SS: Violated

angl2b · 10-09-2005, 08:27 PM

I know this seems odd - and I know to some this is normal - but I felt violated. I went to AC with mcs328 this weekend. Last night after he cashed out his $5 we headed back to our room - we didn't even take about 4-5 steps before I jumped. Since mcs328 was on my right and we were holding hands I whipped my head around and looked at him. He was like what's wrong? Then I turned my head and saw this tall blond guy looking at me and walking by me. I said he just grabbed and pinched my a$$!!!

The blond girl the guy was with looked at me and was like what did you do?? to the guy. He kept walking but looked at mcs328 and then right at me with the wth are you going to do look. I held mcs328's hand and wouldn't let him go over and deck the guy instead I grabbed a security guard and pointed him out. I was/am still upset about it. I know it seems minor and to me I think it sounds minor too but when it happened (3 AM) I felt extremely violated and was extremely distraught and upset about it. I mean - wth... I don't think I deserved this at all... I did file a report with the Casino - but all they did was formally evict the guy from the premises and if he should ever come back he will be arrested - some how I don't think this will happen. What else can I do?

I just called the manager that was on duty when this happened - the guy was married and the other guy that he was with and the two girls - I think both married well they are banned from all Trump Properties for life - if they were to ever step foot on the property they will be arrested. The mother of the daughters is a frequent player and stays at the hotel a lot plus she is handicapped. She was mortified about their actions. I feel bad for the mom - but the manager told me the guys and girls admitted to drinking all night and was intoxicated. This is good enough to me. I am still bothered by what happened. But what's done is done.

TofuNinja · 10-09-2005, 08:44 PM

people like that deserve an ass kickin'. Maybe you should have let MCS grab his ass

That would have scared him.

Man that sucks. I am not sure what I would do either besides hold in my rage

some people.

Merlin · 10-09-2005, 08:52 PM

There really is not much you can do. If there were a cop nearby you could claim assault. Best you could do under the situation is make a big scene and embaeass the crap outta him and his date.

Outside of that you're best off just walking away - your best option.

And don't harp on it. Focusing on a negative event is never a benefit to you.

brainsmile · 10-09-2005, 09:51 PM

sorry... if it helps I'm sure we can violate mcs for you too

attgig · 10-09-2005, 10:15 PM

man. that sucks, and thank you for at least doing SOMETHING. these punks gotta learn some respect.

brainsmile · 10-09-2005, 10:33 PM

it's like the time attgig pinched my butt

attgig · 10-09-2005, 10:58 PM

but he was asking for it.

speedracer120 · 10-10-2005, 12:49 AM

So BS should I not visit attgig this weekend? Will he be busy pleasing you?

Glad you embarassed him. Kept your calm and made him pay for his deed.

mcs328 · 10-10-2005, 06:35 AM

Ugh...I guess if they were all banned from the Trump hotels/casinos than I guess that's all they can do within their power. I should have ran over, jumped over and popped him in the throat. Damn these stumpy legs!!

WhiskeyPapa · 10-10-2005, 12:26 PM

I think you did everything you could do, and that's great.

baggio248 · 10-10-2005, 01:18 PM

That sucks big time. I don't know that I could have held back.

That happened to friends of mine. They were walking down the street at a car show and some high school kid thought he would be cool and grab my friends butt. The gf handed the purse to my friend and she went after him, he had no idea waht happened. Them my friend figured it out and had to hold her back, then he went after the kid. Needless to say the kid should have gotten the crap kicked out of him but bystanders stopped it.

On another occasion recently my gf was walking by the farmers market on her way home and some guy stopped and said "nice shirt" clearly implying looking at her chest, she yelled " go to hell". I am so proud of her.

Merlin · 10-10-2005, 01:39 PM

Next time keep the pepper spray handy.

10-09-2005, 08:27 PM	#1
angl2b Overstock junkie Join Date: Nov 2001 Location: wherever mcs resides :) Posts: 920	SS: Violated NSS:somewhat of a justice I know this seems odd - and I know to some this is normal - but I felt violated. I went to AC with mcs328 this weekend. Last night after he cashed out his $5 we headed back to our room - we didn't even take about 4-5 steps before I jumped. Since mcs328 was on my right and we were holding hands I whipped my head around and looked at him. He was like what's wrong? Then I turned my head and saw this tall blond guy looking at me and walking by me. I said he just grabbed and pinched my a$$!!! The blond girl the guy was with looked at me and was like what did you do?? to the guy. He kept walking but looked at mcs328 and then right at me with the wth are you going to do look. I held mcs328's hand and wouldn't let him go over and deck the guy instead I grabbed a security guard and pointed him out. I was/am still upset about it. I know it seems minor and to me I think it sounds minor too but when it happened (3 AM) I felt extremely violated and was extremely distraught and upset about it. I mean - wth... I don't think I deserved this at all... I did file a report with the Casino - but all they did was formally evict the guy from the premises and if he should ever come back he will be arrested - some how I don't think this will happen. What else can I do? I just called the manager that was on duty when this happened - the guy was married and the other guy that he was with and the two girls - I think both married well they are banned from all Trump Properties for life - if they were to ever step foot on the property they will be arrested. The mother of the daughters is a frequent player and stays at the hotel a lot plus she is handicapped. She was mortified about their actions. I feel bad for the mom - but the manager told me the guys and girls admitted to drinking all night and was intoxicated. This is good enough to me. I am still bothered by what happened. But what's done is done. __________________ Love is something that is not expected but given freely-when received it touches you in a way it makes you cry... Last edited by angl2b : 10-09-2005 at 09:45 PM.

