San Diego - 94.1 FM J&J Morning Show Drama Club Thread

[Carol]

Shout out to Carol and Sheens! I'll be joining ya back here. but there is a very interesting post on p 364 in the other place.

Oh yay! I am so excited to see you again!

[califbrat]

Sheena..It wasn't Rowdy it was me taking about a tape gun..not a staple gun... unless she also has a clue about them!! I would be scared with a staple gun...tape won't make you bleed. hehe

[RowdyOne]

... It's not about the board, it's about the people.

EXACTLY!


...Everyone who found a way to entertain themselves with page turning and spanish would have done the same thing here, since there was no fodder.


You give a compelling justification for having two viable boards. While waiting for fodder, one can (a) turn pages, speak spanish, flirt, chat, etc., or (b) wait in relative silence. It's a choice we now have.
:cheers:

[iamsheens]

Sheena..It wasn't Rowdy it was me taking about a tape gun..not a staple gun... unless she also has a clue about them!! I would be scared with a staple gun...tape won't make you bleed. hehe


oh your right it was you, I'm sorry!!! I'm getting myself confused....but still no staple gun, they scare me...all the power I could have with staples, I might enjoy too much.....haha

oh lol I just re-read what you said and you said tape gun not staple gun....im so dense...it is only 7:15 am though...what is a tape gun exactly? oooh the power I could have with tape...I definetely could handle that...

Well I wish I had access to the j and j website so I could listen...well I don't even think they start at 5:00 am...but didn't they used to? Like back in the day? Or maybe they do a best of from 5 to 6?

Well good morning everyone if something is going on the station this morning please post!!! Happy Valentines Day!!!

[SDGirl87]

As for the poster with inside info, take it with a grain of salt (or a whole canister). The wound of the Sunny/Surfin Texan fiasco is still sore. Sure they checked out this poster carefully, but we were told the same was done about Sunny and her family and friends.

Respectfully, this is an untrue statement. At no time did anyone say that the Sunnie story was checked out before posting. It all unfolded, in Sunnie's own words and writings. When things turned dire, I was asked to be the spokesperson for the family, which I did. This has been verified by many different people who were present when that request was made of me.

What WAS checked out was behind the scenes and done without public notification based on suspicions that several of us had. When we were able to confirm that it was in fact a hoax, we (I) came immediately to the board and laid out the facts as we knew them. The reason for keeping it private was in case we were wrong. In no way did we want to smear anyone's good name or call anyone out unless and until we were 100% positive of what we knew.

Since I personally am the one who was receiving the phone calls, emails and IM's, and the one who personally checked Sunnie's story by actually going to the hospital, I think that I'm qualified to speak on this particular matter. NO ONE was more hurt by this situation than I was. NO ONE. I was the one getting the 4:00 a.m. phone calls (want to see my phone records??). I was the one getting the desperate emails. I was the one who was speaking on behalf of this family, at their request. Bearing that in mind, it would be unimaginable for me to even begin to put myself into another similar situation, much less align myself with something that I wasn't 100% certain of.

As for the guest on the Yuku board, there will people who believe it and people who won't. The 3 YUMS are 100% certain that it is 100% accurate and that the source is 100% unimpeachable. We would never have gotten behind it otherwise. Take that for what it's worth.

All I ask is that when things are being said about me, that facts be used, instead of half truths and innuendo.

[Carol]

sweep! sweep! sweep!

For those of you that do celebrate this day of looooooovvveee. Have any special plans?

We are just making dinner together, building a fire and snugling. Simple and wonderful.

[iamapes]

hmmmm

[iamapes]

sweep! sweep! sweep!

For those of you that do celebrate this day of looooooovvveee. Have any special plans?

We are just making dinner together, building a fire and snugling. Simple and wonderful.

Your guys' night sounds oh so very nice.
I'm going to the gaslamp with two of my girlfriends. Very different from your night, but should be good fun.

[Carol]

ooooo the gaslamp sounds like alot of fun! What are you up to in the gaslamp?

[imisssandiego]

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! I'll be making a special dinner for hubby and snuggling as well (it's cold in Ohio) Tried to get J&J again on the net this morning but as usual it didn't work. Fill me in if anything good happens.

[Carol]

I will not be listening to them, however I heard Rick & Jen's teaser for the J&J showgram for today, apparently they are all sharing secrets (right about now) but the kick is they are not sharing who the secret belongs too....

I think it was all a set up for something about Randy...apparently he has a juicy secret...I vote Debbie is preggers...

[insightbyjake]

Wow...it's nice to see some lights on here for a change :)

Jake....as interesting as Wilberforce was, those have to be the longest run-on sentences I've ever read.

No credit to me! I merely copied and pasted in an effort to turn the page off 666. It was beginning to bug me -- in a "Revelations"-type way.

I sure apologize to those who actually read the darn thing!

Plus, I try to keep my "." key clean and ready to use, in an effort to avoid run-ons.

[iamapes]

We're having dinner at Yardhouse and then going to a hosted bar at Envy.
I'll be freezing at that point, so then I'll be on my way to your place to join in on the snugling by fire ;D

[iamsheens]

My Valentines day will be spent with one of my friends...we will be going to a romantic dinner and then seeing the new Ryan Reynolds (so dreamy) romantic comedy, Definetely, Maybe!

I am meeting my boyfriend on my lunch break to see him. I work 7-4 and he works 1-10 so we are going to Panera Bread for lunch....and maybe we will eat by the fireplace in the resturant to make it extra romantic. haha

Isn't Debbie too old to have kidlets?

[Carol]

Someone more into this may be able to answer better, but I belive that she is not at all too old to have kiddos as she is quite a bit younger than Randy. Randy would be on the older side I think..

Everyone is welcome to come sunggle by our fireplace :) We have some different types of cheeses (tripple brie, Chedder with carmalized onion and a odd cheese, that stinks. It is made with morrocan spices it is very tasty thought) You may need to bring your own wine though..we only have one bottle..

OH..side note. If there are any fans of Charles Shaw wine it is 1.99 at trader joes.

[iamapes]

I haven't heard the secrets but the whole idea of it is ridiculous to me. They'll make up secrets so listeners will feel like they can relate to the big deals on the radio.
I didn't hear that Randy's was juicy so the whole bit was probably created just so he can reveal that he is finally getting married or having a baby, etc. but they had to make it seem like they all have secrets that they would actually share on air.

[Carol]

Yeah, but just think, if you were really into the show and driving around in your suv, and your kids were zoned out watching their DVDs in the car and your FAV radio show was airing their dirty laundry and you didnt know any better...I could see how it would keep those people entertained.

I don't really buy into any radio stations "bits" anymore. However, Some are better than others *ahem* the mikey show...sans ashley.

[iamsheens]

Yeah, but just think, if you were really into the show and driving around in your suv, and your kids were zoned out watching their DVDs in the car and your FAV radio show was airing their dirty laundry and you didnt know any better...I could see how it would keep those people entertained.

I don't really buy into any radio stations "bits" anymore. However, Some are better than others *ahem* the mikey show...sans ashley.


Your right Debbie is younger than Randy..I forgot they aren't the same age!

I don't buy into a lot of what I hear anymore...especially when it comes to radio personalities, celebs, and well basically anyone in the spotlight. If stuff is true so be it but I'd say 65%-75% of the stuff we hear about people is false...of course this is me making up percentages (but I'm good at it).

But I will share this...yesturday on my way to work on the radio station here the morning dj's were sharing their worse Valentines day stories and the girl on the show said she went on a date with this guy to Olive Garden and they ended up getting dinner and drinks, and then her date ran into some friends at Olive Garden and bought them drinks...or so she thought...when the bill came the guy made the dj pay for the meal, their drinks, and his friends drinks...the tab ended up being over a 100 dollars...I think this story was pre her radio days too...not that dj's make a ton of money as it is...you have to be a pretty big deal to get paid the big bucks...just thought I'd share the story...I would have been pissed if that happened to me.

[RhondaReindeer]

Here's the 6 secrets to match up. They are taking callers guesses until someone matches up perfectly. If I'm still near the radio when they reveal I'll post it.

1. I have had liposuction from Dr. Bucko twice.

2. I made love on Jeff's bed.

3. I had a one night stand with a guest from Survivor.

4. I've grown up a lot since then, but a long time ago I cheated on someone I loved twice in one week with two different people.

5. I am unhappy in my relationship.

6. I don't know why, but I have a feeling I might not be alive this time next year.

[RhondaReindeer]

made correction then decided to just edit above and now can't get rid of this space.

[Carol]

Thanks for posting those Rhonda. :)


Okay I have another stupid question. I will limit it to one a day:

When someone owns a working cattle farm, what is the goal of their job. What does one do at a cattle farm (other than farm cattle of course). Are the cows being raised for slaughter, if so, why do they put so much effort into the cattle? Or is their another purpose?


my question stems from reading this blog:
http://thepioneerwoman.com/

[iamsheens]

Here's the 6 secrets to match up. They are taking callers guesses until someone matches up perfectly. If I'm still near the radio when they reveal I'll post it.

1. I have had liposuction from Dr. Bucko twice.

2. I made love on Jeff's bed.

3. I had a one night stand with a guest from Survivor.

4. I've grown up a lot since then, but a long time ago I cheated on someone I loved twice in one week with two different people.

5. I am unhappy in my relationship.

6. I don't know why, but I have a feeling I might not be alive this time next year.

my guess...

1. Is Delana

2. Laura

3. Randy

4. Tommy

5. Jeff

6. Jer

I'm not sure how good my guesses are but eh...either that or number 4 is Laura...

[iamapes]

I think #4 is the tubster, only that is according to his amazing mathematical calculations.
"I've grown up a lot since then" actually means it happened last week.
"Two different people in one week" actually means AT LEAST two of the women he met at the mile of men dinner or some similar event.

[Carol]

There are some big relationship issues in that group, huh?

[iamsheens]

No Kidding about relationship issues....I don't know why you admit these so called secrets talk about marriage breakers on some of these....granted if Number 4 really is Tommy he could always tell Michelle this was when he was married...ugh the fact anyone would sleep with him is a total shocker to me!

[iamsheens]

Random Question: Has anyone ever tried whole wheat flour? If so is there anything different from regular flour, like is it more nutritious or have a different taste?

That's my random question for the day....

[Carol]

Whole wheat flour is better for you, but I am not sure how it translates into recipes. Meaning, I have made whole wheat sourdough bread and regular whole wheat bread using the same recipe. However, I dont know how it works to substitue whole wheat flour into somehting like choclate chip cookies for example.

[RowdyOne]

There are 25 "guests" viewing this thread right now... hey, did any of you hear how the secrets matched up with the spew-crew?

[Carol]

1. I have had liposuction from Dr. Bucko twice. JER

2. I made love on Jeff's bed. RANDY

3. I had a one night stand with a guest from Survivor. LAURA

4. I've grown up a lot since then, but a long time ago I cheated on someone I loved twice in one week with two different people. TOMMY

5. I am unhappy in my relationship. DELENA

6. I don't know why, but I have a feeling I might not be alive this time next year. JEFF

[saywhat?]

# 3 ( i had a one nite stand with a guest from Survivor) is Laura.
She was with that girl named Jenna from one of the first Survivor shows.
I think she used this as her secret, because everyone would think it was one of the guys on the show.

[JstTizn]

I think you're right saywhat. I remember when Jenna was on the show and how Laura gushed and fawned over her and they hung out together.

I should have called in since I guessed them all correctly, however, that would mean that I would have actually had to be listening to the show, which I would never do!

[Sapphie]

No credit to me! I merely copied and pasted in an effort to turn the page off 666. It was beginning to bug me -- in a "Revelations"-type way.

I sure apologize to those who actually read the darn thing!

Plus, I try to keep my "." key clean and ready to use, in an effort to avoid run-ons.

Couldn't you just have copied and pasted something short?.....from one of the world's shortest books maybe?

Examples you could have used:

THE ENGINEER'S GUIDE TO FASHION

TO ALL THE MEN I'VE LOVED BEFORE by Ellen DeGeneres

DR. KEVORKIAN'S COLLECTION OF MOTIVATIONAL SPEECHES

THE VALUE OF PRE-WAR INTELLIGENCE by George W. Bush

[Sapphie]

# 3 ( i had a one nite stand with a guest from Survivor) is Laura.
She was with that girl named Jenna from one of the first Survivor shows.
I think she used this as her secret, because everyone would think it was one of the guys on the show.

saywhat: Say What ?!?!

