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guiseppewv
01-27-2006, 11:19 AM
Many workers feel 'married' to their jobs; many more feel 'married' to their coworkers, according to a recent survey.

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) - Having a pseudo-wife or pseudo-husband at work may not only make you happier with your job but may even improve your chances for promotions and raises, according to a report Friday.

Non-romantic "marriages" in the workplace are the newest craze in office romance, the New York Post said, citing a survey by Vault Inc., a career research and consulting company.

The firm's national survey of workplace romance said workplace "spousing" has surged in the last year, in part because it offers immediate intimacy without the sex or commitment.

"It's a wonderful support system among workers, and makes a more productive worker," Mark Oldman, co-founder of Vault, told the paper.

According to the study, 32 percent of office workers said they have an office "spouse," with many having more than one.

"They have a big attraction -- there are no strings attached, and if doesn't work out, you go pick out another office 'spouse,' and no divorce is necessary," Oldman told the paper.

There are many emotional benefits of close workplace relationships modeled after a marriage, the study said. "The 'office spouses' can be more open with each other than they can with their own spouses, and there's no guilt involved," Oldman told the paper.



http://money.cnn.com/2006/01/27/news/funny/office_marriage/index.htm

I thought this was funny. Do any of you have an "office spouse"?

I know I had 3 at my old job and I have 2 at my current job. :)

JaQnAbOx
01-27-2006, 02:24 PM
hmm ive never heard of this. thats kind of funny. so do you have to get all your spouses v-day gifts??

Cubsfan
01-27-2006, 02:37 PM
Wait, I saw this on an episode of "King of Queens"

Seriously though, this seems a little weird. Are they just implied to be your office spouse, or do they actually call each other that. I think that would worry be a bit if I was the "real spouse"

Kevster
01-27-2006, 03:08 PM
Oh I definitely have an office-wife! I have shared a workspace for the last 5 years with the same woman and we've even moved spaces together. She and I talk about everything - so much that my manager recently asked me if there's anything going on at home with her because she'd called in sick several days. She and I know just about everything going on in our lives since we spend so much time together. Mrs. Kevster knows all about her and they even talk on the phone about me sometimes. :shifty:

brainsmile
01-27-2006, 03:52 PM
is this while you're sitting together in the hot tub?

guiseppewv
01-27-2006, 09:30 PM
hmm ive never heard of this. thats kind of funny. so do you have to get all your spouses v-day gifts??

Uh no. The advantage of a "work spouse": no spending dough on them, the disadvantage in some cases: no :naughty: :P