cruelpupet

Waiting for a response to an email sent to my recent (about 4 weeks) ex yesterday morning. She knows theres an email waiting for her...but either didnt have time to sign on yesterday or chose not to. So I get to wait till about 7 tonight.


waiting all last night sucked enough.

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Am I alone here? Is that it?
Am I the only one who sees.

Maybe we can learn to be just like him.
Wear a little uniform.
Yes, sir.
No, sir.
Thank you, sir.

nickel

well throw us a bone!
did you ask her to marry you or what?

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cruelpupet

I think that would definatly scare her off. Since she is an ex.

The email was part appology, part me telling her how i feel, part explaining some things from our past (thought proccesses of mine), and part telling her how she has hurt me.

And of course part wanting to get back together.

nickel

you miss her... you love her...
and absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder.

i hope it works out.

but she is doing good playing hard to get and not hopping right on your email

cruelpupet

And I know I should have done that to her, but I dont believe she is doing this on purpose...i dont think she is going to want to continue the relationship. It was more a need of me to get some stuff off my chest.

Maarchk

So why are you waiting on her if you got what you wanted to say off your chest? I am totally feeling for you, but the best thing for you is to not let your life and feelings hang on her.

If she broke up with you, which it sounds like, then more likely then not she has been done with you for a bit longer then that. Girls do the emotional detachment thing in advance of the breakup so that way they dont have feelings and miss you and do all the things that you are doing right now.

Say your piece and move on, and unless she writes that she really wants you back. Its best that you try to keep looking forward. People who dig in the past get nothing but dirty.

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cruelpupet

I would give similar advice to anyone else...but listening to your own advice rarely happens.

Maarchk

Well good luck then... The only thing that really saved me from an alcoholic fall after a 2 year relationship ended in her leaving, was this wonderful girl who just made me realize what it was to be happy. It led into a relationship, but it was just a good friend when i needed one and that made all the difference.

redcolours

closure.

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cruelpupet

She is most likely reading the message currently.

cruelpupet

Well...we tlaked on AIM for a while...its over..she made some things she said clearer.

Guess that chapter is now closed.

Kim

I was just coming to wish you good luck. Now I'll just say I'm very sorry.

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nickel

well now at least you don't hafta wonder anymore, huh?
you said what you wanted to say.

now onward!

cruelpupet

Thanks Kim...Too bad oim not in Utah...we could keep each other busy.







Yes, but it wont stop the random depression.

Maarchk

Find some friends to be around. And go out and have a good time. Dont let yourself be along for too long at a time or you will likely drift back to thinking about her. Put anything that reminds you of her away cause you dont need those memories right now. Just some thoughts from a friend. Good luck.

nickel

we've all been there cruelpup.
not much consolation, but don't be alone and dwelling on it like Maarchk said.

sh*t, i've seen you - you're a hella handsome guy. go out and explore!

cruelpupet

Yea, I have been trying to go out and have fun. And it has helped. As for women...Im supposed to meet up with a girl I met about a year ago tonight.


Keeping myself busy is hard to do, as I am unemployed (i wasnt in a rush to find a job...so i started looking last week)


On the bright side...weight loss has been going quicker. (lots of extra time to exercise and a decreased appitite)

redcolours

well, you probably dont need to be told the obvious (and its been said already), but i'll mention it again anyway:

its the best time to move on.

plus you seem level-headed enough - i wouldnt worry about the random bouts of depression if i were you.

cruelpupet

Nickel...this is not the place to hit on me.


For that you should post in the Need Deals forum.
Or maybe suckage / not-so-suckage is the right place.

Can we have a ruling on this GAM?

nickel

yeh, should've said i've seen you and your butt-ugly

altho... i haven't seen your butt.... but i have seen ......

cruelpupet

The girl was not attractive to me whatsoever..


Just woke up thinkning about my ex. and I cant get back to sleep.

cheapie

go watch swingers.

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cruelpupet

I can never get past 20minutres of that movie without falling asleep.