Do you know this to be a fact or are you speculating amongst yourself?

[saywhat?]

Fact...

[iamsheens]

saywhat: Say What ?!?!

Do you know this to be a fact or are you speculating amongst yourself?

I was wondering the same thing...just cause Laura hung out with a girl from Survivor does not mean she slept with them...unless they mean literally sleeping....nothing more...maybe she was introduced to another Survivor castmate who was a guy?

[Layla]

I was wondering the same thing...just cause Laura hung out with a girl from Survivor does not mean she slept with them...unless they mean literally sleeping....nothing more...maybe she was introduced to another Survivor castmate who was a guy?
Except we know for a fact that she was with at least one woman. We just assumed it was Kree.

[ElizabethAZ]

She didn't say she slept with the woman, but she had a "one-night stand"...meaning more than sleeping I think. This must be the woman referred to in the other place. Laura said in her deposition (allegedly of course) that she had several affairs while married, one with a woman. So maybe it wasn't Kree, maybe it was Jenna.

In-ter-est-ing.

[ElizabethAZ]

What other dirt do you have, SayWhat?

[iamsheens]

Except we know for a fact that she was with at least one woman. We just assumed it was Kree.

Wait, how do we know its a fact? Did she say it on the air this morning? I guess I'm confused...:confused:

[RedWillow]

Did anyone hear the dream lady's interpretation of LBM's weird dream about forgetting her birds in a box?

[iamsheens]

She didn't say she slept with the woman, but she had a "one-night stand"...meaning more than sleeping I think. This must be the woman referred to in the other place. Laura said in her deposition (allegedly of course) that she had several affairs while married, one with a woman. So maybe it wasn't Kree, maybe it was Jenna.

In-ter-est-ing.

Your right Elizabeth I couldn't remember when I was posting what it said I thought I remembered saying it said slept with someone on Survivor but it did say one night stand....

So did somebody get a copy of Laura's deposition? It's nice to see both Laura and Tommy take relationships seriously...now did this one night stand with a Survivor happen before the marriage, like before they were ever on the show or after they were on the show? Or does anyone know.

[imisssandiego]

Except we know for a fact that she was with at least one woman. We just assumed it was Kree.

With all due respect, (and I am not siding with LC here) no one except the people involved in the alleged affair know that it is fact.

[iamsheens]

With all due respect, (and I am not siding with LC here) no one except the people involved in the alleged affair know that it is fact.


very true....or if there is tapes, or videos I guess that would make it fact....I hope there isn't...that is not something I ever want to hear about...Laura's lady escapades...or whatever you want to call it...

[RhondaReindeer]

Someone more into this may be able to answer better, but I belive that she is not at all too old to have kiddos as she is quite a bit younger than Randy. Randy would be on the older side I think..

Everyone is welcome to come sunggle by our fireplace :) We have some different types of cheeses (tripple brie, Chedder with carmalized onion and a odd cheese, that stinks. It is made with morrocan spices it is very tasty thought) You may need to bring your own wine though..we only have one bottle..

OH..side note. If there are any fans of Charles Shaw wine it is 1.99 at trader joes.

I believe when Randy and Debby met, she was in her 20s, so she either still is, or is in her early 30s at most.

I drink Two Buck Chuck exclusively for my daily 1-2 glasses after work (for health!)It's quite a decent wine except I do not like the Merlot or Chardonnay at all. The Cabernet Sauvignon is the best followed by the Shiraz and Beaujolais. The Sauvignon Blanc is also quite decent.

[califbrat]

I agree about the Shiraz for the inexpensive wine.. hey I will be close to TJ in a hour!!! I have an idea...

[Carol]

With all due respect, (and I am not siding with LC here) no one except the people involved in the alleged affair know that it is fact.

I enjoy you.

[Carol]

I agree about the Shiraz for the inexpensive wine.. hey I will be close to TJ in a hour!!! I have an idea...

Their Shiraz was pretty tasty last night. I think you might be on to a good idea!

[zodiac]

Respectfully, this is an untrue statement. At no time did anyone say that the Sunnie story was checked out before posting. It all unfolded, in Sunnie's own words and writings. When things turned dire, I was asked to be the spokesperson for the family, which I did. This has been verified by many different people who were present when that request was made of me.

What WAS checked out was behind the scenes and done without public notification based on suspicions that several of us had. When we were able to confirm that it was in fact a hoax, we (I) came immediately to the board and laid out the facts as we knew them. The reason for keeping it private was in case we were wrong. In no way did we want to smear anyone's good name or call anyone out unless and until we were 100% positive of what we knew.

Since I personally am the one who was receiving the phone calls, emails and IM's, and the one who personally checked Sunnie's story by actually going to the hospital, I think that I'm qualified to speak on this particular matter. NO ONE was more hurt by this situation than I was. NO ONE. I was the one getting the 4:00 a.m. phone calls (want to see my phone records??). I was the one getting the desperate emails. I was the one who was speaking on behalf of this family, at their request. Bearing that in mind, it would be unimaginable for me to even begin to put myself into another similar situation, much less align myself with something that I wasn't 100% certain of.

As for the guest on the Yuku board, there will people who believe it and people who won't. The 3 YUMS are 100% certain that it is 100% accurate and that the source is 100% unimpeachable. We would never have gotten behind it otherwise. Take that for what it's worth.

All I ask is that when things are being said about me, that facts be used, instead of half truths and innuendo.


SDGirl- for the record, I absolutely believe what the guest speaker had to say and I know you 3 YUMS were behind the scenes for a few days figuring it all out. I'm glad he felt like coming to visit over there, it was good information.

Don't know what else to say. I just wanted to respond to your post since no one else had. :)

[imisssandiego]

I enjoy you.

Well thank you Carol I enjoy you too! :)

[SimplyMe]

...now did this one night stand with a Survivor happen before the marriage, like before they were ever on the show or after they were on the show? Or does anyone know.


She had been married long before Survivor even started, I believe.

[Carol]

I couldn't care less about Laura's alleged sexual adventures...

however..I do want to know whho got Lipo!!!!

[RowdyOne]

If memory serves, I think they pulled this same "secret" thing about a year ago, and never did tell the answers. One of the events was someone got arrested, and everyone later assumed it was Laura, since she was sent to rehab shortly thereafter. Does anyone remember this more clearly?

[zodiac]

I remember that too, Rowdy. But not any more clearly than you! :) Just that people assumed Laura got a DUI.

[JstTizn]

I remember that too Rowdy and I don't recall that they ever did answer those, however I stopped listening to them around that time too.

[ElizabethAZ]

With all due respect, (and I am not siding with LC here) no one except the people involved in the alleged affair know that it is fact.

On the other thread, someone with access to LBM's (publicly recorded) deposition clarified that LBM herself confessed to "multiple affairs during the marriage, one of them with a woman." Since she has been married since 1991 and Survivor first aired in 2000, I think it is safe to say the Survivor affair did happen while she was married.

Allegedly, Carl.

[shello]

Random Question: Has anyone ever tried whole wheat flour? If so is there anything different from regular flour, like is it more nutritious or have a different taste?

That's my random question for the day....


WOw, that is more than random. No offense please, but your question was quite out of the blue.

[cattychathy]

On the other thread, someone with access to LBM's (publicly recorded) deposition clarified that LBM herself confessed to "multiple affairs during the marriage, one of them with a woman." Since she has been married since 1991 and Survivor first aired in 2000, I think it is safe to say the Survivor affair did happen while she was married.

Allegedly, Carl.

Did that guest speaker really say they had access to her deposition transcript? I don't recall him/her saying that. I remember him/her saying that Laura admitted at her deposition that she had several affairs, but the guest speaker could have heard that second hand, for example, from DC or someone else.

Deposition transcripts are not automatically and not usually public record and are not usually filed with the court. If there was a reason that her transcript had to be filed with the court, I would bet it would be filed under seal so that only authorized court personnel, like the judge, could see it and the general public could not access it.

[mamasterls]

Random Question: Has anyone ever tried whole wheat flour? If so is there anything different from regular flour, like is it more nutritious or have a different taste?

That's my random question for the day....

Whole wheat is definitely more nutritious. I recommend starting out with half regular and half whole wheat. I use whole wheat often in all sorts of baked goods, including cookies. The baked good will be a little denser, a little heavier, with a little more nutty taste. If you are used to light fluffy baked goods it may take some getting used to, but the extra nutrition is worth it!

[imisssandiego]

Did that guest speaker really say they had access to her deposition transcript? I don't recall him/her saying that. I remember him/her saying that Laura admitted at her deposition that she had several affairs, but the guest speaker could have heard that second hand, for example, from DC or someone else.

Deposition transcripts are not automatically and not usually public record and are not usually filed with the court. If there was a reason that her transcript had to be filed with the court, I would bet it would be filed under seal so that only authorized court personnel, like the judge, could see it and the general public could not access it.

Call me a sceptic but I don't understand why someone would allow themselves to be background checked (how was it done and who paid for it?) just to post a message on a message board full of people they don't know, so that those strangers believe they are credible?

[iamsheens]

Call me a sceptic but I don't understand why someone would allow themselves to be background checked (how was it done and who paid for it?) just to post a message on a message board full of people they don't know, so that those strangers believe they are credible?

Well I'm still not sure about this "guest speaker" who posted on the other side...I'm not sure what they said but based on the few things people have posted here I don't understand why they would post information about someone else either....did the "guest speaker" on the other board contact one of the yums or did one of the yums contact the "guest speaker"? And someone did a background check on this person? Maybe I'm confused (which when am I not anymore?) but how would doing a background check prove the information they are giving out? It would prove the identity I realize but it still doesn't make the information reliable. Regardless, it seems distasteful that someone would give personal information out about someone else and also distasteful that others would share that information...no offense to anyone. And I won't tend to believe something until it comes out of Laura's mouth and its still questionable at that point...

And Chatty Cathy is right, if that was sealed information and they released information from it, no wonder they aren't giving their name out...that is against the law...

Thanks for the tip about the wheat flour...it was a VERY random question...I just was looking through a magazine yesturday when I saw an ad for wheat flour and wondered about it...anyways HAPPY FRIDAY everyone!!!!!!:)

[iamsheens]

On the other thread, someone with access to LBM's (publicly recorded) deposition clarified that LBM herself confessed to "multiple affairs during the marriage, one of them with a woman." Since she has been married since 1991 and Survivor first aired in 2000, I think it is safe to say the Survivor affair did happen while she was married.

Allegedly, Carl.

Oh more or less what I meant is that did the one night stand happen before the contestant ever appeared on Survivor...like say the one night stand happened in the 90s and then the person was on Survivor in 2001..it would technically be a Survivor contestant she had a fling with, just way before Survivor ever aired...far fetched I know...

[imisssandiego]

Well I'm still not sure about this "guest speaker" who posted on the other side...I'm not sure what they said but based on the few things people have posted here I don't understand why they would post information about someone else either....did the "guest speaker" on the other board contact one of the yums or did one of the yums contact the "guest speaker"? And someone did a background check on this person? Maybe I'm confused (which when am I not anymore?) but how would doing a background check prove the information they are giving out? It would prove the identity I realize but it still doesn't make the information reliable. Regardless, it seems distasteful that someone would give personal information out about someone else and also distasteful that others would share that information...no offense to anyone. And I won't tend to believe something until it comes out of Laura's mouth and its still questionable at that point...

And Chatty Cathy is right, if that was sealed information and they released information from it, no wonder they aren't giving their name out...that is against the law...

Thanks for the tip about the wheat flour...it was a VERY random question...I just was looking through a magazine yesturday when I saw an ad for wheat flour and wondered about it...anyways HAPPY FRIDAY everyone!!!!!!:)

From what the YUMS stated this person contacted them. I can't think of any other way to confirm someone's credibility other than doing a background check (maybe I watch too much law and order lol)

I just thought it was odd......

[iamsheens]

From what the YUMS stated this person contacted them. I can't think of any other way to confirm someone's credibility other than doing a background check (maybe I watch too much law and order lol)

I just thought it was odd......


It is odd...I mean a background check helps because you can confirm someone's identity at the least...but...with the way people are now-a-days just cause their identity is proven how can you confirm 100% that the information is correct that this person is giving you? You have to assume that what they are saying is correct. Maybe what the person is saying and events we know to be true like Laura's rehab stint could align the persons story but it doesn't necessairly make it correct...I still maintin you don't know the real story unless you are there to witness it first hand and then have some kind of documentation to prove things...

