08-01-2004, 11:45 PM
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SS: Feeling like you are letting someone down
One of the worst feelings in the world has to be the one where you feel like you are letting someone down! Honestly, you feel the most heartache and disgusted with yourself. It doesnt matter how hard you are trying to not do it, the mere fact that you are doing it is like a knife in your heart.
I think its even worse when the other person feels like they are letting you down and its not their fault. Man, am I upset at myself right now.
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08-02-2004, 12:57 AM
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what happened?
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08-02-2004, 07:08 AM
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Life is an emotional rollercoaster-if everyone was on an even keel all the time-we'd be robots....things pass...things pass..take a deep breath and try to find some good in what was done..
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08-02-2004, 08:46 AM
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Chief of Naval Operations
 
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I can't stand the thought of letting my kids down... like if I promise them something reasonable, you gotta show them that your word means something to them above all else.
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08-02-2004, 09:56 AM
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so, consequently, i always hate it when i let someone down like that. give them my word or promise to do something and don't follow through with it  it sucks. |
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08-02-2004, 10:46 AM
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The problem isnt what was done, but rather what isnt being done. I am STILL looking for another job and thus far havent found anything even though I have been applying like a mad man. I could always start my own practice but as of yet that is still undesirable. Unfortunately, our move is ending up costing us more than expected, which is annoying. On top of that we are flying to my cousins wedding and due to some unforeseen obstacles the cost of that is growing. As a result, I feel horrible since I am not contributing and my wife feels horrible since she thinks she is not providing enough for us, which she really is. No matter how many times I tell her its not her fault she doesnt believe me, making me feel even worse. |
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08-02-2004, 11:03 AM
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Chief of Naval Operations
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I always think that someday they'll remember something I didn't do or that they are actually thinking about it and worried to bring it up like I'm gonna get mad or something. But they also know that when I say I'm busy that I should be left alone until I can give them my undivided attention. Last edited by brainsmile : 08-02-2004 at 11:07 AM. |
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08-02-2004, 12:57 PM
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Chief of Naval Operations
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bs, you sound like a great dad
 Your kids are very lucky! (So is my son His dad is absolutely fantastic with him most of the time. )
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08-02-2004, 01:30 PM
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Chief of Naval Operations
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thanks Jenny... I just know my parents loved me but they were so busy being 1st generation immigrants they never participated in any of my activities (varsity football etc.) I hated that feeling
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08-02-2004, 01:39 PM
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well-so you haven't found a job..big deal-one will come..bills will get paid...maybe late but none the less paid....kids will have Christmas, and birthdays, ..you're alive, your'e in good health(Hopefully) and so is your family..things could be worse..and things will find a way to work themselves out..have faith.. |
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08-02-2004, 01:42 PM
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Chief of Naval Operations
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sorry to hear that man... keep the faith... something good will come along
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08-02-2004, 02:07 PM
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shibuya girl
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i don't promise my kids much, I just beat them with a stick.
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08-02-2004, 02:12 PM
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in living colour
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youre incorrigible.... you'd do that to a stick? how could you?
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