11-25-2008, 12:15 PM
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Honestly, you hadn't done anything wrong at this point... you weren't exclusive (and who knows, Girl #1 could have been out on a date with some other guy... would you be crushed if that were the case?) Until you seal the "exclusive" pact, then don't sweat bullets over stuff like this. Pretty much it's not like you took both girls back to your place and had your way with both of them, so why are you sitting there feeling guilty like you just robbed a bank or something?  I dunno.. maybe you just have too much anticipation of jumping feet first into a full relationship (and that can have its own set of problems.) Just chill, enjoy the girl's company and keep the "need to know" info to yourself until it is time to make a decision. It's all good to "let your concience be your guide", but sometimes you gotta tell that little mf'er to STFU and let you get your foot in the door... Heh... I think we need to sign you up for the show "The Pickup Artist 3". (/me laughs at the concept of that show...  )
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11-25-2008, 12:28 PM
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 Bwaaahaa!!!!!! Funny.  So many times I've felt that way.
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11-25-2008, 04:43 PM
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LOL.
love the story dude. and for being 6 years out of the game, you did well. Anyways, I would go for #1 because: 1. If you're really looking for a serious relationship, meaning, leading to marriage, you not only marry the girl, but you marry the family. If she has a cool brother that you totally get along with, that's a big plus in future family gatherings (i know, i'm going way ahead of where we were...but, with the info you give, it's not totally out of left field). 2. if the two girls know each other, and are somewhat friends, #2 isn't being much of a good friend by being all over you after you came out honest. if she was a good friend, then she would've given you over. the way she acted afterwards tells me that she's being a bit competitive (and annoying in my book) with you in seeing if she can beat out #1 to get you. my $.02 g'luck... you got 99 problems but a.....
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11-25-2008, 08:48 PM
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Or maybe get rid of them both or cut both as there is too much drama here.
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11-26-2008, 12:44 AM
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11-26-2008, 07:18 AM
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C'mon now.. You don't throw away your fishing pole just because you have 2 fish on the line. This is "perceived drama"... Based on what I read, I haven't even seen any real drama. /me hums the tune to Jasmine Sullivan's "I'll bust the windows out your car..."  |
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11-26-2008, 10:12 AM
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I agree with way long ago when were talking about kissing. I'm sure i'm old fashioned, or at least my grandparents from the Farm in Oklahoma instilled in me some of the old fashioned life, and that is to say, you only kiss one girl at a time. Dating multiple is fine, but intimate physical contact like that tends to give the notion of serious feelings.
Now I realize today, kids are out getting naughty with no real plan for a serious followup, but I feel that you can hang out with girls all you like, but when you kiss one, that should kind of be your own choice of going for exclusivity. I've never had to have 'the talk' or any of that stuff cause it was just simply understood... But like i said, i'm kind of that old fashioned 28 year old...
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11-26-2008, 01:06 PM
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naughty by nature not cuz I hate ya <adds nothing extra to this thread> |
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11-26-2008, 05:08 PM
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Yeah if you hadnt said the age at the end, I thought you were going to be an old-fashioned 60 year old.  |
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11-26-2008, 07:25 PM
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LOL I only say that because it looks like the Tricycle is out. Otherwise two chicks at the same time. |
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12-01-2008, 12:17 AM
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I love you guys. Both girls are hot, but no pics will be posted. You'll just have to trust my opinion.
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12-01-2008, 06:40 AM
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12-01-2008, 07:53 AM
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Can we at least get a cup size? B vs C or some D's?
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