10-09-2005, 08:44 PM	#2
TofuNinja Rear Admiral Upper Half Join Date: May 2000 Location: On Serenity Posts: 3,503	people like that deserve an ass kickin'. Maybe you should have let MCS grab his ass That would have scared him. Man that sucks. I am not sure what I would do either besides hold in my rage some people. __________________ "To search for the old is to understand the new." -Gichin Funakoshi- ===>>>LABELED CANTACUZENE'S DUMBEST PERSON ALIVE!!!<<<===

10-09-2005, 08:52 PM	#3
Merlin Admiral Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Square On My Arse Posts: 7,410	There really is not much you can do. If there were a cop nearby you could claim assault. Best you could do under the situation is make a big scene and embaeass the crap outta him and his date. Outside of that you're best off just walking away - your best option. And don't harp on it. Focusing on a negative event is never a benefit to you. __________________

10-09-2005, 09:51 PM	#4
brainsmile Chief of Naval Operations Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: woah... why is welfareloser here with me so early in the morning and more importantly why am I wearing her clothes?!? Posts: 13,754	sorry... if it helps I'm sure we can violate mcs for you too __________________ ********************************** DCM #1 (Founder) "Nobody beats Vitus Gerulaitis 18 times in a row." - Vitus Gerulaitis on beating Jimmy Connors after 17 failed attempts.

10-09-2005, 10:15 PM	#5
attgig Chief of Naval Operations Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the burbs of baltimore Posts: 11,924	man. that sucks, and thank you for at least doing SOMETHING. these punks gotta learn some respect. __________________

10-09-2005, 10:33 PM	#6
brainsmile Chief of Naval Operations Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: woah... why is welfareloser here with me so early in the morning and more importantly why am I wearing her clothes?!? Posts: 13,754	it's like the time attgig pinched my butt

10-09-2005, 10:58 PM	#7
attgig Chief of Naval Operations Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: the burbs of baltimore Posts: 11,924	but he was asking for it.

10-10-2005, 12:49 AM	#8
speedracer120 Rear Admiral Upper Half Join Date: Mar 2000 Location: HB,CA/PA Posts: 3,437	So BS should I not visit attgig this weekend? Will he be busy pleasing you? Glad you embarassed him. Kept your calm and made him pay for his deed. __________________ Off in La La Land

10-10-2005, 06:35 AM	#9
mcs328 Admiral Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Maryland Posts: 6,578	Ugh...I guess if they were all banned from the Trump hotels/casinos than I guess that's all they can do within their power. I should have ran over, jumped over and popped him in the throat. Damn these stumpy legs!! __________________

10-10-2005, 12:26 PM	#10
WhiskeyPapa Rear Admiral Upper Half Join Date: Jul 2000 Location: 45° 11' 35" North Latitude, 95° 8' 37" West Longitude Posts: 3,427	I think you did everything you could do, and that's great. __________________

10-10-2005, 01:18 PM	#11
baggio248 Captain Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Aurora, OH Posts: 1,967	That sucks big time. I don't know that I could have held back. That happened to friends of mine. They were walking down the street at a car show and some high school kid thought he would be cool and grab my friends butt. The gf handed the purse to my friend and she went after him, he had no idea waht happened. Them my friend figured it out and had to hold her back, then he went after the kid. Needless to say the kid should have gotten the crap kicked out of him but bystanders stopped it. On another occasion recently my gf was walking by the farmers market on her way home and some guy stopped and said "nice shirt" clearly implying looking at her chest, she yelled " go to hell". I am so proud of her. __________________ Peter: Lois, you've got a sick mind! Lois: Peter, I'm talking about making love. Peter: Oh, I thought you wanted us to murder the children and harvest their organs for beer money.

10-10-2005, 01:39 PM	#12
Merlin Admiral Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Square On My Arse Posts: 7,410	Next time keep the pepper spray handy.

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