I personally don't care who Laura has or hasn't slept with...if she cheated on Dave its sad that she didn't take her marriage seriously. It's sad she let alcohol and drugs ruin her life and now she has nothing to show for herself but rumors being spread online about her and her actions. And I call them rumors because until Laura, Dave, or an attorney confirms this information to be true they are rumors...I understand that when you are in the spotlight anything you say or do is going to be scrutinized...but...I guess in this case in the scheme of things Laura is a local radio personality...where I live you never hear drama about the dj's personal lives..probably because nobody cares. Laura isn't an Angelina Jolie so I guess I dont get the fascination behind all these new allegations someone told the Yums.

I'm sure there have been tons of local personalities in San Diego who have done similar things but their stories are ignored...maybe my question for the day is this....

What is the fascination with Laura and her actions and these new speculations that have been told during the week?

I feel kind of bad for her...whoever released this news to the Yums is obviously someone who knows her and is trying to make things in life more difficult. Its sad she doesn't have a stronger support system around her. I recogonize she put this on herself but assuming this "guest speaker" is someone who knows Laura its sad they would tell random people about the information in the deposition. Sure she is shallow but she is trying to make some sort of change in her life...what's past is past so I find it odd someone would still try to ruin what little is left to Laura's reputation. I'm not a Laura fan by any means but she is taking little itty bitty, extremely small steps to improve her life and I'm sure if she even read what people said about her on the internet it could make her relapse...it seems like she has insecurity issues...just saying..

[Layla]

From what the YUMS stated this person contacted them. I can't think of any other way to confirm someone's credibility other than doing a background check (maybe I watch too much law and order lol)

I just thought it was odd......

No official background check was done. We checked into it by looking at different information that was provided. This person contaced us initially by email. Not hotmail or Yahoo. Work email. That was number one. They provided phone numbers. That was number two. Work and cell by the way. This person was already known as being "in the loop" as far as the whole LC ordeal goes. All we had to do was verify this person was in fact who they were claiming to be on first contact, and we did that.

Also, the poster contacted us, we did not contact them. They'd been to this board and the other board. They contacted us through email and not PM. (All of us have our email info either in the profile or posted on the boards).

So there you go. You know longer have to speculate on that part of it.

[iamsheens]

No official background check was done. We checked into it by looking at different information that was provided. This person contaced us initially by email. Not hotmail or Yahoo. Work email. That was number one. They provided phone numbers. That was number two. Work and cell by the way. This person was already known as being "in the loop" as far as the whole LC ordeal goes. All we had to do was verify this person was in fact who they were claiming to be on first contact, and we did that.

Also, the poster contacted us, we did not contact them. They'd been to this board and the other board. They contacted us through email and not PM. (All of us have our email info either in the profile or posted on the boards).

So there you go. You know longer have to speculate on that part of it.

Did they explain the motivation or intentions when they contacted you with this information? I mean can you understand why a few of us find it odd? Someone being in the loop I'd think would try to go out of their way to keep any personal information about the marriage and the information in the deposition hush hush....if it is one of Dave's friends let's say then you would think he/she would want to protect Dave, same if it was one of Laura's friends...I just don't understand why someone would release the information rather then trying to protect the family...or maybe I'm just completely out of whack with my thinking...

[imisssandiego]

It is odd...I mean a background check helps because you can confirm someone's identity at the least...but...with the way people are now-a-days just cause their identity is proven how can you confirm 100% that the information is correct that this person is giving you? You have to assume that what they are saying is correct. Maybe what the person is saying and events we know to be true like Laura's rehab stint could align the persons story but it doesn't necessairly make it correct...I still maintin you don't know the real story unless you are there to witness it first hand and then have some kind of documentation to prove things...

I personally don't care who Laura has or hasn't slept with...if she cheated on Dave its sad that she didn't take her marriage seriously. It's sad she let alcohol and drugs ruin her life and now she has nothing to show for herself but rumors being spread online about her and her actions. And I call them rumors because until Laura, Dave, or an attorney confirms this information to be true they are rumors...I understand that when you are in the spotlight anything you say or do is going to be scrutinized...but...I guess in this case in the scheme of things Laura is a local radio personality...where I live you never hear drama about the dj's personal lives..probably because nobody cares. Laura isn't an Angelina Jolie so I guess I dont get the fascination behind all these new allegations someone told the Yums.

I'm sure there have been tons of local personalities in San Diego who have done similar things but their stories are ignored...maybe my question for the day is this....

What is the fascination with Laura and her actions and these new speculations that have been told during the week?

I feel kind of bad for her...whoever released this news to the Yums is obviously someone who knows her and is trying to make things in life more difficult. Its sad she doesn't have a stronger support system around her. I recogonize she put this on herself but assuming this "guest speaker" is someone who knows Laura its sad they would tell random people about the information in the deposition. Sure she is shallow but she is trying to make some sort of change in her life...what's past is past so I find it odd someone would still try to ruin what little is left to Laura's reputation. I'm not a Laura fan by any means but she is taking little itty bitty, extremely small steps to improve her life and I'm sure if she even read what people said about her on the internet it could make her relapse...it seems like she has insecurity issues...just saying..

I know exactly what you are saying. While I'm not a fan of the way most on the spewgram run their private lives and how they put their personal issues out there for all to judge, I think it's terrible that someone felt the need to post information that can never really be verified by ANYONE other than LC/DC. I would think that what was posted constitues defamation but I'm not a lawyer. I know if someone were to post something like that about me I would do everything in my power to have it removed. So much has been said about karma lately, know what I mean?

[imisssandiego]

No official background check was done. We checked into it by looking at different information that was provided. This person contaced us initially by email. Not hotmail or Yahoo. Work email. That was number one. They provided phone numbers. That was number two. Work and cell by the way. This person was already known as being "in the loop" as far as the whole LC ordeal goes. All we had to do was verify this person was in fact who they were claiming to be on first contact, and we did that.

Also, the poster contacted us, we did not contact them. They'd been to this board and the other board. They contacted us through email and not PM. (All of us have our email info either in the profile or posted on the boards).

So there you go. You know longer have to speculate on that part of it.

What if LC hears of the posts and contacts her attorney? Does it worry you that since you know who this person is you may have to reveal that information? Isn't this kind of thing the reason the other board was created? I'm just wondering.

[Carol]

Did everyone have a nice Valentines day?

Did anyone else wander outside on their way to work this morning only to find their door frozen shut, or only mine? Thankfully the husband warms my car up for me before I get it it :).

[iamsheens]

I know exactly what you are saying. While I'm not a fan of the way most on the spewgram run their private lives and how they put their personal issues out there for all to judge, I think it's terrible that someone felt the need to post information that can never really be verified by ANYONE other than LC/DC. I would think that what was posted constitues defamation but I'm not a lawyer. I know if someone were to post something like that about me I would do everything in my power to have it removed. So much has been said about karma lately, know what I mean?

Especially someone who is "in the loop"...I don't understand what satisfaction they are gaining from exposing these allegations. I just couldn't imagine someone going around the internet spreading rumors about me...and know its someone I personally had connections with, it'd be hard to deal with....I really hope Laura doesn't read the stories on either of these boards...I'm sure she already has to deal with her actions on a day to day basis when she goes home to an empty home with no kids, or husband to greet her...to me that would be a daily reminder of the mistakes I have made in my life....I imagine her life is very pitiful when her kids aren't around.

[iamsheens]

Did everyone have a nice Valentines day?

Did anyone else wander outside on their way to work this morning only to find their door frozen shut, or only mine? Thankfully the husband warms my car up for me before I get it it :).

I had a marvelous Valentines Day...I was smitted by the end of my date. LOL...I was with my girlfriend but it was probably my favorite Valentines Day yet...it was great catching up with one of my best friends that soon I won't have the privilage of seeing whenever I want...

I'm glad you San Diegans had a dose of what most of my week has been like...dealing with the horrid frozen doors...hopefully nobody had a door handle fall off...I thought I would end up breaking mine off on Tuesday I was trying so hard to open my door...thankfully I'm weak so that never happened! haha

[Carol]

I know exactly what you are saying. While I'm not a fan of the way most on the spewgram run their private lives and how they put their personal issues out there for all to judge, I think it's terrible that someone felt the need to post information that can never really be verified by ANYONE other than LC/DC.

Well said.

[Daisy CA]

Did they explain the motivation or intentions when they contacted you with this information? I mean can you understand why a few of us find it odd? Someone being in the loop I'd think would try to go out of their way to keep any personal information about the marriage and the information in the deposition hush hush....if it is one of Dave's friends let's say then you would think he/she would want to protect Dave, same if it was one of Laura's friends...I just don't understand why someone would release the information rather then trying to protect the family...or maybe I'm just completely out of whack with my thinking...

I'm guessing that this person is emotionally involved in the LC/DC situation, and since only one side of the story is being heard publicly, this person felt the need to express the other side of the story to get it off his/her chest. The best place to air a grievance? The J&J Drama Club site, where the majority of people are not LC lovers. Perhaps because the emotions are running so high, this person was not thinking clearly enough to keep quiet. Just a theory...

[Sapphie]

Daisy:
I'm guessing that this person is emotionally involved in the LC/DC situation, and since only one side of the story is being heard publicly, this person felt the need to express the other side of the story to get it off his/her chest. The best place to air a grievance? The J&J Drama Club site, where the majority of people are not LC lovers. Perhaps because the emotions are running so high, this person was not thinking clearly enough to keep quiet. Just a theory...

My guess is that the mystery poster is someone in DC's camp and has chosen to reveal this info. because LC's atty. is going to use every trick to try and smear DC's name. Maybe the mystery poster just wanted to get the truth out there before everything blows up publicly. (just my thoughts)

[iamsheens]

Daisy:

My guess is that the mystery poster is someone in DC's camp and has chosen to reveal this info. because LC's atty. is going to use every trick to try and smear DC's name. Maybe the mystery poster just wanted to get the truth out there before everything blows up publicly. (just my thoughts)

I mean that could be the case but if someone from Dave's camp is trying to get the truth out shouldn't he go to the courts and such? I just don't understand why Dave or Laura would care what is being said about them...they have other issues that should be more important...instead of trying to smear each others name how bout they worry about the kids they have together and giving them a good upbringing despite the damage that has been done to the family..

I just don't see how this information is positive for DC or LC. It just seems like instead of taking steps to move forward with the divorce and healing the wounds that have been caused someone is trying to stir the pot and create drama....

Once the kids get older how good will it look if say Charlie learns his dad or one of his dads friends went to an internet website that bashes his mom to reveal she has been with men and woman and whatever else while married...it just can't be looked at in a positive light. Maybe good intentions are with the guest speaker but its hard to believe that...just seems like someone seeking revenage with the information they know...

[iamsheens]

Well said.

Why did you edit what you orginally said? Your orginal statement was good!

[JstTizn]

"What is the fascination with Laura and her actions and these new speculations that have been told during the week?"

iamsheens: As to your comment above, I think it's obvious that most people who visit this or the Yuku site are reading/participating because they get something out of snarky comments and watching/commenting on peoples lives who seem to be a train wreck. The dirtier, nastier the better for some people. I'm not putting you in that category, just so we're clear.

Some of the downright nasty mean comments I think are uncalled for and I've said before that I am not Laura's biggest fan, but with her as anyone else who has addictions etc. I say walk a mile in their shoes before you start throwing stones. She deserves a chance as does anyone who struggles with life issues.

My take on the guest poster is that sure it could be someone on the inside loop as the Yums have gone to great efforts to convince us. But, just because guest poster is in the loop doesn't mean that what they're saying is true. I say consider the source and anything they say should be treated as only speculation and rumor. It seems underhanded and downright mean like someone who has a personal axe to grind, and definitely not someone I would want to call a friend.

[Sapphie]

iamsheens: I mean that could be the case but if someone from Dave's camp is trying to get the truth out shouldn't he go to the courts and such? I just don't understand why Dave or Laura would care what is being said about them...they have other issues that should be more important...instead of trying to smear each others name how bout they worry about the kids they have together and giving them a good upbringing despite the damage that has been done to the family..

