tweeteresa

love hurts. it hurts so much i don't want to ever feel it again...

and...

love bites. it gives u that awesome high you can't find anywhere else. yet it also spirals you to this bottomless pit with no end to the pain and tears....

revil

is that where you've been?

tweeteresa

no i've been out of town...trying to get away.

and yea it is a double edge sword. it hurts more cuz there was no taking...not on my part at least. i give...he takes. i'm too nice to notice how selfish he is. and too optimistic thinking he could change. and too vulnerable to let go so easily...


if you cut, i will bleed
bring me down to my knees
make me feel what i am is never good enough
can you help me understand
thought i made you a better man
guess somehow another way things just change

it seems just like a distant memory
that you used to be good for me
but baby now it's clear

i give, you take
somehow it's gonna break
i pray for the strength
i hate to say, i know it can't go on this way
i give, you take
i know we're gonna break
and it hurts my soul
i hate to say we can't go on this way

with your words, you pull me in
i always lose, i just can't win
and though i see, my heart is blind it gives in every time
you got me on constant repeat i need a cure or a remedy
cuz if i stay there won't be nothing left for me

it seems just like a distant memory
that you used to be good for me
but now it's clear

i give, you take
somehow it's gonna break
i pray for the strength
i hate to say i know it can't go on this way
i give, you take
i know we're gonna break
and it hurts my soul
i hate to say we can't go on this way

now there's nothing left for us to save
and only bitterness remains
what we have is like a house of cards
and it's falling apart
now it's impossible to get it back with the bridges that you've burned
i guess it's time to walk away
cuz now it's so clear

i give, you take
somehow it's gonna break
i pray for the strength
i hate to say, i know it can't go on this way
i give, you take
i know we're gonna break
and it hurts my soul
i hate to say we can't go on this way

oblongmelon

Love also makes you want to put a fork in the eyeball of someone who is still leaving wet towels on the bathroom floor after 26 years.

if someone had asked me 26 years ago what love was..I'd say Love is when you hold the head of someone who is puking on your shoes..yeh, that's what love is all about.

nickel

oh, does that sound familiar. you need to move on tweet. you are worth someone who treats you the way he likes to be treated.

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nickel

how do you even *remember* the details?

caribiner23

Sorry to hear about it, tweetersa.

Seems to be the season for that kind of thing (see my eHarmony thread).

You deserve to get in return what you put in. It's never fair when you put in your best and get nothing (or worse) in return.

attgig

If you’ve got love in your sights
Watch out, love bites

When you make love, do you look in the mirror?
Who do you think of?
Does he look like me?
Do you tell lies?
And say that it’s forever?
Do you think twice, or just touch ’n’ see?
Ooh babe
Ooh yeah
When you’re alone, do you let go?
Are you wild ’n’ willin’ or is it just for show?
Ooh c’mon

I don’t wanna touch you too much baby
’cos making love to you might drive me crazy
I know you think that love is the way you make it
So I don’t wanna be there when you decide to break it
No!

(love bites, love bleeds)
It’s bringin’ me to my knees
(love lives, love dies)
It’s no surprise
(love begs, love pleads)
It’s what I need

When I’m with you are you somewhere else?
Am I gettin’ thru or do you please yourself?
When you wake up will you walk out?
It can’t be love if you throw it about
Ooh babe
I don’t wanna touch you too much baby
’cos making love to you might drive me crazy
Oh

Ooh yeah
(love bites, love bleeds)
It’s bringin’ me to my knees
(love lives, love dies)
(love bites, love bleeds)
It’s bringin’ me to my knees
(love lives, love dies)
It’s no surprise
(love begs, love pleads)
It’s what I need

If you’ve got love in your sights
Watch out, love bites
Yes it does
It will be hell




stupid old song aside, it does suck, and it'll probably take a little time....but just be confident that there's many other fish in the sea, and that mr right is just around the corner.

