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nickel
11-30-2005, 10:09 AM
Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:36 AM ET

ROME (Reuters) - Your heartbeat accelerates, you have butterflies in the stomach, you feel euphoric and a bit silly. It's all part of falling passionately in love -- and scientists now tell us the feeling won't last more than a year.

The powerful emotions that bowl over new lovers are triggered by a molecule known as nerve growth factor (NGF), according to Pavia University researchers.

The Italian scientists found far higher levels of NGF in the blood of 58 people who had recently fallen madly in love than in that of a group of singles and people in long-term relationships.

But after a year with the same lover, the quantity of the 'love molecule' in their blood had fallen to the same level as that of the other groups.

The Italian researchers, publishing their study in the journal Psychoneuroendocrinology, said it was not clear how falling in love triggers higher levels of NGF, but the molecule clearly has an important role in the "social chemistry" between people at the start of a relationship.
http://today.reuters.com/news/newsArticle.aspx?type=oddlyEnoughNews&storyID=2005-11-30T143550Z_01_FLE961455_RTRUKOC_0_US-LOVE-MOLECULE.xml


you know there is some merit here. that "new" love does wane, and gets replaced with one that doesn't really cause butterflies anymore.
it's the familiarity that does it i suppose.

ialsohaveadream
11-30-2005, 10:10 AM
Does it come back if you break up with the person and then get back together?

nickel
11-30-2005, 10:21 AM
Does it come back if you break up with the person and then get back together?
you can test that one out. ;)

Jihforce
11-30-2005, 10:30 AM
Does it come back if you break up with the person and then get back together?

No. It becomes something else. I believe its more meaningful the 2nd time around.

johnnymk
11-30-2005, 10:35 AM
If the definition of love is nothing more than a feeling, I can see the correlation.

Markel
11-30-2005, 11:03 AM
If the definition of love is nothing more than a feeling, I can see the correlation.
:stupid:

I guess the idea of a commitment is getting so old-fashioned. :(

ialsohaveadream
11-30-2005, 11:11 AM
you can test that one out. ;)
I'll pass. It's over. ;)

tupacboy
11-30-2005, 11:22 AM
hmm lets make a pill!!! :)

ShawnLee
11-30-2005, 11:48 AM
hmm lets make a pill!!! :)Seriously, what could be a better anti-depressant than a love pill?

zenbooty
11-30-2005, 11:51 AM
Seriously, what could be a better anti-depressant than a love pill?
A .38 revolver.




(bah-dum, pshh! :drums: )

oblongmelon
11-30-2005, 09:41 PM
A .38 revolver.




(bah-dum, pshh! :drums: )

HAHAHAHHH...classic. Perfect response.

zero2dash
12-01-2005, 01:18 PM
No. It becomes something else. I believe its more meaningful the 2nd time around.

:agree:
My wife and I were together...then we broke up and got back together again and got married. The 2nd time around it was definitely different, in a better way. :)