Sheens,if both parents are going for full custody, as it *appears* they are, the attorneys are going to drag out every bit of ammunition against the opposing party that they can. Dc's atty. obviously has a pretty good case already, so LC's atty. (who is said to be a "dirty fighter in the ring") would pull out all the stops to try and make DC look like an equally bad parent. Any small infraction, even if it was from 20 years ago would be exaggerated and distorted on a level that only low-life attorneys stoop to. If these things are to made public then perhaps the mystery poster's intentions are to try to counter what might come out before the event.



iamsheens:Once the kids get older how good will it look if say Charlie learns his dad or one of his dads friends went to an internet website that bashes his mom to reveal she has been with men and woman and whatever else while married...it just can't be looked at in a positive light. Maybe good intentions are with the guest speaker but its hard to believe that...just seems like someone seeking revenage with the information they know...

Seems to me that the kids already have to deal with the fallout from what has been said about their parents on the internet. Some of the speculations have been far worse than what the mystery poster said.

[iamsheens]

"What is the fascination with Laura and her actions and these new speculations that have been told during the week?"

iamsheens: As to your comment above, I think it's obvious that most people who visit this or the Yuku site are reading/participating because they get something out of snarky comments and watching/commenting on peoples lives who seem to be a train wreck. The dirtier, nastier the better for some people. I'm not putting you in that category, just so we're clear.

Some of the downright nasty mean comments I think are uncalled for and I've said before that I am not Laura's biggest fan, but with her as anyone else who has addictions etc. I say walk a mile in their shoes before you start throwing stones. She deserves a chance as does anyone who struggles with life issues.

My take on the guest poster is that sure it could be someone on the inside loop as the Yums have gone to great efforts to convince us. But, just because guest poster is in the loop doesn't mean that what they're saying is true. I say consider the source and anything they say should be treated as only speculation and rumor. It seems underhanded and downright mean like someone who has a personal axe to grind, and definitely not someone I would want to call a friend.


Very very well said, agree with you! =)

And I know that I don't say totally hateful things...I will criticize heavily on them and be disguisted with the way they live their lives but I will never be spiteful and take it to the degree I've seen it being taken too.

I realize that no one has a personal connection to the showgram so its not our responsibility to protect anyone but if someone came to me with that information there is no way I'd ever share it...even if it was true. If its true and someone wanted it released then Laura and Dave would release it themselves...not saying that what the Yums did was wrong I'm just saying if it were me, I wouldn't have said anything...I realize they are actual people and what gets said about them will affect the family and especially the kids.

[Layla]

Very very well said, agree with you! =)

And I know that I don't say totally hateful things...I will criticize heavily on them and be disguisted with the way they live their lives but I will never be spiteful and take it to the degree I've seen it being taken too.

I realize that no one has a personal connection to the showgram so its not our responsibility to protect anyone but if someone came to me with that information there is no way I'd ever share it...even if it was true. If its true and someone wanted it released then Laura and Dave would release it themselves...not saying that what the Yums did was wrong I'm just saying if it were me, I wouldn't have said anything...I realize they are actual people and what gets said about them will affect the family and especially the kids.

What we did? We did nothing excpet promise to keep the posters anonimity.

[iamsheens]

iamsheens: I mean that could be the case but if someone from Dave's camp is trying to get the truth out shouldn't he go to the courts and such? I just don't understand why Dave or Laura would care what is being said about them...they have other issues that should be more important...instead of trying to smear each others name how bout they worry about the kids they have together and giving them a good upbringing despite the damage that has been done to the family..

Sheens,if both parents are going for full custody, as it *appears* they are, the attorneys are going to drag out every bit of ammunition against the opposing party that they can. Dc's atty. obviously has a pretty good case already, so LC's atty. (who is said to be a "dirty fighter in the ring") would pull out all the stops to try and make DC look like an equally bad parent. Any small infraction, even if it was from 20 years ago would be exaggerated and distorted on a level that only low-life attorneys stoop to. If these things are to made public then perhaps the mystery poster's intentions are to try to counter what might come out before the event.



iamsheens:Once the kids get older how good will it look if say Charlie learns his dad or one of his dads friends went to an internet website that bashes his mom to reveal she has been with men and woman and whatever else while married...it just can't be looked at in a positive light. Maybe good intentions are with the guest speaker but its hard to believe that...just seems like someone seeking revenage with the information they know...

Seems to me that the kids already have to deal with the fallout from what has been said about their parents on the internet. Some of the speculations have been far worse than what the mystery poster said.

Just to make it clear I'm not trying to argue and disagree with what people are saying for the heck of it. I'm really just trying to understand it and everyone's comments are helping but also making me question it more...if that makes any sense...

On that note, while you are absolutely right that they are going to court for custody and those types of cases are sometimes the worse, I still don't get why the mystery poster would run to the internet to a bunch of people who don't listen to the showgram or know DC or LC to set the record straight...how bout telling family members and close friends what the truth is and let the rest of San Diego think what they want, you know?

[iamsheens]

What we did? We did nothing excpet promise to keep the posters anonimity.

I guess since I haven't been to Yuku since I decided not to post anymore over there I don't know how all the information was exposed. I figured you just shared what he told you...but maybe signed up and posted himself...I haven't any idea...it doesn't matter, I just dont understand why someone would do it.

[monkey_girl]

Maybe the mystery person DID tell family, friends, attorney's, etc what he/she knows. But LBM has a huge platform to spew her "whoa is me. i was sick with alcoholism, it's not my fault, my husband didn't take his vows seriously, i am a loving parent" for the world to see. What does DC have? Who hears his side? I'm guessing it was a friend of DC (or him?) who was just sick and tired of hearing all of the partial truths on the air and wanted to give another perspective. No, we'll really never know exactly what happened because we weren't there.

Either you believe it or you don't. To me, there's tons of motivation for putting a message like that out there. It's obvious. LBM created this mess. There are consequences to her actions, the spilling of her own damn dirt.

[imisssandiego]

What I don't understand (I'm sorry if this offends anyone)is how people that claim to have common sense and compassion can post comments that are completely the opposite.

Again I'll state I am no longer a fan of J&J and their crew but lines have been crossed on so many levels here....I'm just sayin.

eta I don't want any pots stirred over here either, I just needed to be the kettle momentarily before I boiled over. ;)

[RedWillow]

I guess since I haven't been to Yuku since I decided not to post anymore over there I don't know how all the information was exposed. I figured you just shared what he told you...but maybe signed up and posted himself...I haven't any idea...it doesn't matter, I just dont understand why someone would do it.

Really?

I suppose for the same reason "Amused" posted here.

This place was started to bag on the spewgram. Since their show is built around their lives, the speculation and gossip extends in that direction.

The anonymous poster could easily be someone with no personal connection to either person, but has "knowledge" of the situation.

It could be someone with a personal gripe too. Who knows?

It certainly sparked up this MB though -didn't it?

[Carol]

Why did you edit what you orginally said? Your orginal statement was good!

Eh, I felt it could have caused unnecessary drama and some people might have felt it was a jab at them, soooooo because I enjoy the peace over here I felt that my old post might have been seen as possibly stirring the pot, which I had no desire to do.

Not to mention, you know my practice of writting and deleting.

[iamsheens]

Maybe the mystery person DID tell family, friends, attorney's, etc what he/she knows. But LBM has a huge platform to spew her "whoa is me. i was sick with alcoholism, it's not my fault, my husband didn't take his vows seriously, i am a loving parent" for the world to see. What does DC have? Who hears his side? I'm guessing it was a friend of DC (or him?) who was just sick and tired of hearing all of the partial truths on the air and wanted to give another perspective. No, we'll really never know exactly what happened because we weren't there.

Either you believe it or you don't. To me, there's tons of motivation for putting a message like that out there. It's obvious. LBM created this mess. There are consequences to her actions, the spilling of her own damn dirt.

well your points are true and valid. Your also absolutely correct...again it just seems odd that this mystery person would go to people aren't Laura fans to tell the real story. To me, I think the people who would actually change the perspective they have of Laura from good to bad are the listeners, those soccer moms who tune in every morning...it would be a shock to them to hear sweet Laura cheated on her husband.

I don't think anyone has anything to prove to us, we already don't listen to the show because of how they are...if someone is going to try and set the record straight why not hit her listeners, they are the reason she makes the big bucks. If they stop listening to her because of how she used to live her life then the sponsors pull out and eventually she has no job...

Going to a place she is already disliked to make points of what was said in her deposition is just going to create problems and could end up backfiring...

I thought Laura didn't talk about her divorce on the radio?

And if people who listen really fall for the woe is me, I was an alcoholic tactic then thats lame. It sucks she had alcohol and drug issues and it sucks that she couldn't accept responsibility and not seek treatment before she was forced into rehab, and it sucks that Dave left her before, during or after rehab but if someone is feeling sorry for Laura then they really shouldn't. Everything she has done with her life she has done to herself...

[Sapphie]

Willow:"The anonymous poster could easily be someone with no personal connection to either person, but has "knowledge" of the situation."

Red, I believe the poster said things like, "we thought", and "we hoped" which indicates, to me, a personal connection. But again, that's speculation on my part.

Sheens....you are one of the few people I "know" who can sit firmly on both sides of the fence without knowing what's happening on the other side! :) :) :)

[iamsheens]

Really?

I suppose for the same reason "Amused" posted here.

This place was started to bag on the spewgram. Since their show is built around their lives, the speculation and gossip extends in that direction.

The anonymous poster could easily be someone with no personal connection to either person, but has "knowledge" of the situation.

It could be someone with a personal gripe too. Who knows?

It certainly sparked up this MB though -didn't it?

Oh yeah I forgot about Amused..GOOD POINT!..I know Amused did the same thing but she did it LONG after they were divorced....not in the middle of a divorce battle...

[ElizabethAZ]

Oh more or less what I meant is that did the one night stand happen before the contestant ever appeared on Survivor...like say the one night stand happened in the 90s and then the person was on Survivor in 2001..it would technically be a Survivor contestant she had a fling with, just way before Survivor ever aired...far fetched I know...

I knew what you meant, but considering how young most of the survivors are, it is less likely that she would have hooked up with one ten years before the show aired, as most of them would have been teenagers in 1990, LOL.

ETA: Plus, why would she waste her time hooking up with someone who wasn't a BIG DEAL?

[iamsheens]

Willow:"The anonymous poster could easily be someone with no personal connection to either person, but has "knowledge" of the situation."

Red, I believe the poster said things like, "we thought", and "we hoped" which indicates, to me, a personal connection. But again, that's speculation on my part.

Sheens....you are one of the few people I "know" who can sit firmly on both sides of the fence without knowing what's happening on the other side! :) :) :)


LOL THANKS. I'll take that a compliment, I guess...I'm very clueless anymore since I'm only reading what's here and have no idea what is on the other side of the fence.

I can always see all sides to a situation. I understand why someone could go and release this information for many of reasons everyone has proved to me but then I still can't believe someone would do it...its like I'm playing tug of war with myself and everytime I'm closer to defeat the other side puts up a fight again. haha

[monkey_girl]

It's not like the mystery person could call STAR and get on the radio to tell the other side of the story. Where else could they have a forum with a captive audience? I dunno, maybe there are J&J Rock! forums out there.

She doesn't "talk about her divorce" directly but she says things here and there on her diary. Little comments. Stuff like... I got my life on track, then he left me... Not likely how it really went down.

[Sapphie]

Going to a place she is already disliked to make points of what was said in her deposition is just going to create problems and could end up backfiring...


Could it be because the drama threads have a much wider "audience" than just people who dislike the show?

[iamsheens]

Eh, I felt it could have caused unnecessary drama and some people might have felt it was a jab at them, soooooo because I enjoy the peace over here I felt that my old post might have been seen as possibly stirring the pot, which I had no desire to do.

Not to mention, you know my practice of writting and deleting.


I didn't think it was a jab at anyone...but you are famous for writing and deleting...

[Sapphie]

It's not like the mystery person could call STAR and get on the radio to tell the other side of the story. Where else could they have a forum with a captive audience? I dunno, maybe there are J&J Rock! forums out there.

She doesn't "talk about her divorce" directly but she says things here and there on her diary. Little comments. Stuff like... I got my life on track, then he left me... Not likely how it really went down.

Exactly Monkey.....not to mention the little jabs in the diary about how shabbily the daughter was dressed after being dropped off by dadda.

[Carol]

I didn't think it was a jab at anyone...but you are famous for writing and deleting...

I like to think of it as a skill

[iamsheens]

It's not like the mystery person could call STAR and get on the radio to tell the other side of the story. Where else could they have a forum with a captive audience? I dunno, maybe there are J&J Rock! forums out there.

She doesn't "talk about her divorce" directly but she says things here and there on her diary. Little comments. Stuff like... I got my life on track, then he left me... Not likely how it really went down.


