RoniMan

need i say more? on one hand, it's someone that i care deeply about, so some people tell me to talk to her, and try to right the wrong. (and most of it IS my fault). but on the other hand, some people just tell me to give her some time.

now, i'm not exactly the patient waiting type. at least not when emotions are involved. it's a downfall, i know. anyways, i hate having this feeling of ambivalence.

i've always been a romantic at heart, so i always think everything can be worked out with a nice sad song, some flowers, home cooked dinner, and a sincere apology. but just doesn't look this way at this point....sigh.

but it's good to hear that pro-minx is having things worked out on his end. btw, how did it go since the last time you posted?

hapoo

2 things i know:

1. Breakups DO suck

2. ProMinx is a player

lucky_sob

This sounds to familiar.

Just play it cool and back off, go hang with your other friends. In a few months when things cool down give her a call and just say

"how you f*cked up and just wanted to say sorry" that is it.

DO NOT ASK TO BE FRIENDS OR TO HANGOUT!!!!!!!!

Then as time passes I'm sure you will run into her and you can talk about what you've both been up to and it won't be so bad. And maybe things will work out or you can at least be friends.


Worked for me.

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ProMinx

Hahahaha, that's so awesome...but so false. I may like one girl and mess around with another, but still...who hasn't done that? I'm not a player. I just can't wait until AmRivlin reads this and responds because he's the only one who actually has any real clue about the current state of affairs of my sex live. He and I were talking on AIM earlier today. I want to see what kinds of things he might say...
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oh yeah...and EVERYTHING isn't going great right now. Today is my ex-girlfriend's birthday, and we went out for almost 11 months, and I totally loved her, but she dumped me about 6 weeks ago. That might be why I appear to be a player. I really do have feelings for these girls, but I still have feelings (although i've seen too much of her bad side and could never take her back) for Nicole too...even though she dumped me in such a horrible way. I might just be using these other girls as a slight way to cover up the pain...which oddly enough was Alicia's (I'm abandoning "A") advice.
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ps - oh yeah...I left out that the other day, over AIM, one of my fairly good high school friends, who is currently up at Cal, was telling me, straight-out, how she had had a crush on me all through high school and still did...so it looks like I might be having a little fun over Thanksgiving if I haven't tied myself down by that time.

hapoo

Face it, there's no use hiding it, your a player

ProMinx

hey, I'm not a player. I said that I "might be having a little fun" over Thanksgiving. Since when does sex count as "a little fun"? I'm not discounting the possibility, and it's not like I'm going to say "GET OFF OF ME! I only wanted to hang out," but I'm not a player. I'm just your average guy who is finally getting a little bit lucky (and i don't know why any of you think i'm a player; i barely tell you guys any of the stories...like i said, AmRivlin is the only one who would really know from this message board...).
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hapoo

I'm just messin' with you
must say though, you have been kinda lucky lately

AmRivlin

It ain't like it sounds all the time... Pro's situation covers it best... When ever you want to hook up other girls know it and try to distract you... Honest it's kinda a jealousy thing. The problem with that is atleast for me I am soo in tune with the one I like, that my stalkers are just a support group. Don't make it that way because it can hurt your image and you become confused. I say hold on the sex if you really care bout her Pro, (Hold about 10 minutes) Really give a relationship a chance, but if you hold to long it will dwindle... If one times it right the world will have lots of Nympho's! Best of luck, leaving for KC till Sat... Keep me posted Pro, andrew@rivlin.com

Andrew out.

Hopper1

Don't hate the playa....hate the game

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ProMinx

But the thing is that the other 4 girls don't know about Alicia at all. It's four girls because I decided I had to remove Sandra from the list (i don't actually think she'd jump at the "opportunity"), and I'm adding in my friend from Berkeley. One weird thing is that both this year and last year, Alicia's roommates have been very flirty withme, so i'm trying to figure out if they're just naturally that way or because they see the way i consider their roommate up on pedestal... Oh well.

ProMinx

ps - when i say "the other 4" i don't mean four girls that i'm doing anything with; those are just the 4 girls that i could be doing something with had i the slightest inclination.

ChrisMG187

with a signature like that, you gotta be a player

ProMinx

okay...maybe i'm beginning to accept all of this a little bit... my friend, ali (not alicia!), posted up a "Points for Matthew" note on my door. It is intended to receive a point for every girlt that...umm...how can i say this...sleeps in my bed this year (only 5 of us know what it means), and so far there are two marks up. Ali tried to put a third mark up last night (he had to leave my party early and was a little optimistic), but that was an undeserved point, so i removed it. Here's hoping that the numbers can jump in the near future...
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hapoo

hey, i started one of those notes when I was 13. Lets just say it decomposed from lack of attention.


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ProMinx

I was thinking of deleting the player points board, but today I was having a conversation with one of my best friends, and we decided that the board needs new rules so that it gets more activity. We basically loosened the rules (the point system needed clarification anyway...) so that now the only requirements are that an article of major clothing (shirt or pants, not socks or sweaters or anything like that) removed while in contact...so basically no points will be added for a while because I'm going to go after Alicia again, and I'm going to take things very slow with her because I really care.
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