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Memo
02-11-2006, 12:53 AM
A PENRITH mum has appeared on national TV to explain why she is still breastfeeding her daughter who is nearly eight – and why she gave her older daughter breast milk as a ninth birthday present.

Veronika Robinson appeared on the Channel 4 programme Extraordinary Breastfeeding as a passionate advocate of allowing children to decided when they give up breast milk.

Mrs Robinson, a former journalist, her husband Paul, and their children, Bethany and Elizah, are all fans of organic food.

Elizah is approaching her eighth birthday and is not happy at the prospect of giving up her daily feed. “I don’t want to be weaned. I want to breastfeed for ever,” she said.

In the Channel 4 programme, broadcast on Wednesday, Mrs Robinson, 38, spoke frankly about her decision to defy convention.

She was one of several families interviewed after the World Health Organisation recommended that children should be breastfed until they are aged two. All share the belief that children should never be forcibly weaned.

While many people in the UK consider her decision odd, other cultures do not take such a dim view of prolonged breast feeding.

In an interview before the TV programme, 38-year-old Veronika described her reaction when Bethany asked for breast milk for her ninth birthday. “I was delighted, if a little taken aback,' she said.

“I'd stopped breastfeeding Bethany when she was five – though I was continuing to feed her younger sister, Elizah – but obviously she clearly remembered what a wonderful feeling it had been. It was the best thing she could imagine and, presented like that, it seemed like a great idea.”

Veronika, who edits an alternative-parenting magazine called The Mother continued: “My girls were brought up to think it was completely normal to ask for a breast in a shop,” she says. “That’s bad enough when they are toddlers, but when they are big girls, people get freaked out by it.

“I try to be discreet, but we have had some odd looks. People tend to be disgusted and disbelieving.”

“I can’t believe any mother wouldn’t love to hold onto that wonderful feeling you get when you are nursing your own child.”

Despite the Breast Is Best campaign, designed to highlight the benefits of breastfeeding to new born babies, only 68 per cent of mums routinely breastfeed. Of those around 80 per cent give up after just six months.

http://www.newsandstar.co.uk/news/viewarticle.aspx?id=328277

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Wizard
02-11-2006, 01:07 AM
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MikeD
02-11-2006, 04:40 AM
The benefits of breastfeeding are pretty obvious. With that said, I think the bad outweighs the good (mightily) here...

InfiniteNothing
02-11-2006, 07:30 AM
All those other mums are just quiters ;)

Sirrich3
02-11-2006, 07:35 AM
Ouch!!!

Lolita
02-11-2006, 07:35 AM
Seems selfish to me - she just doesn't want to give up "the wonderful feeling".

cheapie
02-11-2006, 08:52 AM
that is def disturbing!

guiseppewv
02-11-2006, 09:27 AM
:spock:

ArkiStan
02-11-2006, 10:20 AM
Wait, how is this mom even producing breast milk?

cheapie
02-11-2006, 11:07 AM
they don't stop until the child is weaned

KIISQueen
02-11-2006, 12:33 PM
:thumbdown :nono:

DarkFury
02-11-2006, 12:41 PM
Dayuuuuuuuum!!!! :eek:

ladyluck
02-11-2006, 01:10 PM
:puke: grosssssssssssss

Markel
02-11-2006, 01:11 PM
It does a bit extreme. I think in some older cultures children were often not weaned until they were several years old, but 8 or 9????? :nuts:

welfareloser
02-11-2006, 02:27 PM
in the US, several women have gotten their children yanked by dcfs for breastfeeding at, like, 5.

it's certainly not unhealthy, nutrition-wise... but, a few more boundaries might be better psychologically. eek. this is at about the same "strange" level as, say, identical twins that still sleep cuddled up next to each other at an age when they ought to be snuggling up to a significant other... which also happens here and there and freaks out the "normal" people that find out about it.

i dunno... it's definitely wierd. if they're happy, whatever :shrug: i gots me a mighty strong suspicion that it's patently unhealthy at puberty, tho. :eek: i mean, when sexuality gets going full-steam... yeah. anyhoo. in this case, may be more of an IF sexuality ever gets going full-steam :eek:

funny that, were there no breastmilk involved, this would be sexual abuse. and can you imagine the public gross-out factor if the child in question were a BOY?!?!?!?

Houdini
02-11-2006, 04:46 PM
in the US, several women have gotten their children yanked by dcfs for breastfeeding at, like, 5.

it's certainly not unhealthy, nutrition-wise... but, a few more boundaries might be better psychologically. eek. this is at about the same "strange" level as, say, identical twins that still sleep cuddled up next to each other at an age when they ought to be snuggling up to a significant other... which also happens here and there and freaks out the "normal" people that find out about it.

i dunno... it's definitely wierd. if they're happy, whatever :shrug: i gots me a mighty strong suspicion that it's patently unhealthy at puberty, tho. :eek: i mean, when sexuality gets going full-steam... yeah. anyhoo. in this case, may be more of an IF sexuality ever gets going full-steam :eek:

funny that, were there no breastmilk involved, this would be sexual abuse. and can you imagine the public gross-out factor if the child in question were a BOY?!?!?!?


Perhaps it's not unhealthy, but it's definitely not particularly healthy. At that age, it may intefere with a more balanced diet. Any kid that's not weaned b y that age is going to have some major problems in the future. Hell, girls that age may even have hormonal problems from ingesting the breast milk.

cadetevon
02-11-2006, 07:15 PM
So the kid says she wants to be breastfed forever. Well my kid wants to consume nothing but strawberry milk and gummy worms, but that's not going to happen.

Since when do we let the kid make these sorts of (mental?) health related decisioins?

YanksFanRy
02-13-2006, 09:05 AM
I think once the kid can ask for it, it's time to stop.

InfiniteNothing
02-13-2006, 09:21 AM
What if it's baby sign language?

sizemic1
02-13-2006, 09:31 AM
So the kid says she wants to be breastfed forever. Well my kid wants to consume nothing but strawberry milk and gummy worms, but that's not going to happen.

Since when do we let the kid make these sorts of (mental?) health related decisioins?

mmmm...gummy worms :)