Yeah I'm sure there is no way that Dave can tell his side to the story. That's why I don't understand why he wouldn't tell family and close friends and let the rest of san diego think what they want...I just don't see how anyone could look at the basics of her story and be like "How could her husband give up on the relationship." Especially if you listened to the show and heard her ALWAYS talking about having no money, and all the other issues she complained about. I am in shock he didn't ditch her years before....

I mean if anyone is sitting and listening to the showgram and just feeling so sad about Laura being divorced and having so much anger towards Dave...perhaps that listener needs a life???

[Carol]

Exactly Monkey.....not to mention the little jabs in the diary about how shabbily the daughter was dressed after being dropped off by dadda.


HaHa, in all fairness I know plenty of women who poke at how their husbands or ex-husbands dress their children.

I do agree that she does take jabs though...that example just cracked me up because when my husband and I take care of children who need their outfits picked out for them, he always chooses the WORST possible outfit. The shorts that are a size too small and too tight in the thighs, shirts with a red paint stain, etc.


I am kinda confused about why Dave would need to tell/get his side of the story out at all (again, I dont know what was said in the other realm). For the most part except some public jabs Laura does keep juicy details underwraps. I think that court/legal documents speak for themselves when it comes to a trial. I doubt that Laura has a chance at full custody with her rehab track record and Dave being the full time, stable parent for ~ the past year. Even if Dave is not the saint many people think he is he has still been a stable and consistent pillar for the children and seemingly not been to rehab.

[iamsheens]

Exactly Monkey.....not to mention the little jabs in the diary about how shabbily the daughter was dressed after being dropped off by dadda.

Well the jabbing of exes seems to be a trend with the showgram...

[iamsheens]

haha my dad used to dress me horribly when I would be at his house on his weekends...things were too big, too small,ugly, mis-matched, dirty, and so on....hahahaha I wonder if my mom made jabs at his clothing choices for me? LOL

[iamsheens]

Anyone else having a horribly SLOW workday, or is it just me?

Oh I know I'm going to fast when it hasn't been 45 seconds between posts. hahaha

[Carol]

http://jeffandjer.star941sandiego.com/timages/page/laura_outfit216.jpg

I have no complaints....and I enjoy her jeans

[Sapphie]

HaHa, in all fairness I know plenty of women who poke at how their husbands or ex-husbands dress their children.

I do agree that she does take jabs though...that example just cracked me up because when my husband and I take care of children who need their outfits picked out for them, he always chooses the WORST possible outfit. The shorts that are a size too small and too tight in the thighs, shirts with a red paint stain, etc.

I know what you're saying Carol, and I agree that we do take jabs at our hubbies for the way they dress the kids, whether they are exes or not, (think Jon and Kate....love that couple!) but LC does it in the same way that Flubbers did it.....the whole passive/aggressive thing, using the public platform they have to discredit their former spouses.

[iamsheens]

HaHa, in all fairness I know plenty of women who poke at how their husbands or ex-husbands dress their children.

I do agree that she does take jabs though...that example just cracked me up because when my husband and I take care of children who need their outfits picked out for them, he always chooses the WORST possible outfit. The shorts that are a size too small and too tight in the thighs, shirts with a red paint stain, etc.


I am kinda confused about why Dave would need to tell/get his side of the story out at all (again, I dont know what was said in the other realm). For the most part except some public jabs Laura does keep juicy details underwraps. I think that court/legal documents speak for themselves when it comes to a trial. I doubt that Laura has a chance at full custody with her rehab track record and Dave being the full time, stable parent for ~ the past year. Even if Dave is not the saint many people think he is he has still been a stable and consistent pillar for the children and seemingly not been to rehab.


You literally edit all your posts don't you???

I agree though I don't understand what Dave needs to prove to anyone...given the substantial evidence out there that Laura has revealed on her own, I think its safe to say he has nothnig to worry about as far as how people would percieve him...

And I agree I don't think Laura will have full custody of the kids either...I would think she'd have to be clean for a few years before the courts would consider that option...but you never know.

[WingMan]

OK... On a different subject. I expect the sh!t to hit the fan on the show. This morning they were talking about their favorite website to hang out on. Jerk says "MILF Hunter dot Or..." and was cut off. I took one for the team and went to the site. Hard-Hard core porn site. I wonder if anyone else heard him. I would think that Clear Channel would not be happy.

[ElizabethAZ]

LOL Wing Man! Finally some honesty from the spewgram, and it has to be filth. Niiiiiiice.

[iamsheens]

OK... On a different subject. I expect the sh!t to hit the fan on the show. This morning they were talking about their favorite website to hang out on. Jerk says "MILF Hunter dot Or..." and was cut off. I took one for the team and went to the site. Hard-Hard core porn site. I wonder if anyone else heard him. I would think that Clear Channel would not be happy.

LOL SERIOUSLY?!!?!?!??! That is hilarious. hahaha I bet he would say its a joke...although that is a pretty specific type of website to where you know its not a joke.

[iamsheens]

Did you hear what anyone else said as a favorite site?

[Boston]

Umm.... posting pictures - Isn't that one of the things that got this site in trouble?

[WingMan]

I think Pam has been out-of-town for a week or two. He must be exceptionally horney. Hey! Did you just hear a scream? That was my wife! I showed her the site.

[Carol]

I know what you're saying Carol, and I agree that we do take jabs at our hubbies for the way they dress the kids, whether they are exes or not, (think Jon and Kate....love that couple!) but LC does it in the same way that Flubbers did it.....the whole passive/aggressive thing, using the public platform they have to discredit their former spouses.

Oh Jon and Kate. I watched the whole season while I was puppysitting. Towards the end we were cracking up because Jon just seems to beaten down. Their older twins crack me up, they are so well spoken!

I guess I give her the benifit (that can not be the proper spelling..)of a doubt, because I think all those divorced women out there in san diego are getting a good laugh and relating to their ex who does the exact same thing. I just take what she says as a way of playing her "character" on the show. Someone needs to reach out to all those women...and Jeff and his touchy feely character can only goes so far :). I would also think, assuming Dave is who people assume he is, he would be just fine knowing that she is making these jabs out of frustration and anger and accepting that there may be no truth to what she says or she is making it up for the radio and he believes that the judge will have the final say and see he has been the stability for the children. Assuming he has been.

I know not everyone agrees with my detatched way of thinking about the showgram....I am not trying to sway anyone just getting my thoughts out there.


I do edit almost all my posts, once I post it sometimes I see a place that needs to be fixed, or something I want to add, such as this. Its a disease really!

[Carol]

Umm.... posting pictures - Isn't that one of the things that got this site in trouble?

Oh crap is it? I thought we were allowed to post pictures, but not images of where their house was, or pictures with their heads on killer whales..

I thought appropriate pictures were okay, is that not the case? Let me know I will remove is ASAP.

[WingMan]

Did you hear what anyone else said as a favorite site?

No, It is just background blah-blah and every once-in-a-while I actually hear something.

[Sapphie]

OK... On a different subject. I expect the sh!t to hit the fan on the show. This morning they were talking about their favorite website to hang out on. Jerk says "MILF Hunter dot Or..." and was cut off. I took one for the team and went to the site. Hard-Hard core porn site. I wonder if anyone else heard him. I would think that Clear Channel would not be happy.

Wingman....have to thank you for sacrificing yourself this way...can't have been easy for you! :)

[WingMan]

Anything for the team!

[Sapphie]

Carol..I think you're ok posting that pic...here's what GAM had to say when we were shut down:


Here is an update to the rules to avoid having this entire section of the forum shut down:

Feel free to talk smack about the radio personalities. They can't do jack about that. But absolutely NO MORE posting personal information about anyone like there was in the other thread. No pictures, no addresses or phone numbers, no websites other than the radio station ones. No maps to their houses.

The other thread may be edited and moved back. We'll have to talk it over in the backend and see how best to handle it. If you want to start a new thread without all the extra stuff, feel free. Then if the old thread is moved back, we can merge them.

Thank you.

Got Apex Moderator

[Boston]

I am not sure, Carol. I would just becareful though...

[iamsheens]

wait i dont even see a picture...what is it of???

[Carol]

You dont see Laura at the top of the page? It is her 72 dollar outfit.

The only obnixious thing I see about the outfit is that her white shirt pokes out at the top from behind the V neck sweater, but that is just a personal pet peeve.

[iamsheens]

nope i dont see =(

i thought you couldnt post anything from clear channel's webpage

[cattychathy]

Yeah I'm sure there is no way that Dave can tell his side to the story. That's why I don't understand why he wouldn't tell family and close friends and let the rest of san diego think what they want...

Who's to say he didn't do just that? We don't truly know who the guest speaker on the other board was (except maybe the YUMs). It could have been any number of people. By that same token, we don't know what that person said is the truth.


I just don't see how anyone could look at the basics of her story and be like "How could her husband give up on the relationship." Especially if you listened to the show and heard her ALWAYS talking about having no money, and all the other issues she complained about.

Not everyone can read between the lines and see that there really is no Wizard, just a short guy behind a curtain with a microphone. People believe what the want to believe and hear what they want to hear. It's like that quote (and I don't know who said it) "No one ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American public." That certainly applies to their pool of listeners.

[RedWillow]

OK... On a different subject. I expect the sh!t to hit the fan on the show. This morning they were talking about their favorite website to hang out on. Jerk says "MILF Hunter dot Or..." and was cut off. I took one for the team and went to the site. Hard-Hard core porn site. I wonder if anyone else heard him. I would think that Clear Channel would not be happy.

I heard him, and know what that kinda site is all about.

[Carol]

I heard him, and know what that kinda site is all about.

Haha YEEAHHH you do. :hehehmm:

[iamsheens]

I just heard we might blizzard type conditions this weekend here...blah!

What is going on these days with Tommy? He is never mentioned anymore

[RedWillow]

Red, I believe the poster said things like, "we thought", and "we hoped" which indicates, to me, a personal connection. But again, that's speculation on my part.


Sometimes you can be a helpless spectator. You aren't really a player in the drama, but you witness the fallout. I can think of all sorts of people that would have regular contact, but not really be "part" of the situation.

But yeah, all speculation.

The way I see it, LPMO (I've upgraded her from LBM) is an addict. She continues to act the way an addict does....never owning up to her behavior.

She has an advantage, in that she is a "celebrity" and has access to a PR machine. Now, maybe the SD Family spread was something the station told her to do, to polish her image, maybe her agent thought it was a good idea. Either way...it's PR. She uses her children as part of her schtick. It's not just what she posts in her diary - she is shilling for Sylvan using her son!!!

So, my opinion wasn't changed by an anonymous post...LPMO sealed the deal.

[iamsheens]

Sometimes you can be a helpless spectator. You aren't really a player in the drama, but you witness the fallout. I can think of all sorts of people that would have regular contact, but not really be "part" of the situation.

But yeah, all speculation.

The way I see it, LPMO (I've upgraded her from LBM) is an addict. She continues to act the way an addict does....never owning up to her behavior.

She has an advantage, in that she is a "celebrity" and has access to a PR machine. Now, maybe the SD Family spread was something the station told her to do, to polish her image, maybe her agent thought it was a good idea. Either way...it's PR. She uses her children as part of her schtick. It's not just what she posts in her diary - she is shilling for Sylvan using her son!!!

So, my opinion wasn't changed by an anonymous post...LPMO sealed the deal.

So what does the LPMO stand for?

I can't figure it out...I'm clueless as always hehe

[ElizabethAZ]

So what does the LPMO stand for?

I can't figure it out...I'm clueless as always hehe

Laura pi$$es me off

(not me, just clarifying the acronym)

[iamsheens]

Random Quesion for the day:

I'm filling out a application for a job and its asking me
Have you been convicted of any moving violations during the past 5 years?

What exactly is a moving violation? The next question asks me if I have been in an accident so I'm not sure what a moving violation is...

Quick Response would be marvelous

[SimplyMe]

Speeding, illegal turns, running red light ... anything done will car is in motion, I believe.

[iamsheens]

Thank you soooo much...what about following too closely??? An officer gave me a ticket before for following too closely even though I was actually speeding...he gave me the cheaper of the two tickets, was actually really nice of him. haha

[DreamerGal]

I would think that what was posted constitues defamation but I'm not a lawyer. I know if someone were to post something like that about me I would do everything in my power to have it removed. So much has been said about karma lately, know what I mean?

