ChrisMG187

Well, I went after the captain of the cheer squad this morning, only to get shot down. Damn she's fine. I thought I was supposed to make the move when it went beyond flirting, guess not. The response I got was "Well, it's not that I don't like you, because I do, but I sorta wanna be single for a while. Sorry.". I hate this feeling.

hapoo

ouch, now that sucks

speedracer120

Ooh, that hurts.

hapoo

At least you had the balls to ask!!!

fakesurfers

I hate to generalize...but...the captain of the cheerleading team is probably more interested things like social status, parent's money... she probably likes you, but not enough to overcome your lack of something you cannot control, and thats why she flirts so much with you.

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ChrisMG187

Yeah, took about a week to gather them up.

ProMinx

hmm...i adked a cheerleader out once (i think there was only one) in high school. we had been good friends, and it had progressed into flirting, and then it progressed into more than flirting (basically everytime we were hanging out together alone it ended up with the two of us kissing...even at school; there were some interesting stories about that), but when i asked her out she still said no. i was pretty hurt and all because i figured i had risked it all just to be shot down...but she still had no objection to continuing the proximity of the relationship, which is when i realized she was a playerette or something...so i took off. i only spoke to her about school things after that.
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RoniMan

try playing hard to get. let her see how it feels to be on the receiving end! flirt, but then say you've got to go, cause you've got a date (who cares if it's true, just leave her hanging).

sbp

Playerette suck. Don't feed their ego anymore by playing their little teasing game.

ProMinx

yeah...playerettes do suck, and so do players, which is why I deny being a player. I don't have real relationships with any of the girls that I occasionally take out; ew're all just casually dating.
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renots

Good Advice

M_A_C

I don't know about you guys, but all the cheerleaders at my school where BUTT ugly. All the fine girls played sports like tennis, soccer, vollyball, and what not.

Ummmm... Soccer shorts... Laaaaaaaaargrg...

Blu

That whole "Let's just be friends" or "I kinda wanna stay single for a while" crap sucks. I think it'd be better if they just said no. I don't want to hear some crappy excuse. A 'no' will do me just fine.

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theHNIC

how about being a sex partner.

AmRivlin

"Oh actually I'm seeing someone right now", is a bigger let down than No or sorry I don't like you, it means someone out there is better than you, why can't they say no! Dumb Bitchez

hapoo

I'd rather they say i'm seeing someone cause as long as its true it means i still have a chance.

styleee

yeah, but when we say, "WE DON'T LIKE YOU," men often think we are playing games! "Ha Ha, she likes me," is what you think. you don't hear the don't part! but if we mention another boy, you are afraid that he *might* be bigger and meaner then you, so you back off.

maybe you should do something nice to get the girl. something original!

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sbp

"but if we mention another boy, you are afraid that he *might* be bigger and meaner then you, so you back off." I don't worry about anything because I'm bigger and meaner than that punk whoever he is.

Yes do something original AmRivlin like drive a more expensive car and see how many gold digging chicks are impressed by that.

hapoo

yeah i'm sure if you had a Lexus GS-430 all the women would want you

kain9i6

Well.. I've been through this before.. In fact not too long ago. Met a girl.. we became best friends.. Told her I liked her.. She didn't want a boyfriend. We started messing around.. Then she just stopped talking to me.. Then I stopped talking to her.. the she started calling me again.. Started talking to her again.. then she stopped talking to me again.. I think she fell for me and got scared.. but most of the time I'm wrong so I probably am.. Below is a post I put on another message board that kinda fits what's goin on..


Being a male and had having female friends whom I became attracted too sucks.. Because as soon as you build an attraction and the female finds out.. she's either:
a) Flattered and attracted as well, but never acted on it because she didn't think you felt that way.

b) Discusted because she doesn't think of you that way and now is not your friend.

c) Now feeling awkward because she thinks you are a great friend and now knows things will never be the same.

d*) Fuvked in the head and decides to take your weakness for all it's worth and use you on a daily basis until she has no more use for you, then doesn't talk to you anymore, but knows that you'll still try to keep communication, but then when the communication stops wonders why the guy doesn't keep talking to her, so decides to re-instate the communication because she finds out that she does have feelings for you, but as soon as you offer to go out or something, stops talking again because she's not all there and really needs to go see a psychiatrist because she's got some major emotional issues going on that she doesn't want to share, but instead keeps it inside and in turn hurting people around her.

*Note: Has NOTHING to do with anyone I have ever known whatsoever.. nope.. not me.. haven't had this happen to me or anything.. =0)

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a week? big balls man



We will be more than happy to dock post total if people keep digging up ancient threads.

hapoo

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sho.gun

dude, this is from a year ago...

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JPR

HAHAAH

spigidygak

guess GAM is po'ed now. . . At least GAM will be happy to dock the post total .

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