good news is that it's so quiet here that I'll probably get out around 2:00 or so

[MomCat]

I think the reason they feel they can be mean is because you're just a voice at the other end of the line. I've worked in collections and also in medical authorizations. Trust me, I've been yelled at by some champs...LOL Most times my co-workers and I would put the phone on mute and make fun of them, it helped the stress and we had the FREEDOM to do it. ; )

[boris85]

OK - I am sure this has been mentioned, but I am too lazy to go back through old posts. Laura featured in SD Family Magazine??? Is that a joke? What, are they doing an April Fool's edition on loser moms?

[SDGirl87]

Boris, either a late April Fools or an early April Fools. Unsure.

[PRINTER]

Tubby's 3-Day blob is up...I don't have time to post it

[SDGirl87]

Monday November 12, 2007 NOON
Monday, November 12, 2007 at 3:23pm

Monday November 12, 2007 NOON: What I did along with 4,600 other people over the last 3 days was the absolute hardest thing I have ever done in my life! I don’t believe you can train for walking 20 miles then 21 miles and then 15 miles in 3 days. It hurts no matter if you did Torrey Pines, Cowles Mountain, and Iron Mountain all year long. My body is beat up and I am sore and I’m limping around like never before. I was beat up mentally and physically, BUT there’s one thing I need to say: I can’t wait to do it again next year and I hope you do it too!

Walking those 3 days is hard, but you forget about all the pain you might be feeling and you ignore the pain when you GET WHY YOU ARE THERE. When you realize that so many people go through their painful journey when they are diagnosed for cancer, those blisters don’t mean a thing. One sign that I will remember forever said: BLISTERS DON’T NEED CHEMO!

It doesn’t matter if you don’t know anyone that has had breast cancer, that’s actually THE GOAL. WE WANT THE WORLD NOT TO KNOW ANYONE WITH BREAST CANCER ANYMORE. I walked for many people but another reason was for MY KIDS. I don’t want my kids to have this. I don’t want my kids to have to walk for a cure. What a great world it would be if EVERYONE walked and raised money in the world and our kids or their kids will only read about what we did way back when, when there wasn’t a cure. DO THESE WALKS FOR A CURE, so our kids and their kids don’t have to get blisters on their feet and our loved ones will BE and CAN ONLY BE SURVIVORS!

Yesterday, was the final day. We only had to do about 15 miles into downtown. I was hurting a bit, but kept on walking. Once we got to Balboa Park, it became a celebration for finishing. We were steps closer to finding a cure. The line of supporters clapping and the cars honking and the group of people that you saw cheering everyone on at each location where they all became familiar brought tears to your eyes. I remember walking right before Balboa Park and realizing to me that I was almost done. I remember saying to myself that I probably won’t cry or get emotional when I finish for some reason, BUT when I got to Balboa Park and into downtown and then entered the holding area, I cried like a little girl and I was proud!

I walked most of the way with my fianc&#233; Michelle and my friend Yvonne. I walked with our team members and I walked and talked a lot with Barbara Lee Edwards. We even walked with a few of the regulars from the Torrey Pines/Cowles/Iron walks for a few miles. I also walked with the memory of all the people I walked for. I read their names to myself from time to time and when I got to the end and I kept their names in my badge where it hung close to my heart.

Other than having Eddie and Vanessa and my family stuff and my mom and meeting Michelle, this walk was the most important thing I have ever done in my life.

Like I said before, it was the hardest thing I have ever done, but I CANNOT WAIT TO DO IT AGAIN November 21, 22, and 23 in 2008!

I want you to do it too! I got some emails from friends and listeners wanting to join the team in 2008. Lets do it. My sister Lola, who I love so much, but tend to disagree with a lot J …is also going to walk with us next year. That’s so cool that she wants to join us.

IN 2008, I will train on flat pavement a lot, because walking on sidewalks and the street even if it’s LEVEL absolutely kicks your butt…Walking up a mountain is easier to do than walking straight ahead on a sidewalk. BELIEVE ME, I have the beat up shins and blisters to prove that. J

ALSO, there were so many people that came together to make the 3 day happen. From the volunteers to the medical staff to the various police departments in town to the supporters to the walkers to everyone, but one thing that was very cool to know was the the SAN JOSE POLICE DEPARTMENT comes down every year to help out FOR FREE. They do it because their old chief was in to the 3 day and they kept the tradition. HOW COOL IS THAT? The cops were hot too. Yeah, it was obvious. I was kind of annoyed and jealous of the cops, because all the chicks got all excited when they would come to the rescue. WHATEVER--- J It was honor to shake their hands when they came in to the holding area.

There is so much to say and I will, but I just wanted to say hello and that WE DID IT and I want you to do it with us next year. I think we are going to try to work with News 8 again and have people sign up MEN AND WOMEN, but we wanted to have a goal of getting 100 men on the team along with the women. How cool would that be?

I found out what the 3 day was all about and I finally get what is needed and why they do these walks. I didn’t understand most of the year, but I do now and I support Susan G. Komen and all the walks and races. I have a little girl named Vanessa and Michelle has two little girls, what a great world we would have if our kids DON’T HAVE TO GO THROUGH what so many survivors have and so many others that have passed on. What a great time it would be when that day comes when we do find a cure.