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ski

You are sultry, dirty, soft and hard
You are close to me and you’re so far
And I’m thinking of the time we spent together
Now I’ll bury this in my backyard
Sometimes I sit and wonder
But I’ll never dial your number ‘cause

I’m having fun looking out for number one
And I’m doing all the things I like to do
I’m having fun ‘cause I knew it all along
I’d be better off without you

For me, it takes me longer to get over someone that treated me badly than any other. I never know why, but for you twee, I hope you can find some consolation in this thread -- we're here to try to help

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kimchicowboy

lol. i thought this was the song from that old 80s movie "better off dead" at first. haha.

sorry tweet. yeah. i'm not one to cuss, but there's this one line from that one movie that evades me at the moment: "love. it's a motherf*cker."

cheapie

hook up with att. he's cool. and single! and has a good job. but he's develop an allergy to beer so you won't get to hold his head while he pukes from drinking too much.

unless he's drinking girly drinks like i do now.

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ski

Not to mention att's one of us East coast boys, and twee's West coast. But as all of my favorite rappers say...

One love

DaFunkyUnit

or as Snoop Dogg says:

"You can't spell West without the E.S.!"


oh, and Twee, I'm sure you will weather this storm out. Just another bump in the long road of life

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kimchicowboy

can someone put up that post off attgig running to the finish line again? i think it could give tweet a nice little chuckle. hehe.

just messin with ya attgig.

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InfiniteNothing

There is a single bug going around. Perhaps we should start a "hey I just had a painfull break up" club akin to the Midnight society.

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revil

find some new guys. wear this shirt:

tweeteresa

thanx you guys...

i don't know whether to keep crying, to throw punches at the wall, to sit and veg out on ice cream, brownies, and cake, or to dress up hella sexy and go out and find a new guy. i just needa take my mind off from keep on thinkin about it.

topane

I vote for hella sexy. I'll buy you dinner

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kimchicowboy

hey tweet. go on the $199 4-day cruise out of LA to ensenada written in today's deals. i'd do it if i were in LA and if i could find my dern speedo... heheh. j/k.

Kevster

Since we're both in L.A. I could always come by with Lucy the wiener dog, she always cheers people up.

As for being single, don't immediately jump into something new - give yourself a little time to get through this. Have some fun first - go skiing, paintballing with Nija and me, etc.

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My small adventures, my fears.
The small ones that seemed so big,
For all the vital things I had to get and to reach.

And yet there is only one great thing, the only thing:

To live to see the great day that dawns,
And the light that fills the world.

-old Inuit song

Nija

I don't have a problem with chicks playin' n all. But Dude.

This is a pissed off chick. She's gonna be aiming for our nads.

/me covers his nads up, and begins running away

Please don't let her shoot me in the butt, please don't let her shoot me in the butt....

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molecularfire

I'm just putting in another vote for the dress sexy option. However, stop by my place. My brother is single.

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Kevster

Dude, this is why she must be on our team. We'll be unstoppable with tweeter working out her "issues" on the field.

le_stick

You can transfer your anger into exercise. IMHO

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mcs328

I second the dress sexy option. Please post pics...before, after and then off.

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ray

I say you just talk it through with your friends and all. Sometimes just talking about it with people who are willing to listen is enough to emotionally settle someone.

RoniMan

here's some quotes that's helped me in the past

love makes time pass
time makes love pass.

When it is dark enough then you can see the stars.

i have some other ones, but i'll post them when i get home.
i'm sorry to hear that you're sad. don't worry, there's other nemos in the sea.

brain

james. don't ever think of wearing a speedo. EVER.

angl2b

ignore him.... you don't have to dress exy and go out...that is the first thing that most girls want to do to feel wanted again just to prove that point...but if the guy can't love or treat us the way we deserve to be treated they are not worth our time at all.

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ray

w/b angl2b. haven't seen you around for a few weeks.

Glad to see some of the women are chiming in with their opinions. Has anyone else noticed the obvious behavorial differences between what the men have suggested and what the women have suggested in this thread?

So sad, so sad.