Banginblaz

I Dont know how the rest of you feel, but I am an openminded person, and I think that gay people should have every right that we do.....


http://www.afa.net/petitions/marriagepoll.asp

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The American Family Association has decided to try and "prove a point" by having a poll on their website for folks to take about their opinion on gay marriage. They intend to present the results of this poll to the United States Congress in an attempt to instate a federal law against Gay Marriage.

It's obvious that they think that this poll will come out in their favor, and that the vast majority of people will vote to keep marriage for traditional couples only.

I ask you all to please visit
http://www.afa.net/petitions/marriagepoll.asp
and let your opinion be heard. It takes about 45 seconds, and it is SUCH an important topic. Whether you are gay or straight, conservative or liberal, your opinion matters, and you NEED to vote here.

The only folks who were even made aware of it's existence were the people on the AFA's mailing list and the people who happened to wander across their website. They have absolutely every intention of presenting this poll in the form of a petition to congress against gay marriage. I wonder if they will still present it when the YAYs outweigh the NAYs?

PLEASE let your voice be heard.

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sbp

Here's a question for you: why does not supporting gay marriage = bigot?

zenbooty

Where does he make that statement anywhere in his post?

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molecularfire

It doesn't. Depending on how popular opinion goes it may become that way in 10+ years or so, but right now it doesn't. However, the question that I have is where does this come from? I didn't see that on the website or on Banginblaz's post. I did however, see this...

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sbp

Ofttimes when this issue is raised the supporters of said idea try to label those who don't support this as closeminded bigots.

I want Mr. Banginblaz to provide some more info on why he supports this.

And yep I signed it, but not in favor of homosexual "marriage".

topane

What about homosexual "civil unions"? Is it just the word "marriage" which is the problem?

And I wouldn't bother visiting the AFA site.

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molecularfire

I agree with you that someone who raises an issue should be prepared to defend it. However, since he hasn't called anyone a bigot, it is premature to assume that he will call those who don't support such a law bigots. Your pre-emptive strike isn't the kind of statement that really advances the idea of a freely open discussion of ideas. The way to advance such ideas is to present your own first to prime the pump so to speak (which is something nobody has yet to do here) so I'll start. This is rudimentary and I'm sure will be picked apart because I have lecture in a few minutes but it should start the game.


1) I'm not a religious person, so the problems that the bible have with homosexuals I'm not really qualified to argue so I'll leave that in the hands of people who are better qualified than me.
2) I think it's hard enough to meet people you can care for and spend a significant amount of time for, so I don't see the rationale in adding more stipulations to make that more difficult.
3) I don't see how gay marriages does any harm to anybody. People who say that marriages should be a sacred thing should really take a look around and see where marriages are. The traditional family structure as we know is has already fallen apart. Divorces are increasing, marriage durations are shrinking, and you guys think that it's gay marriages that is going to make marriages a joke. Hah. It already is a joke. Heterosexuals have already done that. Heck, I figure why not give gay people a shot at it... they can't possibly do a worse job than we already have.
4) Anything that increases the number of lesbians and decreases the number of guys that I have to compete with to get girls can't be a bad thing.
I'll come back and put some better arguments on later. Gotta go to lecture now.

Question for those against gay marriages though... why are you against them?

zenbooty

Sbp, you can't expect people to defend statements they didn't make, based on your preconceptions of their views and generalizations of an opposing political base. That's simply not fair.

Its like if you were to post something about the need for wlefare reform, and I were to say, "Sbp, why do you think every person on welfare is a lazy good for nothing leech who should be left to starve?" After you claim you never said you felt this way, I would then reply, "Oh, well, a lot of reform advocates seem to feel this way, and I just wanted you to explain why you support the idea."

sbp

But I do feel that way about welfare and believe that euphemistically named program should be abolished-well at least at the federal level. The Constitution says nothing and gives no authority to the federal government for "public charity."

Many people long ago wrote off the inner cities. This patronizing system is an attempt to make themselves feel better-that they have done something substantial. Basically it's not about giving the poor a "hand up rather than a handout", it's attempt to buy their silence.

johnnymk

The way he stated "I am an open minded person" and then saying he supports gay marriages, the conclusion is that people who don't support gay marriages are bigots.

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sbp

"pre-emptive strikes" are not always a bad thing molecularfire. Its also ironic since "pre-emptive strikes" {so to speak} allow this forum to be kept clear of the various miscreants.

Sure homosexuals can be in loving relationships.

I don't believe unmarried couples, no matter if they are homosexual or heterosexual, should act like "civil unions" are marriage and get the benefits thereof.

What a sad and somewhat unrealistic view of marriage you have molecularfire.

afaik the divorce rate has stabilized.

How is making marriage a bigger joke going to help matters? It won't!