I’m going to rest and then tell you more later.

NEXT PROJECT: BREAKING AND ENTERING CHRISTMAS! I’ll talk about that tomorrow.

Thanks for all the emails and calls and sorry I didn’t have time to blog as much as I wanted to. Go to the website NOW to check out some pictures and videos.

WE DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[walker3day]

HI all, just wanted to let you guys know that I completed all 60 of the 3-day, and Luckily only saw FH once. It was on day 2, and Moochelle was walking ahead of him. She is in much better shape.
LBM was walking a short distance( a block ). You now FH walks funny. I will tell you that he was towards the back of the pack.
my friend and I blew past them, leaving them in the dust. We have video, I will try to get it posted. This was my fourth 3-day, and I look forward to next year, will FH be there? Doubt it.

[11ListenerNot]

There is also a video and more pictures added. He looks really beat up in the video, and he's limping

[11th Reader]

Congrats Walker3day for completing all 60 miles!

FH, I'm glad to hear that he finished. He never mentioned whether he did all 60 miles, but I'm just glad he GOT the message and finished. I'm sure he's just repeating a lot of what was said there and what he heard, but I do hope that after hearing it for 3 days, he truly believes it and understands what he's blobbing about.

[walker3day]

Thanks 11th reader. Hey where is Moochele in those pix? And in his blob he writes about walking for a cure so someday his children won't have to. He stole that line from the 3-day. Does that surprise you...

[iamsheens]

Congrats Walker3day for completing all 60 miles!

FH, I'm glad to hear that he finished. He never mentioned whether he did all 60 miles, but I'm just glad he GOT the message and finished. I'm sure he's just repeating a lot of what was said there and what he heard, but I do hope that after hearing it for 3 days, he truly believes it and understands what he's blobbing about.


I agree he kept repeating the same stuff....maybe he finally gets it....and only FH would be jealous of girls swooning over the police officers....Im sure no girl would swoon over his sweaty out of shape body and that awesome navy blue outfit he likes to sport lately...poor FH....

But the real question I have is...how much of his own money did he donate to the cause? hmmm....

[SDGirl87]

Wonk: Check your PM's :)

[iamsheens]

Wonk: Check your PM's :)


oooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh.....ARE you cheating on jake? LOL.

[SDGirl87]

ha ha...not exactly.

Wonk is trying to help me figure out how to post graphics, but we seem to be having a problem communicating...lol

[SDReadhead]

To anyone on this board who wants to talk about the Sunnie incident, please also let us know what you are going to be for Halloween this year, whether you think the Chargers are going to win in Minnesota, and who you think will make a sweep at the Emmys in 2007.

To all others, happy Veteran's Day 2007. When I woke up this morning and checked the board I thought I was caught in Groundhog day, but a quick check of XXXL's blob brought me back to the fun reality of why I love the DC.

[SDGirl87]

Is it real? Is it Memorex?? LOLOL

[pax]

I know I'll get crap for this but I'm sure there are probably quite a few people who didn't finish the walk. Not because they didn't want to but because they couldn't physically do it, even if they thought they were prepared to. So, even if FH didn't finish I would still respect him, and all of the others, for trying.

[SDGirl87]

I know I'll get crap for this but I'm sure there are probably quite a few people who didn't finish the walk. Not because they didn't want to but because they couldn't physically do it, even if they thought they were prepared to. So, even if FH didn't finish I would still respect him, and all of the others, for trying.

I'm with you Pax. 60 miles, even with the best of intentions,is a lot. I believe that he did more than half...possibly as much as 75%.

Do I think that he's had a change of heart or life? Nope. Do I think that I could do it? Nope. I do respect him for trying. Maybe I'm a softie.

[BigAl]

I went back down "memory lane" and went to page 1 of this blog. This was during their preparations for move to 94.1. Here's what "Flipper" wrote on 8-24-2005:

"I heard on 94.1 this morning that J & J will be doing a whole new show, and bringing a lot of new stuff to the station. Of course, they couldn't say anymore except "stay tuned". I sure hope the new show gram is better than what they are giving us now.."

So, I ask, as we roll into mid November 2007, Where is this new stuff??? Maybee FH TV was one, or LBM Rehab promo was another???
They were saying how Lame the show had become, etc....
Well enough of memory lane, now back to present.

Very commendable to those who participated and completed the 3 day walk. All for a great cause, and yes FH did a good thing for that but not enough though.

If you can bear, tune in to the spewgram at 0600 (or 06 whenever the commercials are done--or they get to work) to relive it all.... Learn how FH will save the day again....
I wonder if him and Moochie tied the knot while walking?? That would make a great headline.
Those SJ Policemen got all the babes so FH is jealous????

[OneKidOneDogMom]

Those SJ Policemen got all the babes so FH is jealous????

Being a red-blooded female and having been down in the Mission Beach area of the walk on Saturday, I can actually AFFIRM what XXXL said about the San Jose Police Officers (Bicycle Patrol).

Them be some good lookin' men - and one of them even showed off his dancing moves.....ooh-la-la!