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esme
09-14-2005, 11:27 AM
How can you REALLY know if the man/woman you are dating is actually single ???

.....without stalking or turning into a PI !! :fro:
cadetevon
09-14-2005, 12:03 PM
You can't.

Well, you can.

The best way, without going through a PI, is to meet their family. Mom(s), Dad(s), siblings etc.

Most cheaters keep their 'others' away from their families.
brainsmile
09-14-2005, 12:53 PM
that's easy... ask him when the last time he had sex was. If he says sometime in the last week... he's single. If he says a year ago... he's married.


j/k
esme
09-14-2005, 01:04 PM
that's easy... ask him when the last time he had sex was. If he says sometime in the last week... he's single. If he says a year ago... he's married.


j/k


:lmfao:
johnnymk
09-14-2005, 01:41 PM
You could ask for his home phone number, not his cell number.
DarkFury
09-14-2005, 02:23 PM
that's easy... ask him when the last time he had sex was. If he says sometime in the last week... he's single. If he says a year ago... he's married.


j/k
Post of the day. :heh:
esme
09-14-2005, 04:24 PM
You could ask for his home phone number, not his cell number.


i think guys have a way of getting around that .....

"oh ....my house # is disc. right now" "that's why i have a cell phone im never home" ....blah blah blah :)
BigJon
09-14-2005, 04:41 PM
Just a word of advice. If you investigate it too much...you'll scare him away.
GracieBayb
09-14-2005, 05:00 PM
just the fact that you are already questioning/worrying about this man's honesty/faithfulness is a pretty accurate indication of what sort of basis any future relationship with this guy is going to be like... just something to think about
Cubsfan
09-14-2005, 05:19 PM
just the fact that you are already questioning/worrying about this man's honesty/faithfulness is a pretty accurate indication of what sort of basis any future relationship with this guy is going to be like... just something to think about

Or an indication of past relationships.

Sounds like either:
1) This guy makes you worry.
2) You've been burned in the past.

Very different solutions. If it's #1, get out of it. If it's #2, then it's your problem, and you are going to chase people away by investigating.

There's probably an acceptable level of investigation that you can/should do. Google: Yes. Follow at night: No.
Grimm
09-14-2005, 05:38 PM
Use a blowtorch and pliars, that usualy works pretty good.
GracieBayb
09-14-2005, 06:27 PM
Or an indication of past relationships.

Sounds like either:
1) This guy makes you worry.
2) You've been burned in the past.

Very different solutions. If it's #1, get out of it. If it's #2, then it's your problem, and you are going to chase people away by investigating.

There's probably an acceptable level of investigation that you can/should do. Google: Yes. Follow at night: No.

if it is either 1 or 2, get out of it. if you're still hung up/traumatized over past relationships, you're not ready to be getting yourself and some other poor innocent fellow in a tangled mess of drama. i don't think it is a good idea to bring your fears from one relationship with you to the next. it sucks being the new SO who is getting punished for $hit that the old SO put you through
sunrisetech
09-14-2005, 07:05 PM
Call up the radio station and do that game where they call him and ask him where to send the flowers he's won. ;)
Gothic Girl
09-14-2005, 08:21 PM
i think guys have a way of getting around that .....

"oh ....my house # is disc. right now" "that's why i have a cell phone im never home" ....blah blah blah :)
I don't think that's always the case. My whole family lives off cell phones only. We don't have a land line. My husband has one, I have one, and my 10 yr old son has one.
johnnymk
09-15-2005, 08:11 AM
I think it's not a bad thing to be overly cautious in today's dating scene. I stopped going to singles events about 6 years ago when I discovered that many women were still married but "separated" and still living in the same house as their "ex".

Health insurance is keeping people together nowadays until they can find the right catch. Sorry, but that's what I am observing.
esme
09-15-2005, 11:17 AM
Call up the radio station and do that game where they call him and ask him where to send the flowers he's won. ;)

I heard the one from yesterday morning and I was just wondering if you really can tell when a man/woman is single ......

it happened to me once but it wasn't enough to traumatize me! I just wanted some honest opinions!

kiis fm yesterday's broadcast: this girl called saying that she wanted to test her boyfriend cause she wanted to marry him so they called him and when he was asked who he wanted to send the roses to he said his wife ....YEAH!

It just sucks that this happens ......but it's not just guys ....some girls do it too ....I don't want the guys to think that we're just putting this on them :)
Thesifer
09-18-2005, 07:16 PM
I think I've heard that exact one.. You can't necessarily tell early on.. but later on .. it should be obvious..
esme
09-19-2005, 09:32 AM
dont they used to do that i think at kiisfm or power 106, im not really sure,, but iknow i heard it before!


KIIS FM ....


I think I've heard that exact one.. You can't necessarily tell early on.. but later on .. it should be obvious..

see ....divorce/serperation is so common now a days that if somebody says i'm divorced, well ....you'll believe them .....