The institution of marriage has been the bedrock of society for thousands of years. Now a few folks decide it should be changed, because they know what's best. Uh huh, excuse everyone for not believing that. We've seen enough frankenstein social engineering gone wrong.

Ever consider why the institution of marriage is not in great shape? And now yet another step. How do you know it the deterioration won't get worse? I see "homosexual marriage" undermining that bedrock and weakening the family even more.

Why so eager to change that bedrock institution and take an action that may not be good for society? Many times these great social experiments don't work out. And once something vital is broken, it can't always be patched back up.

Seems like every bad idea is just another step towards an even worse one. Now that this Pandoras box has been opened on what grounds will you tell 3 people they can't get "married?" How about brother and sister-dont think it can happen? At one time not long ago the very idea of homosexual "marriage" was considered total folly.

Oh the homosexual activists and their backers will try to portray it as freedom. It won't be when taxpayers and companies are forced to pay. Don't deny it won't happen...it will. And here's another illustration of a small vocal minority telling the majority what to do. Ever think about the tensions it causes? The majority is getting tired of being told what to do.

One example is that gay bishop of the Episcopal Church. Its about what he wants, nevermind it'll lead to a split in that church.

Nija

oppose legalization of homosexual marriage and "civil unions" 61.03%
(115760 votes)
I favor legalization of homosexual marriage 33.26%
(63092 votes)
I favor a "civil union" with the full benefits of marriage except for the name 5.71%
(10832 votes)

I favor everyone being equal, regardless of race, sex, or sexual preference.

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topane

Looks like the AFA was removing "pro" votes at one point - how honest of them.


Those few folks are simply asking for equal rights under the law.
Unmarried couples can share health benefits. Unmarried couples can name each other as beneficiaries on life insurance policies. Unmarried couples can receive power of attorney over each other. Hell, if you and I sign the right documents, I can name you as my insurance beneficiary and I can give you the power to pull the plug on me in case I'm in a horrible accident. Is there anything wrong with that? What's the difference between that and a civil union? There's only a small step.

BTW, I applaud you for at least being consistent between homos and heteros above.

Slippery slope fallacy there, bubba. You forgot to add "after that we'll be raping kittens in public school".

Not long ago the idea of blacks being married was total folly.

It is freedom. The government has no place telling people whom they can or cannot marry. And taxpayers and companies being forced to pay for what? We're being forced to pay for useless **** now, how is this going to be any different?
Please. Telling them what to do? Nice persecution complex there. Can you show me exactly where gays are trying to get a law passed that we must all marry our same sex? No? No one is telling anyone what to do, all they want is the same rights as any American citizen.

If two men or women get married how does that affect you? What's the point where it does something horrible to you and you suffer personal injury?

nickel

NO......PLEASE.......NOT ANOTHER LONG WINDED HOT AIR THREAD!

my opinion: let homosexuals get married. what the fvck does it matter?

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sbp

People will never be completely equal.

Just the mere fact some work harder than others changes things.

“Everybody is equal” but it appears what you are really saying is “Some are more equal than others”

sbp

Homosexuals can already get married.

Some equal rights {cue Harvey Milk high}

Funny how small steps become large.
Its problematic when civil unions are equated to marriage.

Why must everything be made so difficult.

Please.

Wait and see, its not a fallacy...3 people getting "married" and brother and sister are going to come up. What will you say then?

Nice effort trying to link to civil rights but it is not the same thing.

Most blacks don't support this nonsense of "homosexual marriage."

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It is freedom. The government has no place telling people whom they can or cannot marry. And taxpayers and companies being forced to pay for what? We're being forced to pay for useless **** now, how is this going to be any different? Please. Telling them what to do? Nice persecution complex there. Can you show me exactly where gays are trying to get a law passed that we must all marry our same sex? No? No one is telling anyone what to do, all they want is the same rights as any American citizen. If two men or women get married how does that affect you? What's the point where it does something horrible to you and you suffer personal injury?

Because we are paying for so much useless crap, we should pay for more. Splendid.

These radicals are telling us to change the age old definition of marriage-the bedrock of society.

Make no doubt about it-the coercive power of government will force all to support it one way or another. Geez aren't you a libertarian?

Sure its freedom...as long as you believe a certain way.

Stop telling us what to believe.

zenbooty

That's a conclusion whose meaning you've drawn. And its based on faulty logic. Correlation != causation.

He said, "I am openminded, and I support gay marriage."

He did not say, "I am openminded, so I support gay marriage."

You drew that conclusion all by your lonesome.

zenbooty

Nor does it strip them of said authority.

Not all welfare recipients live in the inner cities. This system was meant to keep the poor from starving and freezing to death. It was never meant to be permanent income.

johnnymk

You are so smart!!

It really doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that either he or someone else would call someone a bigot because they don't believe in this politically correct thinking.

