View Full Version : Can a married man love 2 Women?
KIISQueen
08-18-2005, 08:36 PM
Need your input.
Can a married man actually love 2 women.
Here's the story. A married man is also in love with his wife's best friend
the wife knows about the relationship she's ok with sharing her husband. Her best friend is also married. The thing is the husband has no idea. She's no longer in love with her husband but in love with her best friend 's hubby.
Does anyone out there have gone through the same situation Please let me know. I find it very interesting bizarre but interesing
:eek3:
CrystalDuck
08-18-2005, 08:47 PM
I don't have any experience with the situation, but I would say it is possible. I don't believe humans were meant to be monogamous, but in this society monogamy is the best choice for most people. It is possible for two people who truly don't have jealousy issues to have a happy, open relationship, but it is rare. But like I said, I have no experience with open relationships. I recommend watching the movie Kinsey for more insight on the subject.
brainsmile
08-18-2005, 08:49 PM
wow you got two women?
Pemolis
08-18-2005, 08:51 PM
I'd love to be in his shoes... then again I'd hate to be the best friend...
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umm................errr... hmm..............
got me. I'd like to know how that got arranged originally.
The wife's best friend should divorce the husband she does not love. Then there are no naughty legal issues to deal with. After that, it's all moral, and morals are relative to those that are involved.
BigJon
08-18-2005, 09:36 PM
This thread is useless without pics.
We will need pics to find out what is going on here. I need to set up a relationship tree so I know who is married to who...and we're gonna need those "crimescene" :naughty: photos.
BTW, what's with all these sex problems with everyone lately?
brainsmile
08-18-2005, 09:49 PM
well not all of us are named BIGjon
BigJon
08-18-2005, 09:57 PM
Well...you're right. I shouldn't judge brainsmile...besides...not every guy can turn off a light switch without his hands or teeth.
And I'm talking those ones in the basement with the string.
chrissy
08-18-2005, 10:37 PM
The wife's best friend should divorce the husband she does not love. Then there are no naughty legal issues to deal with. After that, it's all moral, and morals are relative to those that are involved.
:stupid:
KIISQueen
08-18-2005, 10:42 PM
I'd love to be in his shoes... then again I'd hate to be the best friend...
.....................................
umm................errr... hmm..............
got me. I'd like to know how that got arranged originally.
well it happend 8 1/2 ago. The friend was very angry with her husband because he had told her he had to work overtime well she went to the best friends house started to drink and her best friend past out and the two were left alone. They both told the best friend the next day. :naughty:
KIISQueen
08-18-2005, 10:49 PM
wow you got two women?
I know people i have spoken to say how lucky this man is, for his wife to be so cool :cool: as to letting this happen. I tell you this man is on cloud nine.
well it happend 8 1/2 ago. The friend was very angry with her husband because he had told her he had to work overtime well she went to the best friends house started to drink and her best friend past out and the two were left alone. They both told the best friend the next day. :naughty:
(Assumption alert!)
You and your.. husband had sex with an unconscious person?
KIISQueen
08-19-2005, 06:01 AM
(Assumption alert!)
You and your.. husband had sex with an unconscious person?
No silly! The wife past out from drinking, and the husband and best friend stayed up :)
johnnymk
08-19-2005, 07:14 AM
I believe that it is possible for any man to be "in lust" with many women.
But to love someone is a decision, not a feeling. And that decision involves a commitment to one person if married.
nickel
08-19-2005, 07:16 AM
No silly! The wife past out from drinking, and the husband and best friend stayed up :)
literally or figuratively?
mcs328
08-19-2005, 07:32 AM
I guess it's ok in Utah....or maybe not. Lucky bastard...grumble grumble...:)
molecularfire
08-20-2005, 09:46 AM
I believe that it is possible for any man to be "in lust" with many women.
But to love someone is a decision, not a feeling.
I don't agree with the whole sentence but I did quote the part that I did believe in. I do think love is a self-delusional decision but I don't see any reason why you can't lie to yourself about more than one person.
KIISQueen
08-21-2005, 06:37 PM
I don't have any experience with the situation, but I would say it is possible. I don't believe humans were meant to be monogamous, but in this society monogamy is the best choice for most people. It is possible for two people who truly don't have jealousy issues to have a happy, open relationship, but it is rare. But like I said, I have no experience with open relationships. I recommend watching the movie Kinsey for more insight on the subject.
Hey thanks i will rent the movie & let you know :)
literally or figuratively?
So silly! literally!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
(Assumption alert!)
You and your.. husband had sex with an unconscious person?
I'm not the one i this sitiation, My friend is. How chaotic is this? :wavey2:
Gothic Girl
08-21-2005, 09:31 PM
I dunno. I'd be pissed if I were the wife and my husband was in love with my BF. That's just a divorce waiting to happen.
welfareloser
08-22-2005, 05:42 AM
:stupid:
when your husband is in love with your boyfriend, that's several levels of problems :hihi:
brainsmile
08-22-2005, 08:13 AM
good one WL
InfiniteNothing
08-22-2005, 10:06 AM
:stupid:
when your husband is in love with your boyfriend, that's several levels of problems :hihi:
Thats odd... when your wife loves your girlfriend... you da man.
attgig
08-22-2005, 10:20 AM
Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!
Grimm
08-22-2005, 11:04 AM
Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife.
So long as the other woman is married she is entirely off limits. They are harming the husband of that woman and that is wrong regardless of their convictions. If she gets a divorce it is then between her and the other couple. They only ones they are hurting are themselves.
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