Truth is an absolute defense to defamation, slander and/or liable. If the information was true, you'd probably slink into the corneer and lick your wounds, as there would be nothing you would be able to do to get it removed. Our country is still about free speech.

[Sapphie]

I guess I give her the benifit (that can not be the proper spelling..)of a doubt, because I think all those divorced women out there in san diego are getting a good laugh and relating to their ex who does the exact same thing. I just take what she says as a way of playing her "character" on the show. Someone needs to reach out to all those women...and Jeff and his touchy feely character can only goes so far :). I would also think, assuming Dave is who people assume he is, he would be just fine knowing that she is making these jabs out of frustration and anger and accepting that there may be no truth to what she says or she is making it up for the radio and he believes that the judge will have the final say and see he has been the stability for the children. Assuming he has been.


So, are you saying that you think Dave and Danelle are in on this and that they both realize that it's all just part of Tommy and Laura being "in character"? Do Eddie and Vanessa also realize this when they have to deal with the fallout from Tommy's "character" blogs affecting them negatively at school?

Assuming all these people actually exist of course.

Just my different take on things. :)

[DreamerGal]

So much has been said about karma lately, know what I mean?

One might say Laura is finally feeling the karma of her actions over the past decade ... JMHO ...

[Sapphie]

One might say Laura is finally feeling the karma of her actions over the past decade ... JMHO ...

Indeed, one might say that Dreamz....but is your O really as H as you imply? :)

[iamsheens]

So, are you saying that you think Dave and Danelle are in on this and that they both realize that it's all just part of Tommy and Laura being "in character"? Do Eddie and Vanessa also realize this when they have to deal with the fallout from Tommy's "character" blogs affecting them negatively at school?

Assuming all these people actually exist of course.

Just my different take on things. :)

Thats a good point...granted anything Tommy does now he doesn't have to face Danelle about it...its sad that no matter how they act good or bad it will end up reflecting the children and at the rate they are going it will all be negative reflections...I guess when you are a big deal though you have no consideration to how your actions will affect your children...I'd be absolutely mortified to be Vanessa or Eddie...teenagers aready have enough issues just getting through the tweeday to day events of being in that awkward phase in life, I couldn't imagine having a dad on the radio telling all of San Diego everything I do....

[iamsheens]

Well I am off work in 14 minutes so I gotta prepare to leave! Thanks for the lively conversation to get my through my work day!!! Its been fun! If I don't stop by this weekend hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!!!

[Sapphie]

...granted anything Tommy does now he doesn't have to face Danelle about it...

Maybe he doesn't have to face Danelle, (and it would appear that she prefers not to have to look at him anyway), but that doesn't mean that she has no recourse or wouldn't take action, nor does it mean that he's not accountable for anything he puts out there about the children.

His blog has been taken down and I don't believe it's because he's tired of writing it.

[Carol]

So, are you saying that you think Dave and Danelle are in on this and that they both realize that it's all just part of Tommy and Laura being "in character"? Do Eddie and Vanessa also realize this when they have to deal with the fallout from Tommy's "character" blogs affecting them negatively at school?

Assuming all these people actually exist of course.

Just my different take on things. :)

Yes, I think Dave is in on the whole thing.:thumb:

But seriously, I do think you have alot of valid points, I am not at all trying to disagree with your view point. It has its merits. No matter which view you take mine or yours the fact still remains that these poor children are stuck in a less, much less than ideal situation. I personally belive that Laura is improving (FOR HER). I hope she will continue to do so for the sake of her children, which I am sure you can agree with (the wanting her to improve part).

[DreamerGal]

Indeed, one might say that Dreamz....but is your O really as H as you imply? :)

No ... Nope ... Nuh-uh... Not H at all, really. You got me, Sapph. Exposed yet again by a Pixie.

[imisssandiego]

One might say Laura is finally feeling the karma of her actions over the past decade ... JMHO ...

Oh yes she most certainly is and from reading her diaries it appears she still doesn't have a clue. The good thing about karma is that it doesn't discriminate.

[DreamerGal]

I personally belive that Laura is improving (FOR HER). I hope she will continue to do so for the sake of her children, which I am sure you can agree with (the wanting her to improve part).

On what information do you base your opinion that LBM is improving? Her diary entries? What she says on the air? How much weight can you give those statements?

[Carol]

On what information do you base your opinion that LBM is improving? Her diary entries? What she says on the air? How much weight can you give those statements?

I can give those statments as much weight as I give anything written on this board. :)

It's just my personal opinion, mostly based on dairy entries. Of course I see the problem with the validity of this source however, when was the last time she mentioned helping out in her childs class room before rehab? She has shown that she continues to go to meetings, seek help from her sponsor and stay on a sober path. I see that as improvment (FOR HER). Its just my personal opinion I am not pro Laura, just pro possible sobriety and picking up the pieces after rehab, and keeping it up while paying for your mistakes.

[SimplyMe]

[QUOTE=Carol]Yes, I think Dave is in on the whole thing.:thumb:


Personally, I don't see DC as the kind of person to do this type of thing. I think that it's someone who just dislikes the fact that LC gets to spew her thoughts/side to her listening audience and wanted to defend DC or try and set the record straight.

I will believe she has changed when she takes responsibly for her actions, seeks forgiveness and moves on, without the "woe is me" attitude.

[Sapphie]

Maybe I'm dense, and maybe I'm just being too picky.....I'm just not seeing how this statement




I just take what she says as a way of playing her "character" on the show.
I would also think, assuming Dave is who people assume he is, he would be just fine knowing that she is making these jabs out of frustration and anger and accepting that there may be no truth to what she says or she is making it up for the radio


can co-exist with this statement


Carol: It's just my personal opinion, mostly based on dairy entries. Of course I see the problem with the validity of this source however, when was the last time she mentioned helping out in her childs class room before rehab? She has shown that she continues to go to meetings, seek help from her sponsor and stay on a sober path.

When Laura writes in her diary that she is going to meetings, helping out in the classroom, and seeking help from her sponsor, is she not still "In character" and making it all up for the radio? How do we tell the difference between "radio character Laura" and "genuine, sincere Laura"?

[SimplyMe]

True Sapphie! So far, there have been lots of words from LC, looking for the actions that show change.

[Carol]

Maybe I'm dense, and maybe I'm just being too picky.....I'm just not seeing how this statement

can co-exist with this statement

When Laura writes in her diary that she is going to meetings, helping out in the classroom, and seeking help from her sponsor, is she not still "In character" and making it all up for the radio? How do we tell the difference between "radio character Laura" and "genuine, sincere Laura"?

I just suck at putting my thoughts into words, and I will continue to suck at trying to clarify what I was trying to say.

I think you make a great point, How do we know what is radio character Laura and what is "real" Laura? Because I dont think any of us do. So, When she does something like make a jab at Dave Cain in a public way. We see her personality through our own personal lens. We don't know what is true, embellished or a flat out lie for the sake of trying to get more listeners. She puts her diary out there and we get to make our own judgements and assumptions about it through our own personal lens.

I will never say for a fact that she is improving. As I said, in my own personal opinion I think she has made *some* minor changes in her life (except for the assumed sobriety)and my only way of knowing it is the diary that we read and I make my own judgements through and as I said, I see the obvious problems with making my assumptions based on her diary. However, it really is my only source. My personal lens which tends to be on the more positive side, and tends to assume people's intentions are positive makes me think that she is trying to do better, however I say that fully knowing she could be writting that she is going to see her sponsor and really she is going to kick back, do a line of coke, while drinking shots of whisky off of some girls chest.

Everything that is said by a radio personality I take with a grain of salt. They need people to listen, they need characters that people can relate too and they need a focus. I do not think I know one gosh darn thing about these people but only make assumptions based on the information they give out and my personal lens.

There may be no truth what-so-ever to what she says, and part of it may be to hook the people who her character was intended to hook. I pointed out the obvious problem with making judgements off that diary....I guess I just dont see the point you were trying to make. I have never been one to assume what they wrote/said was factual. I believe it should all be taken with a grain of salt, while keeping in mind they are meerly characters who do keep some of their private life private...or try too.

[Sapphie]

Carol : Everything that is said by a radio personality I take with a grain of salt. They need people to listen, they need characters that people can relate too and they need a focus. I do not think I know one gosh darn thing about these people but only make assumptions based on the information they give out and my personal lens.

You are right Carol.....and I agree that we all judge others by our own standards, personal lens, etc. Everyone has their own take on things and I think you've made some great points too.
I'm sorry if anything I've said has caused you to take umbrage..I hope not. I think I'm too focused on semantics instead of looking at the bigger picture. :)

[Carol]

I take it as a fun light hearted debate. I enjoy the mix of different and accepted ideas on this board.


Not to mention the husband is re-doing our bathroom, and I need to do something to avoid being the gopher!

[Newer Reader]

Jake and Wonk, I wish you both well and hope to "see" you back when/if you can. You gave me reason to smile often, thanks.

NR #26

[iamsheens]

Jake and Wonk, I wish you both well and hope to "see" you back when/if you can. You gave me reason to smile often, thanks.

NR #26

Its 1:30 in the morning, can't sleep...Jake and Wonk aren't posting anymore??? What happened?!?!!?!?!?!

[Newer Reader]

Nothing "happened" that I know of. From what I understand each had to leave for non-related personal reasons. I am not one "in the know" and don't want to be, but I wanted to post this here just in case either of them saw it. Nighty night, NR #26

[iamsheens]

Nothing "happened" that I know of. From what I understand each had to leave for non-related personal reasons. I am not one "in the know" and don't want to be, but I wanted to post this here just in case either of them saw it. Nighty night, NR #26

I hope everything is okay with them...and they come back in near future...good luck boys, may you continue giving others the joy and laughter you've given us...:)

Really wishing I was tired...:gle:

[Layla]

...........

[Carol]

BBRRRR, I made the mistake of getting out of bed, it is chilly!!

[zodiac]

Ugh.

That's all I want to say.

[RowdyOne]

BBRRRR, I made the mistake of getting out of bed, it is chilly!!


Ugh.

That's all I want to say.

Are you talking about the threads, or the weather? :)

[Carol]

Lets keep it nice and simple and assume they were talking about the brisk morning :)

[iamsheens]

Lets keep it nice and simple and assume they were talking about the brisk morning :)


Good morning everyone...hope everyone have a fabulous Saturday...I will be spending the day with my boyfriends grandparents, whenever they get here...just sitting here patiently waiting. maybe i will take this opportunity to read whats been going on with Laura this week...eh..maybe I better book a hotel for my move instead....hope everyone has a great day!

[iamsheens]

Well the weather ruined our lovely day we had planned sooo...I have time on my hands.

Laura's outfit is a step up from some of her other outfits she has worn in the past...a huge step up from the leggings with the sock look. This week's outfit looks like something a teenager would wear but it has an adult touch to it. The sweater is not my favorite but other than that I like the outfit. I didn't realize Wal-Mart sold fake converse either for $9.00, thats a steal.

Has anyone else noticed on the j and j website there is a picture of Tommy with Eddie and Vanessa? I thought he wasn't allowed to post pictures of the kids on the site...or was that just speculation? I would like to give Eddie a haircut

Well on Fridays diary I am glad to see Laura is going to help out with Charlie's class but I don't like how she is doing it "for the kid" It'd be better if she was doing it because she wanted to be with Charlie. Its also nice to see she is seeing her sponsor. I know we sometimes have thought she doesn't take her sobriety important but maybe she just doesn't write about it. Although if it was a big part of her life you would think it'd come up more.

Anyways I'm already bored spending so much time on her. I will say if anyone has any fascination with the Bermuda Triangle there is a great show on discovery channel called Dive to Bermuda Triangle its about unraveling the truth behind the Bermuda Triangle and if the theories that have been given over the years are true or not.

By the way does anyone know why on the j and j website there are pictures of John Mayer in the Borat outfit? Or rather why he is wearing the Borat outfit? I'm highly amused, but a little disturbed. haha

[garybear]

..

[Carol]

I am sorry I must be the dense one today, because.....

*I never made a move to suggest anything about another thread similar to this one in that post except to say this one is simple, which only makes sense because it is quiet, slow moving and only has a handful of people at this time.

RO(I very well could have misunderstood), was the one that suggested that zodaic's comment may have been about something other than the weather...I was just taking Z's comment at face value and assuming it was about the previous post, the weather. A simple infrence from someone on a simple thread* :)

I think it is time to stop assuming people have alterior motives, and let it go. :)

(not to be read in a bitchy way)

I am sorry you believe there is a "good" site, and a "bad" site situation, because I haven't the slightest idea what you are refering too.

