Airencracken

My gf and I were talking last night about how we both felt that there wasn't anything interesting going on anymore, how we've both kind of become robots. We still love each other and everything but, it just isn't the same. Not just with our relationship though, with pretty much all of life. Sigh. I just feel like a cartoon charecter running along the same backdrop again and again.

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caribiner23

It happens to most of us. Time to mix things up.

Take a class together. Go on a vacation. Call in sick on a Friday afternoon and whisk your gf away from work and don't tell her where you're going (but have a plan). Go to a part of town you've never visited before, try a restaurant and a cuisine you've never tried. Make dinner for her.

Memo

Anal.

RoniMan

/wipes water off monitor

ialsohaveadream

I get that "running in place" feeling sometimes when I'm on the treadmill.

Anyway, I think every relationship gets that. You just have to do some things you've never done before, or haven't done in a long time, like Memo suggested.

brainsmile

bad memo

Kevster

I couldn't stop laughing for about a minute or so then I realized it wasn't Nija that said it.

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I think over again
My small adventures, my fears.
The small ones that seemed so big,
For all the vital things I had to get and to reach.

And yet there is only one great thing, the only thing:

To live to see the great day that dawns,
And the light that fills the world.

-old Inuit song

nickel

it's the January blahs or blues.

but i do agree.. when you start feeling that way you have to work on spicing things up.

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SecretIkon

looking back on those good times and take her back to a place where you were both really happy. take her on a surprising vacation is always nice.

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TERRIBLETOM

Maybe you need to spread out and find some individual hobbies.

Kevster

Sounds like I will be organizing another G|A? paintball outing sometime soon then. Or maybe the official G|A? diving trip, or the official G|A? deep-sea fishing trip.

Actually, I recommend both of you go to Glen Ivy Hot Springs on a weekday. Trust me, you won't regret it.

Actually, that's not a bad place for a G|A? gathering in general... very relaxing, and we can fling real mud at each other too instead of the virtual stuff!

tupacboy

paintball while fishing!!! woot

LivninSC

Uhm, just go rent a porn and watch it with her.

If she won't than good luck spicing things up!

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LivninSC

Is that the place in Temecula, or just about? Damn I went there and it was exxxppeennssiivvee!! It's cool and all to hang out in warm pools and all but for $40 a day I want a bit more, say Magic Mountain or snowboarding atleast.

DaFunkyUnit

BRILLIANT!!!!

a G|A? snowboarding event would be OFF THE CHAINZ, YO!

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whitak24

sometimes, the best posts are the shortest posts.

Gothic Girl

I definatly know how that goes.
/me gives husband dirty look

Nija

Oh man, that's just funny

It's nice to see that Gothic Girl is a trooper. . .

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ialsohaveadream

Pooper trooper?

Gothic Girl

That's Ms Pooper Trooper to you

ialsohaveadream

Since you were glancing at your husband, I assumed it would be Mrs. Pooper Trooper.

nickel

a Mrs. can be a Ms. if she wishes

Ms. also Ms ( P ) Pronunciation Key (mz)
n. pl. Mses., also Mses also Mss. or Mss (mzz)
Used as a courtesy title before the surname or full name of a woman or girl: Ms. Doe; Ms. Jane Doe.
Used in informal titles for a woman to indicate the epitomizing of an attribute or activity: Ms. Fashionable; Ms. Volleyball.

[Blend of Miss, and Mrs..]
Usage Note: Many of us think of Ms. or Ms as a fairly recent invention of the women's movement, but in fact the term was first suggested as a convenience to writers of business letters by such publications as the Bulletin of the American Business Writing Association (1951) and The Simplified Letter, issued by the National Office Management Association (1952). Ms. is now widely used in both professional and social contexts. As a courtesy title Ms. serves exactly the same function that Mr. does for men, and like Mr. it may be used with a last name alone or with a full name. Furthermore, Ms. is correct regardless of a woman's marital status, thus relegating that information to the realm of private life, where many feel it belongs anyway. Some women prefer Miss or Mrs., however, and courtesy requires that their wishes be respected.

courtesy of dictionary.com

ialsohaveadream

Phew...good thing I don't have any courtesy. I was worried I'd have to learn something new!

Gothic Girl

Nah, I'm just too lazy to say Mrs. Ms is only one syllable, therefore less work.