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View Poll Results: How many times have you been in Love?
Never 6 13.04%
Once 15 32.61%
2-4 Times 22 47.83%
5+ 1 2.17%
I only Love myself 2 4.35%
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Old 01-21-2004, 04:17 PM   #1
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How many times have you been in Love?

Obviously everyone has their own definition of Love, but how many times have you gotten to a certain point of a relationship where you felt you could spend the rest of your life with that other person?

Do you think it's possible to Love more than 1 person?
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Old 01-21-2004, 04:30 PM   #2
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Old 01-21-2004, 04:32 PM   #3
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i'm not a player, i just crush a lot...
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Old 01-21-2004, 05:11 PM   #4
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I thought I could, once. I was wrong.

so 1. so far.

I think you can love multiple people.
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Old 01-21-2004, 07:16 PM   #5
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I've thought I was in love, but looking back, I wasn't really.

I think you can definitely love multiple people... simultaneously
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Old 01-21-2004, 07:24 PM   #6
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I've BEEN in love twice. Looking back I'd say 1 really wasn't. But at the time I was. Perhaps it wasn't strong enough to last. And sure, you can love multiple people.
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Old 01-21-2004, 07:35 PM   #7
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Don't believe in love therefore:

1) once
2) no (since it doesn't exist)
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Old 01-21-2004, 07:51 PM   #8
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Twice. Still hurts sometimes.
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Old 01-21-2004, 08:04 PM   #9
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Zero times so far, but I'm still young.
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Old 01-21-2004, 08:12 PM   #10
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5 times. Mr.Melon and each of my consecutive gourd children.
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Old 01-21-2004, 09:11 PM   #11
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i have been (am) in love once

with how i would define love, no, i don't think you could truly be in love with two people at the same time.

now lust....that's a totally different story. you can be in lust with MANY people at the same time
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Old 01-21-2004, 09:50 PM   #12
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5 times. Mr.Melon and each of my consecutive gourd children.

Awww obby!!!!
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Old 01-21-2004, 10:45 PM   #13
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once...

and technically yes, unless you're speaking specifically of romantic love, in which case, i say no.
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Old 01-21-2004, 11:58 PM   #14
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I loved to fark her, does that count?
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Old 01-22-2004, 06:08 AM   #15
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Somehow I seem to fall in love every time I go to the nudie bar.
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Old 01-22-2004, 06:36 AM   #16
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What is love again? And what's it got to do with it?
IT`S PHYSICAL
ONLY LOGICAL
YOU MUST TRY TO IGNORE
THAT IT MEANS MORE THAN THAT

OH WHATS LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT
WHAT`S LOVE BUT A SECOND HAND EMOTION
WHAT`S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT
WHO NEEDS A HEART
WHEN A HEART CAN BE BROKEN

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Somehow I seem to fall in love every time I go to the nudie bar.
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Old 01-22-2004, 02:56 PM   #17
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I'm currently in love for the first time, though I do think I had approached it a few times before, and yes I think it's possible to be in love with more than one person at a time. i.e. I love me, myself, and I.
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Old 01-22-2004, 03:37 PM   #18
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Old 01-23-2004, 09:34 AM   #19
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I've been in 4 long term relationships in my life, including my wife.

Out of those 4, I would have to say my only real love is my wife. We have been together *I think* 10 years now. All the other "LTR's" were 2 years or less, and only one of those (The women I love my virginity to) did the subject of marriage even come up. At the time I thought I loved her, but looking back all those years ago, it was just because it was a "first time" thing.
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Old 01-25-2004, 11:03 PM   #20
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As i get older, I've re-examine the times I've been in love and I'm really starting to question whether or not I've actually really been in love more than once. Emotions are hard to figure out that way. What I thought was love back then seems like a juvenile crush now.
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Old 02-09-2004, 10:32 PM   #21
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Question A question of love or in love.

I think i have been in love probably 3 real times. I think my biggest issue was that at some points, i loved multiple girls in the i care about you way, and i couldn't figure that it was a caring and not an "i want to be intimate and spend forever with you thing." And the worst problem, was this was in high school, so if i hung with a girl for more then 5 minutes it was oh, hes moving onto the next girl, what a player... and it created a lot of issues. Thus i blew through 5 relationships in my senior year of high school, but didn't think that any but 1 were actually in love.

I would say only in college and even late college did i realize that i felt care and worry for many girls, but if i had to pick only one that i wanted to spend a long relationship or be romantic with, i could knock it down to one pretty fast.

So i guess my point of question for those who say they are into 2 girls/boys at once is... If you had to absolutely pick one person to spend forever with, could you do it? If you say yes, then i would say thats who you are in love with. If you say no, then i would say its probably either a lust thing with both, or a care thing with both and you dont feel strong enough of the in love feeling to make that decision.

Oh and if you are trying to figure out the in love thing between two, best not to string them along.. tell them you want to be friends for now... Its a bad person who leads two lives.
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