[garybear]

..

[Wabbitsd]

Hey, Rowdy, how bout them San Diego Gulls?

[Carol]

No hard feelings, hopefully all the way around, aye?

This is not refering to you specifically GaryBear, just as a general commentary. If people are going to say something about another board (the one you are refering to for example), I think it is best if everyone stops trying to point out what is wrong with what they (I am not sure who is saying what in this situation you are refering too) are trying to say, and let them say whatever they want with out pointing it out as being a "board war" if the situation is ignored, it goes away much faster than people pointing it out multiple times. If they want to carry on a negative manor, let them be a grouch it too shall pass (a nice lil throw back to Ms. Cain)

buuuttt....I guess the same could be said for people who make general commentaries on the topic they said should not be brought up multiple times:boxing:

Sorry! I have been puppysitting in someone elses house all day....and the pup isn't much for conversation.

[garybear]

..

[Carol]

Agree! I am ready to go back to days where people were not so picky/callous/mean/bitchy/spicy/spiteful on a personal level on any version of this thread.

Can't we make like W.A.S.P's and pretend to get along in public :shakehand , and leave all the pettyness to behind closed doors:argue: around here?

Maybe that didn't make any sense....please refer back to my lack of conversation comment for any confusion.

ETA: After a nap, some food and a quick eye rub, I see this makes ZERO sense to anyone else but me. Sorry, I will do better :rolleyes:

[DeltaPop]

Can't we make like W.A.S.P's and pretend to get along in public :shakehand , and leave all the pettyness to behind closed doors:argue: around here?


Hmm... Excuse me, my dear, but I think your slip is showing. "WASPs"? Are you suggesting that "White Anglo Saxon Protestants" are the only ones on this board and that they have the corner on acting appropriately in public?

I''ll be on the porch with my mint julep. I think I'm having a touch of the vapors! (fanning oneself furiously)

[Carol]

Less of a suggestion about the proper conduct of any group of people and more of a poke at people who supress their emotions only to try to look good in public :)

Now if you could pass the jar of sweet tea while I put my driving gloves on.

Vapors...... :happy:

[ElizabethAZ]

Ooh sweet tea....count me in! Makes the baby dance!

[Carol]

Oh man, today is my saturday and it feels soooooo good! Thank goodness for Monday's off.

[RowdyOne]

Carol, if you have Mondays off, then can you be a designated J&J listener and report back? I apologize in advance for what this would do to your ears, though.

[Carol]

You know what?!? I will do it for you! I accept the challenge.

I belive it is a "best" of though..but I will still do it.

[RowdyOne]

Oh, that's pretty bad. Their "best of" are even worse than live sometimes. Good luck!

[Carol]

maybe someone could help me make it fun, like a scavanger hunt of things to find.

such as, the most pervy comment made by Jer.

Does anyone have any suggestions?

[Wabbitsd]

Lordy.

[Carol]

Oh you!

[iamsheens]

maybe someone could help me make it fun, like a scavanger hunt of things to find.

such as, the most pervy comment made by Jer.

Does anyone have any suggestions?

How about something like...

how many times does Delana get cut off during the show?

How many times does tommy's speaker box thing go off when he talks?

What is the most annoying/whining/ridiculous (take your pick) thing Laura says?

And if its a best of show, how far into the show is the boob song played...

just a few ideas...thanks for taking one for the team.

[iamsheens]

Good Morning everyone, just wondering if the showgram is at work today or if its a "best of" show?

Does anyone have any idea how far back they pull the "best of" material from? Like is it current or do they pull stuff from like years ago?

[Carol]

It is a best of, and there was something KIINDDAAA intresting on (so I thought)

I dont know if anyone remembers when they allowed kids to call in and trash talk ther teachers basically, and everyone agreed that was amazingly disrespectful to allow children to do that.

Well, they had a girl call in with an apology to her teacher, for saying what she did.

[iamsheens]

It is a best of, and there was something KIINDDAAA intresting on (so I thought)

I dont know if anyone remembers when they allowed kids to call in and trash talk ther teachers basically, and everyone agreed that was amazingly disrespectful to allow children to do that.

Well, they had a girl call in with an apology to her teacher, for saying what she did.

The showgram agreed it was disrespectful for children to trash talk their teachers??? Duh....why did they ever think it was a good idea? I'm surprised this would be on the best of...then again none of the material they have is really considered "best of" material...

[Carol]

I wouldn't go as far to say that they agreed it was disrespectful, but they did say it was very nice of the caller to have fessed up to what she did. (even though it was encouraged by adults in a position of "authortiy") The apology sounded like she got some help from perhaps an unhappy parent, or she may have hurt the teacher, who may have been listening and the parent helped her write it then....

The only other semi intresting thing about the show was that someone called in to say their crush on Tommy was growing after they found out that he sings (something about tommy tube)

I had to pull over and vomit.

[Carol]

Alright Sheena it is time to plan our CA get together...

To Do List:

-Buy $30 Chip and pepper jeans
-Get teenagers to buy us coldstones
-Clip on hair extensions
-Do coke...I mean...go to AA meeting.

[iamsheens]

To Do List:

Climb Cowels Mountain...must do the following...
1. Take a cut out picture of tommy with us, for motivation
2. Wear the following outfit
-Blue t-shirt
-Blue elastic shorts
-Fanny Pack

3. Take a picture of us at Tommy's bench, then take a picture of us with our cut out tommy, at his bench

4. Engrave our initials into the bench so we will always be with Tommy...

Then after we will go to Parkway Plaza and ride the merry-go-round, but forget our money so we will never actually get to go on the ride.

Scrap money together to create our own 73.00 outfit

[Carol]

Find Chirs Cantorie (sp?) and molest!

[iamsheens]

I will say one thing...considering all the crap the j and j website has on it, it does have something I actually need...the opting out of junk mail...everyone should do it...I needed the link for my mom, but I opt'd out of junk mail about a year ago, so great to not receive 20 credit card offers a week in the mail, plus its environmentally friendly and saves trees....just thought I'd throw that out there!

[iamsheens]

Chris Cantore I believe....cept we'd need a single gal to find him and have her way....I think I know the perfect gal!!! JK

oh we'd need to take either salsa or hip hop lessons as well

[Carol]

We could sign up for lessons, but then decided to flake and sit at home and eat soy chips!

[iamsheens]

I wouldn't go as far to say that they agreed it was disrespectful, but they did say it was very nice of the caller to have fessed up to what she did. (even though it was encouraged by adults in a position of "authortiy") The apology sounded like she got some help from perhaps an unhappy parent, or she may have hurt the teacher, who may have been listening and the parent helped her write it then....

The only other semi intresting thing about the show was that someone called in to say their crush on Tommy was growing after they found out that he sings (something about tommy tube)

I had to pull over and vomit.

You mean you don't find Tommy to be be attractive when he is singing and strumming his guitar? Whew...did it just got hot in here????

LOL....ewww...that is just disgusting...go figure it would be on the best of show...that was probably the only time in recorded history where somebody admits to having a crush on Tommy.....that poor poor girl....BLAH!

[iamsheens]

We could sign up for lessons, but then decided to flake and sit at home and eat soy chips!

And watch American Idol, Paranormal, Celebrity Rehab, Dancing with the stars, and Intervention....

[Carol]

Intervention....

Who is bringing the wine, you or I?

[iamsheens]

How bout we just get sparkling apple cider, we don't need to end up in rehab....

[Carol]

I can stop when I want too!

[iamsheens]

well we don't even agree on wine types as it is...

[Carol]

we dont need to agree, a botle for each :) The boys would looovvee that.

Then we could go to pokies...ponces or whatever it is.

Then go buy scratchers...maybe we will get lucky ;) I know this place is pretty dead, but has anyone won more than $100 on a scratcher?

[iamsheens]

Something else for our to do list:

Get our hair cut by Kree

oh and cheat on our significant others with someone who is on a reality show.

Hunt the regulars down and have them throw a party for us

Go to a J and J event and try to get everyone's autograph pretending to be their number one fans!

[iamsheens]

Good Morning everyone, great news I found a website at work that isn't blocked so I can listen to j and j. this is pretty exciting for me...I can finally be annoyed by Laura's laugh, tommy's box, and so on and so forth...will keep everyone updated on what I hear!!!

[iamsheens]

Ok Commentary on the first 10 minutes....thank goodness I just sit at work doing nothing...I'm glad to take one for the team...

The show starts off with Tommy going to kiss jer..I think? I didn’t catch who he was going to kiss…oh wait this may be an intro to their show…???? What a stupid intro to the show...if that is a highlite of their show, I'm in for a fun morning *sarcasm*
It must have been the intro cause they started the show with some history fact which was probably found online…

Anyways the suspense of the show is already killing me…later on this morning…top ten things overheard at Uno’s victory party…(Uno being the beagle who won the dog show…)The anticipation is killing me….

More coming up on the show….Delana’s news that didn’t make the news, Laura’s dirt which includes a D-Lister drunk in La Jolla….

Oh and just to add….today is Tommy’s first day without coughing up flem….lovely…anyways 9 minutes in and there is the first commercial….god forbid they talk more than 10 minutes at a time…will report more later…this will definitely make my morning go by faster…

[iamsheens]

Highlights of what I’ve heard this morning:

Tommy is an idiot. I mean I already figured this based on his blogs but now to hear him on the radio again….oh my…he is asking a question about why some work trucks *not cal trans* get sirens and not others ….and now people are calling in giving their response…Seriously?!?!?!?!?! This went on for a good 10 minutes…

If anyone watched the video from the humane society about the cows being tortured and are interested in becoming a vegetarian, email Jer. LOL. No that video is sad but my favorite is how Jer said he was told from the humane society tens and tens and tens and tens and tens of thousands of people are interested in becoming a Vegetarian, which is fine its just amusing he made it seem like they sought him out to tell him this news…

Well I missed about an hour and ½ of the showgram but I tuned back in to hear some guy in a deep voice saying a girl really liked that kernel *popcorn kernel* and it really made her hot or something…and that kids should ditch school to see some movie…no idea but this went on for about 5 minutes and it was very boring. At least they acknowledged it and said it was an hour and ½ wasted in the wrong direction…I guess it was their spin on Mayberry or something? Well that’s what they said…and Randy made some comment about they shouldn’t try to re-create Mayberry anymore…sooo funny…boy have I missed out all these years…

[iamsheens]

Ugh now Delana is playing some little 2 year old singing Hey Jude by the beetles for Tommy....ahhhhh I really dont enjoy little kids singing on the radio. It's only cute if its your kid otherwise its annoying..just had to add that....

[iamsheens]

I actually laughed...they were playing Michael Buble and Jer said and now the music of Michael Bubble...stupid I realized it just amused me.

So they were playing his music and it was very awkward it sounds like 5 people in a room who didn't know each other and had nothing really to say...you know how people try to make small talk with strangers? That's what it sounded like...for that 2 minutes you wouldn't have guessed they are all "best friends"

Its not as painful as I thought it would be though...maybe its cause I can hardly hear it, thankfully...I have to hold my speaker to my ear to clearly hear...

[iamsheens]

They are repeating the dirt so I'm guessing they are gone for the day...hasn't others said in the past that they are out the door by 9:30?

[BecInCA]

Can you say "monopolize"? I knew that you could.

[iamsheens]

Can you say "monopolize"? I knew that you could.

huh?

[monkey_girl]

http://youngsci.files.wordpress.com/2007/09/tired-yawn.jpg

[iamsheens]

Sorry I've made you bored/yawn/tired/whatever emotion you are feeling Monkey Girl...maybe my re-capping of the show wasn't as fun or exciting as I thought it might be...well not that I had high expections of it to be exciting or thrilling...just thought I'd spice things up...bad idea?

or maybe the yawn is cause its slow and I'm the only one commenting?

[InvisibleElf]

I can stop when I want to!

Please want.

[Transplant]

Sorry I've made you bored/yawn/tired/whatever emotion you are feeling Monkey Girl...maybe my re-capping of the show wasn't as fun or exciting as I thought it might be...well not that I had high expections of it to be exciting or thrilling...just thought I'd spice things up...bad idea?

or maybe the yawn is cause its slow and I'm the only one commenting?

When are you moving?

[Vitacon]

Has got Apex turned in the Iamsheens board?

