ialsohaveadream

I went on a date with a woman who was attractive, but I didn't have any kind of connection with her other than physical. She wants to go on another date, which I'm fine with, as long as she realizes this isn't headed down the "girlfriend" path.

I figure I'll solicit advice on this. What's the nicest way to deliver that information, and yet still be able to get in her pants?

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Sirrich3

Hmmm, be honest and straight forward with her. She might just want the same.

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brainsmile

maybe you should just point south and give her a thumbs up sign. Then point to the ring finger and then give her a thumbs down sign.

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ialsohaveadream

Good call, just in case she's not too good with her English.

brainsmile

Sounds like a Mentos commercial in the making.

hapoo

if we don't hear from you in a couple days we'll be sure and send a couple flowers to the hospital for you.

Merlin

This is a disaster in the making.

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blueindian

a buddy of mine used to say, "bitch, I ain't looking to ice that finger. . .I just want to get my freak on"

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Jeffbx

It's direct and to the point, and can save some confusion & hurt feelings later on.

ialsohaveadream

And yet, starting the sentence with "bitch" kinda defeats the whole idea of saying it in the nicest way possible.
There's always the potential for that. But it's worked before (although that was with a longtime friend who suggested the idea to me). Plus, I have good reasons (or "excuses", if you will) for why I can't get into a long-term thing.

KIISQueen

Hell Just be straight with her and just tell her you want to do that nasties with her that it!!!!

brainsmile

is it the wife?

ialsohaveadream

Yeah, surprisingly she's not interested in me dating other chicks long-term. Short-term casual flings are fine, though. Go figure!

Hiro

Depends on the girl, but straight forward is probably the best way. Get it out into the open and see if she's up for it. If not, just cut the losses now instead of giving her any false hope which will then lead to the drama of a break up if she assumes the wrong things.

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molecularfire

Wear really large shoes before your next date and then be honest with her about it. Then sit there and palm a basketball with two fingers and lick your eyebrows while giving her time to make up her mind.

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LPMiller

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir.

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InfiniteNothing

Same thing you do with everyone else: start charging her.

Merlin

When you ask her make sure you're wearing a cup.

zippyjuan

I left the money for you on the dresser. Just be gone in the morning when I wake up. Maybe I'll call you again sometime.

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Memo

Go on the date, push for the poontang and continue to do so. If she wants the same thing then no problems should arise. If she ever asks "where you stand" drop her. If you just plan on using her I don't see why you are wanting to be courteous. Take what you need from her. If she demands more she'll let you know. Making a proposal or asking her only gives her the chance to say no.

zero2dash

Two words...
booty call.

Don't talk to her for a week and then all the sudden call her at 3 in the morning and tell her to come over.

She'll get it. Literally. Haha!

ialsohaveadream

Nah, see that could result in hurt feelings. I want a way to lay it all out up front, so that she can either leave entirely, or stick around for the sexing and nothing more.
Should I at least give her the discount rate, since she brings something to the table (namely, a nice ass)?

sizemic1

Is this the Greek woman that CoachK set you up with?

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ialsohaveadream

Shhhhhh.

....maybe.

EDIT: I should clarify that I'm not gonna write anything about it on there, because CoachK let it slip where she can find what I write.

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Don't overthink it. She's probably asking her friends the same question.

You guys crack me up