I have seen it on GotApex way too many times. Two plus Two Equals Four.

My reasoning stands regardless of your logic.

sbp

Using such thinking there would be no limit on the power of the federal government. That most certainly is not what the Founders intended. The Founders of this country gave certain duties and powers to the federal government. Everything else was left to the states.

Funny how people worry about big government, but will support big nanny programs.

If people want all this nanny state, please modify the Constitution.

As you know already know, under the old welfare program for some peeps living off taxpayer provided money became a way of life.

zenbooty

Why thanks.

No, all it takes is a presumptuous nature and a desire to start trouble when no trouble is to be found.

Seen what, ultra-rightwing nutjobs jumping on the liberal bogeyman, accusing people of things they never spoke of or agreed to? Yeah, I see way too much of that **** too.

Your reasoning stands on its ass!

zenbooty

Ok, you have some good points here. But from what I see in your 1st paragraph (Federal vs. State level control of the program) and 4th (some people abuse the system, not all), i'd say what it sounds to me like you'd like to see reform rathe than abolition of the program. I'm not for a nanny state either, but I'm also not for letting the have nots starving in the streets. Now certainly there can be some middle ground between those two poles, can't there?

topane

What is the difference between civil unions and marriage? It's only semantics.
I'll say "must be Utah" or "must be West Virgina", depending on which one we're talking about. Seriously, I don't give a **** if some moron wants to marry his sister. Yeah it's gross but who am I to judge their love no matter how appalling I find it? Likewise with the threesome. If they are mutually consenting adults, who am I to tell them that they cannot? Again it's appalling to me, but maybe they're just following their religion.
It is the same thing. There is no reason the gov't should tell people whom they can or cannot marry.
Non sequitur. Neither do most Pentecostals.
That was more tongue-in-cheek, but since I didn't indicate that I'll be clearer: How would our tax burden be greater by allowing these civil unions? I can't see it being worse than it already is. If you have a good logical reason for our taxes suffering for this, I'd be more than happy to discuss it with you.
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OK, here's where I stand: The government has no authority to tell a couple, whether opposite- or same-sex, who they can or cannot marry. The government has the power to make sure no one infringes on anyone else's civil rights. If you don't like gay unions ("or marriages") or two men butt-****ing that is your prerogative and no one can force you to think it's right. OTOH, if two women want to get married the government should not stand in their way and only act if someone denies that right to them. There does not need to be a law on the books stating that "two people of the same sex can marry", by implication it should not be denied in the first place.

If a church or an entire religious denomination refuses to perform a marriage or union ceremony or whatever you want to call it the government cannot make them.

Is that libertarian enough for you?
No one told you what to believe. You can believe it's wrong or unnatural or whatever word you choose. I'm going to ask you again: If two men or women get married how does that affect you? What's the point where it does something horrible to you and you suffer personal injury? How does this infringe on your freedoms?

Banginblaz

Not Bigots, but not openminded.


It takes an openminded person to see that other people, irregardless of who/what/when/where/how deserves the same option, if you will, that "normal" (I hate that word) people have.


I am much more pro options, than pro gay marriage. I just feel that people should be able to do what they want, and not have someone else say they cant, just because they dont like the person for whatever reason they have.

johnnymk

If you are so open-minded, then why the urgency for people to vote AGAINST the way that the American family Association thinks. That's not open-mindedness.

johnnymk

So where did that come from? Everybody who disagrees with you or with politically correct thinking fits into that category?

Admit it. You do the same thing.

Here's another point. The sense of urgency that he had to vote against the AFA...Yeh, that's real open-mindedness. If he hadn't been so adamant about his feelings, I wouldn't have mentioned it and "started trouble".

Banginblaz

They should not be able to control marriage, and this is for congress, not just "lets see what our members think" poll.


They opened it up to the public, and I am not telling people to vote one way or annother, but I am making sure people know about it, so its not a fully one sided thing.

nickel

zenbooty

You're just grabbing at straws now. I just love how you had to throw that term "politically correct" into the mix. You are just scared to death of those bogeymen, aren't you? No one mentioned PC. I happen to hate PC. But of course, I'm sure you assumed otherwise, which is my whole point to this argument and nothing more.

People have every right to disagree with me. But when they start tilting at windmills because they read one thing stated and jumped to further conclusions, they look like fools to me.

I'm not perfect, but in those very few cases where I have misread people's statements, I have admitted to it and moved on. I certainly never continued to argue that my assumptions were valid afterward, as you are doing now.

So what? He has an opinion. He never said that he was not listening to any arguments. And the fact that he has made his opinion known certainly does not mean that he thinks anyone who disagrees with him is a bigot, which is where all this got started, in case you've (conveniently) forgotten. Don't try and change the subject.

johnnymk

OK, you win..End of discussion, this could go on forever and ever.
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