[iamsheens]

Has got Apex turned in the Iamsheens board?

nope I'm just the only one posting...

guess it shows I have wayyyy too much time on my hands at work....:)

[RowdyOne]

Has got Apex turned in the Iamsheens board?

Only if no one else chooses to participate....

[Carol]

hahaha, I love all the mean spirited people who have to come here ONLY to complain and attack iamsheens. How awful can you be? Let it go!

Put up or shut up, you lovely creatures :)!

[Wabbitsd]

well, now. So how about them San Diego Rockets?

[Layla]

You're a lovely creature wabbit.

[Carol]

http://a1055.g.akamai.net/f/1055/1401/5h/images.barnesandnoble.com/images/12070000/12076723.jpg

[Wabbitsd]

Layla, if you only knew how often I say the same thing to myself.

[Wabbitsd]

Please want.

This is one of the funniest things I have read in twelve years. Maybe only eleven, but I do think it was twelve. I'll check my records and get back to you.

[Carol]

I can not waaaiittt! :hehehmm:

[iamsheens]

Anyone else having any problems getting laura's diary to load? Its not working for me.

[Carol]

Nope it works just fine for me!

[iamsheens]

oh must be my wifi..oh well....probably for the best.

[Wabbitsd]

Hello. Your wait is very important to me. This is an automated message. I am still checking....checking, up to day 312 of Year 2. Thank you and enjoy your wait...

[iamsheens]

At this rate Carol has an extremely long wait to find out the answer....

[Carol]

what am I waiting for?

[iamsheens]

Nothing important apparently...

[Carol]

Come on iamsheens, I hear your every move is being watched, documented and critiqued. Say something good!

[imisssandiego]

You know I'll probably get trashed for saying this but it seems to me that dogging someone on another board then coming here to make snide comments is a bit immature. It's no wonder most people don't want to post anymore.

[Boston]

Don't forget - you are all on a public forum... people are allowed to say whatever the heck they want to. If you don't like it - learn to deal with it, or just stop posting!

[iamsheens]

You know I'll probably get trashed for saying this but it seems to me that dogging someone on another board then coming here to make snide comments is a bit immature. It's no wonder most people don't want to post anymore.

I'm trying to move on and I wish others will too. I admit I made mistakes when I switched boards and I'm trying to just keep things jeff and jer related when I post now but its hard to move on when I still hear from others the negativity said about me. I've switched boards so I don't personally understand why I'm still a topic of conversation. I understand people can say whatever they want but its becoming immature...I switched boards because I was sick of the negativity and how I was having unnecessary stress. Please don't bring the snide remarks over here. If you remember correctly the rules of this board is to keep it j and j drama related, that was one of the problems people had with apex...I'm not sure what exactly is being said about me but if people feel the need to talk trash about me I'd rather just have people say it to me.

Eventually people are going to stop posting or quit going to either board. I hope we all can move on from this at least on got apex because I'd much rather talk about the showgram. If people want to come over here to bash me fine, I won't make snide comments no matter what people say. I am over this whole situation of which board is better, who is better, the things people are saying about me, and everything else...I've held back from saying anything because things weren't being said over here but when people feel the need to come here and say things just to try and get a reaction out of me or Carol, I can't just sit back and let it happen. I'm not reading yuku for a reason. I don't want to make accusations against people, and its not worth my time or energy to do that. People keep saying that I am immature but I'm not doing anything immature. Let's all be mature adults and move on....I am not in high school anymore so let's please stop the drama.

Anyways I'm not trying to be bitchy, bossy, rude, mean, or anything I just would really like this to all end and I don't understand why others wouldn't want the same thing?

[iamsheens]

Don't forget - you are all on a public forum... people are allowed to say whatever the heck they want to. If you don't like it - learn to deal with it, or just stop posting!

you're right people can say what they want....but the rules on got apex are regulated even though it is a public forum... That's why another board was created so people can say whatever they want.

I really hope today's postings over here aren't going to be negative about who can post what, which board is better, and everything but what this board was created for. *not an attack on you Boston, I am saying in general and I don't really want to create another post to say this*

[Boston]

Take things with a grain of salt! You shouldn't be getting stressed out about these boards...

[Wabbitsd]

Important update! Hello. Your wait is very important to me. This is an automated message. I am still checking....checking, up to day 313 of Year 2. Thank you and enjoy your wait...

By popular request, I have added a soundtrack. "Stayin Alive" by the BeeGees.

By the way, anyone who relates "negativity" about you from another source wouildn't be considered a "Friend" in my book.

[imisssandiego]

I probably shouldn't have said anything. I just feel what is happening is ridiculous. Sheens can you send me the link that you use to listen online? I never have any luck when I try from the J&J website. Thanks!! :)

[iamsheens]

Take things with a grain of salt! You shouldn't be getting stressed out about these boards...

Thanks you're absolutely right!

I'm listening to the showgram and they just finished some lame game, which celebrity said some lame quote. Laura kept yelling the answers out like a 5 year old.

I can't tell Jeff and Jer's voices apart but one of them said Laura has no pride about posting stuff on the internet...a total jab at her and she laughed it off...she is either clueless or doesn't care what people think of her...hmmm...

[imisssandiego]

Thanks Sheens it works!! :)

[iamsheens]

Thanks Sheens it works!! :)

oh good I'm glad...did you just hear Ben and Jerry's is backing Barack Obama? Orginally they were going to back Hilary but they didn't think cankles and cream would be a popular ice cream flavor...har har. gotta love those cheesy one liner "jokes"

[imisssandiego]

oh good I'm glad...did you just hear Ben and Jerry's is backing Barack Obama? Orginally they were going to back Hilary but they didn't think cankles and cream would be a popular ice cream flavor...har har. gotta love those cheesy one liner "jokes"

LOL yeah I admit I gigglesnorted on that one.

[iamsheens]

I did too I like cheesy "jokes"...it was more of a I can't believe someone just said that, its so stupid its almost funny.

I eat almost everything on the list of things not to eat to be sexy...or whatever the list was...

I can't wait to hear about Paul's nipple problem....how is that good radio?

[imisssandiego]

I confess I still like the sappy stories they do.

[Boston]

It seems to be there are some closet J&J fans in here! Hmmm....

[iamsheens]

I confess I still like the sappy stories they do.

I mean they aren't horrible radio...they aren't the best either. I prefer the syndicated radio stations I get here. When I did a search on jeff and jer today I saw them being compared to some of the syndicated radio personalities like Bob and Tom. I don't think they are in comparison at all. I mean considering they make so much a year I just think they would spice things up and not do the same stuff everyday...I mean everyday they do the dirt, a top ten list, stupid stories, and its very predictable. I guess I'd just expect something more from them then what they are giving the audience. Nothing seems spontaneous and it lacks excitement. It's just a kinda blah show. Not good, not horrible, its something I'd expect to hear if I were in a small town.

[imisssandiego]

It seems to be there are some closet J&J fans in here! Hmmm....

I lived in San Diego for 12 years Boston. My husband retired from the Navy and we moved back to his hometown. I was a fan back in the 90's. I am enjoying listening today because it's been so long since I've been able to. I also wanted to hear for myself how things haven't changed, not that I have to explain why I'm posting and listening.

[imisssandiego]

I mean they aren't horrible radio...they aren't the best either. I prefer the syndicated radio stations I get here. When I did a search on jeff and jer today I saw them being compared to some of the syndicated radio personalities like Bob and Tom. I don't think they are in comparison at all. I mean considering they make so much a year I just think they would spice things up and not do the same stuff everyday...I mean everyday they do the dirt, a top ten list, stupid stories, and its very predictable. I guess I'd just expect something more from them then what they are giving the audience. Nothing seems spontaneous and it lacks excitement. It's just a kinda blah show. Not good, not horrible, its something I'd expect to hear if I were in a small town.

I usually listen to Mark and Brian, they are HILARIOUS and have been on for 20 years. There isn't much radio wise here in small town Ohio to pick from. LOL

[iamsheens]

It seems to be there are some closet J&J fans in here! Hmmm....

I wouldn't say I'm a fan but I have a high tolerance for average radio. I remember back when I lived in San Diego just laughing constantly...sometimes laughing so hard I was almost crying...I have maybe chucked like a ha ha that's cheesy but not laughing hysterically or anything. To me good radio is something I'm laughing about, not wanting to turn the radio off because of a compelling story or amusing stint a station is doing. A good radio show I'm talking about after the show is over, I'm repeating stories about what I heard this morning, and I'm excited to listen every morning and wishing my car ride to work was longer. I don't get any of these feelings while listening to jeff and jer. I think I listen because it reminds me of San Diego and memories of me living there....its by no means what I remember the show to be but its a memory of San Diego and I cling to anything San Diego related.

[imisssandiego]

I wouldn't say I'm a fan but I have a high tolerance for average radio. I remember back when I lived in San Diego just laughing constantly...sometimes laughing so hard I was almost crying...I have maybe chucked like a ha ha that's cheesy but not laughing hysterically or anything. To me good radio is something I'm laughing about, not wanting to turn the radio off because of a compelling story or amusing stint a station is doing. A good radio show I'm talking about after the show is over, I'm repeating stories about what I heard this morning, and I'm excited to listen every morning and wishing my car ride to work was longer. I don't get any of these feelings while listening to jeff and jer. I think I listen because it reminds me of San Diego and memories of me living there....its by no means what I remember the show to be but its a memory of San Diego and I cling to anything San Diego related.

You know Sheens you brought a tear to my eye. My life has changed so much since we moved and I miss the life we had in San Diego. I miss the friends we made and the community. I remember when we transferred from San Francisco I'd heard J&J comment about San Diego being the biggest small town in America and that is exactly what it felt like. Anyway, I'm babbling LOL What I was trying to say is that you summed up how I feel.

[GGmami]

I'll have to admit, I'm confused...I thought the whole point of coming over here was to keep things J&J related. Why then did I just have to read pages of 2 posters posting to each other things totally unrelated and making plans to get together. I thought I had entered a chat room. If you are going to get upset about others not keeping it on topic, maybe you should follow your own advice. It has turned very boring...have you noticed only very few people post here now?

[iamsheens]

You know Sheens you brought a tear to my eye. My life has changed so much since we moved and I miss the life we had in San Diego. I miss the friends we made and the community. I remember when we transferred from San Francisco I'd heard J&J comment about San Diego being the biggest small town in America and that is exactly what it felt like. Anyway, I'm babbling LOL What I was trying to say is that you summed up how I feel.

I think anyone who moves away feels that way. I mean I enjoy hearing the traffic reports probably because I'm just glad I don't have to deal with the traffic. haha

You know you live in a small city when you go to a large city and get excited about having more than two lanes of highway to drive on! I used to go to to St Louis and take advantage of the 4to 5 lanes of Interstate, just cause I could. LOL...granted people hated driving with me cause I'd lane hop for the heck of it. haha

I can't believe they are playing 5 questions in 4 minutes again...this is a repeat of yesturday!

[imisssandiego]

I was looking at pictures of them the other day I can't believe how old they look!

[iamsheens]

I'll have to admit, I'm confused...I thought the whole point of coming over here was to keep things J&J related. Why then did I just have to read pages of 2 posters posting to each other things totally unrelated and making plans to get together. I thought I had entered a chat room. If you are going to get upset about others not keeping it on topic, maybe you should follow your own advice. It has turned very boring...have you noticed only very few people post here now?

Our list of to do things was a joke...if you noticed it was Jeff and Jer related things to do. We would not actully do the stuff on the list. We were amusing ourselves one night and it was jeff and jer related. Its fine people don't post here now but for the most part 95% of the stuff is Jeff and Jer related. We all know its virtually impossible to remain on topic all the time. I have not made mention of things being off topic here. I made the point this morning that the rules of this board were to be jeff and jer related, not coming here to attack people and what they say. I guess in the words of what people used to tell me...you don't have to come here and read what we discuss. Its not my job to keep people amused and I guess if you find it boring please post where you are more amused. I don't know what more everyone wants from me? Please let it go....

[iamsheens]

I'm on pins and needles about Paul's nipple problem...haha

and yes they are looking their age...how old is delana?

[iamsheens]

Lol Does nipple size matter for a guy??? I'm actually amused by Paul's nipple problem. I never would have thought a guy would have esteem problems over the size of their nipples...

I guess Jer has small nipples, I can only hope he posts a pic and put it on the web like he is claiming to do...

the nipple song they keep singing is annoying though.

[imisssandiego]

I have no idea how old she is, she wasn't on when I used to listen. Has she been on Millionaire yet?